f*******e
发帖数: 2791 | 1 我已婚不征友。 替一个朋友发帖资讯。他的问题是老实，不知道怎么哄女孩子，相亲
时老被人拒。我没相过亲不知道怎么帮他。两个都抱着结婚的目的见面 要怎么才能打
动女人？答应见面说明对外在条件满意了吧？ | T****r
发帖数: 22092 | 2 掏出厚厚一沓子钞票，说：咱们现在去哪里把这破东西花掉？
【在 f*******e 的大作中提到】
: 我已婚不征友。 替一个朋友发帖资讯。他的问题是老实，不知道怎么哄女孩子，相亲
: 时老被人拒。我没相过亲不知道怎么帮他。两个都抱着结婚的目的见面 要怎么才能打
: 动女人？答应见面说明对外在条件满意了吧？
| a*****y
发帖数: 33185 | 3 聊聊过去的经历吧
【在 f*******e 的大作中提到】
: 我已婚不征友。 替一个朋友发帖资讯。他的问题是老实，不知道怎么哄女孩子，相亲
: 时老被人拒。我没相过亲不知道怎么帮他。两个都抱着结婚的目的见面 要怎么才能打
: 动女人？答应见面说明对外在条件满意了吧？
| p*******p
发帖数: 13670 | 4 相亲估计都是功利目的很明确，直奔主题吧，直接list条件好了
【在 f*******e 的大作中提到】
: 我已婚不征友。 替一个朋友发帖资讯。他的问题是老实，不知道怎么哄女孩子，相亲
: 时老被人拒。我没相过亲不知道怎么帮他。两个都抱着结婚的目的见面 要怎么才能打
: 动女人？答应见面说明对外在条件满意了吧？
| z*g
发帖数: 110 | | t******f
发帖数: 2109 | 6 Tell him to just be his true self, if he can not 打动女方, move on and try
someone else.
【在 f*******e 的大作中提到】
: 我已婚不征友。 替一个朋友发帖资讯。他的问题是老实，不知道怎么哄女孩子，相亲
: 时老被人拒。我没相过亲不知道怎么帮他。两个都抱着结婚的目的见面 要怎么才能打
: 动女人？答应见面说明对外在条件满意了吧？
| m****8
发帖数: 69 | 7 泡妞这个东西只能意会。。。。。会泡的一辈子都不会缺，不会的就是一个难字！！ | z****y
发帖数: 1550 | 8 make her laugh
【在 f*******e 的大作中提到】
: 我已婚不征友。 替一个朋友发帖资讯。他的问题是老实，不知道怎么哄女孩子，相亲
: 时老被人拒。我没相过亲不知道怎么帮他。两个都抱着结婚的目的见面 要怎么才能打
: 动女人？答应见面说明对外在条件满意了吧？
| c*********r
发帖数: 7685 | 9 平时跟朋友怎么交流就怎样交流，别当相亲看会自然许多。 | a****i
发帖数: 943 | 10 呵呵，你的ID原来是这么个道理，有意思。不过说的在理
try
【在 t******f 的大作中提到】
: Tell him to just be his true self, if he can not 打动女方, move on and try
: someone else.
| | | h******d
发帖数: 3987 | 11 真是旱的旱死涝的涝死啊
【在 m****8 的大作中提到】
: 泡妞这个东西只能意会。。。。。会泡的一辈子都不会缺，不会的就是一个难字！！
| c*******t
发帖数: 962 | 12 征得如何了？
【在 z*g 的大作中提到】
: 告诉她你有＂体面的工作＂。
| G***n
发帖数: 93 | 13 我怎么把题目看成了“相亲时怎么打劫女方？”， WS 啊WS...
【在 f*******e 的大作中提到】
: 我已婚不征友。 替一个朋友发帖资讯。他的问题是老实，不知道怎么哄女孩子，相亲
: 时老被人拒。我没相过亲不知道怎么帮他。两个都抱着结婚的目的见面 要怎么才能打
: 动女人？答应见面说明对外在条件满意了吧？
| t******f
发帖数: 2109 | 14 Actually, my ID refers to my soul, the one filled with joy and no pains, ...
