b***j
发帖数: 336 | 1 儿子刚满四岁，非常nice. 可是最近总被一个小孩打。
儿子比较包子，说他不敢打那小孩，人打他只好忍着
这个该子是朋友家小孩，父母都很好。
我下周准备和老师谈一下，要和小孩父母讲吗？真不知道咋开口
有经验的给说说，真是又心疼又着急。
这里先谢了 |
w****a
发帖数: 2049 | 2 和对方父母讲。这有啥难开口的，又不是让你去撒泼打滚，客客气气就事论事很容易呀
。 难怪孩子包子，你做父母的榜样就没树立好。 |
b***j
发帖数: 336 | 3 谢谢见意，一会儿就打电话说一下。我自己很包子，但看儿子这么受欺负又心疼又担心
。哎 |
l******r
发帖数: 18699 | 4 没出息
【在 b***j 的大作中提到】
: 儿子刚满四岁，非常nice. 可是最近总被一个小孩打。
: 儿子比较包子，说他不敢打那小孩，人打他只好忍着
: 这个该子是朋友家小孩，父母都很好。
: 我下周准备和老师谈一下，要和小孩父母讲吗？真不知道咋开口
: 有经验的给说说，真是又心疼又着急。
: 这里先谢了
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f********u
发帖数: 572 | 5 Don't call. Bring it up face to face. It could cause misunderstanding over
the phone. Honestly if I were you, I will confirm and ask the teacher's
opinion first.
And I wouldn't teach my kids to hit back at least not in this situation. I
would say, first of all, firmly tell the other kid - No thank you and then
stay away from him. And walk to rhe teacher and tell the teacher that so
and so hit me. If your kid hits back, hen it is hard to say whose fault it
is...
★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 7.5
【在 b***j 的大作中提到】
: 谢谢见意，一会儿就打电话说一下。我自己很包子，但看儿子这么受欺负又心疼又担心
: 。哎
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b***j
发帖数: 336 | 6 Thank you very much for your valuable input.
I will talk to the teacher next Monday and ask her opinion.
My so is very nice and never fight with any kids. His former teacher love
him very much
Also, I teach him to be nice to others. But this time, I feel really hurt
cause his chin was
Swelling because the other boy hit his mouth. I feel sorry that I didn't
check when pick him up
My son's language is not very good. He can only tell me who hit him . Boy
cannot tell me how:(
Feel really sad and sorry for his suffering.
I will talk to the teacher first, if it keeps happening, I am thinking to
change daycare
Again thank you very much for your suggestion
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it
【在 f********u 的大作中提到】
: Don't call. Bring it up face to face. It could cause misunderstanding over
: the phone. Honestly if I were you, I will confirm and ask the teacher's
: opinion first.
: And I wouldn't teach my kids to hit back at least not in this situation. I
: would say, first of all, firmly tell the other kid - No thank you and then
: stay away from him. And walk to rhe teacher and tell the teacher that so
: and so hit me. If your kid hits back, hen it is hard to say whose fault it
: is...
:
: ★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 7.5
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z****0
发帖数: 3942 | 7 赞成你的说法。很多情况下，老师介入最容易解决。
over
I
it
【在 f********u 的大作中提到】
: Don't call. Bring it up face to face. It could cause misunderstanding over
: the phone. Honestly if I were you, I will confirm and ask the teacher's
: opinion first.
: And I wouldn't teach my kids to hit back at least not in this situation. I
: would say, first of all, firmly tell the other kid - No thank you and then
: stay away from him. And walk to rhe teacher and tell the teacher that so
: and so hit me. If your kid hits back, hen it is hard to say whose fault it
: is...
:
: ★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 7.5
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a****n
发帖数: 8553 | 8 还是找老师吧，我认识的就有因为私下解决孩子问题最后闹出矛盾的，事情是发生在学
校，大人都看不见到底情况是怎么样的， 还是老师解决最有权威。 |
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k****r
发帖数: 851 | 9 看到这里有点受不了了。儿子脸都被打肿了，你还在这磨叽???你知道哪种解决方法最
好吗?什么方法最有效就最好。你朋友孩子打人本来就他们不对，是他门教育不好，很
多nice的父母过分纵容孩子的。你告诉他们，也是为了他们孩子好。也要和老师说，第
一次被打就要说，老师有责任从此看紧他们之间的interaction.
