s*****g
发帖数: 2140 | 1 It is not determined by the guy, it is determined by the guy's sperm. But
who decides which sperm is the winner? The lady? or God? |
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 2 American singer Justin Timberlake in 2003 released the single "I'm Lovin' It
" as theme song for McDonald's same-titled advertising campaign.
(1) The decline of Asian marriage | Asia's Lonely Hearts; Women are
rejecting marriage in Asia. The social implications are serious. Economist,
Aug 20, 2011.
http://www.economist.com/node/21526350
Quote:
"People there [in Asia] now marry even later than they do in the West. The
mean age of marriage in the richest places—Japan, Taiwan, South Korea and
Hon... 阅读全帖 |
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k***n
发帖数: 11247 | 3 BabyFiles™
BabyFiles™ were introduced in 1996 and are included in the purchase of
an Enhanced Profile. BabyFiles™, the donor's childhood photograph,
are helpful for those who have concerns about how their child might look. To
view BabyFiles™, register here.
PhotoFiles™
PhotoFiles™ introduced by Xytex in 1994, are photograph folios on
select donors. They are included in the Enhanced Profile, when available,
and are usually a "head and shoulder" photograph of th... 阅读全帖 |
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b**********5
发帖数: 7881 | 4 黄脸婆， 和累不累没关系。 你如果是黄脸婆， 肯定是lack of facial， and i am
not talking about the facials u get at a spa, i mean the facial when u suck
some guys' dick so good that he empties his sperm on your face... sperms
are very nutritious for your skin |
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g*****j
发帖数: 1211 | 5 It takes about 2 day for your husbands sperm to swim to the right place
to meet the egg. It takes another 3-4 days for the fused egg & sperm to
travel to your uterine for implantation. In other words, conception
does not occur until about 1 week later after the special "aa". During
that week, the embryo travels in your body, but still not connected to
your blood circulation, which means even systemic infection will not
touch it.
A common cold is a localized infection occurring in your upper
r |
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R**a
发帖数: 190 | 6 这样的老公，如果我是楼主，我现在不是要考虑“该不该生孩子”，而是
“该不该同他离婚”。
公公婆婆、爸爸妈妈不来照顾孩子，都没有错。
这个老公，想要孩子，却不愿意照顾，那就是大错特错。
有能力赚钱，自己却不想照顾或者不懂得照顾娃的，就请保姆。
没能力赚钱，就自己扛着。
反正，这是自己娃，有钱出钱，有力出力。
啥都不想出的，就不要生娃了。
疯掉了，嫁给这种人和他生娃，有意义么？除非楼主特别想要孩子，
还不如sperm bank呢。至少，sperm bank生出来的，你只需要
照顾一个，和这样的老公，生出来一个，外带老公照顾两个未成年人。 |
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P*****u
发帖数: 19 | 7 非常喜欢孩子， 也长期在本版潜水。
一直没遇到过合适的人， 所以现在已经中年了还单身。
曾经查过有关领养的事， 单身的没资格。
考虑了很久， 想找sperm bank买sperm 来， DIY自己生宝宝。 查了一下价格， $300-
600， 比起IVF来便宜太多。
我现在工作稳定，身份也应该能解决， 只是时间问题了。 收入不算高但养个宝宝应该
没问题。
大家说说这样可行吗？ 就怕有什么没考虑周全的， 害了孩子。 |
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l***o
发帖数: 578 | 8 For man, only sperm analysis is necessary. Make sure to have no sex for at
least 2 days before sperm analysis. |
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az
发帖数: 16686 | 9 There's a lot of misinformation out there about getting pregnant. If you're
trying to conceive (TTC), chances are, you've wondered whether some of the "
facts" you've heard are actually anecdotal, old-wives' tales, or plain old
fiction. Here, we set the record straight about some popular TTC myths.
Myth: The average couple conceives within three months of trying.
Fact: Barring any fertility issues, it actually takes take the average
couple between six and 12 months of actively TTC before getting... 阅读全帖 |
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l***o
发帖数: 578 | 10 Now amniocentesis is recommended for any age of mother, not only >35 year
old.
