x**c
发帖数: 1435 | 1 I have three stress factors in life. number 1, my husband does not work. 2.
my parents are in nursing home in China, I feel I have abandoned them. 3.
pressure from work. I feel depressed again because I feel there is nothing i
can do to change any of the stress factors. |
b****d
发帖数: 4648 | 2 Number 1 and 3 are temporary . Number 2, considering to go back or bring
them here?
.
i
【在 x**c 的大作中提到】
: I have three stress factors in life. number 1, my husband does not work. 2.
: my parents are in nursing home in China, I feel I have abandoned them. 3.
: pressure from work. I feel depressed again because I feel there is nothing i
: can do to change any of the stress factors.
|
h*********g
发帖数: 5713 | 3 only number 2 is a temporary stress
and all of these means you are adult and can take the responsibility. |
b****d
发帖数: 4648 | 4 Everyone deals with stresses in his or her own way. Some are stronger,
others are weaker.
Patpat
Baby steps....
【在 h*********g 的大作中提到】
: only number 2 is a temporary stress
: and all of these means you are adult and can take the responsibility.
|
h*********g
发帖数: 5713 | 5 no matter if he/she was weaker or stronger
finally, everyone will get stronger from those stresses
【在 b****d 的大作中提到】
: Everyone deals with stresses in his or her own way. Some are stronger,
: others are weaker.
: Patpat
: Baby steps....
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s**********8
发帖数: 25265 | 6 除非不分裂....
【在 h*********g 的大作中提到】
: no matter if he/she was weaker or stronger
: finally, everyone will get stronger from those stresses
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h*********g
发帖数: 5713 | 7 不明白为什么会有人分裂
无论最终能否克服困难，成功或失败，都应该得到锻炼
至少学会面对失败
【在 s**********8 的大作中提到】
: 除非不分裂....
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s**********8
发帖数: 25265 | 8 神经细啊, 比如额..
【在 h*********g 的大作中提到】
: 不明白为什么会有人分裂
: 无论最终能否克服困难，成功或失败，都应该得到锻炼
: 至少学会面对失败
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C*******g
发帖数: 9288 | 9 看看这个
http://mitbbs.com/article_t/Heart/31365823.html
.
i
【在 x**c 的大作中提到】
: I have three stress factors in life. number 1, my husband does not work. 2.
: my parents are in nursing home in China, I feel I have abandoned them. 3.
: pressure from work. I feel depressed again because I feel there is nothing i
: can do to change any of the stress factors.
|
C*******g
发帖数: 9288 | 10 宝贝儿早，吃早饭了吗
Number 1 and 3 are temporary . Number 2, considering to go back or bring
them here?
.
i
【在 b****d 的大作中提到】
: Number 1 and 3 are temporary . Number 2, considering to go back or bring
: them here?
:
: .
: i
|
|
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C*******g
发帖数: 9288 | 11 吃早饭了吗
【在 h*********g 的大作中提到】
: only number 2 is a temporary stress
: and all of these means you are adult and can take the responsibility.
|
h*********g
发帖数: 5713 | 12 哈……tw你要是都能分裂了
那就找不出不分裂的啦
【在 s**********8 的大作中提到】
: 神经细啊, 比如额..
|
C*******g
发帖数: 9288 | 13 向你学习
不明白为什么会有人分裂
无论最终能否克服困难，成功或失败，都应该得到锻炼
至少学会面对失败
【在 h*********g 的大作中提到】
: 不明白为什么会有人分裂
: 无论最终能否克服困难，成功或失败，都应该得到锻炼
: 至少学会面对失败
|
C*******g
发帖数: 9288 | 14 哪根？
神经细啊, 比如额..
【在 s**********8 的大作中提到】
: 神经细啊, 比如额..
|
s**********8
发帖数: 25265 | 15 那根还好.
【在 C*******g 的大作中提到】
: 哪根？
:
: 神经细啊, 比如额..
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C*******g
发帖数: 9288 | 16 恭喜，庆祝一下？
那根还好.
【在 s**********8 的大作中提到】
: 那根还好.
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s**********8
发帖数: 25265 | 17 cheers?
【在 C*******g 的大作中提到】
: 恭喜，庆祝一下？
:
: 那根还好.
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C*******g
发帖数: 9288 | 18 发圈包子洒
cheers?
【在 s**********8 的大作中提到】
: cheers?
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s**********8
发帖数: 25265 | 19 你带发, 额打个白条?
【在 C*******g 的大作中提到】
: 发圈包子洒
:
: cheers?
|
C*******g
发帖数: 9288 | 20 我给你打白条好了
你带发, 额打个白条?
【在 s**********8 的大作中提到】
: 你带发, 额打个白条?
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s**********8
发帖数: 25265 | 21 流氓. 走了.
