e********e
发帖数: 1 | 1 I feel i am acting like a stalker. I had a crush on a guy two years ago in a
conference. He doesn't like me. after that we had very limited
communication until stopped contacting each other completely. I think i
understand he doesn't like me, and I don't hate him at all, although he
destroyed my pride in a cold-blood way.
I think i have some mental problem because till now i still try to find out
what he is doing secretly in an obssessive way. I check his website everyday
. i registered into all |
r*******u
发帖数: 8732 | 2 You should go see a doctor.
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【在 e********e 的大作中提到】
: I feel i am acting like a stalker. I had a crush on a guy two years ago in a
: conference. He doesn't like me. after that we had very limited
: communication until stopped contacting each other completely. I think i
: understand he doesn't like me, and I don't hate him at all, although he
: destroyed my pride in a cold-blood way.
: I think i have some mental problem because till now i still try to find out
: what he is doing secretly in an obssessive way. I check his website everyday
: . i registered into all
|
c**c
发帖数: 39 | 3 Contact him until you can stop.
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plan
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myself
【在 e********e 的大作中提到】
: I feel i am acting like a stalker. I had a crush on a guy two years ago in a
: conference. He doesn't like me. after that we had very limited
: communication until stopped contacting each other completely. I think i
: understand he doesn't like me, and I don't hate him at all, although he
: destroyed my pride in a cold-blood way.
: I think i have some mental problem because till now i still try to find out
: what he is doing secretly in an obssessive way. I check his website everyday
: . i registered into all
|
g********8
发帖数: 11 | |
U*******B
发帖数: 2547 | 5 直接找他说说不就完了？ 天天yy不健康的
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【在 e********e 的大作中提到】
: I feel i am acting like a stalker. I had a crush on a guy two years ago in a
: conference. He doesn't like me. after that we had very limited
: communication until stopped contacting each other completely. I think i
: understand he doesn't like me, and I don't hate him at all, although he
: destroyed my pride in a cold-blood way.
: I think i have some mental problem because till now i still try to find out
: what he is doing secretly in an obssessive way. I check his website everyday
: . i registered into all
|
n******7
发帖数: 5678 | 6 can't handle rejection? Many guys handle rejection on a daily basis. |
y******g
发帖数: 317 | 7 i feel like it's a simple 感情问题。a lot of girls do that.
seems like the two guy you dated are not good enough.
keep looking for Mr. Right; then you will have the obsession released.
a
out
everyday
plan
who
myself
【在 e********e 的大作中提到】
: I feel i am acting like a stalker. I had a crush on a guy two years ago in a
: conference. He doesn't like me. after that we had very limited
: communication until stopped contacting each other completely. I think i
: understand he doesn't like me, and I don't hate him at all, although he
: destroyed my pride in a cold-blood way.
: I think i have some mental problem because till now i still try to find out
: what he is doing secretly in an obssessive way. I check his website everyday
: . i registered into all
|
r*****n
发帖数: 917 | 8 First of all, it's not a big deal. Everyone can feel like a stalker
sometimes in their lives,given that the internet has definitely made the
stalking possible and easy.
Take it easy. You are not sick: Lonely? Yes. Having too much time on your
hand? Probably. But, not sick.
I suggest you pick up a hobby instead of stalking him. Go work out every
time you feel like to go check on him. It sounds like you just got your
first girl crush couple years later than you were supposed to which is fine
even |
s********n
发帖数: 2 | 9 forget him or her in your heart |
j*j
发帖数: 5564 | 10 Don't be too hard on yourself. The so-called symptoms you listed are very
normal behaviors when you have a crush on somebody.
If you actually take actions to disturb that guy's life, then you ARE a
stalker. It seems you haven't gone that far yet.
Even though it's not so serious as you have thought, for your own good, stop
it. Stop being silly and stop daydreaming like this.
a
out
everyday
plan
who
myself
【在 e********e 的大作中提到】
: I feel i am acting like a stalker. I had a crush on a guy two years ago in a
: conference. He doesn't like me. after that we had very limited
: communication until stopped contacting each other completely. I think i
: understand he doesn't like me, and I don't hate him at all, although he
: destroyed my pride in a cold-blood way.
: I think i have some mental problem because till now i still try to find out
: what he is doing secretly in an obssessive way. I check his website everyday
: . i registered into all
|
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V*****a
发帖数: 30 | 11 Move on. Try to focus on other interesting things or even find another guy
attracting you. Reduce the time thinking about him gradually and then you
will forget him successfully. |
p**w
发帖数: 82 | 12 There was an article telling about same story on New Yorker back couple of
years. The woman stalked her ex online obsessively.
Don’t worry; you will get over of it. Tell yourself that “I’m a crazy
little woman, so what? I’ll eventually move on.” |
b*****e
发帖数: 32 | 13 You are normal. I bet many people have the same problems. |
c********n
发帖数: 14 | 14 It's definitely NOT a mental disease. And don't make yourself think so.
Try to do:
1)Find yourself something really interesting and helpful, like learning
watercolor if you like paintings or piano if you like music or tennis if you
like sports. By doing so, you actually try to transfer your focus to
somewhere else. And in the meanwhile, you begin to know many others in this
world, among which you might find your real Mr Right. And also, you make
yourself more well-rounded and thus more excellent |
r******l
发帖数: 1 | 15 Plan a long trip for tourism without internet. Better to join a tourism
group. It's a way for you to forget him temporarily and get out of your
current status...
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【在 e********e 的大作中提到】
: I feel i am acting like a stalker. I had a crush on a guy two years ago in a
: conference. He doesn't like me. after that we had very limited
: communication until stopped contacting each other completely. I think i
: understand he doesn't like me, and I don't hate him at all, although he
: destroyed my pride in a cold-blood way.
: I think i have some mental problem because till now i still try to find out
: what he is doing secretly in an obssessive way. I check his website everyday
: . i registered into all
|
d**s
发帖数: 1 | 16
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【在 e********e 的大作中提到】
: I feel i am acting like a stalker. I had a crush on a guy two years ago in a
: conference. He doesn't like me. after that we had very limited
: communication until stopped contacting each other completely. I think i
: understand he doesn't like me, and I don't hate him at all, although he
: destroyed my pride in a cold-blood way.
: I think i have some mental problem because till now i still try to find out
: what he is doing secretly in an obssessive way. I check his website everyday
: . i registered into all
|
t*****e
发帖数: 2228 | 17 好象我也有点点,sigh
i feel like it's a simple 感情问题。a lot of girls do that.
seems like the two guy you dated are not good enough.
keep looking for Mr. Right; then you will have the obsession released.
a
out
everyday
plan
who
myself
【在 y******g 的大作中提到】
: i feel like it's a simple 感情问题。a lot of girls do that.
: seems like the two guy you dated are not good enough.
: keep looking for Mr. Right; then you will have the obsession released.
:
: a
: out
: everyday
: plan
: who
: myself
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