y********e
发帖数: 8315 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 Faculty 讨论区 】
发信人: DrBiologist (Publish or perish), 信区: Faculty
标 题: 收到女学生送的花，该如何致谢？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jul 27 11:27:11 2010, 美东)
Sorry, haven't been here for long…
She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
– I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
but nothing special.
Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh |
n***w
发帖数: 2405 | 2 It's normal.
Take it easy.
You planned email should be fine. |
D*********t
发帖数: 370 | 3 Baozi for good suggestions. |
n***w
发帖数: 2405 | 4 so you wanna an affair??? |
v***a
发帖数: 1242 | 5 your post made me feel you are expecting an affair...
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: Baozi for good suggestions.
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h******g
发帖数: 1521 | |
a****k
发帖数: 1130 | 7 就按照你之前的想法回信就挺合适了吧，别多想呀。。。
为什么要藏起来啊，有学生送花说明你是个好老师嘛，应该show off一下，哈哈
student
,
fresh
【在 y********e 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 Faculty 讨论区 】
: 发信人: DrBiologist (Publish or perish), 信区: Faculty
: 标 题: 收到女学生送的花，该如何致谢？
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jul 27 11:27:11 2010, 美东)
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
|
p*****m
发帖数: 7030 | 8 lz明显多想了 有可能是太敏感或者潜意识里在期待affairs...
【在 a****k 的大作中提到】
: 就按照你之前的想法回信就挺合适了吧，别多想呀。。。
: 为什么要藏起来啊，有学生送花说明你是个好老师嘛，应该show off一下，哈哈
:
: student
: ,
: fresh
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M****e
发帖数: 178 | 9 楼主想太多了啦，我实验室的美国女生，给谁写信，后面都署个love, kate.我第一次
收到她的信还愣了一下。现在我自己写信，也经常加个love. |
w******y
发帖数: 8040 | 10 hehe, seems DrBio got tenured
so quick
congratulations
student
,
fresh
【在 y********e 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 Faculty 讨论区 】
: 发信人: DrBiologist (Publish or perish), 信区: Faculty
: 标 题: 收到女学生送的花，该如何致谢？
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jul 27 11:27:11 2010, 美东)
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
|
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t*d
发帖数: 1290 | 11 用 sincerely 替代 love 就可以发出去了，如果你不想要 affair。花应该大方地放在
桌上，否则容易引起猜疑。
love 是女同志专用的。
student
,
fresh
【在 y********e 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 Faculty 讨论区 】
: 发信人: DrBiologist (Publish or perish), 信区: Faculty
: 标 题: 收到女学生送的花，该如何致谢？
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jul 27 11:27:11 2010, 美东)
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
|
s******y
发帖数: 28562 | 12 Zan
【在 p*****m 的大作中提到】
: lz明显多想了 有可能是太敏感或者潜意识里在期待affairs...
|
d*****r
发帖数: 2583 | 13 有没有老师给学生送花的? 比如学生发了个Nature/Science什么的, 老师感动之下..
【在 a****k 的大作中提到】
: 就按照你之前的想法回信就挺合适了吧，别多想呀。。。
: 为什么要藏起来啊，有学生送花说明你是个好老师嘛，应该show off一下，哈哈
:
: student
: ,
: fresh
|
D*********t
发帖数: 370 | 14 I decided to call her to express my appreciation.
She said she experienced some difficult time the past year adapting to a new
environment. Missed her graduate school horribly, to the point of becoming
depressive. She wanted to do a few things (including sending the flowers
to me) but didn't have enough courage. She eventually did it, after talking
to her friends. Now she feels relieved... (She didn't tell me what other
things she wanted to do.)
I actually regretted calling, because I ran |
D*********t
发帖数: 370 | 15 I think party is better.
【在 d*****r 的大作中提到】
: 有没有老师给学生送花的? 比如学生发了个Nature/Science什么的, 老师感动之下..
|
a****k
发帖数: 1130 | 16 一般都是办个party开个香槟吧。。
【在 d*****r 的大作中提到】
: 有没有老师给学生送花的? 比如学生发了个Nature/Science什么的, 老师感动之下..
|
b****T
发帖数: 134 | 17 lz想多了，老师promote了，已经毕业的学生送个花没啥啊。如果没毕业，可能会出去
和您吃个饭。一个意思。 |
m***T
发帖数: 11058 | 18 其实可以在发一个follow up的email，把想说但没说或没说清的都可以在email里提到。
new
becoming
talking
other
and
have
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: I decided to call her to express my appreciation.
: She said she experienced some difficult time the past year adapting to a new
: environment. Missed her graduate school horribly, to the point of becoming
: depressive. She wanted to do a few things (including sending the flowers
: to me) but didn't have enough courage. She eventually did it, after talking
: to her friends. Now she feels relieved... (She didn't tell me what other
: things she wanted to do.)
: I actually regretted calling, because I ran
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