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The short answer is, not really, and it depends. I was super skinny the bulk
of my life. Girls didn''t like it.
I started working out and was cut but still skinny. Girls liked me a lot
more when they saw me with shirt off or something form fitting, versus not.
I was just thin. Couldn’t help it.
I worked really hard to put on weight. I started drinking protein shakes and
weightgainers. I would stop after a while of seeing no results, then start
back up etc.
I never stopped working out though. I was extremely consistent with that. I
decided to try weightgainer shakes again. Actually followed the instructions
verbatim, and put in weight pretty fast. Like 15 pounds.
My body had changed. My chest was wide. I could move my pectoral muscles. My
metabolism slowed and I started to put on weight and muscle easier. I
started getting the “looks” that you get from girls when they like what
they see.
If your a skinny dude, you better have a dynamite face. If your average like
most of us, you will not fare well.
When girls say they care more about what’s on the inside, it''''s bullshit.
When girls say they care more about the persons personality traits, it''''s
bullshit.
A good personality, sense of humor and compassion only works if the girl is
attracted to you.
If she''''s not, she won''''t care how sweet or funny you are. You can take
my advice, as a person who''''s lived through the skinny phase from
elementary all the way through HS, up until I was about 23.
Freshman year of HS I was 105 lbs. No joke. I stand between 6ft and 6ft1.
When I tell you my dating life changed, it was like night and day.
Still the same person, but girls wanted to be with me now, and not just be
friends. Girls who weren’t interested in me before, became interested.
Girls staring directly at my chest as I''m talking to them or walking pass
them.
This stuff never happen when I was super skinny. Girls like skinny guys if
they look like a Model or play in a band or rap. You see these unattractive
Rappers and Rock Stars with their entourages don''''t you?? Lol.
One of my good friends is a really good looking guy. We’d go out and girls
would literally fall all over him, without him even trying. I never seen
anything like it lol. They didn''''t know a thing about him on the inside.
Don''''t listen to that crap.
That''t important once a girl gets to know you. Men and Women are visual. No
matter how much a woman tries to lie to you about it.
I bet your probably an awesome guy. Workout. Build some muscle, and meet
some fantastic people. You deserve it too man. |
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