c*****a
发帖数: 59 | 1 2+ year depression. a single dad with 2 kids. I just hate the insomnia. If
kids are not around, I will take sleep pill or some alcohol. But now those
are not options anymore, as I don't want anything unsafe to happen when I
send kids to school tomorrow morning.
Damn, life is tough! |
b*********l
发帖数: 1443 | 2 Hey man, that's what we men are made up for. Stay strong, stay tought, and
live up to the responsibility. Your kids will fully appreciate your
endurance and efforts when they grow up. I know it is always easier said
than done....sounds like you need certain safe channels to release your
burden & grief, but all that comes after the requisite of being a good
father...I don't know how old your kids are. They could be your best friends
when they are older...It is ok to whine online then come back and smile at your kids in real life:) I wish you well.
【在 c*****a 的大作中提到】
: 2+ year depression. a single dad with 2 kids. I just hate the insomnia. If
: kids are not around, I will take sleep pill or some alcohol. But now those
: are not options anymore, as I don't want anything unsafe to happen when I
: send kids to school tomorrow morning.
: Damn, life is tough!
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q******r
发帖数: 6542 | 3 Well said.
Best wishes.
friends
at your kids in real life:) I wish you well.
【在 b*********l 的大作中提到】
: Hey man, that's what we men are made up for. Stay strong, stay tought, and
: live up to the responsibility. Your kids will fully appreciate your
: endurance and efforts when they grow up. I know it is always easier said
: than done....sounds like you need certain safe channels to release your
: burden & grief, but all that comes after the requisite of being a good
: father...I don't know how old your kids are. They could be your best friends
: when they are older...It is ok to whine online then come back and smile at your kids in real life:) I wish you well.
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P*******l
发帖数: 4895 | 4 你已经很幸福了，我也失眠，
不过连小孩都没，你还有俩
【在 c*****a 的大作中提到】
: 2+ year depression. a single dad with 2 kids. I just hate the insomnia. If
: kids are not around, I will take sleep pill or some alcohol. But now those
: are not options anymore, as I don't want anything unsafe to happen when I
: send kids to school tomorrow morning.
: Damn, life is tough!
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r*********n
发帖数: 1166 | 5 You have lost your inner peace, it is just a mind thing, let go of your
desire.
Man follows with his thought, you create your world with your thoughts.
Sometimes we were pushed to the corner and felt hopeless. That is exactly
what a man is built for, you raise your head, take the beating and tell the
universe to bring it on, what could be worse? Once you lift yourself out of
the ashes, you will notice how nice this rare gift is, you may even want to
achieve something you never dreamed before, what a beautiful life, ...
【在 c*****a 的大作中提到】
: 2+ year depression. a single dad with 2 kids. I just hate the insomnia. If
: kids are not around, I will take sleep pill or some alcohol. But now those
: are not options anymore, as I don't want anything unsafe to happen when I
: send kids to school tomorrow morning.
: Damn, life is tough!
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t******t
发帖数: 248 | 6 Find some play dates for your kids, getting urself socialized as well.
Life is good.
2+ year depression. a single dad with 2 kids. I just hate the insomnia. If
kids are not around, I will take sleep pill or some alcohol. But now those
are not options anymore, as I don't want anything unsafe to happen when I
send kids to school tomorrow morning.
Damn, life is tough!
【在 c*****a 的大作中提到】
: 2+ year depression. a single dad with 2 kids. I just hate the insomnia. If
: kids are not around, I will take sleep pill or some alcohol. But now those
: are not options anymore, as I don't want anything unsafe to happen when I
: send kids to school tomorrow morning.
: Damn, life is tough!
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R*****o
发帖数: 14902 | 7 你比我还惨。哎，我说什么都不能沦落到你这个样子。
//comfort
【在 c*****a 的大作中提到】
: 2+ year depression. a single dad with 2 kids. I just hate the insomnia. If
: kids are not around, I will take sleep pill or some alcohol. But now those
: are not options anymore, as I don't want anything unsafe to happen when I
: send kids to school tomorrow morning.
: Damn, life is tough!
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o******1
发帖数: 12177 | 8 Hi man, you would need to stay positive. In the long run,
you need to find a woman and get a new marriage, because
you would need to take care of both your kids and yourself.
Think about it ... it is possible and maybe the only solution.
If
those
I
【在 c*****a 的大作中提到】
: 2+ year depression. a single dad with 2 kids. I just hate the insomnia. If
: kids are not around, I will take sleep pill or some alcohol. But now those
: are not options anymore, as I don't want anything unsafe to happen when I
: send kids to school tomorrow morning.
: Damn, life is tough!
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k*****u
发帖数: 14053 | 9 pat pat
【在 c*****a 的大作中提到】
: 2+ year depression. a single dad with 2 kids. I just hate the insomnia. If
: kids are not around, I will take sleep pill or some alcohol. But now those
: are not options anymore, as I don't want anything unsafe to happen when I
: send kids to school tomorrow morning.
: Damn, life is tough!
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L*****s
发帖数: 24744 | |
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h********u
发帖数: 109 | 11 bless!
