f********t
发帖数: 6999 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 JobHunting 讨论区 】
发信人: abih (长脖老等|不晚), 信区: JobHunting
标 题: 说下我面试的国人
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Aug 14 16:34:34 2013, 美东)
2年前面试了个国人，其实他的经验和专业不和我们做的一致。但是他告诉我很需要这
个工作，他是随着老婆的工作来到本地的。我于是觉得可以或者该帮他一下，于是我告
诉他和最后老板谈的时候，要如此这般强调，如此这般淡化。并且还超时的讲了一下不
为外人详知的流程细节。
面完后，我和老板几次强调他会上手快，很感兴趣我们做的。很快他就拿到了职位。然
后就很无语了。他从未感谢我的提示，而是归功于他的神的安排。在我面前大讲特讲他
的神的伟大和无微不至的爱。操，让我感觉简直是一种侮辱。
再之后，我面试人家的时候，无论国人与否，我都会问周末尤其是周日一般做什么啊的
问题。都是被逼的啊，所以帮国人之后要有非常非常的平静心才行。 | c**l
发帖数: 9003 | | r*****j
发帖数: 7481 | | y*****d
发帖数: 4451 | | M*******c
发帖数: 4371 | 5 Which one would you like in the future?
1, He thanked you a lot by saying "thank you" or "were it not for you, blah,
blah..." One day, you encouter a difficulty, he just turn and leave
2, He seldom says a thing about how you help him. Whenever you need help, he
will always be around....
I think your friend could be much smarter than you. Sometimes, something
should remain unsaid. | d**e
发帖数: 75 | 6 if you don't say it, how do other people know you appreciate the help? And
tthat would not conflict with you helping back either. In this case, silence
is NOT gold.
blah,
he
【在 M*******c 的大作中提到】
: Which one would you like in the future?
: 1, He thanked you a lot by saying "thank you" or "were it not for you, blah,
: blah..." One day, you encouter a difficulty, he just turn and leave
: 2, He seldom says a thing about how you help him. Whenever you need help, he
: will always be around....
: I think your friend could be much smarter than you. Sometimes, something
: should remain unsaid.
| t***s
发帖数: 4666 | 7 我觉得他的问题是那人说是神迹，还有劝他也信教的意思。单位里就该避免
谈论宗教。
blah,
he
【在 M*******c 的大作中提到】
: Which one would you like in the future?
: 1, He thanked you a lot by saying "thank you" or "were it not for you, blah,
: blah..." One day, you encouter a difficulty, he just turn and leave
: 2, He seldom says a thing about how you help him. Whenever you need help, he
: will always be around....
: I think your friend could be much smarter than you. Sometimes, something
: should remain unsaid.
| M*******c
发帖数: 4371 | 8 If it is work relted, yes, thank you is a must or a proper credit for his
work right before his boss.
But in this case, would you like your boss or other team members to know
that you two might have such a deep relation? It is not prefessional.
I prefer DO than SAY. After all, if it were me, I would appreicate that he
finally joined the company even if he did not appreciate my help in the
first place.
It is simply one more Chinese.
silence
【在 d**e 的大作中提到】
: if you don't say it, how do other people know you appreciate the help? And
: tthat would not conflict with you helping back either. In this case, silence
: is NOT gold.
:
: blah,
: he
| M*******c
发帖数: 4371 | 9 If this is the case, then keep a distance in the future. Or just be frank to
this guy, I am not in religion. Shall this be so serious?
【在 t***s 的大作中提到】
: 我觉得他的问题是那人说是神迹，还有劝他也信教的意思。单位里就该避免
: 谈论宗教。
:
: blah,
: he
| b******e
发帖数: 5547 | 10 真的未必……
blah,
he
【在 M*******c 的大作中提到】
: Which one would you like in the future?
: 1, He thanked you a lot by saying "thank you" or "were it not for you, blah,
: blah..." One day, you encouter a difficulty, he just turn and leave
: 2, He seldom says a thing about how you help him. Whenever you need help, he
: will always be around....
