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areyoufly (花开了) 于 (Sun Jan 16 00:13:27 2011, 美东) 提到:
今天和BF逛街回来, 不知为何很想和他谈谈.最近从去年9月开始, 到圣诞节都很好很好
. 我很爱他, 他也说我是lovely person...
年纪都大了, 我试探得告他, 中国人的春节很重要, 2月是情人节, 是最好的MARRY
TIME...
今天他说, 2月太早了... 我听了,有点不快, 知道他很好, 但是欧洲人, 单身很多年..
.他有他的STYLE, 也很了解尊重中国文化.最近我的工作项目也不稳定, 在寻找CLIENT
中... 有可能RELOCATE, 他也知道.
是否他太实际了?
不知道, 该这么办
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verithas (这货不是猫) 于 (Sun Jan 16 01:56:35 2011, 美东) 提到:
抢亲！
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tucsonmale (你我皆烦人生在人世间) 于 (Sun Jan 16 02:24:28 2011, 美东) 提到:
佛说，人生有八苦：生老病死四苦，怨憎会苦，爱别离苦，五取蕴苦，求不得苦。
外F而求不得，人生第九苦。
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kakasweet (sweety) 于 (Sun Jan 16 02:36:43 2011, 美东) 提到:
深刻而幽默
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littlehei (嘿嘿) 于 (Sun Jan 16 02:46:55 2011, 美东) 提到:
no way
lovely person这种话随便说说的， 严肃地说 I love you才算有点意思
再加上老单身汉都不靠谱
谈不谈下去还有问题， 别说结婚了
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goaway (go+away.) 于 (Sun Jan 16 04:05:53 2011, 美东) 提到:
You didn't get the "I love you" back. And you are still considering marriage?
Chinese girls are too naive.
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dreadlord (Swadian Knight) 于 (Sun Jan 16 04:53:24 2011, 美东) 提到:
中国妇女们是不是应该至少先了解一下洋人文化再本着结婚的目的去date洋人捏？
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kariya2004 (kariya2004) 于 (Sun Jan 16 04:58:47 2011, 美东) 提到:
lovely person.... dam.... he don't even consider this is a serious
relationship.
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goldcoin (巴依老爷) 于 (Sun Jan 16 04:59:45 2011, 美东) 提到:
让人白玩了，再一逼婚，看来离被甩不远了
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jiaqi (我是考拉) 于 (Sun Jan 16 05:39:29 2011, 美东) 提到:
拜托，你对自己有个准确的定位好伐？还Lovely person，草
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koosunlei (bunny2) 于 (Sun Jan 16 05:54:32 2011, 美东) 提到:
我一向认为这个世界只有强奸， 没有逼婚的。 结婚是2个人的事， 如果有一方不愿意
， 那就不要往前走。 走了会很危险。
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chinapride (TOUGHTOUGH) 于 (Sun Jan 16 07:13:57 2011, 美东) 提到:
这个男的要是个WSN,风言风语就上来了
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ru1117 (hailing) 于 (Sun Jan 16 08:31:02 2011, 美东) 提到:
haha! 真言啊!
