w*******g 发帖数: 9932 | 1 How important is Christmas gift? I mean, you take care of the family all
year
long. Paying left and right to cover expenses bumper to bumper. And yet, if
you
miss a gift, all hell breaks loss.
Would a reasonable person do this?
Also, would a person so care about receiving gift but not so much a giver? |
W*F 发帖数: 1813 | 2 ft,
我记得你是个名ID来着
怎么也来family挖坑了?
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【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】 : How important is Christmas gift? I mean, you take care of the family all : year : long. Paying left and right to cover expenses bumper to bumper. And yet, if : you : miss a gift, all hell breaks loss. : Would a reasonable person do this? : Also, would a person so care about receiving gift but not so much a giver?
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s*x 发帖数: 3328 | 3 惯的,自作自受。
if
【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】 : How important is Christmas gift? I mean, you take care of the family all : year : long. Paying left and right to cover expenses bumper to bumper. And yet, if : you : miss a gift, all hell breaks loss. : Would a reasonable person do this? : Also, would a person so care about receiving gift but not so much a giver?
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G***G 发帖数: 16778 | 4 sometimes woman doesn't want a gift, she wants just a feeling.
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【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】 : How important is Christmas gift? I mean, you take care of the family all : year : long. Paying left and right to cover expenses bumper to bumper. And yet, if : you : miss a gift, all hell breaks loss. : Would a reasonable person do this? : Also, would a person so care about receiving gift but not so much a giver?
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j*********d 发帖数: 44 | 5 我一直很喜欢过圣诞节,舒服,温馨,有家的感觉。
我想每个女人都喜欢圣诞。礼物么,就是心意,圣诞节和家人,和喜欢的人一起才有意
义。
可是今年,我要过一个人的圣诞节,很孤独。
我从来不介意礼物是什么具体的东西,哪怕是一桌可口的饭菜我都很开心了。
这是我的想法,我比较容易满足,一句知心话都可以,也许其他mm不是这样想的。 |
V*****8 发帖数: 33122 | 6 没有收到礼物只是一个trigger,还是归根到底不合引起的 |
w*******g 发帖数: 9932 | 7 Problem is I had never received anything decent from her.
All my good clothing and shoes are from my parents and my sister.
All she got me are few lousy T-shirts.
I got her everything. Fuck. What a stupid way to lead a life.
【在 V*****8 的大作中提到】 : 没有收到礼物只是一个trigger,还是归根到底不合引起的
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w********t 发帖数: 18315 | 8 赞同,有时候这不过是个出气的借口,你应该去了解她心里到底是什么事不满
【在 V*****8 的大作中提到】 : 没有收到礼物只是一个trigger,还是归根到底不合引起的
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w*******g 发帖数: 9932 | 9 all about money. She has way more money than I do. And yet she wants me to
cover everthing, which I do. And yet she wants to buy gifts for everybody,
which
I hate to do because I have received squad over the years.
【在 w********t 的大作中提到】 : 赞同,有时候这不过是个出气的借口,你应该去了解她心里到底是什么事不满
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V*****8 发帖数: 33122 | 10 换个角度想,不是说施比受更有福吗,何况夫妻一场,过去的就不要计较了。
重要的是你现在认清形势了,如何解决以后的问题才是关键
【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】 : Problem is I had never received anything decent from her. : All my good clothing and shoes are from my parents and my sister. : All she got me are few lousy T-shirts. : I got her everything. Fuck. What a stupid way to lead a life.
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w********t 发帖数: 18315 | 11 清官难断家务事,还是好好跟你LP沟通吧,要相信自己不是娶了个完全不讲道理的泼妇
是不是自己的态度不太好?好好说,能说通的
to
everybody,
【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】 : all about money. She has way more money than I do. And yet she wants me to : cover everthing, which I do. And yet she wants to buy gifts for everybody, : which : I hate to do because I have received squad over the years.
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W*F 发帖数: 1813 | 12 你LP跟你冷战是想你先妥协.
没有原则性的问题,就跟LP撒个娇,
上床上滚一圈就好了.ft
if
【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】 : How important is Christmas gift? I mean, you take care of the family all : year : long. Paying left and right to cover expenses bumper to bumper. And yet, if : you : miss a gift, all hell breaks loss. : Would a reasonable person do this? : Also, would a person so care about receiving gift but not so much a giver?
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w*******g 发帖数: 9932 | 13 The problem is that we just recovered from an earlier fight over something
even more trivial. I don't even remember what. In any case, I think I don't
love her at all. Nor does she love me. So it is basically a loveless
marriage.
I start to miss my ex and ex ex, ex ex ex. All far better choices.
【在 W*F 的大作中提到】 : 你LP跟你冷战是想你先妥协. : 没有原则性的问题,就跟LP撒个娇, : 上床上滚一圈就好了.ft : : if
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U*****S 发帖数: 3098 | 14 都是你惯出来的,怨谁?以后她不给你好礼物你就不在家过圣诞,出去找一个鸡当作礼
物吧
【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】 : Problem is I had never received anything decent from her. : All my good clothing and shoes are from my parents and my sister. : All she got me are few lousy T-shirts. : I got her everything. Fuck. What a stupid way to lead a life.
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W*F 发帖数: 1813 | 15 你们这是在气头上,所以说,从来就没有过幸福, 你不爱她,她也不爱你.
等你们关系好的时候,你的感觉又会不同.
夫妻之间,尤其还在磨合期的夫妻,总会为了鸡毛蒜皮的事情吵架.
为了圣诞礼物,为了买东西...
我告诉你,我一朋友,为了家里网络线,吵架然后要离婚.
不值得!
吵架是正常的,在吵架的时候,既要妥协,又要有妥协的艺术.
等到把能够吵的所有事情都炒个遍,就好了.
当然,很有可能是到时候老得吵不动了.
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【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】 : The problem is that we just recovered from an earlier fight over something : even more trivial. I don't even remember what. In any case, I think I don't : love her at all. Nor does she love me. So it is basically a loveless : marriage. : I start to miss my ex and ex ex, ex ex ex. All far better choices.
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l****t 发帖数: 36289 | 17 离!
除非你老婆是个绝世大美女。
呵呵
【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】 : Problem is I had never received anything decent from her. : All my good clothing and shoes are from my parents and my sister. : All she got me are few lousy T-shirts. : I got her everything. Fuck. What a stupid way to lead a life.
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v***e 发帖数: 77 | 19 comfort.
if
【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】 : How important is Christmas gift? I mean, you take care of the family all : year : long. Paying left and right to cover expenses bumper to bumper. And yet, if : you : miss a gift, all hell breaks loss. : Would a reasonable person do this? : Also, would a person so care about receiving gift but not so much a giver?
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c***1 发帖数: 10875 | 20 呵呵。离。
下年圣诞节的礼物就是:离婚纪念日了。 |
d*******l 发帖数: 2567 | 21 you knew you'd be screwed if you didn't buy her a gift, yet you still
chose to forget. Basically you don't care no more. |