T*******d 发帖数: 126 | 1 My divorce taught me many things, but the most important thing is to get a
prenup before you get married.
A prenup will help in the below ways:
- The most important reason to get a prenup is to save future possible
expense. To prenup a portion of your assets, you will save the time and
expense to discuss that portion of assets with your spouse, your attorney
and your spouse's attorney. Attorney fee in Southern California is around $
350-500 per hour. If you save 4 hours of negotiating time, you ... 阅读全帖 |
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L*********h 发帖数: 2617 | 2 标 题: 借着prenup的大潮请教,男女双方是留学生毕业工作结婚路线的,有必要签
prenup吗?家庭条件差距较大
人物和楼主的关系先不交代了哈,么么哒
男方女方认识很多年了,感情基础很好。男方工作几年了,公司给办绿卡。性格和外形
都很好,高大阳光型,女方父母很喜欢。家境普通,留学把家里的钱花的差不多了,结
婚爸妈最多能出20-30万RMB。女方刚工作,过几年会辞职自己做点事情,爸妈给了一些
股份和一线城市的铺面房产,都是婚前财产。双方打算在美国注册结婚,绿卡靠男方,
女方父母承诺注册结婚后给买个小豪宅,等过几年如果孩子生得多再给换个大的,这些
都算做婚后财产。男方父母较随和,基本不干涉孩子的事情。女方父母要求生两个或四
个孩子,一半跟女方姓,男方女方都无所谓孩子姓什么。男方女方商量着要签prenup,
女方父母思想传统不同意,不同意的原因很多总之就是不同意或者不愿意出面。女方父
母认为小夫妻婚后多年儿女成群之后就一定不会离婚,那个时候婚姻一定很稳定,他们
等到那个时候再把大部分股份和财产给女儿和女婿。大家觉得这样是不是不靠谱?
prenup还是得联系律师签一签的吧? |
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T*******d 发帖数: 126 | 4 Coz he thought any woman will work with him until he fixes his health
problem,even if it takes forever. Another woman will treat him gently
instead of being disappointed to his health problem. He thought he could
work this problem out and I should have waited forever until he solves his
problem. He thinks it is not a big deal if he shows up 30 mins late in a dr'
s appointment and the dr's apppointment waiting list is indeed 3 months long
. He thinks every thing I did for him is just something th... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 5 【 以下文字转载自 Piebridge 讨论区 】
发信人: Sp2018 (任盈盈), 信区: Piebridge
标 题: Re: 女征男: 不支持prenup
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jul 5 07:54:40 2018, 美东)
人生40才开始,这是最好的年华。你不懂。。。 |
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发帖数: 1 | 6 【 以下文字转载自 Piebridge 讨论区 】
发信人: Sp2018 (任盈盈), 信区: Piebridge
标 题: 女征男: 不支持prenup
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jul 4 09:38:13 2018, 美东)
★性别:
女
★出生年份:
75
★所在地(起码给出state):
NC
★职业情况(学生还是工作):
Self-employed
★简单的物理参数(身高cm/体重kg):
5feet.
★当前婚姻状态(从没结过婚/曾婚/丧偶):
分居一年
★联系方式(email/IM/站内):
PM
★血型、星座(optional):
B,双鱼
自我介绍:
目前我的性格是:passive-aggressive with porous boundaries
我热爱生活包括sex ,对感情忠诚度要求很高,眼睛里容不下一颗沙子
对对方的要求/期望:
1)幽默有趣有文化喜欢学习,
2)接受过美国本科以上的正规教育(要查文凭)
★是否希望版务对本帖锁贴并禁止讨论:
NO |
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l******2 发帖数: 5522 | 8 只有小孩子过家家才谈AA, 见面就谈上床就是耍流氓
成年人有诚意见面先谈prenup |
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T*******7 发帖数: 636 | 9 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
cocomelon (椰子瓜瓜) 于 (Wed Jun 13 01:47:17 2012, 美东) 提到:
写这个帖子求助其实心里挺难过的。自己从来没想到过会遇到这种事,但我有点无
助,也很迷茫,不知道婚姻里出了这样的矛盾,到底是谁的问题,我尽可能中立地描述
问题,请好心旁观者帮忙分析吧。
我跟老公都是离异后再婚,年纪都在30岁左右。我在国内工作,他在美国工作,在
这之前的半年,他一直在国内出差,我也正常上班,现在我怀孕8个月了,休了长假跟
他一同去美国,准备呆上半年,把小孩生在美国,将来也可能我们就留在美国发展不回
来了,半年后的事情还未定。
我跟老公感情挺好的,两个人认识很多很多年了,几年前因为阴差阳错没能走到一
起,在各自离婚后终于又团聚,所以我们彼此都很珍惜对方。可是,最近因为我卖了以
前的房子拿到了一大笔钱,关于这笔钱怎么使用上,两个人出了分歧。我们结婚的时候
,各自都有婚前房产,我有两套,一共价值240万,他有一套,大约330万,他自己还有
30多万的房贷未还。我们的工作都不错... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****y 发帖数: 33185 | 10 我来把文章贴全了
Why I Want to Marry Rich (The Man’s Perspective)
In our Money Mic series, we present an essay from someone with a bold
opinion on a money topic. These views are theirs, not ours, but we are
interested in hearing what you think.