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lsunspot (小雀斑) 于 (Sun Jan 16 08:31:16 2011, 美东) 提到:
姐你连英语都听不懂
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simva (小铁匠) 于 (Sun Jan 16 08:36:31 2011, 美东) 提到:
wsn们怎么都这么不厚道捏。。。女生仇嫁多正常啊
不过劝妹妹退一步想想，结婚也就是一张纸而已。。。
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dancingrose (留得青山在) 于 (Sun Jan 16 08:38:15 2011, 美东) 提到:
没有最晕只有更晕，他是你bf吗？
找个靠谱的行不行
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bigmouth007 (big mouth) 于 (Sun Jan 16 09:31:11 2011, 美东) 提到:
典型的外F下场。建议顶置本贴。
很多国女莫名其妙地觉得老外多好，其实人家就是玩玩。她们被玩了，还要找借口，说
什么老外是好人啦，是认真的啦。你见过想玩你的人和你说就想玩你吗？
我生活中遇到两个外F，一个被拖了2年，被甩，然后找国男，可惜她和老外的名声已经
丑了，虽然长得还成，现在36-7了，但还在找。另外一个成天泡到巴里去找老外，碰到一个干了她半年，才知道人家还没离婚，而且总是找各种原因不结婚。
最后告诉楼主，你那个老外男朋友说什么2月太早了，都是借口，其实他是否想和你结
婚，在干你1个月以内就基本定了。如果他愿意结婚，原则上就应该答应，办手续，婚
礼可以拖后。
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Smurf2011 (Smurf) 于 (Sun Jan 16 09:36:20 2011, 美东) 提到:
So naive. Unbelievable.
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smmyst (smmyst) 于 (Sun Jan 16 10:00:35 2011, 美东) 提到:
外F对某些高加索人种果然宽容至极；要是换成蒙古人种，早就骂人家WSN不靠谱骗床之
类的了。。。换成高加索人种，一句“太实际”，哈哈，可悲啊。。。
楼主换人吧，男人女人都是贱的，男人看到女人扑上来也是怕的，一般都是玩过就算了
。。。
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limesoda (limesoda) 于 (Sun Jan 16 10:05:11 2011, 美东) 提到:
不觉得外嫁有错，爱人自己想找啥样就是啥样，这是人家自己的事。但是lz一定要有鉴
定人的能力，不光是外男，国男结了婚玩小三的有嫌少的啊！
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catsister (googoo) 于 (Sun Jan 16 10:05:57 2011, 美东) 提到:
^^....LZ has a very interesting logic when she approached this. But, do
people normally have the conversation of the timeline of relationship before
one of them jump to getting married in a month proposal?
I do agree with people here. When he described you as a lovely person,
rather saying he loves you, it might not be a good sign.
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nelolo (LOLO) 于 (Sun Jan 16 10:10:21 2011, 美东) 提到:
他对你的最高评价是lovely person？没有说过love you或者至少like you？
就这样，你俩怎么确定就是对方的BF/GF了呢？
而且从9月到现在才4个月不到，他还是个单身了很久的人……楼主，说实话你真觉得这
事情靠谱？？
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W4049 (Alasia) 于 (Sun Jan 16 10:20:57 2011, 美东) 提到:
ask for marriage, en, womam asks for marriage, it is not normal, probably
result will be negative.
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Smurf2011 (Smurf) 于 (Sun Jan 16 10:25:26 2011, 美东) 提到:
It is not about her asking for marriage. It is about under what
circumstances she asked.
Apparently, he does not love her.
Wake up, LZ.
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W4049 (Alasia) 于 (Sun Jan 16 10:25:42 2011, 美东) 提到:
逼婚, push push and push until you get there
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Supersaiyan (珠珠) 于 (Sun Jan 16 11:07:14 2011, 美东) 提到:
不想等就问,不同意就分.
我最不待见别人说"女人不能逼婚",
姻缘是等不来的.他未必是一时不想和你结婚,可能是一世不想和你结婚.
不问就给骑驴找马创造了机会.
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iceageinfire (t665) 于 (Sun Jan 16 11:10:51 2011, 美东) 提到:
9月才开始好起来的，现在就提结婚是早了点。。。 至少也等summer的时候才说吧。
据说老外说I love u的时候应该离订婚不远了（花花公子除外，我指认真要找结婚对象
的老外）
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ilovebf (想长胖) 于 (Sun Jan 16 11:19:59 2011, 美东) 提到:
MM去文学城网站的“跨国婚恋”去问，那里的国女可以给你提供很好的意见。
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virginshaka (Gothic Princess) 于 (Sun Jan 16 11:21:45 2011, 美东) 提到:
Don't be hurry. He is not ready yet. If he really loves you. He will make
the first step. Let it come naturally.
