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s*****n
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【 以下文字转载自 Dreamer 讨论区 】
发信人: sadrain (雨做的云), 信区: Dreamer
标 题: how to force oneself to study?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jun 19 15:33:52 2013, 美东)
I find out i no longer feel like studying after graduation.
i waste a lot of time on bbs and surfing, computer games and hanging out
with people. i would do anything but study sometimes.
but, in order to get a better job/just make my current job secure, I do need
to study a lot.
any good method to make me love studying again?
is it aging has done the bad job... 阅读全帖
Y**u
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来自主题: Wisdom版 - [合集] One more question on 生灭
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TrueStory (不是幸福的坑不挖) 于 (Wed Nov 2 10:30:26 2011, 美东) 提到:
I read more of runsun's post:
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Wisdom/31523515.html
and I seem to understand more of what he has said.
One question remains, especially on this entry of his:
http://www.mitbbs.com/article/Wisdom/31524839_0.html
I have no problem to accept this statement:
这个世界,真正存在的,只有一刹那,短短的一刹那。
However, I don't think that his example using 天上有很多的星星, which may
have faded before th... 阅读全帖

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来自主题: Gamble版 - how many decks in baccarat
Have many student every year from graduate among the school, enter brand-new
life next in the center, the work that carries oneself will exchange income
, begin to belong to oneself life next. And transfer in this during,
recreation and relaxation form also can produce change. The network game
that you can discover to those oneself are very happy with it has had appeal
no longer, they too too complex, oneself had been dealt with early without
time. So these people also are seeking new game way, ... 阅读全帖

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来自主题: Gamble版 - how many decks in baccarat
Have many student every year from graduate among the school, enter brand-new
life next in the center, the work that carries oneself will exchange income
, begin to belong to oneself life next. And transfer in this during,
recreation and relaxation form also can produce change. The network game
that you can discover to those oneself are very happy with it has had appeal
no longer, they too too complex, oneself had been dealt with early without
time. So these people also are seeking new game way, ... 阅读全帖
g****m
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Religion and Psychiatry
Irvin Yalom
宗教与精神病学
欧文亚隆

The American Psychiatric Association awarded Irvin Yalom the 2000 Oscar
Pfister prize (for important contributions to religion and psychiatry.) Here
is his acceptance speech delivered at the American Psychiatric Association
annual meeting in May 2000 at New Orleans. A version of this lecture has
been published in the American Journal of Psychotherapy (number three –
2002)
美国精神卫生协会将2000年奥斯卡菲斯特奖颁给欧文亚隆,奖励他在宗教与精神病学方
面做出的重要贡献。下面是他在2000年5月新奥尔良举行的美... 阅读全帖
a*****y
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来自主题: Wisdom版 - Philosophical zombie--Wiki
Philosophical zombie
A philosophical zombie or p-zombie is a hypothetical being that is
indistinguishable from a normal human being except that it lacks conscious
experience, qualia, or sentience. When a zombie is poked with a sharp object
, for example, it does not feel any pain. While it behaves exactly as if it
does feel pain (it may say "ouch" and recoil from the stimulus, or tell us
that it is in intense pain), it does not actually have the experience of
pain as a putative "normal" person d... 阅读全帖
T*****p
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来自主题: Automobile版 - 老中里面自恨的人真多啊
从老中撞死人的这件事看比例还挺大。
Self-hatred (also called self-loathing) refers to an extreme dislike or
hatred of oneself, or being angry at or even prejudiced against oneself. The
term is also used to designate a dislike or hatred of a group, family,
social class, mental illness, or stereotype to which one belongs and/or has.
For instance, "ethnic self-hatred" is the extreme dislike of one's ethnic
group or cultural classification. It may be associated with aspects of
autophobia.
The term "self-hatred" is us... 阅读全帖
T*******y
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mm, what makes you feel so down are the following thoughts. Are these
thoughts true?
"就是觉得很羡慕别人有LG可以依靠,为什么我这么命苦?"
Everyone has ups and downs in life, and everyone has different strengths and
shortcomings. If you are the better candidate to apply for the green cards
in your home, you should be proud of yourself. Also remind yourself what you
appreciate from your LG. Has he been nice to you and your child?
"我知道这都是绿卡及生活压力给我带来的负面情绪。其实主要还是怪自己,不牛,又
没用。要不然写这些东西还不是小CASE?"
牛不牛 is relative. Many people he... 阅读全帖
M****7
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http://www.lettersofnote.com/2012/09/i-shall-always-be-with-you
On June 8th of 1950, nine months after being arrested by the Czech secret
police on suspicion of leading a plot to overthrow the Communist regime, 48-
year-old socialist politician Milada Horáková was found guilty of "high
treason" following a show trial that was broadcast on national radio, and in
which she remained defiant. On the 27th of that month, despite
international outcry and a petition signed by, amongst others, Albert
Ein... 阅读全帖

