a******g
发帖数: 13519 | 1 大事不好！十万美国教会公开强烈要求收回卡哇孬的提名！
100,000 U.S. Christian Churches Demand Withdrawal of Kavanaugh's Supreme
Court Nomination
A group representing 100,000 congregations and 45 million churchgoers across
an array of Christian denominations in the U.S. has called for the
nomination of Brett Kavanaugh to be withdrawn.
The National Council of Churches statement said, “Judge Kavanaugh exhibited
extreme partisan bias and disrespect towards certain members of the
committee and thereby demonstrated that he posse... 阅读全帖 |
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l***x
发帖数: 1761 | 2 三亿美国人誓死不给共和党投票
across
exhibited
temperament
nation |
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p****x
发帖数: 1376 | 3 大事不好！一百万傻逼公开强烈要求收回卡哇孬的提名！
across
exhibited
temperament
nation |
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d********f
发帖数: 43471 | 4 祝愿发这个信的sb很快被me2
across
exhibited
temperament
nation |
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s********t
发帖数: 4150 | 5 For the first time since Donald Trump entered the political fray, I find
myself grateful that he’s in it. I’m reluctant to admit it and astonished
to say it, especially since the president mocked Christine Blasey Ford in
his ugly and gratuitous way at a rally on Tuesday. Perhaps it’s worth
unpacking this admission for those who might be equally astonished to read
it.
I’m grateful because Trump has not backed down in the face of the
slipperiness, hypocrisy and dangerous standard-setting deployed ... 阅读全帖 |
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i******0
发帖数: 609 | 6 After all, ironically, Dems are right that his temperament is problematic as
a scotus.
：感觉他这是赌气，我偏偏做个柳下惠给你看看
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i******0
发帖数: 609 | 7 After all, ironically, Dems are right that his temperament is problematic as
a scotus.
：感觉他这是赌气，我偏偏做个柳下惠给你看看
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 8 (1) 爱琳 (BBC 中文网驻美特约记者), 特写：现代送子观音—— 精子库. BBC
Chinese, July 14, 2011.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/zhongwen/simp
/world/2011/07/110714_us_sperm_bank_ailin.shtml
Note:
(a) The essay said, "西雅图精子库总公司在丹麦，是欧洲精子库在美国的分部." I
guess it refers to
European Sperm Bank USA
http://www.europeanspermbankusa.com/
(located in Seattle, Washington; European Sperm Bank USA is affiliated with
Denmark-based European Sperm Bank; Specializing in Open Identity Donors)
(b) The essay also said, "诊所 [sperm bank] 坐落在大学区。此原因很简单：他们
'拉拢... 阅读全帖 |
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C***1
发帖数: 2264 | 9 这个以前也帖过，LZ看看应该会有帮助。
TheBiggest Mistake People Make in Relationships : Not Truly Knowing And
Accepting Your Partner
Do you know your partner? I mean really know him/her? Can you be honest with
yourself about his limitations, or the ways in which he doesn't live up to
your idealized vision of what the perfect partner should be? Do you accept
him for who he is? the good and the bad stuff, or do you only want the parts
of him that you enjoy and benefit from?To be successful in love, especially
in lo... 阅读全帖 |
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m***x
发帖数: 788 | 10 Impact of Domestic Violence on Children
https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/factsheets/domestic_violence/impact.cfm
A growing body of literature shows that children who have been exposed to
domestic violence are more likely than their peers to experience a wide
range of difficulties. These difficulties fall into three main categories:
Behavioral, social, and emotional problems. Children in families
experiencing domestic violence are more likely than other children to
exhibit aggressive and ant... 阅读全帖 |
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S**C
发帖数: 2964 | 12 Hybrid funds tend to have the "right" temperament for most investors, they
tend to be not too hot, not too cold, and the investors tend not to look for
their "problematic" child(ren) in their portfolio, which could easily lead
to selling low and buying high.
There is a reason why investors return is lower than the fund return,
especially for those high volatility funds.
If you think you have the mental fortitude to stick with your plan, then you
may not need to have hybrid funds, but ask yoursel... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 18403 | 13 老中要注意观察，注意揭发。
特别是大头，管理层。把弹药
給正在受烙印冲击的老中老美
前线。 这样你就可以有同盟。
The Grim Reality
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/grim-reality-prathiba-kalyan
There is a thin line between exaggeration and blatant lying. What we are
witnessing off late, is more so of the latter.