My bf and I knew each other last July. Our serious relationship began from
October. Until now I still think everything goes too fast for me. It's just like a dream.
So...be patient. Pay your attention on something else. Everything will be
fine.
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coldwear (一朵云) 于 (Sun Jan 16 11:35:15 2011, 美东) 提到:
Most europeans stay single even when they have kids... If marriage is that
important to you, I suggest you move on
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tinyfox (阿糊) 于 (Sun Jan 16 11:44:21 2011, 美东) 提到:
nod
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bmwcar (也————) 于 (Sun Jan 16 12:00:18 2011, 美东) 提到:
男人如果过了30还从没结婚，大概就是根本不想结婚的人了
另外对楼主和其他外F，只能说多保重
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choi (choi) 于 (Sun Jan 16 12:04:35 2011, 美东) 提到:
A single man originally from Taiwan, I have lived in US for a quarter century.
Taiwanese do not care who another person may date or marry. That is not our
business.
I will give you advice.
(a) Neither in Taiwan nor in the West, a person--a man or a woman--can force
another another to marry him or her. So I disagree with Supersaiyan for
saying 我最不待见别人说"女人不能逼婚.
(b) Every Sunday New York Times (NYT) publishes free wedding announcemnets
in Style section (Washington Post also has it).* When the story (how we met
or how tortuous, off-and -on the courtship was) is interesting, NYT tells it
(NYT verifies things, so a couple can not give a tall tale).
* It is in its website too. Go to today's home page and it is "Weddings and
Celebrations" in the midline of the mid-page. Tell you the truth, I have
religiously study this section every Sunday for 1 1/2 decades once I stumped
upon it. Few people in this world will honestly tell you things like that.
At the very least, one can learn about Americana. (Your boyfriend is
European and I have never been there. So I do not want to prentend I
understand them, Europeans. The fact is, I do not.)
Reading it will get you acquainted with what to do when one half of a couple
declines or refuses to get married.
The short answer is the other person will leave a relationship. If the first
person get lovesick--you know, humans treasure things often after they (
things) are lost--they get married. If not, the go separate ways. The catch
is, the other person may regret years or DECADES later (after their separate
spouses died).
My observation in all those who get married (again in NYT) after long
separation (again years or decades long) is when the other person reaches
back, the first person takes him or her back, without being hostile. This is
the key. Get it?
If one can not wait years or decades, if one can not keep his or her anger,
hurt under wraps, the person will blow it. Just like my former girlfriend
did.
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icecool1748 (ICE) 于 (Sun Jan 16 12:18:58 2011, 美东) 提到:
你讲的太深奥，外F不懂
外F主要研究gangjiao群p磕白粉。
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icecool1748 (ICE) 于 (Sun Jan 16 12:19:33 2011, 美东) 提到:
I would like to change the last word from "naive" to "cheap"
marriage?
