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发帖数: 1166 | 1 说到底，婚姻需要很多很多跟人相处的技巧，纸上谈兵谁都可以， BinLaden眼中的优
秀的人未必都是适合婚姻的。
随便列几点婚姻的杀手， 大家可以对号入座。
1。A "harsh start" in an argument - immediately becoming negative and
accusatory when confronting your partner.
2. Criticism - saying negative things about your partner's character or
personality.
3. Contempt - sneering, sarcasm, cynicism, name-calling,
mockery,hostile humor, disgust.
4. Defensiveness - justifying your behavior, attacking your partner
instead.
5. Stonewalling - disengaging, turning away, refusing or becoming
unable to speak or react.
6. Flooding - a physiological response to your partner's negativity,
characterized by increased heart rate, secretion of adrenaline,
increase blood pressure, and a sense of being overwhelmed.
7. Failed repair attempts - attempts by one partner to repair damage
and keep negativity from escalating, which are ignored or otherwise
met with failure.
大家看到修身的重要性了吧， ：）
个别大妈YY就随她们去吧， 要相信群众的眼睛。 | p*********l
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