p***7
发帖数: 535 | 1 最近生活好一点了，但是我的心理却不安宁。是这样的：我家儿子6岁，特喜欢和邻居
家的小孩玩。邻居家的小孩也很喜欢他。我也和邻居打招呼，和其中的一个比较好。可
是最近我发现自己𣎴喜欢参加他们的活动。memorial day 就有活动，我的第一
反应就是出去旅游，避开它。但是为了孩子是应该和他们交往的。所以我很纠结。我性
格中向，在美国拿到博士，现在在转专业，心情一直不太好，特喜淸静。我该怎么办？
还有我总不知道和老美谈什么？有时候懒的动脑筋想话题。我是不是心理有问题？还有
大家和老美邻居讲什么？谢谢。 |
B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 2 Topics:
1) Weather
2) Child-related stuff, such as when to pee, when to poo, when to feed, when
to play, etc. Or funny things of your child.
3) Ask about what they want to do during the summer, the fall, the winter,
the spring, or on Junly 4th, Labor Day, Halloween, Thanksgving, Christmas.
4) Murder in your neighborhood. No such thing? Lucky you. Then why there is no murder
in your neighborhood.
Do not talk about either politics or religion unless you are a politician or priest. |
g********s
发帖数: 1969 | 3 ft on #4
when
murder
or priest.
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: Topics:
: 1) Weather
: 2) Child-related stuff, such as when to pee, when to poo, when to feed, when
: to play, etc. Or funny things of your child.
: 3) Ask about what they want to do during the summer, the fall, the winter,
: the spring, or on Junly 4th, Labor Day, Halloween, Thanksgving, Christmas.
: 4) Murder in your neighborhood. No such thing? Lucky you. Then why there is no murder
: in your neighborhood.
: Do not talk about either politics or religion unless you are a politician or priest.
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g********s
发帖数: 1969 | 4 If the kids are in the same school, so many topics around the school. Just
pick one, teachers, friends, activities, sports, PTA, etc |
B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 5 I know. I know. When there is no topic, create your own. I am so dumb that
I create a topic about murder or the lack thereof!
【在 g********s 的大作中提到】
: ft on #4
:
: when
: murder
: or priest.
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n****y
发帖数: 6260 | |
t*******g
发帖数: 1647 | 7 有孩子的聊孩子，没孩子的聊宠物，孩子宠物都没有的，就不必交往了。。。。。。。 |
a*w
发帖数: 4495 | 8 性格中向是怎么回事？春哥那样的？
【在 p***7 的大作中提到】
: 最近生活好一点了，但是我的心理却不安宁。是这样的：我家儿子6岁，特喜欢和邻居
: 家的小孩玩。邻居家的小孩也很喜欢他。我也和邻居打招呼，和其中的一个比较好。可
: 是最近我发现自己𣎴喜欢参加他们的活动。memorial day 就有活动，我的第一
: 反应就是出去旅游，避开它。但是为了孩子是应该和他们交往的。所以我很纠结。我性
: 格中向，在美国拿到博士，现在在转专业，心情一直不太好，特喜淸静。我该怎么办？
: 还有我总不知道和老美谈什么？有时候懒的动脑筋想话题。我是不是心理有问题？还有
: 大家和老美邻居讲什么？谢谢。
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t*******g
发帖数: 1647 | 9 笑死我了。。。。。。
【在 a*w 的大作中提到】
: 性格中向是怎么回事？春哥那样的？
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 10 5) The flowers or trees in your neighbor's garden. Or the bird poo on their
roof if it is interesting . . . |
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S****p
发帖数: 3928 | 11 其实聊几次就有话题了。有孩子一般还是围绕孩子。其他和中国人聊天差不多。
不光老美，欧洲人都特别喜欢运动。我们后院爸爸妈妈经常玩玩足球，橄榄球，飞碟啥
的。就是随便玩，小孩也可以加入。然后再烧烧烤烤，吃吃聊聊，挺放松的。 |
a******t
发帖数: 2944 | 12 FT,这是我最常用的话题.
their
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: 5) The flowers or trees in your neighbor's garden. Or the bird poo on their
: roof if it is interesting . . .
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h*********e
发帖数: 6997 | 13 5). the guy in a Chinese parenting forum who suggests murder topics for
chatting.
when
is no murder
or priest.
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: Topics:
: 1) Weather
: 2) Child-related stuff, such as when to pee, when to poo, when to feed, when
: to play, etc. Or funny things of your child.
: 3) Ask about what they want to do during the summer, the fall, the winter,
: the spring, or on Junly 4th, Labor Day, Halloween, Thanksgving, Christmas.