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icecool1748 (ICE) 于 (Sun Jan 16 12:22:29 2011, 美东) 提到:
1) 人家都没当你是GF， 顶多是炮友
lovely person和 I love 差海里去了
从lovely person 到 I love you 大概 概率只有1/20
2) 老外就是说I love you, 和 marriage 也差10万八千里
以前一个统计说白人一生平均要和37个适龄女性说 I love you 这句话
帮你做个分析你们结婚的概率是
1/20 * 1/37
可以move on 找下家了。
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smaller (雪千寻) 于 (Sun Jan 16 12:34:34 2011, 美东) 提到:
好奇问问lz男朋友欧洲哪里人呀？
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icecool1748 (ICE) 于 (Sun Jan 16 12:38:50 2011, 美东) 提到:
来自土耳其的那个3%的欧洲领土部分
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fandehen (烦得很) 于 (Sun Jan 16 12:49:22 2011, 美东) 提到:
上面有些人说话虽然很难听，但是也指出了一个事实，你这个朋友如果只说你是一个可
爱的人的话，那99％他没有把你当成女朋友。你可以明确问他有没有结婚的意图，如果
没有的话，你可以换人。
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bluemyth (BM) 于 (Sun Jan 16 12:54:30 2011, 美东) 提到:
你说你“很爱他“
而他只说你是个”lovely person“。。。
你的问题竟然是”是否他太实际了“。。。 你内心其实很清楚，实际不实际根本不是
这里的基本矛盾。。。
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asimove (阿瑟) 于 (Sun Jan 16 13:09:58 2011, 美东) 提到:
ft,你傻了吧，不明白lovely person什么意思？
对谁都能说的
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RoamingGhost (游魂) 于 (Sun Jan 16 13:15:13 2011, 美东) 提到:
这个男的是想到中国操贱外F的，他得玩够了，才能回答你这个问题。
中国外F世界闻名。哪个老外到中国不得玩个至少五六个外F？，还都是免费。
反正我看到的老外，即使再穷再烂，也有外F上。
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oceaneyes (oceaneyes) 于 (Sun Jan 16 13:22:09 2011, 美东) 提到:
连这样你还都不理解他只是把你当free bitch吗？ 你也太傻了吧。
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baddino (margrit) 于 (Sun Jan 16 13:36:49 2011, 美东) 提到:
显然他对结婚还没有考虑成熟。
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myra (我没有心事往事只有只蚂蚁) 于 (Sun Jan 16 13:40:21 2011, 美东) 提到:
这些人说话也太难听了。
从你的描述看你们的关系似乎确实有些一头热。现在你把你的愿望说出来了也好，下面
就看他怎么反应吧。其实他说的二月太快了也不一定是不愿意结婚的意思，现在说二月
确实有些仓促啊。你们见没见过双方家长啊？不管那个洲的人也不能连这些都不管吧。
现在你的处境是他如果根本就不打算很你长期发展估计听了你着话就要开始撤了。这也
未尝不是好事。如果他接下来对你越来越好，并且开始谈论未来的打算，那就是时间太
短他还没往那边想。结婚是两个人的事，也不能说女的就应该被动地等着男的开口，你
也不用懊恼。他如果也很爱你，只是还没准备好，你就应该给他点时间。同时用你对未
来的信心征服他，偶尔带出一两句我们以后如何如何，孩子怎样怎样的话，潜移默化间
让他自动觉得特别想跟你结婚，而不是被逼无奈。
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choi (choi) 于 (Sun Jan 16 13:43:23 2011, 美东) 提到:
My dear. You are right in that precarious time (no, I am not talking about
ovulation). Look before you jump. Do not let hormones mess up your brain--or
judgment.
(1) Online dating l Love at First Byte; Online-dating sites have made it
easier for people to click with one another. But they still leave something
to be desired. Economist, Dec 29, 2010.
http://www.economist.com/node
/17797424?story_id=17797424&fsrc=rss
Quote:
"FOR the lovelorn, the new year can be an unhappy time, as they cast envious
glances in the direction of lovey-dovey couples at the season’s parties.
For online-dating agencies, it is a golden opportunity, as people who have
spent the holidays ruminating over unsatisfactory or non-existent love lives
log on in their thousands, hoping to find romance—ideally before February
14th. “The period between New Year’s Day and Valentine’s Day is our
busiest six weeks of the year,” explains Sam Yagan, the boss of OkCupid, a
big American dating site.
My comment:
(a) Statistics show that for a couple, the time leading to Valentine's day
is the most treacherous of a year. People dump or get dumped--to get a new
start, to save money for a gift that one no longer love, etc.
(b) Harrison means "son of Harry."