As part of the internal due diligence process, we check the Visa copy, the
driver’s license and even the passport in some cases, of the consultants’
who send their resumes for positions that are open with us. We are
witnessing cases where consul... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******d
发帖数: 198 | 14 刚查到的一些信息：
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/pregnancyhealth/paintexposure.
What about pregnancy and household paint use?
The most common question related to pregnancy and paint exposure has to do
with painting the new baby's nursery or decorating the house before the baby
arrives. Unfortunately, there are no studies that document the effects of
household painting on pregnancy and the developing baby.
Currently, the assumption is that household painting involves very low
levels of exposure. The re... 阅读全帖 |
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M********7
发帖数: 17 | 15 并非你所看到的那末简单，有经验的调律师需要调完已后，耳听能判断钢琴和谐度，
unison, correct temperament等等。还没有提到保养中的regulation, and voicing.
不懂基本音乐知识，只能把钢琴调得越来越糟。
Registered Piano Technician (RPT) 要经过好几年的学习，才能通过一系列的考试。
我见过考了5-6年还没有过的。 |
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g***r
发帖数: 285 | 16
it's out of my realm, but i think all psychiatric disorders are a matter of
spectrum, everybody has a little bit of bipolar, depression, anxiety, what
not, it's just whether it's severe, whether it interferes with your daily
life and function and relationships,
that being said, to many people anxiety is either chronic, it's part of
their temperament;
or it's something that comes and goes, triggered often by stressful event/s,
you have to ask your friend, or yourself, which type you are, |
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z*******u
发帖数: 831 | 17 I think the most important thing is you feel happy.
If you are happy when 视他们为空气, then keep doing this and totally ignore
what they say.
If you are happy living without them, then send them back China or send them
to travel or sublease another apartment for them for the next four months.
See if you can have a calm but serious talk with your husband. Tell your
husband how you feel when they are around. Tell him you are happy to comfort
them, make them happy and compromise but not now. Now the mo... 阅读全帖 |
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m*******e
发帖数: 1886 | 18 it all depends on ur baby's temperament |
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s****h
发帖数: 717 | 19 楼上有JM问猫咪和宝贝的关系,我的个人经历是他们绝对是可以和平共处的 （事实上只
有宝宝蹂躏猫咪，从来没有猫咪欺负宝宝）。
我的两个猫咪都是小猫时就从shelter领来的。好的shelter会事前temperament
screening，只有脾气好的猫咪才会被put up for adoption.他们两的脾气都很好，属
于逆来顺受型:)领养他们两年后我怀孕了，父母不出意料的各种担心，要求我把猫咪送
走，我心里是坚定的，从领养的那一天就要照顾他们一辈子，不能因为莫须有的罪名就
把他们遗弃。情感之余，还要有理智。我自己，还有猫咪，都去做了弓型虫检查，是阴
性。怀孕其间没有接触过猫砂。其他一切照旧。另外我的OB和儿医都说养猫没问题，儿
医甚至说接触宠物对宝宝的身体和情感发育都有好处。