Try to talk with Urologist to see if testis aspiration may get a few sperm.
If a few sperm is availabe, IVF by ICSI helps. |
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q***q
发帖数: 2383 | 11 把sperm离心？这个我个人觉得不太靠谱。万一离心造成sperm变异了咋办？ |
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e****e
发帖数: 931 | 12 不好意思没说清楚 ^_#
我的老师是说如果是在排卵前几个小时以内同房的话，的确怀男孩的概率大一点点（大
约55%）。其他的时间的话基本上都是50%了。不过具体的文献我也不知道。
PS.我的同学说Y sperm is a sprinter, and X sperm is a marathoner. 更没有统计数据
了，而且他们也没有结婚生小孩。 |
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 13 Pam Belluck, Study Links Male Infertility to a Missing Protein; A mutation
may be a hurdle to conception, with a sperm viewed as an invader. New York
Times, July 21, 2011.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/07/21/us
/21fertility.html?scp=1&sq=infertility%20china&st=cse
(a) Quote:
"Men with two copies of the defective gene do not produce the protein.
"besides the 25 percent of men with two mutated copies, half of men have one
mutated and one normal copy with no effect on fertility
(b) Note:
(i) The repo... 阅读全帖 |
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l********t
发帖数: 44 | 14 There are a lot of debates on how long sperms can live. Some said it can
live 5 days, some said 2 days. Also some scholars believe even a sperm can
"live" for several days, its fertilization ability won't go beyond 2 days.
On the other hand, an egg probably won't live more than a day. |
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s*********r
发帖数: 409 | 15 KY lubricant, condom lubricant, are both very harmful to the sperm quality.
If you want to get healthy and active sperm to penetrate your egg, please
stay away from those lubricant.
If you do need lubricant, please use fertility fridenly lubricant, such as
preseed. You can buy if from walgreen or amazon.
Just do a simple google search and you can find tons of information on how
lubricant is bad for fertility.
I think for your case, preseed is the best option. Sometimes, when it is too
dry, it i... 阅读全帖 |
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L******t
发帖数: 1985 | 16 If you ask me, I'd suggest you do not do anything to help sperms. Let the
best sperm win.
Of course, a different story if it has been a long time. |
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S***e
发帖数: 4426 | 17 那同性恋可以捐sperm么？可以买sperm怀孕么？这怎么管理啊？
还有，不孕的人为啥可以领养呢？不孕的后果更是不应该有孩子出现吧。 |
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M********8
发帖数: 3837 | 18 我唱点反调。
不要为了孩子，匆匆忙忙找后父，我看到过这样的例子，本来第一次已经遇人不淑了，
后来为了给孩子完整的家，匆忙找个，没多久又不行了，后来就破罐子破摔。宝宝的不
幸已经存在，无论你找不找后父，生父生而不管这个事实无法跳过，如果急切为了掩盖
这样的事实，反而对自己不好。
当然要追求以后的幸福，但是不要急。就算跟孩子摊开来说生父不爱，也没有问题，看
你怎么frame这个事实。比如我会这么说，there are dads that love their kids and
there are dads that don't, it is a matter of luck，可以多多援引其他所知的单
亲例子。但是强调妈妈爱她，外婆外公etc爱她，而很多小孩连这些爱也没有。然后跟
宝宝说，大家一起找一个又爱妈又爱她的新爸爸。
把爸爸这个含义拆开来说，一个是sperm donor + 爱她而履行父亲责任的人，前夫就是
一个sperm donor。 |
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D*w
发帖数: 1011 | 19 孩子其实是大自然的作品
其实不是你的作品
从某种角度讲
你只是被大自然利用了
你想啊, 你只是贡献了一个sperm而已
孩子的身体里那么复杂的生理结构,信号通道,
都不是你设计制造的, 你甚至都不懂它们
就连你贡献了的这一个sperm
你都不知道是怎么造出来的
你对结果也没有任何控制
比如你无法左右你孩子长什么样,是否聪明等等 |
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f**c
发帖数: 7 | 20 儿子8岁了，对性有很多疑问。我本以为美国小学会对孩子有性教育的，看来完全没有
。孩子他爸成天忙得没空管孩子， 只好我亲自教了。 昨天去图书馆借了本给8-10岁孩
子性教育的书，晚上读给孩子听。
书的第一章，介绍女人身体结构， 书上画着女人下面的三个孔，尿道口，阴道口和肛
门。跟他讲，他不大感兴趣，只是很诧异baby是从阴道口那么小的口里生出来的。 接
着有图介绍女人乳房的发育， 画了三个女孩， 6-7岁的小女孩是平胸， 11-12岁胸部
开始发育， 17-18岁胸部发育好了。 书上画的那个 17-18岁的女孩很漂亮，长发，大
胸，细腰， 儿子看了又看，很喜欢，半天不让我翻页， 说， " Mommy, I really
like this picture."
