W******e 发帖数: 3319 | 1 没必要放弃。 移民有两种活法, 一是呆在自己种族的小圈子里不出来, 找个工作也
不愁吃不愁喝。 一是走出自己种族的圈子到主流社会里去。 后者难点, 要求对主流
社会的文化精通到利用的地步。
美国的社会够大, 也能容下不同种族的文化, 没必要揪结这个。 怎么都能活的下去
, 快乐不快乐是另外一回事。 | i******c 发帖数: 9350 | 2 Look around, blacks with blacks, whites with whites, mexicans with mexicans,
asians with asians, that's how people work, you go with what you are most
comfortable with. Don't try to get into another race's circle and believe
you will mix in, its not healthy for your children.
There are two exceptions:
1. Homosexual world, all they care about is your asshole
2. Top 1% world, all they care about is $
【在 W******e 的大作中提到】 : 没必要放弃。 移民有两种活法, 一是呆在自己种族的小圈子里不出来, 找个工作也 : 不愁吃不愁喝。 一是走出自己种族的圈子到主流社会里去。 后者难点, 要求对主流 : 社会的文化精通到利用的地步。 : 美国的社会够大, 也能容下不同种族的文化, 没必要揪结这个。 怎么都能活的下去 : , 快乐不快乐是另外一回事。
| W******e 发帖数: 3319 | 3 Only lazy people go with what one is most comfortable with.
Go with what you can get within your abilities.
mexicans,
【在 i******c 的大作中提到】 : Look around, blacks with blacks, whites with whites, mexicans with mexicans, : asians with asians, that's how people work, you go with what you are most : comfortable with. Don't try to get into another race's circle and believe : you will mix in, its not healthy for your children. : There are two exceptions: : 1. Homosexual world, all they care about is your asshole : 2. Top 1% world, all they care about is $
| l******n 发帖数: 11737 | 4 你说的两种情况,都没必要妻离子散送小孩回国上学,除非是不久就要迁回国,否则是
吃饱撑的。 | l******n 发帖数: 11737 | 5 前者,不挤破头不买学区房也可以找个普通工作不愁吃喝。
后者,回国了大学才过来是别想了,哪怕是在国内挤破头买了学区房托了人小孩成绩还
倍儿好。 | n****o 发帖数: 2339 | 6 黄种人先烈们拼命挤到白人那去的,最后不过就成了维子或者老莫,看不出有什么优势。
【在 W******e 的大作中提到】 : Only lazy people go with what one is most comfortable with. : Go with what you can get within your abilities. : : mexicans,
| d****a 发帖数: 3087 | 7
mexicans,
Totally agree.
【在 i******c 的大作中提到】 : Look around, blacks with blacks, whites with whites, mexicans with mexicans, : asians with asians, that's how people work, you go with what you are most : comfortable with. Don't try to get into another race's circle and believe : you will mix in, its not healthy for your children. : There are two exceptions: : 1. Homosexual world, all they care about is your asshole : 2. Top 1% world, all they care about is $
| t*****o 发帖数: 556 | 8 没啥融入不融入的,华人人口多点,平均收入高点,做到高位的多几个,不自恨,团结
起来,这就能成美国主流文化的一部分。
比如,工作组里大多是中国人,某个中/高管事中国人,国人之间团结关系好,其他的
管他老美老印也会想跟你们靠近乎。学校系里中国发考题多,或者实验室里中国学生多
,并且团结有组织,其他的也会主动融入你。 | s**********o 发帖数: 14359 | 9 上流社会,不都是那些不上班的人么,华人都是中产的上班族的。 | r*****g 发帖数: 9999 | 10 啥是主流社会,上流社会?天天泡吧吗说英文黄段子吗?
【在 W******e 的大作中提到】 : 没必要放弃。 移民有两种活法, 一是呆在自己种族的小圈子里不出来, 找个工作也 : 不愁吃不愁喝。 一是走出自己种族的圈子到主流社会里去。 后者难点, 要求对主流 : 社会的文化精通到利用的地步。 : 美国的社会够大, 也能容下不同种族的文化, 没必要揪结这个。 怎么都能活的下去 : , 快乐不快乐是另外一回事。
| | | r*****g 发帖数: 9999 | 11 good one
mexicans,
【在 i******c 的大作中提到】 : Look around, blacks with blacks, whites with whites, mexicans with mexicans, : asians with asians, that's how people work, you go with what you are most : comfortable with. Don't try to get into another race's circle and believe : you will mix in, its not healthy for your children. : There are two exceptions: : 1. Homosexual world, all they care about is your asshole : 2. Top 1% world, all they care about is $
| h*******n 发帖数: 42 | 12 墨西哥人少的时候外F很多,以嫁白人为荣。甚至嫁华人都为荣。
后来移民多了外F越来越少了。 | w**a 发帖数: 4743 | 13 太自卑了,总在想溶入。Chinatown依然拜祭祖先的偷渡客比lz强1000倍 | l********k 发帖数: 14844 | 14 你族裔不对,进不了1%。人家那1%都是从小在final club, eating club, 骷髅会里就
定了的。不要本末倒置。
mexicans,
【在 i******c 的大作中提到】 : Look around, blacks with blacks, whites with whites, mexicans with mexicans, : asians with asians, that's how people work, you go with what you are most : comfortable with. Don't try to get into another race's circle and believe : you will mix in, its not healthy for your children. : There are two exceptions: : 1. Homosexual world, all they care about is your asshole : 2. Top 1% world, all they care about is $
| l********k 发帖数: 14844 | 15 will never happen. period
【在 t*****o 的大作中提到】 : 没啥融入不融入的,华人人口多点,平均收入高点,做到高位的多几个,不自恨,团结 : 起来,这就能成美国主流文化的一部分。 : 比如,工作组里大多是中国人,某个中/高管事中国人,国人之间团结关系好,其他的 : 管他老美老印也会想跟你们靠近乎。学校系里中国发考题多,或者实验室里中国学生多 : ,并且团结有组织,其他的也会主动融入你。
| c****3 发帖数: 6038 | | r**m 发帖数: 1825 | 17 说的好,非我族类,其心必异,放置四海皆准之哲理。
拼命想融入其他族类的所谓上流社会本质上是民族自信心缺乏的表现.
mexicans,
【在 i******c 的大作中提到】 : Look around, blacks with blacks, whites with whites, mexicans with mexicans, : asians with asians, that's how people work, you go with what you are most : comfortable with. Don't try to get into another race's circle and believe : you will mix in, its not healthy for your children. : There are two exceptions: : 1. Homosexual world, all they care about is your asshole : 2. Top 1% world, all they care about is $
| a**********t 发帖数: 9684 | 18 很多挤破了头买学区房的最后也不过是前者啊
也就是一般微软码工的水平吧
离溶入上流社会还远得很
【在 l******n 的大作中提到】 : 前者,不挤破头不买学区房也可以找个普通工作不愁吃喝。 : 后者,回国了大学才过来是别想了,哪怕是在国内挤破头买了学区房托了人小孩成绩还 : 倍儿好。
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