宝宝第一次看到猫咪就喜欢的不得了，一看到就恨不得扑过去。才几个月时，大人一说
＂猫咪在哪儿？＂他就会望地上找。猫咪一开始是敬而远之，后来开始愿意坐在他身边
，但大人要看着，不是防范猫咪，而是小心宝宝兴奋过度猛抓猫咪:)
我们猫咪没有declaw，那样对猫很残忍。他们两从来没有抓过人。 |
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w***1
发帖数: 9 | 20 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: yecao (野草), 信区: Military
标 题: 看一看美国的司法腐败， 法官是怎样把一个无故孩子从妈妈身
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Nov 23 20:28:00 2012, 美东)
这是真人真事， 请大家舆论支持。
IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA
SECOND APPELATE DISTRICT
DIVISION TWO
Wan (aka Winnie) Tin ) Case #: B222712
)
Plaintiff and Respondent, ) (Sup. Ct. No. CK71139)
v. )
Los Angeles County Superior Court )
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发帖数: 5226 | 21 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
woshiYanZi (BeiBei) 于 (Thu Apr 18 12:28:57 2013, 美东) 提到:
之前不是发过帖子征求意见怎么雇保姆吗？后来就用了之前房主的保姆，觉得她应该不
错吧。从房主那里也了解到这个保姆很可靠。本来对保姆期望值不高，至少照顾好孩子
就行。用了大约一个半月了，从12周我回去上班开始的，昨天终于强迫老公偷着放了录
音笔在家。晚上回来听了，直接shock了。我是颤抖着听完的，老公直接拒绝听下去。
我老公最后离开家后，直接就变了个人。立刻打开电视电脑，讲电话，大半天几乎没听
到和我儿子讲话，我儿子太天使，自己一个人能玩到睡。后来，我儿子实在是无聊极了
，也或许饿了（他尿了大便了都不会哭），开始吱吱，一直没人理，才开始大哭，精彩
来了，保姆居然大声吼，shut up! Shut up! It's annoying! 我当时浑身颤抖，真怕
有更恐怖的发生。还好，她吼过以后，哄了哄我儿子，脾气好的儿子立刻就不哭了，保
姆立刻又不管了。后来偶尔听到我儿子吱吱，不是哭就是那种小... 阅读全帖 |
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m******t
发帖数: 184 | 22 孩子的的大夫是Tribeca， 他们有一本书叫The Bew Basics
刚看到一个部分是关于训练孩子睡眠的。
简单说
一般是从四个月开始，但他们发现其实从两个月开始更加有效。这时间训练孩子独立睡
眠只需要三天。
晚上喂饱孩子时候把孩子扔床上，然后离开不要再打搅孩子，第二天早上再来看孩子。
孩子大概第一天和第二天会哭的比较厉害，第三天第四天就没事了。
具体文章参见下面。因为我对这便不熟悉，觉得有点夸张。他们说的是否真的这么简单
有效。当然，我逻辑上同意他们的说法，越早训练，孩子依赖性越容易摆脱，有可能事
半功倍。但不知道大家看法如何？
The First Couple of Months
This period is your best opportunity to make your baby a night sleeper. Here
’s how.
After a couple of weeks, anna is sleeping more at night than during the day.
Each waking period ends with a feeding,... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3176 | 23 Also it depends on the child's temperament. Is yours an easy and happy kid
in general? If yes, then start him early. Mine younger child is both
relaxed and smart, and he went to a good Montessori at 2.5 years old and did
very well. My older son is shy and he hated change/new things when he was
small, so even if he started at age 4, he was still pretty marginal in class. |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 24 嗯，lz有没有关于独生子女的研究资料体会？
我觉着分析的挺靠铺
其实最后还是看父母看孩子们的temperament
所以，挑战也好追求完美也好，都是命啦 :) |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 25 对我来说，EQ就是指知道自己的temperament，自己的个性，自己的情绪倾向，感性世
界，同时有能力依据自己的个性适当地把握自己的情绪etc；还有就是对别人的个性情
绪倾向感情世界有感知，同时有一定的能力与不同于自己的人比较和睦的相处；
高EQ就是知己知彼，管理自己与人相处都来得很自如；
EQ是很内在的东西，是一种可以获得的能力 |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 26 谢谢分享
俺觉着temperament不会变化很多；
一个娃有没有自信心，是否joyful大多还是教出来的 |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 27 what is his/your definition on 性格?