还有，俗话说因才施教，我孩子也是比较胆小的，那做父母的就不用一天到晚强调要对
别人nice,而是说每个人都必须对别人nice,别人要对你不nice,他就错了，你就应该要
求他nice
【在 b***j 的大作中提到】
: Thank you very much for your valuable input.
: I will talk to the teacher next Monday and ask her opinion.
: My so is very nice and never fight with any kids. His former teacher love
: him very much
: Also, I teach him to be nice to others. But this time, I feel really hurt
: cause his chin was
: Swelling because the other boy hit his mouth. I feel sorry that I didn't
: check when pick him up
: My son's language is not very good. He can only tell me who hit him . Boy
: cannot tell me how:(
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i****t
发帖数: 2318 | 10
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俗话说因才施教，我孩子也是比较胆小的，那做父母的就不用一天到晚强调要对
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站队学习了，后面这句话说得很有道理，我最近也在反思我对孩子的教育方式是否有点
问题
【在 k****r 的大作中提到】
: 看到这里有点受不了了。儿子脸都被打肿了，你还在这磨叽???你知道哪种解决方法最
: 好吗?什么方法最有效就最好。你朋友孩子打人本来就他们不对，是他门教育不好，很
: 多nice的父母过分纵容孩子的。你告诉他们，也是为了他们孩子好。也要和老师说，第
: 一次被打就要说，老师有责任从此看紧他们之间的interaction.
: 还有，俗话说因才施教，我孩子也是比较胆小的，那做父母的就不用一天到晚强调要对
: 别人nice,而是说每个人都必须对别人nice,别人要对你不nice,他就错了，你就应该要
: 求他nice
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i****t
发帖数: 2318 | 11
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俗话说因才施教，我孩子也是比较胆小的，那做父母的就不用一天到晚强调要对
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~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
站队学习了，后面这句话说得很有道理，我最近也在反思我对孩子的教育方式是否有点
问题
【在 k****r 的大作中提到】
: 看到这里有点受不了了。儿子脸都被打肿了，你还在这磨叽???你知道哪种解决方法最
: 好吗?什么方法最有效就最好。你朋友孩子打人本来就他们不对，是他门教育不好，很
: 多nice的父母过分纵容孩子的。你告诉他们，也是为了他们孩子好。也要和老师说，第
: 一次被打就要说，老师有责任从此看紧他们之间的interaction.
: 还有，俗话说因才施教，我孩子也是比较胆小的，那做父母的就不用一天到晚强调要对
: 别人nice,而是说每个人都必须对别人nice,别人要对你不nice,他就错了，你就应该要
: 求他nice
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t****y
发帖数: 168 | 12 为什么不能还手？老师能管多少？当然老师有责任，一定要找老师反映，事实她们早就
应该告诉你，而且反映给对方家长。
但老师解决不了根本问题。1：7的比例，怎么保证老师能时刻注意到你儿子，还有就是
如果他总报告老师，别的小朋友就会疏远他，特别是男孩子群中。幼儿园的时候还好了
，上小学就是1：16以上了。而且很多bully都不是看的到的打伤。
学会保护自己，学会勇敢说不，男孩子一定要有血性。 |
T*******i
发帖数: 4442 | |
l******a
发帖数: 16364 | 14 我也觉得没必要和对方父母沟通，我觉得熊孩子能成长为熊孩子都是有原因的，直接和
老师谈，要求隔离两人，并经常注意观察。也要教育你小孩一些必要的措施，比如say
no,跑开，向老师报告等等。
【在 b***j 的大作中提到】
: 儿子刚满四岁，非常nice. 可是最近总被一个小孩打。
: 儿子比较包子，说他不敢打那小孩，人打他只好忍着
: 这个该子是朋友家小孩，父母都很好。
: 我下周准备和老师谈一下，要和小孩父母讲吗？真不知道咋开口
: 有经验的给说说，真是又心疼又着急。
: 这里先谢了
|