(c) I have not heard of Zoosk, but I am not on the market.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zoosk
(based in San Francisco; Launched 2007)
(d) http://JiaYuan.com 佳缘网
http://ZhenAi.com 珍爱网
(e) For Ave Maria, see Hail Mary
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hail_Mary
(Hail Mary, or Ave Maria (Latin) is a traditional biblical catholic prayer
asking for the intercession of the Virgin Mary; section 1 Biblical source: "
In mid-13th-century")
(f) Cupidtino is a play on Cupertino, California
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cupertino, California
(best known as home to — and worldwide headquarters of — Apple, Inc.;
section 1 Name origin)
(g) The article stated a study "concluded that among heterosexual couples
who met in 2009, the internet had become the third most common way of making
initial contact—behind introductions from friends, but almost on a par
with encounters in bars and restaurants.
I am surprised that in bars and restaurants one can find a future spouse.
Then I thought again. The wedding announcements in Sunday's New York Times
occasionally record this phenomenon: the announcements probes thinkings of
the couple who at first blush tend to pooh pooh the idea of meeting someone
serious in those places. My guess a suiot will have to bend over backward to
demonstrate that the perosn is not a playboy or playgirl.
(h) starry-eyed (adj): "regarding an object or a prospect in an overly
favorable light; specifically : characterized by dreamy, impracticable, or
utopian thinking" www.m-w.com
(i) The article continued, "One is its ability to create large pools of
potential partners that would be hard to replicate in the real world. This
explains why online dating has proven especially popular with, for example,
homosexuals.
I always has a soft spot for people in minority.
(j) The article mention Plentyoffish. I thought it was an adjective ending
with "ish." No.
Plentyof Fish
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PlentyofFish
(Founded 2003; Headquarters Vancouver, Canada)
(k) IAC (company)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IAC_(company)
((legal name: IAC/InterActiveCorp); an internet company; The Chairman and
Senior Executive is Barry Diller)
(l) assignation (n): "an appointment of time and place for a meeting;
especially : tryst
Yeats>"
(m) A few days ago, USA Today published a chart at left lower corner of page
A1. I don't have access to the paper now. But you will be surprised that
how many people confessed they made up their social networking web pages. (
to be continued in a few days).
(n) The article talked about niche web dating websites.
* Stephanie Rosenbloom, Narrowing the Field Before Playing It. New York
Times, Jan 6, 2011.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/06/fashion
/06Niche.html?_r=1&scp=3&sq=dating%20online&st=cse
("WHOM do you want to date? A bookworm? A beauty queen? A virgin?")
Many Chinese are obssessed with virginity of their future spouse. It is fine
with me. I just want to tell them there are sites like this.
* Hannah Seligson, You're Reading That Book Too? Marry Me. New trends in
online matchingmaking. Wall Street Journal (WSJ), Sept 17, 2010.
http://online.wsj.com/article
/SB10001424052748703466704575490210959002350.html
Marcel Proust
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marcel_Proust
(1871-1922; French)
The report inte4rviewed a guy named China Ma. Well, we have a football
player named Taiwan Jones, of Eastern Washington University.
http://www.goeags.com/sports/m-footbl
/2010-11/bios/jones%20taiwan00.html
Attaboy!
http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/attaboy
century. * * *
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hamachi (hamachi) 于 (Sun Jan 16 13:49:09 2011, 美东) 提到:
欧洲人最不靠谱，能断趁早断。
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blackgirl911 (sweet糖糖) 于 (Sun Jan 16 14:20:26 2011, 美东) 提到:
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beach99 (beach99) 于 (Sun Jan 16 14:27:29 2011, 美东) 提到:
sigh
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Routiao (肉条) 于 (Sun Jan 16 14:42:50 2011, 美东) 提到:
看不出来你们是情侣关系，更别提结婚了。
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CLIENT
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StevenLow (CrossLayer) 于 (Sun Jan 16 14:47:46 2011, 美东) 提到:
fuck了吗
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choi (choi) 于 (Sun Jan 16 14:48:27 2011, 美东) 提到:
(1) 外F? The same old issue.