temperaments are born
characters can be build
what part of your kiddo'性格 that he doesn't like and
he wants(?) so such to "blame" this on you? |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 28 hug hug
不必太纠结，虽说老二现在冒似蘑菇，还是跟她天生的一些temperament有一定关系的
，再加上这么个姐姐，相互feed，就是现在这种互动局面了
有意识地给老二多提供一些机会，老二发挥成什么样就accept it as is
多多地给老二playdate的机会，有1，2个比较亲近的，在学校才会去发展新朋友；
有比较亲密的接触，才能更好地学习相处之道
不急，慢慢来 |
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I*****M
发帖数: 622 | 29 我是很难理解生老二给老大做伴的想法。尤其是长大了做伴。每个人都会有自己的小家
庭，事业，人生，能在一起一辈子是不可能的。所以生老二，不是为了老大，是觉得自
己的小家庭现在可以有更多的小生命来分享目前的快乐。在父母都不快乐的情况下再来
一个，不是把她（他）带到人世受苦吗？
要是现在楼主这样的情况，我会花更多的时间在唯一的一个娃身上，让他多多的认识这
个世界，get a good temperament and education. And, most importantly,
establish a good start for future family life. What eventually accompanies
him in the world, will be the other half he seeks, not a sibling. |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 30 temperaments，strength，gifts |
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L**L
发帖数: 1802 | 31 我觉得美术首要的鉴赏能力，或者说眼力。要让孩子懂得什么样的东西是好的美的。
下面有id说一年级学画莫奈，这个是我LD比较认同的。 我LD教的孩子（5-10岁）也是
会常常学莫
奈，梵高，毕加索，然后用他们的风格流派自己创作。 这个过程中孩子会领会为什么
这些大师的作
品受大家爱戴，同时认识很多表现手法。 梵高和毕加索的表现手法有时候很合孩子口
味，有些孩子
画出来的东西非常大胆，意境非常像。
鉴赏能力和兴趣一般是一起培养的。画得有意思才会有兴趣。
技术是慢慢积累的，这里面有两个常见的误区。 一个是家长追求“作品”，我知道有
些课画油画，半
年才能画一张“像样的作品”。这样会非常限制孩子，孩子一定要多画才能练就技术，
而不是照着图片
拼凑细节。我们认识几位知名艺术家，油画2-3个小时就一张，素描更是几笔就完，而
且相当传神。
第二个就是简笔画。铅笔描轮廓，蜡笔color，这个我发现daycare都是这么教的。其实
这样也限
制孩子技术发展（还有兴趣发展）。 最好是应该是多种材料都用：水彩，丙烯（可以
用便宜的
tempera）,油画棒，碳铅，色粉笔。 还有用手color等等方法。 每种材... 阅读全帖 |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 32 patpat
俺觉着人的temperament基本改不了
为人处事的习惯可以改，难，很难
最重要的是一个人意识到需要改进，且打心底地要改进
我也知道他就是这个做事
风格。象我们两每次吵架他都是直接走人，挂电话，关机，这样我就很难受。逛超市他
也总是自己想看什么就看
什么，一不注意就找不到他人了，所以我很不喜欢和他 |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 33 恩，管它是什么标签呢 :)
咱看end product :)
咱娘对你的成长还是很用心地，
大事上大方向上很正，
貌似在你的个性（temperament)上屡次碰壁21 :) |
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w*********y
发帖数: 7895 | 34 TEMPERAMENT的准确意思好像不是个性吧。。。虽然带有这个意思。。。 |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 35 恩，文盲俺就是把天生的东东都归成temperament
其他可以在此基础上develop的，都归成character，3观 |
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w*********y
发帖数: 7895 | 36 哦。 其实TEMPERAMENT比较重要的一点，就是对个人的EMOTIONALITY起
着很关键的作用，而EMOTIONALITY影响的各种发展也很多，包括智力，
社会能力，学习等等。。。 |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 37 害得俺跑去查innate :)
俺觉着有些特性或者倾向是不能改的（或者改变很少）
比如 急性慢性 外向内向
不过，这都没什么，没有好坏，就是不一样，不影响3观的培养和形成
只要知己，知道自己有什么样的temperament，
能够相应的在不同的场合做出不同的处理/准备，就上上了:) |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 38 俺比较固执地觉着，只要一个人能认清自己的temperament
就能come up比较有效的对应自己emotion的做法（处理方式） |
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w*********y
发帖数: 7895 | 39 我不是研究TEMPERAMENT的，只是看过一些PAPER。我个人感觉，
你说的认知和我说的认知不一样。。。常理来说，如果知道
自己处理问题的方式不能带来正面影响，就会说，我们改变处理
方式就好了。。。但实际上，并没有这么简单。。。有些人可以
通过改变处理方式来带来正面影响，有些人需要合理训练才能做好，
有些人则需要不断的正面FEEDBACK才能做好。。。。 |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 40 俺觉着temperament 是天生的
3观 EQ是后天慢慢培养的
人到中年，很多东西还是可以修改修正的
养娃，耐心第1
自己的娃自己最了解
别人说啥，听听就好了
真的不要过于紧张了 |
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c****r
发帖数: 815 | 41 虽然都是老生常谈了。。。
TOPIC:: Help! My Child Doesn't Listen. Positive Discipline Ideas.
