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b*******r
发帖数: 12 | 1 I always feel I have an old and lonely soul. Ever since I was very young I
loved songs that are about hurt and being hurt; movies that are tragedies.
They just feel deeper than the happy ones and always strike a chord in me.
In college, I hid myself in a shell and never wanted to expand myself. I
admit I was a little stuck-up. But the thing is, I really didn’t know how
to feel at ease around people and make a conversation that I thought was “
meaningful”.
Then I came to the US, with the notion t | y******g
发帖数: 317 | 2 不得不说，楼主英文很好哦。文章有一点美文的感觉。不过写成英文看的人比较少了。
感觉楼主是一个非常独立自主生活能力很强的人。我觉得保持本色意味着不需要强求自
己接受不适合自己的东西。但是这并不意味着一成不变。既然你意识到想作出一些改变
，就按照想的去做。我觉得可以吧生活理解成为很多维的东西，也许独立是你的根基，
但是上面还可以有各式各样的其他方式，比如跟朋友出游，或者做社会公益。小的变化
可以为生活增加滋味。
另外有关soul-mate，现在网络这么发达，人们的思想更是千奇百怪，不少人都对心理学
，哲学有着比较深的理解。比如本版就有很多吧。呵呵。感觉找一个网上的soul-mate不
会太困难吧。至于现实生活中，大概要看缘分罗。
living
【在 b*******r 的大作中提到】
: I always feel I have an old and lonely soul. Ever since I was very young I
: loved songs that are about hurt and being hurt; movies that are tragedies.
: They just feel deeper than the happy ones and always strike a chord in me.
: In college, I hid myself in a shell and never wanted to expand myself. I
: admit I was a little stuck-up. But the thing is, I really didn’t know how
: to feel at ease around people and make a conversation that I thought was “
: meaningful”.
: Then I came to the US, with the notion t
| b******e
发帖数: 1074 | 3 It's hard...
I remember it says in the bible:
If ..... you have everything
but you cannot love,
then what is the meaning of life?
love your neighbours like how you love yourself
maybe we need try look at this world with a more bright eye
more open heart
then you see who you are
what is ben se
living
【在 b*******r 的大作中提到】
: I always feel I have an old and lonely soul. Ever since I was very young I
: loved songs that are about hurt and being hurt; movies that are tragedies.
: They just feel deeper than the happy ones and always strike a chord in me.
: In college, I hid myself in a shell and never wanted to expand myself. I
: admit I was a little stuck-up. But the thing is, I really didn’t know how
: to feel at ease around people and make a conversation that I thought was “
: meaningful”.
: Then I came to the US, with the notion t
| m*******s
发帖数: 758 | 4
这话很有意思，潜在地说 love不是用来have的
如果爱用来做名词，那么它是不可能被"have"的，拥有的；
因此，爱应该是动词，所以用can not love,
而且love这个动作不是have, 因为你已经have，却不能love,
所以，爱不是拥有，而是给予和奉献。
第二，有的人给予是为了获得别人的承认或者是期待
受者的回馈，比如夫妻之间，如果everything连这些心理满足感
和补偿都包含了（即人类通常意义的爱的原因），那么love应当指
人类的相当原始的行为，类似本能。通俗的说，人天生就是要给予
和奉献的，想想父母对子女的爱，就能理解。
整句话的意思，我的理解就是，如果你的一生只是一味拥有，而从来
没有“纯粹”的分享和给予，生活又有什么意思的？
咬文嚼字，贻笑大方。呵呵。
【在 b******e 的大作中提到】
: It's hard...
: I remember it says in the bible:
: If ..... you have everything
: but you cannot love,
: then what is the meaning of life?
: love your neighbours like how you love yourself
: maybe we need try look at this world with a more bright eye
: more open heart
: then you see who you are
: what is ben se
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