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发帖数: 115 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 Reunion 讨论区 】
发信人: xiaodouzi (小豆子), 信区: Reunion
标 题: My parents change too many times
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 31 14:14:17 2008)
They told me they want to apply for visa last year. I prepared the material
and make an appointment for them. They made me fell that they were preparing
the material. However, the situation is they do not look at the material
that I mailed to them until three days before the visa application. And they
felt there were so much work to do. Just told me they will | x*******i
发帖数: 115 | 2 sometimes, I am thinking about, how could my parents makes me so unhappy.
But, when they ask me to do some task, the task is really prior to my other
stuff. I am really do what I can do for them. Does anyone thinks this is the
reason that they can hurt me?
Sometimes, they are emotional. They do something unreasonable, say, do not
prepare work certification for visa interview and no matter how hard I
persuade them, they just think that is useless. If I do not make work
certificate for them, they
【在 x*******i 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 Reunion 讨论区 】
: 发信人: xiaodouzi (小豆子), 信区: Reunion
: 标 题: My parents change too many times
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 31 14:14:17 2008)
: They told me they want to apply for visa last year. I prepared the material
: and make an appointment for them. They made me fell that they were preparing
: the material. However, the situation is they do not look at the material
: that I mailed to them until three days before the visa application. And they
: felt there were so much work to do. Just told me they will
| b******e
发帖数: 1074 | 3 I feel very sorry about this...But I understand this kind of situation do
exist..
I also wonder sometimes about the love we Chinese have between family
members,
seems too obscure, not clear and a lot of times can make you disappointed
and do not know if you should cry or not.
I guess one reason could be as parents they've lived a life in a totally
different social environment. They obviously are not used to documentations,
especially working certificate. There's no regulations about work in Chin
【在 x*******i 的大作中提到】
: sometimes, I am thinking about, how could my parents makes me so unhappy.
: But, when they ask me to do some task, the task is really prior to my other
: stuff. I am really do what I can do for them. Does anyone thinks this is the
: reason that they can hurt me?
: Sometimes, they are emotional. They do something unreasonable, say, do not
: prepare work certification for visa interview and no matter how hard I
: persuade them, they just think that is useless. If I do not make work
: certificate for them, they
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