T****i
发帖数: 15191 | 1 总算腾出点时间，写了封信，以读者来信方式写的。大家看看什么地方需要修改，往哪
里寄好？离大城市太远了，不能去游行示威，只能写点东西尽一点微薄之力。信写的可
能按某些人的看法太温和了，不过我想还是一步步来，争取更多的听众。
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Enough is enough
Say NO to racism against Asians
Nowadays, Racism is a dirty word in the US. Rarely would someone openly yell
racial slurs, or make racial pranks and jokes in public against people from
most ethnic groups. But there is one exception: Asians have been easy
targets much more often than any other races. Let us look at a few examples.
There are people, like the r... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 523 | 2 http://www.weidb.com/voice/index.php?title=Millions_of_Broken_A
Millions of Broken American Dreams -- An Open Letter to the World
November 12, 2013
Dear Fair and Righteous Citizens of the World,
We don't know who you are, but we know you are out there. We are
asking for your urgent help. We have been rendered voiceless, powerless, and
hopeless by the American mass media and many Americans. The American mass
media have lost journalistic ethics and objectivity and have been blatantly... 阅读全帖 |
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T**********e
发帖数: 29576 | 3 警察版本是：俩小黑把警察顶在车里不让出来，然后企图夺枪，争夺中枪响了，小黑逃
跑，警察瞄准让他们freeze，小黑转身冲过来，警察开始连续射击，直到最后一发打到
MB脑袋倒在警察面前。
FRIEND OF DARREN WILSON: He rolled his window down and said, "Come on guys,
get out of the street." They refused to do it and were yelling back that
they were almost where they were going, and there was some cussing involved.
And then he just kept rolling up, and he pulled over, and I believe at that
point he called for backup, but I'm not sure.
I know he pulled up ahead of them, and he was watching them... 阅读全帖 |
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g**1
发帖数: 10330 | 4 Don't joke about it! Hazmat team rushed to meet US plane in Dominican
Republic after passenger sneezed and yelled 'I have Ebola!'
Man sneezed, yelled 'I have Ebola!' on US flight to Dominican Republic
Four Hazmat officers rushed onto US Airways plane from Philadelphia
He was detained and taken for testing, exclaiming: 'I ain't been to Africa'
255 passengers forced to stay on board for two hours until he was cleared
Punta Cana Airport bosses said he is 'unbalanced' and 'did it for attention'
http... 阅读全帖 |
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n****u
发帖数: 1200 | 5 A resident of the area posted this, get your facts straight
Michael Cory Quattrin
Facebook friends and family – PLEASE HELP! That (now viral) video of the
officer in McKinney subduing a girl in a bathing suit was in OUR
neighborhood. The situation was NOT what is being reported…
A DJ setup in a public space next to the private pool in our neighborhood on
Friday and played loud explicit (F-bomb) music for multiple hours (it is
unclear if he was invited by a resident as no one has claimed responsi... 阅读全帖 |
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d*****u
发帖数: 17243 | 6 JACKSON, Miss. (AP) — A black Mississippi man who often dressed in
Confederate regalia to support the state flag has died in a one-car accident.
Anthony Hervey, 49, was killed Sunday when the 2005 Ford Explorer he was
driving left the roadway and overturned on Mississippi Highway 6 in
Lafayette County, the Highway Patrol said.
The vehicle's owner and passenger in the car, Arlene Barnum, told The
Associated Press on Monday that Hervey swerved and crashed after another
vehicle carrying four or fiv... 阅读全帖 |
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I*******g
发帖数: 7600 | 7 【 以下文字转载自 Joke 讨论区 】
发信人: rbs (jay), 信区: Joke
标 题: 捉奸在床，这个黑牧师杯具了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jan 31 13:46:49 2017, 美东)
A police report says a prominent Florida pastor was forced to run out of a
house naked after a woman's husband came home to find him having sex with
his wife.
