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发信人: Galleon (盖伦), 信区: Piebridge
标 题: Re: 约会谁付钱这个问题上看出的是家教
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun May 1 00:06:21 2011, 美东)
When I was going out with my gf who's white in the beginning, she only let me pay for the first date. After that she always insisted that we split the bill. And when she invited me to certain events that she was interested, she would even buy the tickets for both of us ahead of time.
She was from a normal middle class American family. So I wouldn't say she's rich. All her spending money came from her part time job.
Later on when we got much closer, we would pay for things as anyone wished and stopped keeping track of who pays.
I think American girls in general know what being independent mean better than Chinese girls. They at least try their best to be an independent and respectable person. A lot of Chinese girls on the other hand just want to
enjoy all the good side of "being independent" yet don't want to take any
responsibilities. |
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