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发帖数: 40 | 1 The self help book lists the traits of a self-actualizing
person based on Maslow's theory, which I think is worth reading.
# They see reality, and knowing "the facts are friendly," they accept reality
more than most people. They see through phoniness, deception, and "games"--and
avoid them. They cope with problems, rather than avoid them.
# They accept themselves and others; thus, they can honestly self-disclose and
forgive others' shortcomings.
# They are spontaneous with their ideas, feelings |
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