The Tallahassee Democrat reports ( http://on.tdo.com/2kmThSX ) police documents show a woman's husband found her in bed with Pastor O. Jermaine Simmons in the middle of the afternoon on Jan. 17. The woman told police that her hus... 阅读全帖 |
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c****h
发帖数: 4968 | 8 如果真的这么被害，留下两个小童，真的很值得同情。不过看了下面这段报道后觉得，
她自己也有不对的地方，那就是作为一个受到高等教育的人，她对白人太纵容了。要是
换成索南这么yell自己，国女还不一哭二闹三上吊？
The last time she was seen alive was in Genoa on February 10, just one day
into the cruise, when the family went into a tourist souvenir shop.“I
remember it well, we had just opened and it was 10am. First she entered with
the two children, then he came in. He was agitated, he pulled out of a
rucksack a pair of gym shoes and yelled at the woman. He said ‘Put these on
instead of your sandals and... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3601 | 9 ykh199311发于 2017-03-24 17:论坛: Chats&&华人闲话标 题: [心情万花筒] 求
教万能的华人:如何扶持小叔子
嫁到美国有段时间了，和老公感情不错，只有几次争吵都是因为他家人。他家条件不好
，父母早年因为破产离婚，他妈现在嫁了个有钱人，他一直和爸爸弟弟住一起。但是他
很争气，在读phd工作很努力。
因为都住在一个屋檐下，难免会有矛盾。矛盾的起因就是我看不惯他那个刚成年的弟弟
好吃懒做，从来不主动分担家务，就只知道躲在房间里玩游戏，凌晨睡觉下午起床，找
工作还要人催。有次我看他内裤放在洗衣机里几天不洗 摆明了占着茅坑不拉屎 我忍无
可忍了 就提高嗓门说了他几句 难不成还要我洗你内裤 自己就不能懂事点帮爸爸哥哥
分担吗都18岁了也该有点责任心了blah blah 然后意想不到的事发生了 他一声不响回
到房里几分钟后婆婆迅速赶到，把我骂的灰头土脸，说他不是我老公，我没权力朝他
yell，也没权力让他做任何事，然后这位小叔子也是泣不成声。他们才告诉我他有抑郁
症，需要吃药治疗，经不起yell。我也是一脸蒙逼。婆婆就是从这个时候开始生我的气
。但是我也委屈，老公以前... 阅读全帖 |
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s******r
发帖数: 5309 | 10 赶紧搬去共和党领导的红州shithole，过上粪蛆的性福生活。不送。
America’s worst states to live in 2017
Ieshia Evans is detained by law enforcement as she protests the shooting
death of Alton Sterling near the headquarters of the Baton Rouge Police
Department in Louisiana, U.S. July 9, 2016. Jonathan Bachman | Reuters
Scott Cohn | @ScottCohnTV
4:40 PM ET Tue, 11 July 2017
Far be it from us to throw shade on your home sweet home, but the data does
not lie. The Quality of Life category in our annual America's Top States for... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 11 http://twitter.com/MarkLevineNYC/status/1238437583484588032
Mark D. Levine
@MarkLevineNYC
There is a significant chance we will face a shortage of ventilator machines
in the coming weeks.
I wish 50% of the people yelling at the feds for more testing would switch
to yelling about this.
We made one plane per hour in WW2. That needs to happen ASAP for ventilators.
8:11 AM · Mar 13, 2020·Twitter Web App |
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t********n
发帖数: 705 | 12 I am sorry..I did own a house, I did pay for those tax, and I pay what i
need to IRS. not a cent more. not a cent less.
I bet even require by law, the right wing still won't pay the tax.
right wing is 真小人, left wing is 伪君子, no one is really better, just
different side. so right winger just have to accept the fact they lost the
election..and eat the result, don't just yell here, yell that.
than
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 13 By EDWARD WONG
YAN’AN, China — The explosives had been set, the watchtower manned and
the dirt battlefield cleared of rubble. Communist soldiers armed with
rifles took up positions at the foot of the barren hills. Their foes, the
Kuomintang, loomed in the distance, advancing on the garrison town of Yan’
an.
炸药装好了，人也上了瞭望塔上，泥土战场上清除了垃圾。荒山脚下，紧握步枪的共产
党士兵已经摆好架势。敌人国民党在远方出现，向军事重镇延安进发。
Then someone yelled, “There’s no electricity!”
忽然，有人喊：“没电了！”
No electricity meant no show.
没电，表演就没戏了。
Hu... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 897 | 14 It will cost $15 to ask Rep. Paul Ryan (R-Wis.) a question in person during
the August congressional recess.
The House Budget Committee chairman isn’t holding any face-to-face open-to-
the-public town hall meetings during the recess, but like several of his
colleagues he will speak only for residents willing to open their wallets.