【在 c*****a 的大作中提到】
: 2+ year depression. a single dad with 2 kids. I just hate the insomnia. If
: kids are not around, I will take sleep pill or some alcohol. But now those
: are not options anymore, as I don't want anything unsafe to happen when I
: send kids to school tomorrow morning.
: Damn, life is tough!
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Y*********e
发帖数: 4847 | 12 孩儿她妈呢
没有娘的娃娃，可怜。
【在 c*****a 的大作中提到】
: 2+ year depression. a single dad with 2 kids. I just hate the insomnia. If
: kids are not around, I will take sleep pill or some alcohol. But now those
: are not options anymore, as I don't want anything unsafe to happen when I
: send kids to school tomorrow morning.
: Damn, life is tough!
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f*******n
发帖数: 289 | 13 孩子真的很无辜，
【在 Y*********e 的大作中提到】
: 孩儿她妈呢
: 没有娘的娃娃，可怜。
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j******l
发帖数: 10445 | 14 man, you are not alone! be strong! |
j******l
发帖数: 10445 | 15 你们俩一起过吧，双赢！
【在 P*******l 的大作中提到】
: 你已经很幸福了，我也失眠，
: 不过连小孩都没，你还有俩
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c*****a
发帖数: 59 | 16 多谢大家回复。没什么事了，这世上除死没大事。太阳每天照样
升起，每天我照样送孩子上学，工作，接孩子，和他们玩，哄他们
睡。。。 昨晚上是hit a soft spot。平均每2到3月发生一次。
难受到不能承受，在心版发泄一下就好了。 |
j******l
发帖数: 10445 | 17 女人例假月月有，你才2到3月发生一次，不错了！
【在 c*****a 的大作中提到】
: 多谢大家回复。没什么事了，这世上除死没大事。太阳每天照样
: 升起，每天我照样送孩子上学，工作，接孩子，和他们玩，哄他们
: 睡。。。 昨晚上是hit a soft spot。平均每2到3月发生一次。
: 难受到不能承受，在心版发泄一下就好了。
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c*****a
发帖数: 59 | 18 倒也不是。大家一人一半抚养权。weekday和我在一起。 co-parenting
也不是世界末日。孩子怎么养，说到底还是大人的perception。我觉得
他们还挺快乐的。
【在 Y*********e 的大作中提到】
: 孩儿她妈呢
: 没有娘的娃娃，可怜。
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c*****a
发帖数: 59 | 19 其实呢，我的问题在于，反思了2年，中间光心理医生就换了仨。觉得看清了不少东西
。比如明白了自己到底想要什么，可惜想要的已经失去了。比如明白了年轻时不成熟犯
下的错，伤害了自己心爱的人。可是世上没有time machine，无法弥补伤痕。再有上了
岁数了，心境也不是十几年前那样，对dick around没啥兴趣了。自己感觉，看的越明
白，痛苦就越清晰。
在此奉劝班上的弟弟妹妹们，珍惜自己手里的幸福，在生命中的每一天（哈，谁还记得
这首老歌） |
j******l
发帖数: 10445 | 20 不错。想清楚了就不要再迷恋过去，过去和梦一样。
善待别人，善待自己和家人，你会发现生活中越来越多的快乐，会有越来越多的朋友。
【在 c*****a 的大作中提到】
: 其实呢，我的问题在于，反思了2年，中间光心理医生就换了仨。觉得看清了不少东西
: 。比如明白了自己到底想要什么，可惜想要的已经失去了。比如明白了年轻时不成熟犯
: 下的错，伤害了自己心爱的人。可是世上没有time machine，无法弥补伤痕。再有上了
: 岁数了，心境也不是十几年前那样，对dick around没啥兴趣了。自己感觉，看的越明
: 白，痛苦就越清晰。
: 在此奉劝班上的弟弟妹妹们，珍惜自己手里的幸福，在生命中的每一天（哈，谁还记得
: 这首老歌）
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o******1
发帖数: 12177 | 21 不管发生了什么，生活必须勇往直前，特别是作为一个父亲，性格行为，以后都会成为
下一代的表率
【在 c*****a 的大作中提到】
: 其实呢，我的问题在于，反思了2年，中间光心理医生就换了仨。觉得看清了不少东西
: 。比如明白了自己到底想要什么，可惜想要的已经失去了。比如明白了年轻时不成熟犯
: 下的错，伤害了自己心爱的人。可是世上没有time machine，无法弥补伤痕。再有上了
: 岁数了，心境也不是十几年前那样，对dick around没啥兴趣了。自己感觉，看的越明
: 白，痛苦就越清晰。
: 在此奉劝班上的弟弟妹妹们，珍惜自己手里的幸福，在生命中的每一天（哈，谁还记得
: 这首老歌）
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b***e
发帖数: 4591 | 22 哇，用英文灌水啊
【在 c*****a 的大作中提到】
: 2+ year depression. a single dad with 2 kids. I just hate the insomnia. If
: kids are not around, I will take sleep pill or some alcohol. But now those
: are not options anymore, as I don't want anything unsafe to happen when I
: send kids to school tomorrow morning.
: Damn, life is tough!
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