第二章，介绍男人身体结构，书上有图介绍pennis, testicle, scrotum。 才发现儿
子有个很大的误解，他一直以为scrotum is for storing pee (阴囊是用来装尿用的)
， 让我忍俊不禁。
第三章， 介绍baby是怎么造成的，说是男人has an ... 阅读全帖 |
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 21 谁让你先说的sperm. 不知道我娃知道sperm不。 |
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b*********n
发帖数: 13256 | 22 除非在游泳池里性交，一般不可能。
Sperm ejaculated outside the human body likely only survive a few minutes.
Ejaculate or seminal fluid dries out very quickly when outside the human
body, once it is dried the sperm die almost immediately. Dissipated into
pool water, a similar outcome would occur. |
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a*****m
发帖数: 1010 | 23 "他们会采集你的脑电波.你所要做的就是放松，然后尽可能入睡，其他啥也不用干"
they may put some nasty sperm-like gels on your scalp to enhance
conductivity, which is typical for EEG experiments. the gels are harmless,
but imagine when the test is done and you have to walk all the way back home
with these "sperm" on you head... |
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e******e
发帖数: 10121 | 24 楼主是把动物，尤其是低等动物人化了。燕窝想吃都吃不起；蚕屎还是中药材呢。
什么黄，籽不都是动物的卵？你吃卵没问题，吃SPERM就不能承受了？SPERM比卵更恶心
？心理问题而已，吃的人多了习惯了自然就接受了。
其实没有什么比猪大肠更恶心的了，这是吃的最接近人类哺乳动物的最恶心的部位了应
该，哈哈！ |
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p**********u
发帖数: 15479 | 25 【 以下文字转载自 Midlife 讨论区 】
发信人: jasmine02 (夕阳红), 信区: Midlife
标 题: 女人喜欢把女人往火坑里推？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Sep 6 09:35:03 2014, 美东)
前 一阵子很生媚外女的气，我觉得吧，中国人都是兄弟姐妹，所以她们也是我们的
姐妹，兄弟姐妹吃了亏，应该劝一下吧，所以就想劝一下媒外女姐妹们。
在中国，不夸张的说，100个女人被外国男人玩弄，只有一个能够“幸运”的嫁给
外国男人。
100个嫁给外国男人的中国女人，其中60个最后离婚，20个生活在更穷困的外国农
村，5个成为小老婆，5个成为性奴（换妻、裸照上网、全家男人共用...）,嫁给外国老
头的...幸运能在国外过上好日子的女人，剩下的没几个！
可以说，找外国男人真正能幸福的比例非常非常非常低，大多是痛苦甚至悲惨，这
么说一点也不夸张。
男人都知道，风险太大的生意不能做，女人也应该清楚，风险太大的感情不能投入
吧。
我们中国人都是兄弟姐妹，平常各过各的，一旦有难，还是要互相提醒互相帮助，
就像四川地震的时候对吧，互相帮助是我们中国人一种本... 阅读全帖 |
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f******y
发帖数: 2971 | 26 You dont even need a man to get a baby. Just get some sperm from the sperm
bank. |
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Y*****2
发帖数: 38613 | 27 哦，应为我做好了30岁我如果还没嫁人，我就到sperm bank买sperm 自己生自己养的准
备了。 |
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j**4
发帖数: 10425 | 28 what's the difference between white sperm and yellow sperm? |
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b**********5
发帖数: 7881 | 29 and found out he had a vasectomy. and i asked how exactly does that work?