I do not know about you. But I have a tin ear.
http://www.answers.com/topic/tin-ear-rock-band
(etymology: From the idea of metal being incapable of sensation)
China, but not Taiwan, has a phrase 我是婊子我怕誰.
(2) In my second year in US, around 1985, an American friend told me that a
fiend of his, a dental student with University of Illinois, had a Taiwanese
girlfriend. (Both were white male college students.) Half a year later, I
was told that they borke up. I did not feel anything. Things happen.
(3) Lev Grossman, 2010 Person of the Year Mark Zuckerburg. Time, Dec 27,
2010 (cover date).
http://www.time.com/time/specials/packages
/article/0,28804,2036683_2037183,00.html
Quote:
"Almost seven years ago, in February 2004, when Zuckerberg was a 19-year-old
sophomore at Harvard, he started a Web service from his dorm. It was called
Thefacebook.com, and it was billed as 'an online directory that connects
people through social networks at colleges.' This year, Facebook — now
minus the the — added its 550 millionth member. One out of every dozen
people on the planet has a Facebook account.
"He's not a physically imposing presence: maybe 5 ft. 8 in. (173 cm), with a
Roman nose, a bantam-rooster chest and a close-fitting cap of curly brown
hair. He dresses like a frat boy, in T-shirts and jeans * * * In the movie [
Social Networking], this played as him looking down his nose at you, but in
real life it's more like he's standing on his tiptoes, trying to see over
something.
"The Zuckerberg of the movie is a simple creature of clear motivations: he
uses his outsize gifts as a programmer to acquire girls, money and party
invitations. This is a fiction. In reality, Zuckerberg already had the girl:
Priscilla Chan, who is now a third-year med student at University of
California, San Francisco. They met at Harvard seven years ago, before he
started Facebook. Now they live together in Palo Alto.
"As for money, his indifference to it is almost pathological. His lifestyle
is modest by most standards but monastic for someone whose personal fortune
was estimated by Forbes at $6.9 billion, a number that puts him ahead of his
Palo Alto neighbor (and fellow college dropout) Steve Jobs. Zuckerberg
lives near his office in a house that he rents. He works constantly; his
only current hobby is studying Chinese. He drives a black Acura TSX, which
for a billionaire is the automotive equivalent of a hair shirt. For
Thanksgiving break, he took his family to the Wizarding World of Harry
Potter in Orlando. He bought a wand at Ollivander’s.
"Zuckerberg has a personal connection to the teaching profession — Chan
taught grade school after Harvard
"China has blocked the site [Facebook] since 2009.
Note:
(a) Aquiline nose
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aquiline_nose
(The word aquiline comes from the Latin word aquilinus ("eagle-like"), a
reference to the curved beak of an eagle)
(b) Bantam (poultry)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bantam_(poultry)
(A bantam is a small variety of poultry, especially chickens. Etymologically
, the name bantam is derived from the city of Bantam) in the western tip of
Java island
(c) The print edition but not online version of Time magazine has a photo
of Ms. Chan--along with the entire Zuckerbergs, in Orlando. See Quotation 4.
(d) Also in the print is a map. Under Japan: "1,773,640 [users;] In Japan,
users can post their blood type on their profile--the only regional
variation on the site"
* * *
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Routiao (肉条) 于 (Sun Jan 16 14:48:27 2011, 美东) 提到:
many times according to lz's post
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StevenLow (CrossLayer) 于 (Sun Jan 16 14:49:28 2011, 美东) 提到:
也算情侣关系的一部分吧
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Routiao (肉条) 于 (Sun Jan 16 14:50:37 2011, 美东) 提到:
嗯，成年人了
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hsr (hsr) 于 (Sun Jan 16 14:57:56 2011, 美东) 提到:
你问问他有没有结婚的打算,他想什么时候结婚,想和什么样的人结婚.
"今天他说, 2月太早了" 如果是中国人这样说,可以理解为 10月就不早了.
