L*******y
发帖数: 637 | 1 My son's coach told me she is under great pressure from me. |
L*******y
发帖数: 637 | 2 I educate my son to use time efficiently and get job done in an efficient
way. His coach apparently can not get used to our style. |
d*********e
发帖数: 1918 | 3 You like to fight with people. You need to learn how to relax |
L*******y
发帖数: 637 | 4 no, the reason is I expect more and my standards are higher than others.
For example, she thinks my son is excellent, I told her my son is far from
being good, a lot of things she need work on. I gave her a list of mistakes
of my son.
【在 d*********e 的大作中提到】
: You like to fight with people. You need to learn how to relax
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l******u
发帖数: 1630 | 5 why? cus u r a miserable person filled with negativeness.
" I gave her a list of mistakes of my son."
How about this.
I gave her few recommendations of my son's training based on my own
observance.
Some people seeing the glass as half full, and some others seeing the glass
as half empty.
What you choose to see greatly affect what you will do and the state of your
well-being. |
h******6
发帖数: 2697 | |
x*****n
发帖数: 3422 | 7 两种可能性：1.你身边所有人都有问题。2.你有问题。 你觉得的哪个可能性大？
【在 L*******y 的大作中提到】
: My son's coach told me she is under great pressure from me.
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v*****4
发帖数: 51 | 8 relax for what ? I like aggressiveness, just like black people and vygur
people in China, of course, Han Chinese donot understand this for ever. so
stupid han people
【在 d*********e 的大作中提到】
: You like to fight with people. You need to learn how to relax
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I********e
发帖数: 6130 | 9 So you already knew the reason. What was the point of your asking here then?
mistakes
【在 L*******y 的大作中提到】
: no, the reason is I expect more and my standards are higher than others.
: For example, she thinks my son is excellent, I told her my son is far from
: being good, a lot of things she need work on. I gave her a list of mistakes
: of my son.
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a*****0
发帖数: 6788 | 10
You're a stereotypical Chinese parent, for good and for bad. The
good is that a child under a lot pressure may achieve a lot on paper; the
bad is that such a child once grows up often is deficient in mental wellness
. The worse is that such a child may crumble under the excessive pressure
and fail.
Essentially you are taking a high risk approach, a make it or break it
approach. If you consciously make the decision to raise your child this way
, so be it. Make sure that you understand the risks, the good and the bad
of the strategy.
【在 L*******y 的大作中提到】
: My son's coach told me she is under great pressure from me.
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