s*********e
发帖数: 59 | 1 那我明天开始和人多交流，祝我交流愉快，祝和我交流的人心情愉快
和我交流的人，可不可以站在我这一边，不要讲很奇怪的不那么真实的故事
因为我并不是不讲，确实没有故事可讲，有时候又想装做一个有故事的人。 |
s*********e
发帖数: 59 | 2 交流真是一件很累的事情，结果真是不可预知
而且偶后知后觉，常常一些话过很久才明白是怎么回事
【在 s*********e 的大作中提到】
: 那我明天开始和人多交流，祝我交流愉快，祝和我交流的人心情愉快
: 和我交流的人，可不可以站在我这一边，不要讲很奇怪的不那么真实的故事
: 因为我并不是不讲，确实没有故事可讲，有时候又想装做一个有故事的人。
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D**N
发帖数: 1440 | 3 ask yourself some questions:
what is communication?
what is happiness?
what is truth?
why do I want to be a person with stories?
why do I expect people to agree with me?
concentrate and try to answer these questions :P now pay attention to your
body, heart beating faster? any uncomfortable feeling in your stomach? ....
at the same time, watch what's happening in your mind......any anger coming
up? do you feel vulnerable as well? .......Do You Want To Control Other
People? Are You Satisfied With
【在 s*********e 的大作中提到】
: 那我明天开始和人多交流，祝我交流愉快，祝和我交流的人心情愉快
: 和我交流的人，可不可以站在我这一边，不要讲很奇怪的不那么真实的故事
: 因为我并不是不讲，确实没有故事可讲，有时候又想装做一个有故事的人。
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s*********e
发帖数: 59 | 4 听别人编故事还要表态是一件很累的事，女生之间常常会这样:))
一直面对别人不知道为什么的指责也是很累的事情。如果不能成为朋友，至少不要成为
敌人。
好像没有别的事了，恩,zzzzzZZZZZZZZ
【在 s*********e 的大作中提到】
: 交流真是一件很累的事情，结果真是不可预知
: 而且偶后知后觉，常常一些话过很久才明白是怎么回事
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s*********e
发帖数: 59 | 5
talk with other people
happiness, satisfaction, there is hope that things will get better
fact?
because i want to be impressive
because i believe those things. I usually do not expect people to agree with
me.
your
no, i feel sleepy
any uncomfortable feeling in your stomach? ....
no, why?
coming
no
do you feel vulnerable as well? .......
m... i don't know. i usually feel this way
Do You Want To Control Other
no. but i don't want to be controlled.
Are You Satisfied With What You Are?
no
【在 D**N 的大作中提到】
: ask yourself some questions:
: what is communication?
: what is happiness?
: what is truth?
: why do I want to be a person with stories?
: why do I expect people to agree with me?
: concentrate and try to answer these questions :P now pay attention to your
: body, heart beating faster? any uncomfortable feeling in your stomach? ....
: at the same time, watch what's happening in your mind......any anger coming
: up? do you feel vulnerable as well? .......Do You Want To Control Other
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s*********e
发帖数: 59 | 6 why would these questions make me angry and uneasy?
with
【在 s*********e 的大作中提到】
:
: talk with other people
: happiness, satisfaction, there is hope that things will get better
: fact?
: because i want to be impressive
: because i believe those things. I usually do not expect people to agree with
: me.
: your
: no, i feel sleepy
: any uncomfortable feeling in your stomach? ....
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s*********e
发帖数: 59 | 7 everyone has some ridiculous thoughts. I don't want them to come true. I
cannot help being jealous, angry, but i don't want others suffer because of
this.
【在 s*********e 的大作中提到】
: why would these questions make me angry and uneasy?
:
: with
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D**N
发帖数: 1440 | 8 if you don't mind reading some more, i will continue......
communication means more than talk. in family, communication means to get
intimacy. in outer world, it means getting mutual understanding, forgiveness
and willing to help. the means includes talk and body language. talking
only takes about 10%, but that's enough to provoke people online without
actually listening. so choose not the harsh, unfriendly words. and if you
have love and gentleness in your heart, you won't use unfriendly attitu
【在 s*********e 的大作中提到】
: everyone has some ridiculous thoughts. I don't want them to come true. I
: cannot help being jealous, angry, but i don't want others suffer because of
: this.