he explained to me that they cut off the route of the sperm from inside to
the penis. so he still has fluid come out, but the sperm just goes inside
his body
so i said, so now when u ejaculate, u are just pregnating urself! |
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b**********5
发帖数: 7881 | 30 Children born to older fathers 'are more likely to be ugly'... but may also
live longer
Older fathers have uglier children, researchers have claimed after linking
age to genetic mutations.
The finding comes weeks after leading scientists reported children born to
men over the age of 45 run a higher risk of having autism and psychiatric
disorders.
With age, sperm-producing cells do not copy a man's DNA as effectively,
leading to genetic mutations.
Martin Fielder, an anthropologist at Vienna Unive... 阅读全帖 |
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a***n
发帖数: 2632 | 31 Child Welfare Information Gateway (2004). Risk and protective factors for
child abuse
and neglect. The Children’s Bureau, Administration for Children and
Families,
U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Washington, D.C.
Coulton, C.J., Crampton, D.S., Irwin, M., Spilsbury, J.C. & Korbin, J.E. (
2007). How
neighborhoods influence child maltreatment: A review of the literature and
alternative pathways. Child Abuse & Neglect, 31, 1117-1142.
Coulton, C.J., Korbin, J.E., & Su, M. (1999). Neighb... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****O
发帖数: 402 | 32 too many possibilities. can't predict.
but in reality, one of the defective sperms from a normal man could win
the race several times. there is one literature that describes such a case.
an asian woman had 3 time miscarriage after birth of her first baby. it
turned out that her husband's chromosomes have a balanced translocation. if
this woman gets pregnant infinitive times, she probably will have 25% normal
kids without translocation, 25% noraml kids with translocation, 50%
miscarriage or still... 阅读全帖 |
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A******9
发帖数: 14 | 33 不想找sperm bank, 因为不放心，想自己把关，是否正直，善良，情感稳定，聪明，这
些太重要了。 谢谢建议。
建议: 找sperm bank好了 |
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t******t
发帖数: 2404 | 34 正直，善良，情感稳定这些又不遗传， 靠后天教育。 跟生孩子没关系呀。 不要以找
老公的心态去找sperm, 因为这样已经证明找不到了呀。 以找孩子的心态去找sperm
bank, 看你想要谁当你的孩子。 |
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V*****n
发帖数: 893 | 36 they say cycling is a good contraception. exaggeration of course. but heat
and inflammation do greatly reduce sperm quality, making it harder for them
to finish the marathon swim.
however sperms generally have a 45 day growth cycle. so as long as you stop
riding two month before conception, you are fine as fresh new cells are
produced.
what you should really worry about is ED as the blood vassals supplying the
critical parts can be compromised if you overlook it for a long time. but
then cycling... 阅读全帖 |
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s****e
发帖数: 1984 | 37 I went to an acquaintance's twin's one-hundred day celebration a while back.
He is gay and came from mainland China, they found a surrogate mother
using his sperm to have the twins. The couple has an older son, he was born
the same way with his partner's sperm. So I don't think in this day and age
, 续香火 is a problem, as long as you have the desire and resource to do so. |
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a********a
发帖数: 3176 | 38 Artificial insemination is injecting sperm to the uterus (a woman can even
do it by herself once she has a tube of sperm). IVF is more invasive -
doctors 'harvest' eggs from the ovaries (after some hormone stimulated
ovulatory process) and then fertilize them outside the body before
transferring them back to the uterus.
A former co-worker of mine went through IVF and she said it was a pain...
The DC zoo did the artificial insemination to Mei Xiang with local
anesthesia; they think the general |
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w********o
发帖数: 1621 | 39 This should be posted to biology or genetics boards to get the discussion
interesting.