Ryan, who took substantial criticism from his southeast Wisconsin
constituents in April after he introduced the Republicans’ budget proposal,
isn’t the only member of ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2165 | 15 http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/18/us/politics/18poems.html
我靠，怎么看都像是gay
POP
Sitting in his seat, a seat broad and broken
In, sprinkled with ashes
Pop switches channels, takes another
Shot of Seagrams, neat, and asks
What to do with me, a green young man
Who fails to consider the
Flim and flam of the world, since
Things have been easy for me;
I stare hard at his face, a stare
That deflects off his brow;
I’m sure he’s unaware of his
Dark, watery eyes, that
Glance in different directions,
And his s... 阅读全帖 |
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c****n
发帖数: 21367 | 16 nah, i don't expect santa claus
i am just explaining situation to you
you cannot be benefited from yelling "you lie" to those global warming
activists
because millions of people ARE making money from this scientific absurdity.
you yell and vote and change an officer, that's all you can do. but the new
officer will still act according to the rules of capitalism regardless of
his
promises in campaign. that's it.
i completely agree with you that concluding anthropic global warming is an
outright li... 阅读全帖 |
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l**1
发帖数: 1875 | 17 罗姆尼在1981年跟一位公园警察进行身体搏斗,被波士顿警察逮捕，罪名是不端行为！
后来，它请了律师，罪名被取消了。
http://theweek.com/article/index/227698/mitt-romneys-1981-arres
1. Facing a "disorderly conduct" arrest
This story first surfaced in Romney's doomed 1994 bid to unseat Sen. Ted
Kennedy, Kaczynski says: In 1981, Romney was putting the family boat into
Lake Cochituate, an hour outside of Boston, when a park officer told him he
couldn't because the license looked painted over. If he launched, he'd face
a $50 fine. "I was willing to pay the f... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 18 【 以下文字转载自 GunsAndGears 讨论区 】
发信人: jackyu (hello jackey), 信区: GunsAndGears
标 题: 学生在学校被抢劫犯捅伤
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue May 14 15:50:51 2013, 美东)
周六晚上9点多在我们实验楼前面的停车场，一位同学在正要回车上的路途中被一个黑
人持刀抢劫并被砍伤。 这是在学校里面啊。⊙﹏⊙b汗。
这是我们楼的manager刚刚发过来的：
I wanted to make you aware that one of our graduate students was assaulted
and robbed in the North lot of SEB Friday night around 9:45PM which sent him
to the hospital. I spoke to him this morning and he is doing well,
although he has surgery ahead of him to repair fracture... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 19 July 13, 2013 - 11:36 PM
By MIKE SCHNEIDER and KYLE
George Zimmerman, right, is congratulated by his defense team after being
found not guilty during Zimmerman's trial in Seminole Circuit Court in
Sanford, Fla. on Saturday, July 13, 2013. Jurors found Zimmerman not guilty
of second-degree murder in the fatal shooting of 17-year-old Trayvon Martin
in Sanford, Fla. The six-member, all-woman jury deliberated for more than 15
hours over two days before reaching their decision Saturday night. (AP
Pho... 阅读全帖 |
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b*****d
发帖数: 61690 | 20 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: brihand (brihand), 信区: Military
标 题: 美帝出妖孽了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Oct 16 23:14:33 2013, 美东)
有人在众议院投票时候冲上台喊口号了。
http://gawker.com/house-stenographer-dragged-off-floor-yelling-
As the House finished their vote to reopen the federal government and raise
the debt ceiling, the House stenographer decided it was a good time to let
everyone know her feelings about God, Congress, and the Freemasons.
“He [God] will not be mocked,” the stenographer, apparently named Molly,
yell... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 523 | 21 http://www.weidb.com/voice/index.php?title=Millions_of_Broken_A
Millions of Broken American Dreams -- An Open Letter to the World
November 12, 2013
Dear Fair and Righteous Citizens of the World,
We don't know who you are, but we know you are out there. We are
asking for your urgent help. We have been rendered voiceless, powerless, and
hopeless by the American mass media and many Americans. The American mass
media have lost journalistic ethics and objectivity and have been blatantly... 阅读全帖 |
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n****u
发帖数: 1200 | 22 A resident of the area posted this, get your facts straight
Michael Cory Quattrin
Facebook friends and family – PLEASE HELP! That (now viral) video of the
officer in McKinney subduing a girl in a bathing suit was in OUR
neighborhood. The situation was NOT what is being reported…
A DJ setup in a public space next to the private pool in our neighborhood on
Friday and played loud explicit (F-bomb) music for multiple hours (it is
unclear if he was invited by a resident as no one has claimed responsi... 阅读全帖 |
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T*********I
发帖数: 10729 | 23 推搡两个空乘，打第三个。第三个是个黑人，该穆斯林叫嚣黑鬼，并威胁炸掉飞机。
左逼媒体是不可能报道这种事情的，因为那样会让我们的穆斯林总统感到难堪。
NEW YORK (CBSNewYork/AP) – A Queens man has been charged after he allegedly
shoved two fight attendants, punched a third attendant and threatened to
blow up the plane during a flight from New York City to South Florida.