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s*r
发帖数: 2757 | 9 就跟x交一样,神交的过程如果被分解,讨论,优化就会丧失很多美感
就跟x交一样,你也没必要和每一个能接近的人神交
就跟x交一样,你要先学会拒绝快餐,忍受寂寞,然后才能选择
【在 s*********e 的大作中提到】
: 那我明天开始和人多交流，祝我交流愉快，祝和我交流的人心情愉快
: 和我交流的人，可不可以站在我这一边，不要讲很奇怪的不那么真实的故事
: 因为我并不是不讲，确实没有故事可讲，有时候又想装做一个有故事的人。
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s*********e
发帖数: 59 | 10 跟X交一样个p，还神交，puke
【在 s*r 的大作中提到】
: 就跟x交一样,神交的过程如果被分解,讨论,优化就会丧失很多美感
: 就跟x交一样,你也没必要和每一个能接近的人神交
: 就跟x交一样,你要先学会拒绝快餐,忍受寂寞,然后才能选择
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s*********e
发帖数: 59 | 11 the observation i asked you to do is a practice that can be used in our
daily life. every uneasy state of mind causes physical reactions. anger
brings faster heart beating and some stomachache. and interestingly, feeling
of being vulnerable proceeds anger. very often, feeling vulnerable is a
result of a unrealistic willing to control.
no, neither my faster heart beating nor my feeling of being vulnerable come
from anger. my feeling of being vulnerable is not a result of willing to
control. It i
【在 D**N 的大作中提到】
: if you don't mind reading some more, i will continue......
: communication means more than talk. in family, communication means to get
: intimacy. in outer world, it means getting mutual understanding, forgiveness
: and willing to help. the means includes talk and body language. talking
: only takes about 10%, but that's enough to provoke people online without
: actually listening. so choose not the harsh, unfriendly words. and if you
: have love and gentleness in your heart, you won't use unfriendly attitu
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A****e
发帖数: 3180 | 12 我不觉得你跟她说这么多有用。她现在处于一个比较混乱的阶段，你说这些，她的条件
反射是跟你抬杠，而不是思考。你这样跟她问答，只会让她越来越high，搞不好就bi了
。当年ruoyang就是一个很好的例子。可能我比较冷血吧，一般不做徒劳无用工。
forgiveness
or
later
【在 D**N 的大作中提到】
: if you don't mind reading some more, i will continue......
: communication means more than talk. in family, communication means to get
: intimacy. in outer world, it means getting mutual understanding, forgiveness
: and willing to help. the means includes talk and body language. talking
: only takes about 10%, but that's enough to provoke people online without
: actually listening. so choose not the harsh, unfriendly words. and if you
: have love and gentleness in your heart, you won't use unfriendly attitu
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s*********e
发帖数: 59 | 13 我没有抬扛阿，也不觉得有什么很值得思考的地方，有点high，也不是太high
【在 A****e 的大作中提到】
: 我不觉得你跟她说这么多有用。她现在处于一个比较混乱的阶段，你说这些，她的条件
: 反射是跟你抬杠，而不是思考。你这样跟她问答，只会让她越来越high，搞不好就bi了
: 。当年ruoyang就是一个很好的例子。可能我比较冷血吧，一般不做徒劳无用工。
:
: forgiveness
: or
: later
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l***s
发帖数: 263 | 14 有些东西很可能是你认为 ：）
【在 s*********e 的大作中提到】
: 那我明天开始和人多交流，祝我交流愉快，祝和我交流的人心情愉快
: 和我交流的人，可不可以站在我这一边，不要讲很奇怪的不那么真实的故事
: 因为我并不是不讲，确实没有故事可讲，有时候又想装做一个有故事的人。
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s*********e
发帖数: 59 | 15 我就知道会有人这么说，我也一直对自己这么说。可是有一天我发现，这一切对我不重
要，如果我认为它不是真的，你也无心证明是真的，那就随它去吧。
【在 l***s 的大作中提到】
: 有些东西很可能是你认为 ：）
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