Y*****2
发帖数: 38613 | 1 ． 在家里墙上乱涂乱画。
外国小孩：这是绘画天性的体现，值得鼓励。
咱小时候：一顿毒打。
2． 放学家长来接的晚了，自己先直接回家了。
外国小孩：这是探索精神的体现，值得鼓励。
咱小时候：一顿毒打。
3． 玩得一身全是泥土很脏的回到家。
外国小孩：这是孩子的天性，值得鼓励。
咱小时候：一顿毒打。
4． 带异性小朋友回家玩被家长发现。
外国小孩：这么早就学会和异性沟通，值得鼓励。
咱小时候：一顿毒打。
5． 考试成绩不理想。
外国小孩：人难免有失误的时候，值得鼓励。
咱小时候：一顿毒打。
6．在外面和别的小朋友打架了。
外国小孩：孩子嘛，不懂事很正常。
咱小时候：一顿毒打。
7． 吃饭时掉的哪哪儿都是。
外国小孩：告诉他不能浪费，都捡起来吃了就好。
咱小时候：一顿毒打。
8． 痴迷于某些兴趣爱好，废寝忘食。
外国小孩：多些爱好是好事情，值得鼓励。
咱小时候：一顿毒打。
9． 看课外书影响休息。
外国小孩：没事的，不要打扰孩子的专注，值得鼓励。
咱小时候：一顿毒打。
10. 和父母意见不统一，发生争执时。
外国小孩：大家公平讨论，各抒己见。
咱小时候：一顿毒打。
最后：强调声明咱绝对不是崇洋媚外，但咱的教育方式确实需要改进。
不过话说回来，我们虽然从小就遭到不断地毒打，我们还是依然的茁壮成长！ |
c********e
发帖数: 6158 | 2 zt? if original, your parents are too violent...
【在 Y*****2 的大作中提到】
: ． 在家里墙上乱涂乱画。
: 外国小孩：这是绘画天性的体现，值得鼓励。
: 咱小时候：一顿毒打。
: 2． 放学家长来接的晚了，自己先直接回家了。
: 外国小孩：这是探索精神的体现，值得鼓励。
: 咱小时候：一顿毒打。
: 3． 玩得一身全是泥土很脏的回到家。
: 外国小孩：这是孩子的天性，值得鼓励。
: 咱小时候：一顿毒打。
: 4． 带异性小朋友回家玩被家长发现。
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Y*****2
发帖数: 38613 | 3 不是original, 我爸妈从来不打我。。。
【在 c********e 的大作中提到】
: zt? if original, your parents are too violent...
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l*****z
发帖数: 13617 | 4 我不打娃，有时候会唠叨几句。。。
我最喜欢看他小时候玩得满身是土是泥，多好玩哪！还看着他乐此不疲的撒尿和泥呢！ |
c********e
发帖数: 6158 | 5 en, lulu is a good mother...
【在 l*****z 的大作中提到】
: 我不打娃，有时候会唠叨几句。。。
: 我最喜欢看他小时候玩得满身是土是泥，多好玩哪！还看着他乐此不疲的撒尿和泥呢！
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l*****z
发帖数: 13617 | 6 嗯，俺劳工说我溺爱，不求上进。。。说我总寻求心的快乐和自由，被社会抛弃，教出
来的娃没有竞争力。。。
【在 c********e 的大作中提到】
: en, lulu is a good mother...
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c********e
发帖数: 6158 | 7 happiness is the most important thing, right? and how he knows that your son
won't have competitiveness later?
【在 l*****z 的大作中提到】
: 嗯，俺劳工说我溺爱，不求上进。。。说我总寻求心的快乐和自由，被社会抛弃，教出
: 来的娃没有竞争力。。。
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a****e
发帖数: 1560 | 8 happiness is not being happy at all time or being easy in life. Happiness
could come from hardship, from struggle, and
from fight. Those who never experienced adversity, misfortune or affliction
will not appreciate a variety of happiness in
life and will have a narrow definition of happiness
son
【在 c********e 的大作中提到】
: happiness is the most important thing, right? and how he knows that your son
: won't have competitiveness later?
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c********e
发帖数: 6158 | 9 different people have different explanation, i guess..
and for a little boy, he will have the opportunity to experience all the
things you just mentioned later. his mom does not need to creat any
intentionally now.
affliction
【在 a****e 的大作中提到】
: happiness is not being happy at all time or being easy in life. Happiness
: could come from hardship, from struggle, and
: from fight. Those who never experienced adversity, misfortune or affliction
: will not appreciate a variety of happiness in
: life and will have a narrow definition of happiness
:
: son
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a****e
发帖数: 1560 | 10 We know what made spoiled kids and what shock they would experience later on
in life. Or their parents could let them
be better prepared. Not to be harsh, but to give kids opportunities to grow
up openminded. Parents have to choose
wisely.
【在 c********e 的大作中提到】
: different people have different explanation, i guess..
: and for a little boy, he will have the opportunity to experience all the
: things you just mentioned later. his mom does not need to creat any
: intentionally now.
:
: affliction
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Y*****2
发帖数: 38613 | 11 我爸妈从小不spoil我....
所以我现在使劲spoil我自己。。。。。
on
grow
【在 a****e 的大作中提到】
: We know what made spoiled kids and what shock they would experience later on
: in life. Or their parents could let them
: be better prepared. Not to be harsh, but to give kids opportunities to grow
: up openminded. Parents have to choose
: wisely.
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c********e
发帖数: 6158 | 12 even for "spoiled", different people may have different definition for it. i
didnot see any spoiling behavior from the following: "我最喜欢看他小时候玩得满
身是土是泥，多好玩哪！还看着他乐此不疲的撒尿和泥呢！寻求心的快乐和自由..."
and being spoiled is totally different from being loved...
on
grow
【在 a****e 的大作中提到】
: We know what made spoiled kids and what shock they would experience later on
: in life. Or their parents could let them
: be better prepared. Not to be harsh, but to give kids opportunities to grow
: up openminded. Parents have to choose
: wisely.
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