: 4) Murder in your neighborhood. No such thing? Lucky you. Then why there is no murder
: in your neighborhood.
: Do not talk about either politics or religion unless you are a politician or priest.
|
B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 14 Darn. Why didn't I come up with this topic first??
【在 h*********e 的大作中提到】
: 5). the guy in a Chinese parenting forum who suggests murder topics for
: chatting.
:
: when
: is no murder
: or priest.
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w*********e
发帖数: 383 | 15 文化有别的时候最好聊的主题就是吃的东西了，聊做饭，聊granda recipe, 什么节日
吃什么东西，还有就是聊宠物，聊旅游景点。
懒得动脑筋想话题，不是心理有问题。但是心情不好，就得调节，一家出游也不会太耽
误社交，回来还可以跟大家推荐你们去的地方，不就又有的聊了。 |
h*********e
发帖数: 6997 | 16 晚点去，早点回，或者中间找借口回家呆会，反正住得近，随叫随到。
【在 p***7 的大作中提到】
: 最近生活好一点了，但是我的心理却不安宁。是这样的：我家儿子6岁，特喜欢和邻居
: 家的小孩玩。邻居家的小孩也很喜欢他。我也和邻居打招呼，和其中的一个比较好。可
: 是最近我发现自己𣎴喜欢参加他们的活动。memorial day 就有活动，我的第一
: 反应就是出去旅游，避开它。但是为了孩子是应该和他们交往的。所以我很纠结。我性
: 格中向，在美国拿到博士，现在在转专业，心情一直不太好，特喜淸静。我该怎么办？
: 还有我总不知道和老美谈什么？有时候懒的动脑筋想话题。我是不是心理有问题？还有
: 大家和老美邻居讲什么？谢谢。
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 17 Communication. Communication. Communication.
Yeah. We got that. |
p***7
发帖数: 535 | |
x*******g
发帖数: 1363 | 19 haha.. 'Murder in your neighborhood. No such thing? Lucky you. Then why
there is no murder in your neighborhood'.
Starting with one question ,no matter what the answer is , say the following
:
'That is interesting, why or why not you decided to do that way?'
when
is no murder
or priest.
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: Topics:
: 1) Weather
: 2) Child-related stuff, such as when to pee, when to poo, when to feed, when
: to play, etc. Or funny things of your child.
: 3) Ask about what they want to do during the summer, the fall, the winter,
: the spring, or on Junly 4th, Labor Day, Halloween, Thanksgving, Christmas.
: 4) Murder in your neighborhood. No such thing? Lucky you. Then why there is no murder
: in your neighborhood.
: Do not talk about either politics or religion unless you are a politician or priest.
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x*****i
发帖数: 4035 | 20 this is normal. I like to chat with my neighbors from time to time, but when
it comes to parties I wear out easily. maybe it's too much english talking,
hehe
what bothers you at the parties? if it's lack of topics, then try to ask a
question that you know will get them talking, like what their kids do for
sports, where they go for vacation, what restaurants/attractions/parks they
recommend etc. it's easier for moms because we talk a lot about the kids and
shopping and food etc. for the dads it has to be sports or yard work or
house repair, or anything "manly" :) So make sure you're knowledgeable in at
least one of these topics
【在 p***7 的大作中提到】
: 最近生活好一点了，但是我的心理却不安宁。是这样的：我家儿子6岁，特喜欢和邻居
: 家的小孩玩。邻居家的小孩也很喜欢他。我也和邻居打招呼，和其中的一个比较好。可
: 是最近我发现自己𣎴喜欢参加他们的活动。memorial day 就有活动，我的第一
: 反应就是出去旅游，避开它。但是为了孩子是应该和他们交往的。所以我很纠结。我性
: 格中向，在美国拿到博士，现在在转专业，心情一直不太好，特喜淸静。我该怎么办？
: 还有我总不知道和老美谈什么？有时候懒的动脑筋想话题。我是不是心理有问题？还有
: 大家和老美邻居讲什么？谢谢。
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y****i
发帖数: 12114 | 21 如果干别的事情，也总是提不起精神，建议自查一下是不是有抑郁症。 |
B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 22 #7: How to help a kid get into an ivy school. |
m*********7
发帖数: 5207 | 23 And showing off his six-packs
【在 h*********e 的大作中提到】
: 5). the guy in a Chinese parenting forum who suggests murder topics for
: chatting.
:
: when
: is no murder
: or priest.
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r****z
发帖数: 12020 | 24 其实他的裸照挺有教育意义的，我就是由此知道 six-packs 不是店里半打一包的袜子。
【在 m*********7 的大作中提到】
: And showing off his six-packs
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