Below is a story from "Chicken soup for the soul"
The Smile
Smile at each other, smile at your wife, smile at your husband, smile at
your children, smile at each other—it doesn't matter who it is—and that
will help you to grow up in greater love for each other.
Mother Teresa
Many Americans are familiar with The Little Prince, a wonderful book by
Antoine de Saint-Exupery. This is a whimsical and fabulous book and works as
a children's story as well as a thought-provoking adult fable. Far fewer
are aware of Saint-Exupery's other writings, novels and short stories.
Saint-Exupery was a fighter pilot who fought against the Nazis and was
killed in action. Before World War II, he fought in the Spanish Civil War
against the fascists. He wrote a fascinating story based on that experience
entitled The Smile (Le Sourire). It is this story which I'd like to share
with you now. It isn't clear whether or not he meant this to be
autobiographical or fiction. I choose to believe it is the former.
He said that he was captured by the enemy and thrown into a jail cell. He
was sure that from the contemptuous looks and rough treatment he received
from his jailers he would be executed the next day. From here, I'll tell the
story as I remember it in my own words.
"I was sure that I was to be killed. I became terribly nervous and
distraught. I fumbled in my pockets to see if there were any cigarettes
which had escaped their search. I found one and because of my shaking hands,
I could barely get it to my lips. But I had no matches, they had taken
those.
"I looked through the bars at my jailer. He did not make eye contact with me
. After all, one does not make eye contact with a thing, a corpse. I called
out to him 'Have you got a light, por favor?' He looked at me, shrugged and
came over to light my cigarette.
"As he came close and lit the match, his eyes inadvertently locked with mine
. At that moment, I smiled. I don't know why I did that. Perhaps it was
nervousness, perhaps it was because, when you get very close, one to another
, it is very hard not to smile. In any case, I smiled. In that instant, it
was as though a spark jumped across the gap between our two hearts, our two
human souls. I know he didn't want to, but my smile leaped through the bars
and generated a smile on his lips, too. He lit my
cigarette but stayed near, looking at me directly in the eyes and continuing
to smile.
"I kept smiling at him, now aware of him as a person and not just a jailer.
And his looking at me seemed to have a new dimension, too. 'Do you have kids
?' he asked.
"'Yes, here, here.' I took out my wallet and nervously fumbled for the
pictures of my family. He, too, took out the pictures of his ninos and began
to talk about his plans and hopes for them. My eyes filled with tears. I
said that I feared that I'd never see my family again, never have the chance
to see them grow up. Tears came to his eyes, too.
"Suddenly, without another word, he unlocked my cell and silently led me out
. Out of the jail, quietly and by back routes, out of the town. There, at
the edge of town, he released me. And without another word, he turned back
toward the town.
"My life was saved by a smile."
Yes, the smile—the unaffected, unplanned, natural connection between people
. I tell this story in my work because I'd like people to consider that
underneath all the layers we construct to protect ourselves, our dignity,
our titles, our degrees, our status and our need to be seen in certain ways
—underneath all that, remains the authentic, essential self. I'm not afraid
to call it the soul. I really believe that if that part of you and that
part of me could recognize each other, we wouldn't be enemies. We couldn't
have hate or envy or fear. I sadly conclude that all those other layers,
which we so carefully construct through our lives, distance and insulate us
from truly contacting others. Saint-Exupery's story speaks of that magic
moment when two souls recognize each other.
I've had just a few moments like that. Falling in love is one example. And
looking at a baby. Why do we smile when we see a baby? Perhaps it's because
we see someone without all the defensive layers, someone whose smile for us
we know to be fully genuine and without guile. And that baby-soul inside us
smiles wistfully in recognition.
【在 a****i 的大作中提到】
: 呵呵，你的ID原来是这么个道理，有意思。不过说的在理
:
: try
| a*****0
发帖数: 6788 | 15
LOL。 估计他就是一见面就让女方笑癞蛤蟆想吃天鹅肉。
要装B，装Cool。 嗯，这样中阴混杂的。
【在 z****y 的大作中提到】
: make her laugh
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