After witnessing the lively debate inspired by one “Emilia Echolls” who
told us why she wants to marry rich, we decided to give the other team a
chance at bat. This time, we found a successful, intelligent, nice guy to
give us his opinion.
I’m a man, and I want t... 阅读全帖 |
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l****i 发帖数: 4609 | 11 婚姻你凑合一步,将来就得凑合100步
最近有个朋友问我签不签 prenup, 我说,如果你觉得需要签,就不要结婚。如果你是
真心诚意地结婚,就不需要签 prenup
如果你动了签prenup 的念头,he is not the right one. |
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T**********e 发帖数: 29576 | 12
前妻即使在世,也是按当年离婚条例,除此没任何权利。
翁帆如果当年签了prenup才是彻底昏了头,签prenup的都是有自己事业的人,她在家照
顾老杨哪有还签,纯属老杨欺负人了。 |
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f*********8 发帖数: 165 | 13 If he was a millionaire, yes for prenup. It is fair for him, and it also
shows that you are not marying him for money.Otherwise it is unnecessary, it
is like planning for divorce before you getting married.
An average family can make million dollar in 25 years. if you two want to be
married for long time he shouldn't care little bit saving for now. And you
need be an independ woman and get good job and contribute as much as you can
to the family. He will feel prenup is unnecessary eventually. |
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z*********n 发帖数: 94654 | 14 以前有人说的很好
开车撞车概率是多少,百分之几?人人必须mandatory prenup
结婚离婚概率多少?在加州好像都过半了,凭啥不mandatory prenup,呵呵
当然,就有一辆95年corolla的wsn就别操心了 lol |
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j**4 发帖数: 10425 | 15 she will get child support for sure. u can't preclude child support with a
prenup. Law requires child support
i am sure Katie has some payout on this. Their marriage seemed arranged in
the beginning, very quick, so i would be surprised Katie didnt protect her
ass in the prenup |
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m*******y 发帖数: 14292 | 16 5. Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes
Taking a page out of Larry Fortensky’s book, Katie Holmes used a prenup to
make marrying Tom Cruise a more lucrative proposition. The details: for each
year the couple stays married, Holmes collects $3 million or they’ve been
together for 11 years, whichever comes first. The best part? If they do last
that long, the prenup is null and void and Holmes receives half of Cruise’
s entire fortune. One has to wonder what attorney told Cruise this would be
a good idea! |
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L*********h 发帖数: 2617 | 17
an
and
没孩子没财产没prenup是很适合Uncontested Divorce
那如果6-month waiting period快结束的时候一方来个contest,就6个月前功尽弃白等
了,是这样么?
如果没孩子没财产没prenup,但一方不同意,就只能走Contested divorce?有啥指导
没? |
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l*****t 发帖数: 2019 | 18 其实这个问题城里人是这么办的:
写个prenup
别搞乡下人那套。(其实prenup就是fancy版的彩礼钱) |
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d**w 发帖数: 14889 | 19 不是,prenup是结婚10年才$20M. 他们现在都不到呢。自从tiger的丑闻出来后
据说prenup被改过,但也绝对不超过100M,而且那个还要求她至少再和他MARRY
几年后才能拿到。这个ELIN真是够黑的。 |
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w*******d 发帖数: 3714 | 20 Well, if it's healthy image isn't that important, why did all endorsements
just go away? Or actually why does he want to pay Elin $750M just to keep
her silent? (This is the most weird part in my mind...)
I agree that he would still make tons of money if he kept single. But nobody
forced him into marriage, nobody forced him to have kids, and nobody forced
him to give up the prenup.
Now that he chose to marry, to have kids, to cheat, to void the prenup and
give Elin that much money, it's all his |
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D***h 发帖数: 148 | 21 overcome by the opposing attorneys I bet
or even better someone may have left a backdoor when drafting the prenup
so sign a prenup, SERIOUSLY. better pay your lawyer now than pay your wife
later. |
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e*********e 发帖数: 2013 | 22 This sounds like a very reasonable prenup (If she is not precluded from
inheritance and he does not keep his
income separate property once they get married).
Look at the divorce rate, what makes her think that she will never divorce?
In reality having a prenup helps to avoid ugly disputes when a couple
decides to end the relationship. It
makes divorce clean and less painful. |
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d**w 发帖数: 14889 | 23 肯定不少。当年乔旦老婆拿100多M就已经很多了。但毕竟人家都婚了20多年而且也没有
PRENUP。这个女的有PRENUP才婚了五年就拿走这么多,TIGER真是太要面子了,就为了
这个女的一辈子都不吭一声。 |
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i***c 发帖数: 80 | 24 这儿讨论来讨论去没讨论到点子上,因果没搞清楚啊。制度是因,老百姓的所作所为是
果。
美国是法制和规范的社会,母亲带孩子不怕离婚,因为法制保障了她们的利益。怕离婚
的是那些巨富(无论男女),因为离婚分走巨额财产,哪怕是有Prenup(就象老虎伍兹
)。前几年刚有过一个调查,美国处于婚姻外的成年女人的人口首次超过了处于婚姻内
的女人人口,而且这个趋势不会扭转。所以在美国不幸福了就离,哪会象中国女人那样
忍辱负重,争一眼闭一眼地维持婚姻?
