Y*****2
发帖数: 38613 | 1 我看过一些美国所谓的两性学家写的恋爱的书比如"Why Men Marry Bitches" 和"Why
Men Love Bitches". 也听过一些专家的演讲比如"How to find your soulmate", "How
to meet the love of your life". 然后又看了一些中国，韩国的恋爱专家和女性专
家写的书比如那本韩国的“二十岁的女人必须看得书“。我觉得中西方恋爱文化的差异
很大。
西方的观点：
女性必须要认识到自己想要什么样的人，什么样的生活。 Women are in power when
it comes to dating. Women have the full control.
东方的观点：
女性一定要现实，不要幻想。
西方的观点：
Women are beautiful no matter what color, what age, what type, what weight,
what height as long as women are confident. Men are looking for women who
ar | f*********e
发帖数: 3037 | 2 I think both have their own merits.
For example, everyone needs to survive in reality so it's good to set
realistic expectations, and it does not conflict with pursuing a woman's own
dreams and lifestyle.
Second paragraph have different interpretation of "beauty." Not all women
are created equal and pretty ones will be lucky in many aspects of life.
However, from personal fullfillment point of view, if a woman is not pretty,
but confident in her life, she at least has herself. If a woman is not | Y*****2
发帖数: 38613 | 3 mm说的很好，谢谢
own
pretty,
【在 f*********e 的大作中提到】
: I think both have their own merits.
: For example, everyone needs to survive in reality so it's good to set
: realistic expectations, and it does not conflict with pursuing a woman's own
: dreams and lifestyle.
: Second paragraph have different interpretation of "beauty." Not all women
: are created equal and pretty ones will be lucky in many aspects of life.
: However, from personal fullfillment point of view, if a woman is not pretty,
: but confident in her life, she at least has herself. If a woman is not
| v***a
发帖数: 1242 | 4 觉得你总结得挺好的
韩国的那个女人写的书我也看过，不错
我想这两个能结合起来运用自如就是要追求的境界吧
不一定非得对立起来看
How
【在 Y*****2 的大作中提到】
: 我看过一些美国所谓的两性学家写的恋爱的书比如"Why Men Marry Bitches" 和"Why
: Men Love Bitches". 也听过一些专家的演讲比如"How to find your soulmate", "How
: to meet the love of your life". 然后又看了一些中国，韩国的恋爱专家和女性专
: 家写的书比如那本韩国的“二十岁的女人必须看得书“。我觉得中西方恋爱文化的差异
: 很大。
: 西方的观点：
: 女性必须要认识到自己想要什么样的人，什么样的生活。 Women are in power when
: it comes to dating. Women have the full control.
: 东方的观点：
: 女性一定要现实，不要幻想。
| n**********d
发帖数: 536 | 5 Wow! It's a pretty good point you made. In fact, women educated in both
countries of China and the U.S. will find more effective ways to pursue a
happy life and make their dreams come true.
own
pretty,
【在 f*********e 的大作中提到】
: I think both have their own merits.
: For example, everyone needs to survive in reality so it's good to set
: realistic expectations, and it does not conflict with pursuing a woman's own
: dreams and lifestyle.
: Second paragraph have different interpretation of "beauty." Not all women
: are created equal and pretty ones will be lucky in many aspects of life.
: However, from personal fullfillment point of view, if a woman is not pretty,
: but confident in her life, she at least has herself. If a woman is not
| t**********y
发帖数: 159 | 6 没什么大区别。不同的表述而已，基本上一个意思。
什么叫“女性必须要认识到自己想要什么样的人，什么样的生活。”？就是说“要现实
，不要幻想。”
为什么女人自信就解决一切了？后面你写了因为（西方）男人喜欢这样的。
为什么女人要小鸟依人？后面你写了因为（东方）男人喜欢。
总的来说，就是看男人喜欢什么了。目的都是一个，投其所好，让男人求婚。
具体操作，因人而异。西方男人也有喜欢小鸟依人的，东方也有喜欢独立的。
How
【在 Y*****2 的大作中提到】
: 我看过一些美国所谓的两性学家写的恋爱的书比如"Why Men Marry Bitches" 和"Why
: Men Love Bitches". 也听过一些专家的演讲比如"How to find your soulmate", "How
: to meet the love of your life". 然后又看了一些中国，韩国的恋爱专家和女性专
: 家写的书比如那本韩国的“二十岁的女人必须看得书“。我觉得中西方恋爱文化的差异
: 很大。
: 西方的观点：
: 女性必须要认识到自己想要什么样的人，什么样的生活。 Women are in power when
: it comes to dating. Women have the full control.
: 东方的观点：
: 女性一定要现实，不要幻想。
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