t****n 发帖数: 193 | 1 快被这个女人榨干了,收到法律信函,我该怎么办?
离开这个贪得无厌的女人2年间不断收到她的各种要求,有来自她的律师的,有她个人
口头的,我都害怕她不让我见孩子,或待孩子不好妥协下来。
现在我刚有了新家,生活才有点改善她又让律师发来邮件给我。请问接下来我应该做什
么?等着她的律师给我通牒告诉我她想要什么?还是我有必要去找个律师?
刚结婚也没有什么钱去请律师,她的要求无非就是要更多抚养费,让我更少探望孩子。
我该怎样处理这事呢?
以下是邮件:
Mr. **,
Thanks for contacting about assisting with a mediation in the above
captioned matter. It is generally my policy not to contact prosepctive
mediation clients/parties until they have agreed to mediation and to use my
services. However, since Mr. ** is acting pro se at this time, I have
copied him on this email to at let him know that I am available and to
provide him with my website so he can see who I am and a little about
mediation.
My website is at ***** . My hourly fees are $150/hr split between the
parties, not the $200/hr quoted in the website, since I reduced my fees to
help with the recession. Fees are payable after each mediation session in
cash or by check. Am I correct in that Mr. ** would appear by phone? That
is relatively normal and we can work that out. Mr. ** is free to contact
me at any time at (509) 496-9714 if he decides to mediate and use my
services. I will read the court file ahead of time so I know what the file
says about the **. Saves time. My available days over the next few weeks
as of today are as listed below by week, and the days listed are for all day
, including evenings, unless otherwise stated.
Please let me know if you need more dates. A number of parties have been
these same dates, and it is first come first serve for whom confirms first.
Thanks again, and Regards,
我不知道发生了什么事,就给她的律师发了邮件请他告诉我是什么事情,她的律师回复:
No information to send you. Mediation is required in your parenting plan.
First, a disagreement about your daughter's need for counseling.
Second, you need a new parenting plan now that you are in Arizona. Mediation
exists for those two reasons.
我就只好在这里等律师通牒?还是可以采取什么行动? 因为我都不知道她要做什么,
这律师也不告诉我。我一定要去找个律师吗?谢谢大家! | t****n 发帖数: 193 | | l****2 发帖数: 688 | 3 帮顶
【在 t****n 的大作中提到】 : 快被这个女人榨干了,收到法律信函,我该怎么办? : 离开这个贪得无厌的女人2年间不断收到她的各种要求,有来自她的律师的,有她个人 : 口头的,我都害怕她不让我见孩子,或待孩子不好妥协下来。 : 现在我刚有了新家,生活才有点改善她又让律师发来邮件给我。请问接下来我应该做什 : 么?等着她的律师给我通牒告诉我她想要什么?还是我有必要去找个律师? : 刚结婚也没有什么钱去请律师,她的要求无非就是要更多抚养费,让我更少探望孩子。 : 我该怎样处理这事呢? : 以下是邮件: : Mr. **, : Thanks for contacting about assisting with a mediation in the above
| P**5 发帖数: 7467 | 4 我默认你是中国男人
1 把孩子尽量合法抢过来自己(或自己父母)养,不要女方一分钱。中国人是父系社
会,孩子理应归父亲所有。美国这套抚养费把戏不适合中国人。
2 彻底不要这个孩子,一个钱也不要付,比如逃回中国。 | l*****e 发帖数: 1275 | 5 滚你的“孩子理应归父亲所有",穆斯林印度国家很父系,滚去那吧。
【在 P**5 的大作中提到】 : 我默认你是中国男人 : 1 把孩子尽量合法抢过来自己(或自己父母)养,不要女方一分钱。中国人是父系社 : 会,孩子理应归父亲所有。美国这套抚养费把戏不适合中国人。 : 2 彻底不要这个孩子,一个钱也不要付,比如逃回中国。
| s*******3 发帖数: 59 | 6 if u ask for 50% of child custody, you don't need to pay child support, 50%
of time spending with your child is important for his or her growth. I have
a couple of divorced friends are doing that, why can't u give that a try
then you won't be bothered by your ex for money and time to spend with your
kid? |
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