P*********t
发帖数: 4451 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 Family 讨论区 】
发信人: wizardh (wizard), 信区: Family
标 题: 大过不言责—我看马李事件
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Mar 9 04:31:50 2010, 美东)
中国有句话叫大恩不言谢。我在这里引申以下，补个下句：大过不言责。当然这个
山寨的版本自然不像正版那样是至理名言，但也有几分道理。就夫妻之间而言，如果对
方犯了一个小的过错，如果你不责备他，他可能认识不到自己的错误。如果对方犯了大
错误，他心里一定已经很内疚了。如果你再横加指责，其效果只会适得其反。在马李事
件中，wilson 和ma nan 肯定是算犯大错的。当然，wilson的妻子知道真相以后一哭，
二闹那是人之常情。但是哭过闹过以后，就应该勇敢面对这个局面。揪住对方的过错不
放是很不妥的，那样只会把对方越推越远。如今，小马（wilson的妻子）把wilson 和
ma nan 的信息公开，让大家站在道德的制高点把他们订历史的耻辱柱上。那绝对是一
个比他们所犯的错误更大的过错。事实上，wilson已经没有回头路了。或许，他们原来
会为自 | P*********t
发帖数: 4451 | 2 Talking about PI (Private Investigator)
When I was in my divorce process, a couple of times, I have had people
walking up to me and told me someone was taking picture of me from the side.
I knew right away, that she hired PI, trying to collect some "stuff"...
But that was a waste, she didn't have to. I ended up gave her everything she
wanted, left absolutely no asset to myself, and never even went to court.
To me, that's the only kind of divorce a man should do.
Since then I have seen or he | v*******y
发帖数: 5530 | 3
people
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 有歧义哦
side.
she
with
payment
【在 P*********t 的大作中提到】
: Talking about PI (Private Investigator)
: When I was in my divorce process, a couple of times, I have had people
: walking up to me and told me someone was taking picture of me from the side.
: I knew right away, that she hired PI, trying to collect some "stuff"...
: But that was a waste, she didn't have to. I ended up gave her everything she
: wanted, left absolutely no asset to myself, and never even went to court.
: To me, that's the only kind of divorce a man should do.
: Since then I have seen or he
| P*********t
发帖数: 4451 | 4 haha...
【在 v*******y 的大作中提到】
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: people
: ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 有歧义哦
: side.
: she
: with
: payment
| a***i
发帖数: 1522 | 5 太长，呼唤简洁版娱乐摘要。
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: haha...
| l********a
发帖数: 95 | | d*****e
发帖数: 7368 | 7 不能不赞， 实在没法看那个长的。
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| a***i
发帖数: 1522 | 8 这个要赞，包子鼓励！
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谁家的mm这么油菜，人才要挖掘提鞋啊。
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