: I think your friend could be much smarter than you. Sometimes, something
: should remain unsaid.
| | | y*r
发帖数: 669 | 11 话说我也很感谢国人,嗯算半个老乡的帮助.非常.但也从来没有对他说过感谢的话.这份
感激就放在心理了.好人好报,他近些年来,干得很好.
【在 f********t 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 JobHunting 讨论区 】
: 发信人: abih (长脖老等|不晚), 信区: JobHunting
: 标 题: 说下我面试的国人
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Aug 14 16:34:34 2013, 美东)
: 2年前面试了个国人，其实他的经验和专业不和我们做的一致。但是他告诉我很需要这
: 个工作，他是随着老婆的工作来到本地的。我于是觉得可以或者该帮他一下，于是我告
: 诉他和最后老板谈的时候，要如此这般强调，如此这般淡化。并且还超时的讲了一下不
: 为外人详知的流程细节。
: 面完后，我和老板几次强调他会上手快，很感兴趣我们做的。很快他就拿到了职位。然
: 后就很无语了。他从未感谢我的提示，而是归功于他的神的安排。在我面前大讲特讲他
| d**e
发帖数: 75 | 12 当面说一声谢谢有那么难吗？
【在 y*r 的大作中提到】
: 话说我也很感谢国人,嗯算半个老乡的帮助.非常.但也从来没有对他说过感谢的话.这份
: 感激就放在心理了.好人好报,他近些年来,干得很好.
| d**e
发帖数: 75 | 13 没说要当着同事的面说啊。私下里说一声谢谢有那么难吗？
滴水之恩，当涌泉相报，如果连表达都不做或做不到的话，谁知道你心里到底在想啥？
别误会，我相信楼主是个实在的人，但是的但是，现在的社会，有这么多交流的方式，
放在心底真的让人很无语。
【在 M*******c 的大作中提到】
: If it is work relted, yes, thank you is a must or a proper credit for his
: work right before his boss.
: But in this case, would you like your boss or other team members to know
: that you two might have such a deep relation? It is not prefessional.
: I prefer DO than SAY. After all, if it were me, I would appreicate that he
: finally joined the company even if he did not appreciate my help in the
: first place.
: It is simply one more Chinese.
:
: silence
| d****e
发帖数: 499 | 14 好像很多鸡徒都这样，你帮了他了，他觉得你只是他们的上帝安排的一个工具，习惯了
就好了。
【在 d**e 的大作中提到】
: 没说要当着同事的面说啊。私下里说一声谢谢有那么难吗？
: 滴水之恩，当涌泉相报，如果连表达都不做或做不到的话，谁知道你心里到底在想啥？
: 别误会，我相信楼主是个实在的人，但是的但是，现在的社会，有这么多交流的方式，
: 放在心底真的让人很无语。
| Q****s
发帖数: 1301 | 15 如果你帮人就是为了一声谢谢或者回报，
我给你的忠告， 永远不要去帮人
【在 y*****d 的大作中提到】
: 帮助人还图回报，这是帮人吗？是卖
| G****s
发帖数: 3523 | 16 做人不容易。做神的子民容易
很多神的子民把做人的道理忽略了。
不过中国人知恩图报的比例很高，偶尔遇见个不会做人的，也别太介意了。以后继续帮
中国人。
【在 f********t 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 JobHunting 讨论区 】
: 发信人: abih (长脖老等|不晚), 信区: JobHunting
: 标 题: 说下我面试的国人
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Aug 14 16:34:34 2013, 美东)
: 2年前面试了个国人，其实他的经验和专业不和我们做的一致。但是他告诉我很需要这
: 个工作，他是随着老婆的工作来到本地的。我于是觉得可以或者该帮他一下，于是我告
: 诉他和最后老板谈的时候，要如此这般强调，如此这般淡化。并且还超时的讲了一下不
: 为外人详知的流程细节。
: 面完后，我和老板几次强调他会上手快，很感兴趣我们做的。很快他就拿到了职位。然
: 后就很无语了。他从未感谢我的提示，而是归功于他的神的安排。在我面前大讲特讲他
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