s**e
发帖数: 165 | 1 If I were you, I would never come to US. Frankly speaking, you are so
annoying. You are not independent people. I think you are already 22 years
old, right? But you behaved like a teen.
As a F-1 student, your husband lives very stressful and busy life. He also has
to worry your career, your mood. He even cooks for you. My god, you are a so
bad wife. Don't blame your husband, look at yourself.
I was at the same situation with you, I married after graduation and came here
with my husband. Now I go | z******i
发帖数: 131 | 2 even though I agree with you on some points, your words are too harsh for her.
She's a just spoiled child. There's space for her to grow up. It doesn't mean
that she's bad and selfish.
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【在 s**e 的大作中提到】
: If I were you, I would never come to US. Frankly speaking, you are so
: annoying. You are not independent people. I think you are already 22 years
: old, right? But you behaved like a teen.
: As a F-1 student, your husband lives very stressful and busy life. He also has
: to worry your career, your mood. He even cooks for you. My god, you are a so
: bad wife. Don't blame your husband, look at yourself.
: I was at the same situation with you, I married after graduation and came here
: with my husband. Now I go
| r***n
发帖数: 298 | 3 she will make up her own mind. don't worry.
【在 z******i 的大作中提到】
: even though I agree with you on some points, your words are too harsh for her.
: She's a just spoiled child. There's space for her to grow up. It doesn't mean
: that she's bad and selfish.
:
: has
: here
: university
: life.
: you
: 了
| s**e
发帖数: 165 | 4 I am one or two years older than her. I can't understant why 22 years old
could behave like a girl. I was like a spoiled child as the first born in my
grandparents family before I went to college.
In college, we leave parents and live together with classmates, get more
experience in life, love, everything. You can behave like a kid in your 18
years old, but don't do that when your are 22.
I know I am mean to her. I went through all the things in these two years. I
felt lonely, stressful, and had
【在 z******i 的大作中提到】
: even though I agree with you on some points, your words are too harsh for her.
: She's a just spoiled child. There's space for her to grow up. It doesn't mean
: that she's bad and selfish.
:
: has
: here
: university
: life.
: you
: 了
| z******i
发帖数: 131 | 5 我非常同意。不过你知道每个人的心理适应能力和吃苦的决心和能力是不一样的。同一件
事，给你做，你能完成得很好，这个ｍｍ就不行。还是有个人差异的。不能因为这样就说
她坏啊。她２３岁了，不过我看，心理年龄也就１５的水平吧。何况现在刚结婚，在头脑
不冷静的时候，抱怨多了些。如果我老公这样对我，我也会抱怨一下的。
pushed
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went
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came
【在 s**e 的大作中提到】
: I am one or two years older than her. I can't understant why 22 years old
: could behave like a girl. I was like a spoiled child as the first born in my
: grandparents family before I went to college.
: In college, we leave parents and live together with classmates, get more
: experience in life, love, everything. You can behave like a kid in your 18
: years old, but don't do that when your are 22.
: I know I am mean to her. I went through all the things in these two years. I
: felt lonely, stressful, and had
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