There is a paper published on a long time ago. The difference in
men and women was already explained by genetic traits.
Men don't have the ability to give birth. But their genes want to pass on.
Those genes' challenge is how to survive in the world. The answer is obvious
- they drive men's instinct to spread their sperms (genes) as widely as
possible. In behaviors, men in nature likes to sleep around.... 阅读全帖 |
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p*********3
发帖数: 2039 | 40 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nurse_with_Wound_list
Agitation Free, German rock group.
Pekka Airaksinen, Finnish musician and member of the group Sperm (see below).
Airway, project of Joe Potts as part of the Los Angeles Free Music Society
collective.
Albrecht/d. German artist with ties to the Fluxus scene. He has worked with
Joseph Beuys and Throbbing Gristle (see below).
Alcatraz, German rock group.
Älgarnas Trädgård, Swedish rock group.
All 7-70, see Ritual All 770 (below)
Alter... 阅读全帖 |
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C******t
发帖数: 257 | 41 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
liucarl (盛笑笑) 于 (Thu Jul 21 22:22:42 2011, 美东) 提到:
加州一直以前卫著称，正面的前卫比如高科技，我们从美西搬到美东，这一点深有体会
。同样是美国，硅谷的先进真的是展现在具体生活的细节中，举个例子，刚到美东，去
图书馆就发现这里的借还图书都是人工处理，硅谷大部分图书馆都是电子扫描自动处理。
前卫的负面或者说有些不舒服的地方呢，比如加州对同性恋一直走在大部分州对此的观
念之前。记得大约两年前，加州有人试图让同性恋结婚合法化，引起很多保守派和宗教
团体的有组织的抗议。那时我所认识的相同或不同教会的兄弟姐妹几乎都统一口径说“
为了我们孩子的将来”我们坚决反对同性恋。曾经在居住的小城里看见同性恋者高举着
牌子寻求他们的权益，我问身旁的两个孩子对此有何看法，当时是一个小学生和一个初
中的的一女一子对我说这些人应该得到他们的自由和权力。我的“上帝不喜悦”和为人
父母为子女担忧之说显然对在加州那样前卫开放的环境中长大的孩子是苍白无力的。
近来看了一部电影《Kids ... 阅读全帖 |
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l*******r
发帖数: 39279 | 42 但不是每个sperm都fertile的
建议每个在世的成年男性冷冻sperm,然后可以去死了
哈哈哈 |
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c*******r
发帖数: 527 | 43 ^^.....It is so funny although I did not read through. Why don't you say
that boys should freeze their first precious sperm, with which they
impregnate their furture wives using IVF? Moreover, you could spin down the
sperm and make sure to have a boy or a girl. ^^...Why bother so much? |
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t******n
发帖数: 2939 | 45 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
tonyblair (死猫) 于 (Sun Nov 6 09:46:20 2011, 美东) 提到:
妻子出轨,生出的小孩不是自己的(已经经过亲子鉴定), 并为此离婚, 离婚后男方还需
要付抚养费吗?
(如果按美国法律处理的话)
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laomaomao (戴玫瑰花链的猪|努力邓) 于 (Sun Nov 6 09:52:02 2011, 美东) 提到:
完了，这冤大头当的。。。
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warehouseman (学会放手) 于 (Sun Nov 6 10:39:52 2011, 美东) 提到:
安慰一下先 冷静
妻子出轨,生出的小孩不是自己的(已经经过亲子鉴定), 并为此离婚, 离婚后男方还需
要付抚养费吗?(如果按美国法律处理的话)
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t******6
发帖数: 9093 | 46 Why you can always find some misleading website? and never find a useful
website.
It is a miracle!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
about"The gene of one, or several of the active, trimmed toxin is
transferred to the GM plant and will be synthesized in every single cell of
the transgenic plant and the active toxin is being expressed by every cell,
all the time. Therefore, the ACTIVE TOXIN IS IN EVERY PLANT CELL AND TISSUE,
ALL THE TIME and cannot be washed off."
!!!!do you know tissue specific expression promoter??... 阅读全帖 |
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