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choi (choi) 于 (Sun Jan 16 15:01:57 2011, 美东) 提到:
In my second reply, I just corrected the URL. The correct URL is as follows.
* Hannah Seligson, You're Reading That Book Too? Marry Me. New trends in
online matchingmaking. Wall Street Journal (WSJ), Sept 17, 2010.
http://online.wsj.com/article
/SB10001424052748703466704575490210959002350.html
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Smurf2011 (Smurf) 于 (Sun Jan 16 15:12:17 2011, 美东) 提到:
Choi, you are very tiring.
You feel a little too good for yourself.
follows.
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mitchell1984 (呜呜呜) 于 (Sun Jan 16 16:08:44 2011, 美东) 提到:
我觉得你对自己很不负责任，才DATE不到半年就结婚？？？真的太早了。。我年纪也不
小了，我不愿意这么快就把自己交出去。
欧洲人大多对结婚比中国男人要认真的多（我说的认真多半有点贬义），很多中国人觉
得和你DATE过一定时间就差不多了，欧洲人不是，DATE ８，９年的多的是。
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FDTD (雪路浪遊) 于 (Sun Jan 16 16:11:57 2011, 美东) 提到:
求外F不得且PhD得手，第10苦矣
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lpysuxdd (lddsuxlpy) 于 (Sun Jan 16 16:21:07 2011, 美东) 提到:
外交部
★ Sent from iPhone App: iReader Mitbbs 3.8 - iPhone Lite
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Yobi (11) 于 (Sun Jan 16 16:45:36 2011, 美东) 提到:
欧洲人都不兴结婚的,他们的法律不保护婚姻,MM还是好好想想吧.
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srtp (:)) 于 (Sun Jan 16 16:45:37 2011, 美东) 提到:
悲剧了，呵呵
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yzt2004 (茉儿) 于 (Sun Jan 16 16:48:36 2011, 美东) 提到:
RE~
hahha...same feeling here.
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dizhu2 (俺是da地主) 于 (Sun Jan 16 17:02:49 2011, 美东) 提到:
靠，从首页溜达进来，都没有得到“love you” back，真是个贱货。
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FreeIdea (灵犀) 于 (Sun Jan 16 17:13:24 2011, 美东) 提到:
再稍加一把力，如果还不行估计只有88了
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bittergourd (苦瓜) 于 (Sun Jan 16 17:29:59 2011, 美东) 提到:
白鸟了解中国文化，可惜lz不了解西方的上床文化。
劝lz一句：好好享受Sex，能让你bf给你买点啥就买点啥，然后准备move on.
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cartman2005 (猫猫) 于 (Sun Jan 16 17:31:36 2011, 美东) 提到:
要是wsn敢这么说，早两个大耳光就上来了
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FwB (FwB) 于 (Sun Jan 16 17:32:51 2011, 美东) 提到:
看了楼主的帖子，我也觉得楼主是lovely person，请楼主不要找我逼婚！！
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lalife (lalife) 于 (Sun Jan 16 18:09:47 2011, 美东) 提到:
So naive. Unbelievable.
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zhaandong6 (查安东) 于 (Sun Jan 16 18:12:51 2011, 美东) 提到:
人家就是玩玩而已，你当真了就不好
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zhaandong6 (查安东) 于 (Sun Jan 16 18:18:01 2011, 美东) 提到:
台湾也学习三个代表？
century.
