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发帖数: 148 | 1 First, welcome and thank you for sharing with us. You are not alone anymore.
No. You have not. :) It could be worse.
I can not write long for now. But I want to asure you:
a) Everything has a solution, if not more;
b) Facing the problem, hiding from it will just store up trouble;
c) Tackling the difficultes by s.t.e.p. They are: select a possible solution;
try it; estimate its effect; be persistant with effective ones.
I will write more about this topic.
by
moody.
I | h******r
发帖数: 148 | 2 Will you share with us the logics behind your fear?
for example, why were you afraid of teachers? what did you think when you were
afraid of them? Was it punishment? humiliation? or else?
I belive everyone acts following his or her mind. If you were afraid, you had
a reason to be so. It must have been a sound reason to you.
If you share your reasoning with us. We can help you figure out by
either
a)Your reasoning was wrong, so you don't need to be afraid any more; yeah!
or
b)Your logic was right | l**d
发帖数: 99 | 3 Everyone wants love and does not think he/she gets enough. And everyone
is afraid of loneliness. But there is difference between being alone
and being lonely, right? Withdrawl from the world is a natural reaction
to discomfort. So your behavior is totally understandable. But if you
are not happy with the way you are. Maybe you just change it a little bit
at a time and be the person you want to be. hehe, good luck.
Just find out this board a few days ago. Like here. Everyong seems so
friendly. | p**f
发帖数: 2610 | 4 You didn't do wrong,your father did.
I had the similar problem, but minor. My family moved a lot when I was a kid.
I basically switched 6-7 junior schools. Due to the difference between the
districts, sometimes what you were doing everyday in one place would be
considered silly and be laughed at in the other place. In one school, the
teacher was not very nice to me,scolded me all the time.I was so scared and
felt unsecure even depressed. But at last we moved to a new place in the
south, where I |
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