太好了，竟然有人看了。我还没看，只是查了一下wiki,看到这段关于laotong的解释：
Lily's aunt describes a laotong match this way: "'A laotong relationship is
made by choice for the purpose of emotional companionship and eternal
fidelity.
这是一种什么样的relationship啊？什么是laotong？我肿么觉得自己这么out呀。谁有
兴趣给解释解释，参考Wiki http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Snow_Flower_and_the_Secret_Fan