our
force
met
it
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kakasweet (sweety) 于 (Sun Jan 16 18:23:12 2011, 美东) 提到:
move on，他一看就不是能结婚的料
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sweetpizza (羊羊，我是一只羊~~) 于 (Sun Jan 16 18:38:35 2011, 美东) 提到:
lz属于外f里面智商差，eq差，姿色差，的那种。鉴于翻看了你之前的帖子有感。
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ericzhou (E.Z.) 于 (Sun Jan 16 18:54:46 2011, 美东) 提到:
又一个被白玩了的国女，他玩了你多久？
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Smurf2011 (Smurf) 于 (Sun Jan 16 19:01:54 2011, 美东) 提到:
看了楼主以前的帖子，起了我一身的鸡皮疙瘩。
楼主多大了呀？ 还能这么娇情，这么drama。佩服佩服。
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walkingdying (胡锦铸) 于 (Sun Jan 16 19:50:59 2011, 美东) 提到:
英文没学好就外F，悲剧了吧。
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areyoufly (花开了) 于 (Sun Jan 16 19:51:41 2011, 美东) 提到:
婚姻is by fate, not by love. 师姐的名言...
有时退一步好, 海阔天空. 谢谢大家轻拍, 另外, 国男和外男在婚姻方面都会慎重考虑
的...同感
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Smurf2011 (Smurf) 于 (Sun Jan 16 19:55:16 2011, 美东) 提到:
You are still no awake, poor woman.
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gxfcai (高校饭碗) 于 (Sun Jan 16 19:59:25 2011, 美东) 提到:
傻逼外f，贱逼，不过比斯丹浮的格蕾丝高高贵一些，
偷窃中国机密，倒贴给黑阿三的格雷斯高是世界第一贱逼
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alwayskitkat (alwayskitkat) 于 (Sun Jan 16 20:16:18 2011, 美东) 提到:
首先，是恨嫁，不是仇嫁，仇嫁变成不想嫁了
其次，恨嫁没啥不正常，外F女跑到mit上面来诉说恨嫁老外而不得，就别怪大家尤其是
WSN们不客气。本来就是自轻自贱
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alwayskitkat (alwayskitkat) 于 (Sun Jan 16 20:26:35 2011, 美东) 提到:
恩，特别同意第一项。这个基本上就是当你fXcking buddy
第二项要看什么人，有些保守的老美尤其是信教的道德观还是很强的，我碰到过同事里
的老美说他们基本上也是看对了眼恋爱谈一到两年就结婚，结了婚就以家庭为重了，不
过楼主这位欧洲人，估计天马行空，要他考虑结婚有难度
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alwayskitkat (alwayskitkat) 于 (Sun Jan 16 20:29:30 2011, 美东) 提到:
你84年就来美国了？英语水平也太差了吧。偷渡的？
a
Taiwanese
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flemns (flemns) 于 (Sun Jan 16 22:24:04 2011, 美东) 提到:
烂坑
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Eberron (Will u kill someone u love cus of love?) 于 (Mon Jan 17 00:37:45 2011, 美东) 提到:
同= =b
不过楼主也是，人家大概就是玩玩
不过，我还真见过玩玩就说玩玩的，只要俩人都愿意
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as2010 (宁静致远) 于 (Mon Jan 17 09:21:09 2011, 美东) 提到:
是啊，这个对谁都可以说的。起码要说I love you，然后求婚，然后才可能结婚吧。中
间都有差别吧。感觉你们还需要更多沟通。
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Eberron (Will u kill someone u love cus of love?) 于 (Mon Jan 17 09:53:28 2011, 美东) 提到:
也没必要这么骂人家吧……
我不觉得外F有啥不好，要是一男的搞了白妞不想结婚你会骂他傻逼么
性和爱上面男女都是平等的地位，愿打愿挨，只要自己别抱怨。
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areyoufly (花开了) 于 (Mon Jan 17 20:34:11 2011, 美东) 提到:
非常谢谢一些JJMM的建议; 有些经验说的很好...Go naturally, 真诚相对,顺其自然,
比较好.
另外, 北美是liberal and diversified place, love and marriage may go beyond
the races and the cultures. 希望大家不用太狭隘的观点约束自己的思想...
写于Martin Luther King Day, 2011
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Smurf2011 (Smurf) 于 (Mon Jan 17 21:20:03 2011, 美东) 提到:
You are such a drama queen.
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