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Family版 - would your wife starts a cold war over a Christmas gift?
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w*******g
发帖数: 9932
1
How important is Christmas gift? I mean, you take care of the family all
year
long. Paying left and right to cover expenses bumper to bumper. And yet, if
you
miss a gift, all hell breaks loss.
Would a reasonable person do this?
Also, would a person so care about receiving gift but not so much a giver?
W*F
发帖数: 1813
2
ft,
我记得你是个名ID来着
怎么也来family挖坑了?

if

【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】
: How important is Christmas gift? I mean, you take care of the family all
: year
: long. Paying left and right to cover expenses bumper to bumper. And yet, if
: you
: miss a gift, all hell breaks loss.
: Would a reasonable person do this?
: Also, would a person so care about receiving gift but not so much a giver?

s*x
发帖数: 3328
3
惯的,自作自受。

if

【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】
: How important is Christmas gift? I mean, you take care of the family all
: year
: long. Paying left and right to cover expenses bumper to bumper. And yet, if
: you
: miss a gift, all hell breaks loss.
: Would a reasonable person do this?
: Also, would a person so care about receiving gift but not so much a giver?

G***G
发帖数: 16778
4
sometimes woman doesn't want a gift, she wants just a feeling.

if

【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】
: How important is Christmas gift? I mean, you take care of the family all
: year
: long. Paying left and right to cover expenses bumper to bumper. And yet, if
: you
: miss a gift, all hell breaks loss.
: Would a reasonable person do this?
: Also, would a person so care about receiving gift but not so much a giver?

j*********d
发帖数: 44
5
我一直很喜欢过圣诞节,舒服,温馨,有家的感觉。
我想每个女人都喜欢圣诞。礼物么,就是心意,圣诞节和家人,和喜欢的人一起才有意
义。
可是今年,我要过一个人的圣诞节,很孤独。
我从来不介意礼物是什么具体的东西,哪怕是一桌可口的饭菜我都很开心了。
这是我的想法,我比较容易满足,一句知心话都可以,也许其他mm不是这样想的。
V*****8
发帖数: 33122
6
没有收到礼物只是一个trigger,还是归根到底不合引起的
w*******g
发帖数: 9932
7
Problem is I had never received anything decent from her.
All my good clothing and shoes are from my parents and my sister.
All she got me are few lousy T-shirts.
I got her everything. Fuck. What a stupid way to lead a life.

【在 V*****8 的大作中提到】
: 没有收到礼物只是一个trigger,还是归根到底不合引起的
w********t
发帖数: 18315
8
赞同,有时候这不过是个出气的借口,你应该去了解她心里到底是什么事不满

【在 V*****8 的大作中提到】
: 没有收到礼物只是一个trigger,还是归根到底不合引起的
w*******g
发帖数: 9932
9
all about money. She has way more money than I do. And yet she wants me to
cover everthing, which I do. And yet she wants to buy gifts for everybody,
which
I hate to do because I have received squad over the years.

【在 w********t 的大作中提到】
: 赞同,有时候这不过是个出气的借口,你应该去了解她心里到底是什么事不满
V*****8
发帖数: 33122
10
换个角度想,不是说施比受更有福吗,何况夫妻一场,过去的就不要计较了。
重要的是你现在认清形势了,如何解决以后的问题才是关键

【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】
: Problem is I had never received anything decent from her.
: All my good clothing and shoes are from my parents and my sister.
: All she got me are few lousy T-shirts.
: I got her everything. Fuck. What a stupid way to lead a life.

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w********t
发帖数: 18315
11
清官难断家务事,还是好好跟你LP沟通吧,要相信自己不是娶了个完全不讲道理的泼妇
是不是自己的态度不太好?好好说,能说通的

to
everybody,

【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】
: all about money. She has way more money than I do. And yet she wants me to
: cover everthing, which I do. And yet she wants to buy gifts for everybody,
: which
: I hate to do because I have received squad over the years.

W*F
发帖数: 1813
12
你LP跟你冷战是想你先妥协.
没有原则性的问题,就跟LP撒个娇,
上床上滚一圈就好了.ft

if

【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】
: How important is Christmas gift? I mean, you take care of the family all
: year
: long. Paying left and right to cover expenses bumper to bumper. And yet, if
: you
: miss a gift, all hell breaks loss.
: Would a reasonable person do this?
: Also, would a person so care about receiving gift but not so much a giver?

w*******g
发帖数: 9932
13
The problem is that we just recovered from an earlier fight over something
even more trivial. I don't even remember what. In any case, I think I don't
love her at all. Nor does she love me. So it is basically a loveless
marriage.
I start to miss my ex and ex ex, ex ex ex. All far better choices.

【在 W*F 的大作中提到】
: 你LP跟你冷战是想你先妥协.
: 没有原则性的问题,就跟LP撒个娇,
: 上床上滚一圈就好了.ft
:
: if

U*****S
发帖数: 3098
14
都是你惯出来的,怨谁?以后她不给你好礼物你就不在家过圣诞,出去找一个鸡当作礼
物吧

【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】
: Problem is I had never received anything decent from her.
: All my good clothing and shoes are from my parents and my sister.
: All she got me are few lousy T-shirts.
: I got her everything. Fuck. What a stupid way to lead a life.

W*F
发帖数: 1813
15
你们这是在气头上,所以说,从来就没有过幸福, 你不爱她,她也不爱你.
等你们关系好的时候,你的感觉又会不同.
夫妻之间,尤其还在磨合期的夫妻,总会为了鸡毛蒜皮的事情吵架.
为了圣诞礼物,为了买东西...
我告诉你,我一朋友,为了家里网络线,吵架然后要离婚.
不值得!
吵架是正常的,在吵架的时候,既要妥协,又要有妥协的艺术.
等到把能够吵的所有事情都炒个遍,就好了.
当然,很有可能是到时候老得吵不动了.

t

【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】
: The problem is that we just recovered from an earlier fight over something
: even more trivial. I don't even remember what. In any case, I think I don't
: love her at all. Nor does she love me. So it is basically a loveless
: marriage.
: I start to miss my ex and ex ex, ex ex ex. All far better choices.

H*********o
发帖数: 124
16
1年才1次,这个还要发帖问
你老婆太可怜了
l****t
发帖数: 36289
17
离!
除非你老婆是个绝世大美女。
呵呵

【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】
: Problem is I had never received anything decent from her.
: All my good clothing and shoes are from my parents and my sister.
: All she got me are few lousy T-shirts.
: I got her everything. Fuck. What a stupid way to lead a life.

d******0
发帖数: 22800
18
离!
v***e
发帖数: 77
19
comfort.

if

【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】
: How important is Christmas gift? I mean, you take care of the family all
: year
: long. Paying left and right to cover expenses bumper to bumper. And yet, if
: you
: miss a gift, all hell breaks loss.
: Would a reasonable person do this?
: Also, would a person so care about receiving gift but not so much a giver?

c***1
发帖数: 10875
20
呵呵。离。
下年圣诞节的礼物就是:离婚纪念日了。
d*******l
发帖数: 2567
21
you knew you'd be screwed if you didn't buy her a gift, yet you still
chose to forget. Basically you don't care no more.
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