y******n
发帖数: 298 | 1 Hi, all,
Here's the beginning of the story:
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t0/Parenting/31747879.html
And later on, they started mistreat my son by keepping himself in a small black
classroom with just one toy car without telling us till we found it out --
that is also why I said this to the other parent with kid injured in daycare:
http://www.mitbbs.com/article0/Parenting/31760109_0.html
After I found out that they treat my son like this, I asked them the reason
-- the reason varies from person to person, and when I talked to the
director, the director told the teacher they are not allowed to talk to us
again for anything. That's why I pulled my son out right away. I felt so
sorry for him because I really like the teacher from that class, so does my
son. But I don't want him to get unhappy about staying in a black tiny
classroom by a toy car play for hours....
The night when we decide to leave the school, we had a serious talk to these
Indian couple who run this Motessori School, and they promised to send us
all the accident reports they had during my son's stay + no financial
obligation announcement within two days. It is almost a month now, and of
course, we didn't ever get anything from them. We keep on checking almost
every week -- at first, they said they've sent out the files for several
times, and there was a time they said they sent out a certified mail -- when
we asked them the number for the certified mail, they started to say they
haven't sent out the files yet. Later on, we keep on checking every 4-5 days
, they always say they are going to mail it out that night.
Today, they don't pick up our phone calls any more. I am not sure the reason
for them keep on doing that....but I called them via a different number to
be able to talk ... and I recorded the conversation --
She keeps on saying that because I asked her to get the files ready for me
is a harassement, and said I have no manner -- and also she couldn't have
the files for me before 7pm... I told her I am recording the conversation
with her, and ask her to tell me what can we do to make sure that we can get
all the files from them, she said I am threatening her -- I am totally
confused.... -- is it called harassement or threatening? To request some
files from school director? And she said she would tell all the teachers and
all the parents about what I was doing -- I thought this is more like a
threatening, isn't it? -- this is my question one.
My question two is:
I don't know where I can do a complaint or anything like that to let all the
other parents know about it? I have the conversation recored -- but can I
publish it onto like youtube and send all the parents I know? Is this legal
or not proper?
I just getting so upset about dealing with Indians again... I was going to
get the files before we stepped out, but the husband pretended to be so nice
, and promised in such a nice way, so we belived him. He refused to sign
anything for us, but he has good political way to let us feel he would keep
his promise...but I feel so regreted to felt in that trap and wasted all my
time on it....
Please comment with any advise....Thank you very much~ |
az
发帖数: 16686 | 2 不懂这些问题。。。sorry, big big bless
看了事故帖子，真的是太吓人了，孩子太可怜了，做爹妈的人是胆子越来越小了，看得
都想哭，想象着小朋友受的苦心都揪起来了
蒙校不蒙校，教这教那都是次要，安全问题最最重要，相比之下，学什么，吃睡都没安
全问题重要，唉。这咋三天两头有人汇报孩子在Daycare出事故要缝针的啊
black
daycare:
reason
【在 y******n 的大作中提到】
: Hi, all,
: Here's the beginning of the story:
: http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t0/Parenting/31747879.html
: And later on, they started mistreat my son by keepping himself in a small black
: classroom with just one toy car without telling us till we found it out --
: that is also why I said this to the other parent with kid injured in daycare:
: http://www.mitbbs.com/article0/Parenting/31760109_0.html
: After I found out that they treat my son like this, I asked them the reason
: -- the reason varies from person to person, and when I talked to the
: director, the director told the teacher they are not allowed to talk to us
|
y******n
发帖数: 298 | 3 Thank you for replying....Just the way they treat this accident makes me
upset...And seems like I can't do anything to complaint....what a system
here...sigh...
【在 az 的大作中提到】
: 不懂这些问题。。。sorry, big big bless
: 看了事故帖子，真的是太吓人了，孩子太可怜了，做爹妈的人是胆子越来越小了，看得
: 都想哭，想象着小朋友受的苦心都揪起来了
: 蒙校不蒙校，教这教那都是次要，安全问题最最重要，相比之下，学什么，吃睡都没安
: 全问题重要，唉。这咋三天两头有人汇报孩子在Daycare出事故要缝针的啊
:
: black
: daycare:
: reason
|
y******n
发帖数: 298 | 4 What do you think I can sue them about? I am not sure what kind of record is
helpful for this kind of sue...Do you know any case like this? Thanks~~ |
L***d
发帖数: 36 | 5 他们这样太欺负孩子了。真的是太可恨了。我觉得起码要把他们暴光。 不过这个事情
也许最好找个律师咨询一下，才有可能给小朋友找个公道。 |
y******n
发帖数: 298 | 6 Ai, the key point is don't know a lawyer...And they have so many
advertisements around...Making them look good.
【在 L***d 的大作中提到】
: 他们这样太欺负孩子了。真的是太可恨了。我觉得起码要把他们暴光。 不过这个事情
: 也许最好找个律师咨询一下，才有可能给小朋友找个公道。
|
y******n
发帖数: 298 | 7 http://www.southlaketimes.com/articles/2011/08/09/southlake_tim
But I have to say, Ms. Lisa is so good. The director doesn't deserve her.... |
y******n
发帖数: 298 | 8 Still waiting for help ~~ |
p*********d
发帖数: 2373 | 9 这家school太可恶了
希望能够有办法惩治他们 |
p*i
发帖数: 1328 | 10 My bad, I was wrong in the previous post. Dept of education deals with
public school system. For your case, I would do 2 things:
1, call your state child abuse hotline and discuss your case with screener -
-time out for unreasonable time is abuse and neglect,
and /or
2, write to your state department of human service commissioner about your
concern, who is usually a lawyer and should respond and transfer your matter
to appropriate agency.
【在 y******n 的大作中提到】
: Still waiting for help ~~
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y******n
发帖数: 298 | 11 Thank you very much for the replying, phi. I will try it out~
-
matter
【在 p*i 的大作中提到】
: My bad, I was wrong in the previous post. Dept of education deals with
: public school system. For your case, I would do 2 things:
: 1, call your state child abuse hotline and discuss your case with screener -
: -time out for unreasonable time is abuse and neglect,
: and /or
: 2, write to your state department of human service commissioner about your
: concern, who is usually a lawyer and should respond and transfer your matter
: to appropriate agency.
|
y******n
发帖数: 298 | 12 I wish so too...So hard...
【在 p*********d 的大作中提到】
: 这家school太可恶了
: 希望能够有办法惩治他们
|
b*******8
发帖数: 348 | 13 你应该在刚发现他们把你孩子关小黑屋的时候就打911 |
l*****r
发帖数: 7130 | 14 给state attorney general office打电话。即使他们不管这事，they should be able to
point you the right direction.
州里应该有专门的机构监管daycare，你们早就应该联系他们了。 |
l******2
发帖数: 2994 | 15 关小黑屋是虐待，这个一定得告！你没必要和其他父母说，不要做法律条款之外的事情
。不要把录音弄到法律之外的公告地方，以为你还要到其他学校给孩子入学。录音你你
的证据，你提醒她录音应该是对的不是威胁，威胁不威胁法律定的不是她说的。 |
y******n
发帖数: 298 | 16 关小黑屋 -- 其实是在一个偏远的小教室里和一个打杂的老师在一起。。。 感谢大家
的建议，我准备找律师咨询一下 -- 心里觉得没什么信心。。。 |