Alija Kucuk, 29, of Middle Village in Queens, N.Y., is facing federal
charges of interfering with a flight attendant and threatening to destroy an
aircraft. He is jailed in Palm Beach County pending a bond ... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 24 Lately, the “in” thing seems to be trying to get police officers in
trouble, fired, or killed. One woman tried to do just that when she accused
an LEO of screaming at her, and pointing his handgun at her during a traffic
stop. That story may have very well ended his career, except for one little
thing… evidence.
police
From Conservative Tribune:
A growing anti-cop sentiment has taken the country by storm, and for
some protesters, the answer is violence. For others, the answer is
apparently t... 阅读全帖 |
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b**********s
发帖数: 9531 | 25 CHARLESTON, S.C. — The people kept coming, and the line kept growing and
growing.
The line of people to see Donald Trump snaked from the entrance to the USS
Yorktown aircraft carrier down the parking lot, back up toward the entrance
again and then back around alongside another lane of cars. By the time the
fire marshal stopped letting people in, with almost 2,000 people onboard the
ship, there were still around 1,000 people waiting outside.
For three hours, I walked among the Trump supporters st... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 26 Rob Lowe was not pleased with the way Bernie Sanders communicated during the
Democratic forum in Iowa Monday night.
The 51-year-old actor fired off a series of tweets criticizing the
presidential candidate for “yelling” while threatening to raise taxes:
Watching Bernie Sanders. He's hectoring and yelling at me WHILE he's saying
he's going to raise our taxes. Interesting way to communicate. |
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发帖数: 10729 | 27 POLICE: Roanoke County stabbing suspect yelled "Allah Akbar" during attack
ROANOKE COUNTY, Va (WDBJ7) UPDATED 08/22/16
The FBI is now involved in a stabbing investigation in Roanoke County.
Wasil Farooqui is charged in the incident that seriously hurt a man and
woman at the The Pines Apartments on Saturday.
Witnesses told police that during the attack Farooqui was yelling "Allah
Akbar."
He remains in jail tonight without bond.
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A man stabbed ... 阅读全帖 |
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T********N
发帖数: 1507 | 28 大选还没开始,穆斯林同志还要努力
努把力,在加州,在各种蓝州给川普同学助选
POLICE: Roanoke County stabbing suspect yelled "Allah Akbar" during attack
ROANOKE COUNTY, Va (WDBJ7) UPDATED 08/22/16
The FBI is now involved in a stabbing investigation in Roanoke County.
Wasil Farooqui is charged in the incident that seriously hurt a man and
woman at the The Pines Apartments on Saturday.
Witnesses told police that during the attack Farooqui was yelling "Allah
Akbar."
He remains in jail tonight without bond.
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发帖数: 3927 | 29 Antwan Legacy Carter feeling pissed off
I WAS finally coming to grips with the stupidity of America. But then some
off the wall stuff happened that pissed me right back off.
So I am downtown and a group of white dudes are looking at a woman wearing a
dress standing alone minding her business. We all get on the subway. When
she walks past the group, one of the men yells grab her by the pussy. One of
the dudes literally then tried to touch the woman inappropriately. The
woman yelled and the guys l... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 111 | 30 http://abcnews.go.com/Sports/jeremy-lin-racist-remarks-heard-opponents-worse-ncaa/story?id=47335710
Jeremy Lin has dealt with racist remarks as an Asian American in the NBA,
but he said nothing compares to what he repeatedly experienced while playing
in college.