而中国是逞强欺弱“我爸是李刚”的社会,既然婚姻法不能保障离婚母亲的利益,既然
法律不能保障女人在找工作上受到的歧视,在年龄上受到的歧视,在升学升职上受到的
歧视,中国又男多女少,光棍汉竞争激烈,未婚女人必定会要求得到更大的投入和保障
之后才肯结婚。将来你女儿也一样,你也不希望她傻得被骗被欺负了不是?变成黄脸婆
后被人一脚踢开?将来你儿子要不想作光棍,也得经过投入和付出才会战胜其他光棍汉
不是?所以你在这儿哭爹骂娘地声讨由你妈你姐妹你女儿所代表的一半中华民族的劣根
性,是没有半点作用的。 |
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i***c 发帖数: 80 | 25 只是一个妓女而已。上次逃跑就因为律师拿出prenup文件让她签。她哪肯卖便宜了?
不光逃跑,她一人把两辆老头子送给她的车开出大宅,把几克拉的订婚戒指半价卖掉,
钱装自己腰包。这回老头又给买了更大的钻戒,现在老头的出价肯定让她愿意卖了。仅
此而已。 |
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s********i 发帖数: 17328 | 26 以黄世仁和白毛女为例,以前黄世仁娶白毛女,缺省白毛女可以分得黄世仁一半家产,
如果黄世仁不想,就得跟白毛女提prenup。现在黄世仁娶白毛女,缺省白毛女一无所得
,如果想分家产事先就得和黄世仁订好协议。所以现在是把婚前协议踢给了本来就弱势
的一方白毛女,而强势的黄世仁则无任何损失。 |
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N*****m 发帖数: 42603 | 27 像美国这样,prenup养了多少律师
中国就是把这些都搞明确了,不用请律师了 |
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s*******8 发帖数: 12734 | 28 【 以下文字转载自 ebiz 讨论区 】
发信人: bizbiz (时间是唯一的敌人), 信区: ebiz
标 题: 诚征485男,重金酬谢 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Jan 16 17:07:10 2012, 美东)
发信人: majia012 (majia2012), 信区: Piebridge
标 题: 诚征485男,重金酬谢
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Jan 16 16:34:17 2012, 美东)
★性别:女.
★出生年份: 1984
★所在地(至少明确state): 东部
★职业情况(学生还是工作): 工作
★简单的物理参数(身高/体重): 164cm,110lb
★当前婚姻状态(从没结过婚/曾婚/丧偶):未婚
★联系方式(email/IM/站内):站内 or 请邮件d************[email protected] ,请附自我
介绍,提供照片
希望浏览过这个帖子的网友能够宽容相待,人生做出任何决定多少有些无奈。
本质上我是个loser,一直觉得绿卡是影响我工作发展的最大因素,希望能用绿卡换自
由。
地点:希望最好在东部。
希望你年... 阅读全帖 |
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c*****g 发帖数: 21627 | 31 你啊,不说你什么了,典型的无知小将
不懂美国的法律,不明白prenup 也就罢了
难道还不了解米疣的为人么? |
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N*****m 发帖数: 42603 | 32 醒醒,默多克离了多少次了,还一半呢
prenup早让律师写好了 |
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c*****g 发帖数: 21627 | 35 配服啥?prenup签好,还产了2个杂种,根本丫就是倒贴嫖资 |
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c*****g 发帖数: 21627 | 36 你别为当代中国原配洗地了
看看白女代表希拉里,明知道克林顿甩花枪还是为老公辩护
再看看国女代表谷开来,在法庭上落井下石那个样
说什么“找律师能维护原配女方利益”,完全是和“霉国房子永久产权”一样的谎言。
有钱白男,有prenup的保护
没钱白男,本来就苍蝇肉,律师都看不上眼
至于那些进监狱的黑男们,就更不用提了 |
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L*********2 发帖数: 10195 | 37 我美可以靠立遗嘱,患者签prenup来解决这些问题.但是确实子女无绝对继承权。 |
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c*****g 发帖数: 21627 | 38 你naive了吧
霉国是表面上的“女权国家”,本质上还是男权国家
有prenup,另外年轻人那点积蓄算个P |
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c*****g 发帖数: 21627 | 39 邓瘟敌嫁50岁以上的老头,而且签了prenup,一看就是邓瘟敌亏了
mococh再有钱,和邓瘟敌无关,邓瘟敌还给人生了2个杂种。
说白了邓瘟敌还是一枚倒贴嫖资的烂外F |
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