【在 C*******g 的大作中提到】
: 我给你打白条好了
:
: 你带发, 额打个白条?
|
C*******g
发帖数: 9288 | 22 慢走
流氓. 走了.
【在 s**********8 的大作中提到】
: 流氓. 走了.
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w****t
发帖数: 4443 | 23 好嗲
【在 s**********8 的大作中提到】
: 流氓. 走了.
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w******t
发帖数: 1604 | 24 1. Ask him to go out and find a job, even a labor position.
That will push him to sharpen his knife.
2. That you can not do much
3. Ball is in your court, you can deal with this kind of pressure.
.
i
【在 x**c 的大作中提到】
: I have three stress factors in life. number 1, my husband does not work. 2.
: my parents are in nursing home in China, I feel I have abandoned them. 3.
: pressure from work. I feel depressed again because I feel there is nothing i
: can do to change any of the stress factors.
|
G*********o
发帖数: 49669 | 25 1，屠宰场？
1. Ask him to go out and find a job, even a labor position.
That will push him to sharpen his knife.
2. That you can not do much
3. Ball is in your court, you can deal with this kind of pressure.
.
i
【在 w******t 的大作中提到】
: 1. Ask him to go out and find a job, even a labor position.
: That will push him to sharpen his knife.
: 2. That you can not do much
: 3. Ball is in your court, you can deal with this kind of pressure.
:
: .
: i
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h*********r
发帖数: 7786 | 26 这个是由于小孩的神经系统还没有发育完善造成的
2
.
nothing
【在 C*******g 的大作中提到】
: 看看这个
: http://mitbbs.com/article_t/Heart/31365823.html
:
: .
: i
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h*********r
发帖数: 7786 | 27 chi
spt
zan
【在 s**********8 的大作中提到】
: cheers?
|
h*********r
发帖数: 7786 | 28 wstwst 你好！
【在 w****t 的大作中提到】
: 好嗲
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c****e
发帖数: 9482 | 29 2. find more time to visit them?
3. try to find the balance, work hard, but not too hard, you don't own the
company. If you are unhappy there, always keep an eye on other opportunities
...
1. for how long? if it is temporary, don't push him too much ...
.
i
【在 x**c 的大作中提到】
: I have three stress factors in life. number 1, my husband does not work. 2.
: my parents are in nursing home in China, I feel I have abandoned them. 3.
: pressure from work. I feel depressed again because I feel there is nothing i
: can do to change any of the stress factors.
|
s*****a
发帖数: 2735 | 30 +1
【在 h*********g 的大作中提到】
: only number 2 is a temporary stress
: and all of these means you are adult and can take the responsibility.
|
|
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w****r
发帖数: 17566 | 31 排队，嗯嗯
【在 s**********8 的大作中提到】
: 神经细啊, 比如额..
|
w****r
发帖数: 17566 | 32 有时候只能过一天想一天，不能多想future。等过了这段时间就好了
你lg迟早能找到个工作的。父母么，他们在国内如果开心就好了，不一定非要到美国来
受洋罪。自己的工作么，工作其实都是这样的，每天有每天的烦心事，不会有得完的。
要不断练习强大神经，直到视变态为常态 :) |
p*********g
发帖数: 22025 | 33 赞
【在 w****r 的大作中提到】
: 有时候只能过一天想一天，不能多想future。等过了这段时间就好了
: 你lg迟早能找到个工作的。父母么，他们在国内如果开心就好了，不一定非要到美国来
: 受洋罪。自己的工作么，工作其实都是这样的，每天有每天的烦心事，不会有得完的。
: 要不断练习强大神经，直到视变态为常态 :)
|
w****t
发帖数: 4443 | 34 你好！
【在 h*********r 的大作中提到】
: wstwst 你好！
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S*********l
发帖数: 294 | 35
.
i
dump him
【在 x**c 的大作中提到】
: I have three stress factors in life. number 1, my husband does not work. 2.
: my parents are in nursing home in China, I feel I have abandoned them. 3.
: pressure from work. I feel depressed again because I feel there is nothing i
: can do to change any of the stress factors.
|
x**c
发帖数: 1435 | 36 well said, thanks!
【在 w****r 的大作中提到】
: 有时候只能过一天想一天，不能多想future。等过了这段时间就好了
: 你lg迟早能找到个工作的。父母么，他们在国内如果开心就好了，不一定非要到美国来
: 受洋罪。自己的工作么，工作其实都是这样的，每天有每天的烦心事，不会有得完的。
: 要不断练习强大神经，直到视变态为常态 :)
|
b****d
发帖数: 4648 | 37 明天的早饭还没吃呢
【在 C*******g 的大作中提到】
: 宝贝儿早，吃早饭了吗
:
: Number 1 and 3 are temporary . Number 2, considering to go back or bring
: them here?
: .
: i
|
