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w**u
发帖数: 57
1
学的专业是不喜欢的
也不知道自己到底喜欢啥
每天都在问自己同一个问题,我到底喜欢做什么,我到底能做什么,每天都不知道这个问题的答案。
天天没有让自己快乐起来的能力!!!
对于未来啥也看不清楚,每天就是当一天和尚撞一天钟
我想也许没有几个留学生和我一样吧?!
f******l
发帖数: 710
2
No matter what you do, how good or bad you are doing, you are just simply li
ving day by day within less than 100 years of human life. Think about that.

个问题的答案。

【在 w**u 的大作中提到】
: 学的专业是不喜欢的
: 也不知道自己到底喜欢啥
: 每天都在问自己同一个问题,我到底喜欢做什么,我到底能做什么,每天都不知道这个问题的答案。
: 天天没有让自己快乐起来的能力!!!
: 对于未来啥也看不清楚,每天就是当一天和尚撞一天钟
: 我想也许没有几个留学生和我一样吧?!

a****f
发帖数: 944
3
I'm in exactly the same situation as yours.
I've been counting days for 3 years, and don't know how much longer this
PhD will take...
the research work became heavy and I also started to work harder this year
in order to graduate soon. However, things are often contradictory to your
willings. Conflicts with my advisor become more and more in tension...
I can't be happy either, no matter what exciting events are surrounding
me. I don't know how long I can survive under this torture.

个问题的答案。

【在 w**u 的大作中提到】
: 学的专业是不喜欢的
: 也不知道自己到底喜欢啥
: 每天都在问自己同一个问题,我到底喜欢做什么,我到底能做什么,每天都不知道这个问题的答案。
: 天天没有让自己快乐起来的能力!!!
: 对于未来啥也看不清楚,每天就是当一天和尚撞一天钟
: 我想也许没有几个留学生和我一样吧?!

n*****o
发帖数: 58
4
拿个master quit吧
d*****u
发帖数: 17243
5
Many Chinese students are like that.
If you are really serious about doing research, try your best to transfer to
a major you truly like.
Otherwise you have two options. One is to push yourself harder and get it
done. The other is to transfer to a master program of statistics, computer
science etc. Those programs are assignment-oriented and once you follow the
rules, you can graduate.

个问题的答案。

【在 w**u 的大作中提到】
: 学的专业是不喜欢的
: 也不知道自己到底喜欢啥
: 每天都在问自己同一个问题,我到底喜欢做什么,我到底能做什么,每天都不知道这个问题的答案。
: 天天没有让自己快乐起来的能力!!!
: 对于未来啥也看不清楚,每天就是当一天和尚撞一天钟
: 我想也许没有几个留学生和我一样吧?!

a****f
发帖数: 944
6
I'm in CS. However, there are no rules to follow. The advisor is the boss
and controls everything. It doesn't matter how much work you've done and how
long you have stayed, he can block your graduation any time.
Even if you work hard it's still difficult to speed up the progress if your
advisor doesn't cooperate. He can intentionally delay your progress by
holding off the data or something like that.
Anyway, he controls you and you can't get away. So, don't work too har---if
your advisor planned

【在 d*****u 的大作中提到】
: Many Chinese students are like that.
: If you are really serious about doing research, try your best to transfer to
: a major you truly like.
: Otherwise you have two options. One is to push yourself harder and get it
: done. The other is to transfer to a master program of statistics, computer
: science etc. Those programs are assignment-oriented and once you follow the
: rules, you can graduate.
:
: 个问题的答案。

d*****u
发帖数: 17243
7
I was talking about master's. PhD is the same for all majors, only depending
on school/boss.

how
your
if

【在 a****f 的大作中提到】
: I'm in CS. However, there are no rules to follow. The advisor is the boss
: and controls everything. It doesn't matter how much work you've done and how
: long you have stayed, he can block your graduation any time.
: Even if you work hard it's still difficult to speed up the progress if your
: advisor doesn't cooperate. He can intentionally delay your progress by
: holding off the data or something like that.
: Anyway, he controls you and you can't get away. So, don't work too har---if
: your advisor planned

i********m
发帖数: 934
8
我一样。加我一个。。。唉
a****i
发帖数: 1182
9
你硕士毕业怎么有六年的经验了?算了本科?
可以试试转统计或者找ICC

【在 i********m 的大作中提到】
: 我一样。加我一个。。。唉
w**k
发帖数: 1455
10
I was in the same situation. I think it would be better if you can take a
break right after college, such as working for 1 or 2 years before going to
graduate school.

个问题的答案。

【在 w**u 的大作中提到】
: 学的专业是不喜欢的
: 也不知道自己到底喜欢啥
: 每天都在问自己同一个问题,我到底喜欢做什么,我到底能做什么,每天都不知道这个问题的答案。
: 天天没有让自己快乐起来的能力!!!
: 对于未来啥也看不清楚,每天就是当一天和尚撞一天钟
: 我想也许没有几个留学生和我一样吧?!

w**u
发帖数: 57
11
I wanna take one year off and tour around the country. hahaha.
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