Lin, the first American-born NBA player of Chinese or Taiwanese descent,
said he heard deplorable racial slurs hurled at him from fans, opposing
players and even an opposing coach during his four years at Harvard while
playing on the roa... 阅读全帖 |
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d***p
发帖数: 937 | 31 https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/post-nation/wp/2018/04/13/a-teen-missed-
the-bus-to-school-when-he-knocked-on-a-door-for-directions-a-man-shot-at-him
/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.8763679beda6
A teen missed the bus to school. When he knocked on a door for directions, a
man shot at him.
By Eli Rosenberg April 13 Email the author
Brennan Walker, 14, stopped at a neighbor's home April 12 to ask for
directions after missing a bus in Rochester Hills, Mich. A man inside fired
a gun at him. (WJBK Detro... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******e
发帖数: 5818 | 32 左左能不能 civil 一点，有点底线，连个饭都不让吃？
看video，那个左左很尴尬！！
Diners confront Mitch McConnell at restaurant, get told to ‘leave him alone
’ by others
A small group of angry diners confronted Senate Majority Leader Mitch
McConnell at a restaurant Friday night, but were met with calls from other
customers to leave the Kentucky Republican alone.
Video obtained by TMZ shows at least one diner berating McConnell on issues
such as Social Security at a restaurant in Louisville. The video starts with
him yelling at McC... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******e
发帖数: 5818 | 33 中午听 林宝， 这是 transcript：
The shooter, Bracamontes, spewed the N-word at the black cop that he shot,
called him a monkey and yelled at blacks on the jury that black lives don’t
matter. All of this is unmentioned by Trump’s critics. They didn’t even
put this in the ad. This is who the left is defending! So again in that ad
that we played for you twice 15, 10 minutes ago, convicted killer Luis
Bracamontes — who’s dropping the F-bomb in the ad, unhappy he didn’t kill
more, wanted to kill more — shot a... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******e
发帖数: 5818 | 34 中午听 林宝， 这是 transcript：
The shooter, Bracamontes, spewed the N-word at the black cop that he shot,
called him a monkey and yelled at blacks on the jury that black lives don’t
matter. All of this is unmentioned by Trump’s critics. They didn’t even
put this in the ad. This is who the left is defending! So again in that ad
that we played for you twice 15, 10 minutes ago, convicted killer Luis
Bracamontes — who’s dropping the F-bomb in the ad, unhappy he didn’t kill
more, wanted to kill more — shot a... 阅读全帖 |
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y**c
发帖数: 6307 | 35 Statement of Nick Sandmann, Covington Catholic High School junior, regarding
incident at the Lincoln Memorial
(CNN)I am providing this factual account of what happened on Friday
afternoon at the Lincoln Memorial to correct misinformation and outright
lies being spread about my family and me.
I am the student in the video who was confronted by the Native American
protestor. I arrived at the Lincoln Memorial at 4:30 p.m. I was told to be
there by 5:30 p.m., when our busses were due to leave Washin... 阅读全帖 |
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t*****e
发帖数: 364 | 36 你说的是dealer 可以免费装吧？我不是抹不开面子，我也知道dealer 是人渣，周末看
的6家，我给dealer 的价钱要比我拿到的少个大概500，结果到哪都是碰一鼻子灰，后
来实在也不想折腾了。拿到的这个，还是dealer因为我写了一些很 harsh 的 complain
email,当时在车行里也 yell at them （我发现 yell at them 的时候我的英语说的
最溜 ：-）, 因为他们比较大，怕坏名声，所以才给的。这位大哥，你估计确实是个牛
人，我建议你以后自己单干，专门收集怎样和dealer 砍价的技巧，根据不同的dealer
propose 不同的砍价技巧，然后卖给买车的人，先收个20，砍成了以后再收50，你看如
何？ |
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b*******n
发帖数: 12321 | 37 看到这个，好玩
I went to Target this morning at around 6am, when I got there there was alre
ady line of people. When it got closer to opening time there was a huge line
and the very first guy in line kept yelling out he was going to buy all the
kindles so everyone wasting their time. When employees came to work and saw
line they were confused and everyone yelled out that they were here for the
kindles and the employees just walked by and said ok. The annoying dude at
front of line kept talking about sl... 阅读全帖 |
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p***u
发帖数: 408 | 38 转自：http://www.oilburners.net/forums/showthread.php?58624-How-to-get-blacklisted-from-Walmart
My wife insisted that I accompany her on her trips to Walmart.