How can we help our children behave? Each child needs to experiment and test
his own behavior within clearly defined limits. In other words, our
children are supposed to act out, talk back, and not listen – at least once
and most likely many times. That’s how they learn. Think about learning to
skate or ride a bike – you fall. Even after you’ve mastered skating and
biking, if you’re tired, you’re more likely to fall... 阅读全帖 |
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y******1
发帖数: 48 | 42 我这几天在读两本书。我觉得可能对你有帮助。我家7岁男孩在学校很好，但是在家里
很难管理。我们要学着理解孩子为什么那样。我试着应用书上的原则和方法，觉得有一
定的效果。
Two books I borrowed from local library.
Setting Limits with Your Strong-Willed Child (Eliminating Conflict by
Establishing CLEAR, Firm, and Respectful Boundaries)
BACK talk-4 Steps to Ending Rude Behavior in you Kids
It is too slow to type Chinese. I will just write in English.
I have read other parenting books as well and many posts on this board. I
think the most important thing to remember is that every child... 阅读全帖 |
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s*********5
发帖数: 5637 | 43 另外上次看Mary Sheedy Kuicinka写的“Kids, Parents, and Power Struggles". 她
提到我们人的性格可以分为以下7个层面：坚持性，敏感性，适应性，感情丰富性，规
律性，能量高低，和对新事物的接受能力。当父母的这些性格和孩子不太一样时。父母
要特别注意怎样和孩子交流更好。
•Persistence: If you are involved in a task and your child interrupts
or asks for your help, do you find it frustrating and difficult to stop? If
your child tells you no, do you want to push harder for compliance? If you
are persistent, allow yourself to finish something every day.
•Sensitivity: how aware are you of sights,... 阅读全帖 |
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l*******e
发帖数: 3566 | 44 我有两个孩子，性格非常不同。
这个和父母上不上心，关系不是很大。
父母可以顺应孩子的个性，temperament等等，treat them adaptively，尽量让孩子快
乐，发挥个性上好的一面，在一定程度上修订不够好的一面，发挥最大的潜力。就够了
，不要觉得我们这么做那么做，孩子一定会这么改那么改。 |
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s**********3
发帖数: 12 | 45 你说得没错。
“父母可以顺应孩子的个性，temperament等等，treat them adaptively，尽量让孩子快
乐，发挥个性上好的一面”
这样的上心的父母教育出来的孩子，和不顺应孩子的个性的父母教育出来的父母，肯定
是前一个孩子性格更好一些。 |
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a***l
发帖数: 2397 | 47 给小孩用的那种tempera paint，有些是 washable，颜色很重呀 |
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l******2
发帖数: 2994 | 48 1. we have the same temperament.
2. Their crying won't last forever, my son now turns out a sweet boy by 3
years old.
3. The way I did to survive is I distracted myself thinking other things or
focusing on housework while my son was crying. His crying now is white noise
to me. be sure to keep them within your eyesight for safety. |
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 49 I have no sympathy for people like you.
You deserve punishment, which God will mete out in due course (see next, for
example).
(1) I myself was abused--both physically and emotionally--when I was a boy
in Taiwan. By my parents. After I grew up, I have turned my back on them. I
have no idea if they are alive or not. Go to hell, I say.
(2) What is wrong with Chinese culture, into which Taiwanese culture may
arguably be subsumed?
subsume (vt): "include, incorporate"
YAN FAN ZHU gained notoriety in ... 阅读全帖 |
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p*******h
发帖数: 184 | 50 A good read from journal today - we need to teach kids to be patient.
When my daughter was 18 months old, my husband and I decided to take her on
a little summer holiday. We picked a coastal town that's a few hours by
train from Paris, where we were living (I'm American, he's British), and
booked a hotel room with a crib. Bean, as we call her, was our only child at
this point, so forgive us for thinking: How hard could it be?
We ate breakfast at the hotel, but we had to eat lunch and dinner at t... 阅读全帖 |
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