Unfortunately, like most men, I found shopping boring and preferred to get
in and get out. Equally unfortunate, my wife is like most women - she loves
to browse.
Yesterday my dear wife received the following letter from the local Walmart:
Dear Mrs Hunt
Over the past six months, your husband has caused quite a commotion in our
store. We cannot... 阅读全帖 |
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t******g
发帖数: 53 | 39 【 以下文字转载自 Boston 讨论区 】
发信人: todzheng (blind), 信区: Boston
标 题: Re: 警察电击那位中国女性是完全正确的选择
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Dec 13 14:29:04 2012, 美东)
What you said below is not true, police did not get both of her hands until
after tasering. I was much closer to the woman than the guy who shot the
video. I just walked in Apple store when the police and the woman were
together against the glass wall in Apple store, less than 10 feet away.
At first there was only 1 police trying to persuade her to leave. She would
... 阅读全帖 |
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f**********r
发帖数: 18251 | 40 【 以下文字转载自 Boston 讨论区 】
发信人: todzheng (blind), 信区: Boston
标 题: Re: 警察电击那位中国女性是完全正确的选择
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Dec 13 14:29:04 2012, 美东)
What you said below is not true, police did not get both of her hands until
after tasering. I was much closer to the woman than the guy who shot the
video. I just walked in Apple store when the police and the woman were
together against the glass wall in Apple store, less than 10 feet away.
At first there was only 1 police trying to persuade her to leave. She would
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q***n
发帖数: 3594 | 41 the best thing you can do is to vote for Trump if you are a citizen or
influence those around you to vote for Trump if you are not.
The DEM is carrying out a propaganda in this country that it is OK to
discriminate asians, e.g., through AA in college enrollment. That's why the
lady felt it was ok to yell at you but not at a black person (or she would
be in big trouble and be labeled as racist.)
To stop this propaganda, the most practical thing you can do now is to vote
for Trump/GOP.
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s********5
发帖数: 80 | 42 平时我对学生可能太nice了，现在学生有点过分。比如有一门基础课，很多学生都不买
教科书（虽然这门课系里统一要求使用两本书，是挺贵的）。很多学生都不买，做题什
么的就借别人的书，拍照片。今天本来要分组讨论书上的题目，可是基本上没人带书，
哪怕那些买了书的也没带着。之前说过很多次，要带书来上课。我问了一个学生有没有
书，为什么不带来，她有点不高兴，说大家都没带，为什么yell at me（其实没有"
yell at her"，我是有点生气，但是语气还很平和，也没有针对她的意思）
这还是第一次遇见学生不愿意买书/带书的情况，不知道该怎么办了。平时对学生很友
好，也不敢“得罪”他们，怕影响evaluation, 现在感觉他们有点被惯坏了，求前辈们
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s********5
发帖数: 80 | 43 平时我对学生可能太nice了，现在学生有点过分。比如有一门基础课，很多学生都不买
教科书（虽然这门课系里统一要求使用两本书，是挺贵的）。很多学生都不买，做题什
么的就借别人的书，拍照片。今天本来要分组讨论书上的题目，可是基本上没人带书，
哪怕那些买了书的也没带着。之前说过很多次，要带书来上课。我问了一个学生有没有
书，为什么不带来，她有点不高兴，说大家都没带，为什么yell at me（其实没有"
yell at her"，我是有点生气，但是语气还很平和，也没有针对她的意思）
这还是第一次遇见学生不愿意买书/带书的情况，不知道该怎么办了。平时对学生很友
好，也不敢“得罪”他们，怕影响evaluation, 现在感觉他们有点被惯坏了，求前辈们
支招。 |
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p*********c
发帖数: 9 | 44 妈妈在美国帮我,算上延期,已经在这呆了9个多月.这期间陆续吵架了几次,主要原因是
寄给婆家的钱多了(从我毕业起的这四年多,大概寄了2万多刀,包括一万刀左右是婆婆盖
房的钱,五千刀给她妹妹买房),而寄给我家的还不到一万刀(连同给父亲治病的钱).
我一直是反对这给他妹妹的的,因为他妹妹完全有能力自己付房贷,但因为她婆家出钱了
,我婆婆要我老公出五千刀代表娘家的心意,同时她妹妹就不用贷款了.几番吵架后钱还
是寄了.我妈一直也替我不平.
一万多刀是婆婆要盖房,说三兄妹集资在老家盖房,老公的哥哥(在老家)和妹妹已经出了
这个钱,婆婆到银行借了10万人民币,算在了我们头上.我们是婆婆去年来帮我带小孩抱
怨说利息贵才知道的.想到我们又不去住老家的房子,而且怀疑贷款是老公哥哥的生意需
要,而非盖房 (借的是商业贷款)我是不同意出这个钱的,但考虑到她帮我带孩子的情分,
而且老了还要付利息,钱还是寄了.我妈也一直替我不平.
今天吵架我yell了我妈. 我妈气不折言,什么难听说什么,说我被我婆婆玩在手掌心上之
类的.
我平常脾气确实不好,很容易就yell起来,同时特别不喜欢我妈过问一些我自己很心烦的
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Z**S
发帖数: 1211 | 45 Exactly. I bet those who supported LZ yelling at little kids would jump out
and yell back if it were their kids making the big waves.
太自我中心的父母必定教育出太自我中心的孩子.
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l******a
发帖数: 16364 | 46 en,后来我google了一下,判决是因为威胁,但是同时也有这样一句话:In a related
story, the mom of one of the children accused of bullying Jones's daughter
says she was so upset that her child was yelled at that she was close to
tears.
我又google了一下看了一些帖子,很多人也是不主张直接yell at other ppl's
children,如果对方父母在场又是火爆脾气,可能会打起来.
btw,我觉得lz的行为还是值得赞赏的,有些坏孩子的行为就应该当场得到制止,这样不仅
对被欺负的小孩好,对他们也是一个教育. |
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C***1
发帖数: 2264 | 47 这个以前也帖过，LZ看看应该会有帮助。
TheBiggest Mistake People Make in Relationships : Not Truly Knowing And
Accepting Your Partner
Do you know your partner? I mean really know him/her? Can you be honest with
yourself about his limitations, or the ways in which he doesn't live up to
your idealized vision of what the perfect partner should be? Do you accept
him for who he is? the good and the bad stuff, or do you only want the parts
of him that you enjoy and benefit from?To be successful in love, especially
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g*******e
发帖数: 119 | 48 不用收拾前夜有人留下的空啤酒瓶，瓜子壳，零食包装......
沙发上没有臭袜子，没有脚后跟扣哧下的白花花的老皮，和嘿嘿一坨的腿毛.....
没有人躺在床上看ipad 到10点，叫好几次都没反应的......
没有人蹲在厕所看ipad，一蹲半小时的......
没有人11点，窜到厨房，问有没有早饭吃的......
我们娘儿三，8点起了床，吃了早饭，收拾利索了，老二弹琴，老大读中文，我一边听
老大读，一边看小说。
老二很放松，老大也很放松。因为不会有yelling,从爸爸的床上传来。那个懂音乐，但
没有耐心的，不允许有错误.....
11点，我们去Gym.我跑步，孩子们自己练习cartwheel.
午饭是烤三文鱼，炒豆角。没有人complain,味道不够重.....
家里的气氛，那么peaceful......
我也曾试图改变他，为什么那么没耐心，那么急着yell.
凡他所参与的，孩子们的课外活动，都以孩子们的完全抵触而夭折。因为没有一次不是
以被爸爸臭骂一顿结束.....
他说，他就是不能忍受，“那些慢人”。
直到那天晚上，和他父母视频，他吼叫着，吼叫着。。。。终于教会了他父母如何用
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c*********0
发帖数: 226 | 49 I agree with every thing you are saying. I found a therapist 3 weeks ago,
but she is so booked up, so my first session isn't until next week. I am
ready to move on. I am trying my best to forget the past. My issue is I
don't know ho w to deal with them in the future. To be honest with you, I'm
still afraid of my parents, especially my mom. I don't want to go to China
to see them, because i know while I am there, they will continue to abuse
me. And if I don't obey them (including eat the f... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******r
发帖数: 334 | 50 “My issue is I don't know how to deal with them in the future. To be
honest with you, I'm still afraid of my parents, especially my mom. I don't
want to go to China to see them, because i know while I am there, they will
continue to abuse me. And if I don't obey them (including eat the food
they require me to eat, visit the relatives they demand me to visit, call
their friends who I have no desire to associate with), they will be
emotionally beating me to death. I know exactly what they wou... 阅读全帖 |
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