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来自主题: Gamble版 - free baccarat strategy
Do not know to speak of toeza baccarat card game When, has everybody
employed variety of this kind of rich? You are now above the network
extraordinary popularity, the learns him skill that needs to had been close
friends also is when we are playing, talent is enough after because of go to
school be used to crosses his skill the better method that goes master this
kind of game, because only good method just can give people bring more
experiences, let us receive more fund these are very important... 阅读全帖

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来自主题: WaterWorld版 - Toy play
People to the ball kind of athletics loved to had become a kind of culture,
it is one kind lets people experience the emotive such as nervous, exciting,
agglomeration a kind of athletics, as people to the ball kind the addition
that athletics loves, toeza baccarat card game Also begin gradually arisen.
toeza baccarat card game Be football lottery actually derive, most when
beginning people more it is to paying close attention to football lottery,
get bonus thereby with football match thing under... 阅读全帖
r*********e
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来自主题: Joke版 - 好帖就得这么顶!
ZT:
看了楼主的帖子,不由得精神为之一振,自觉七经八脉为之一畅,七窍倒也开了六巧半
,自古英雄出少年,楼主年纪轻轻,就有经天纬地之纔,定国安邦之智,古人云,卧龙凤雏得
一而安天下,而今,天佑我大中华,沧海桑田5000年,中华神州平地一声雷,飞沙走石,大舞
迷天,朦胧中,只见顶天立地一金甲天神立于天地间,这人英雄手持双斧,二目如电,一斧下
去,混沌初开,二斧下去,女娲造人,三斧下去,小生倾倒.得此大英雄,实耐之幸也,民之福
也,怎不叫人喜极而泣.......古人有少年楼主说为证,少年之楼主如红日初升,其道大光
;河出伏流,一泻汪洋;潜龙腾渊,鳞爪飞扬;乳虎啸谷,百兽震惶;鹰隼试翼,风尘
吸张;奇花初胎,皇皇;干将发硎,有作其芒;天戴其苍,地履其黄;纵有千古,横有
八荒;小生对楼主之仰慕如滔滔江水连绵不绝,海枯石烂,天崩地裂,永不变心.
看完楼主的帖子,我的心情竟是久久不能平静。正如老子所云:大音希声,大象无
形。我现在终于明白我缺乏的是什么了,正是楼主那种对真理的执着追求和楼主那种对
理想的艰苦实践所产生的厚重感。面对楼主的帖子,我震惊得几乎不能动弹了,楼主那
种裂纸欲出的大手笔,竟使... 阅读全帖
T*******y
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来自主题: Wisdom版 - 苦-爱用心,用心爱
laurara02, I feel like that we may be talking about different things, since
I still don't know what you are trying to say.
You once said that you didn't want to talk about what you felt as your truth
right now. That's okay with me. If one day you want to talk about that, I'
ll be glad to see what it is.
I have laid out what I am believing as my values, and if you have something
specific to say about those, I am happy to listen as well.
I want to know what you have to say, which I still do not ge... 阅读全帖
Y**u
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来自主题: Wisdom版 - [合集] 苦-爱用心,用心爱
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JeanIris (Iris) 于 (Sun Oct 9 06:13:28 2011, 美东) 提到:
以前经常看见一个问题“人生的意义是什么?”如果佛法所讲人生皆苦,修习佛法的终
极目的是为了解脱,不堕轮回,那我们今生到底有什么样的意义呢?我们单纯是因为业
力的原因不得不在轮回中继续打转麽?
佛法的核心四圣谛,讲得就是苦,集,灭,道。其实就是了知苦,如何灭苦,以及实践
灭苦。佛法的实践就是八正道。
今天早晨我突然觉得,其实正是因为我们在轮回里,我们是人,我们在不停地经历人生
,经历五蕴所构成的一切。这不恰恰是最好的让我们了知苦的机会麽?关键在哪里呢?
在用心,用心活着其实很重要,只有用心才能感知人生的诸多困惑,才能感知生命的不
圆满,才能感知原来无我,无常,才能感知苦。知苦才可以想到要灭苦。当苦的逼迫感
迎面而来挡也挡不住的时候,我们自然很想离苦,于是寻找解脱之道。发自肺腑想要灭
苦,才能认真学习和实践灭苦之道。也就是说,人生其实给我们提供了觉悟的机会和基
础。这样看待轮回和今生就会积极很多,... 阅读全帖
g********n
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原来是'Performance profiling' could help to catch cheater 现在是 '
Performance profiling' could help to dispel doubts.
Why great Olympic feats raise suspicions
'Performance profiling' could help to dispel doubts.
Ewen Callaway
01 August 2012 Corrected: 03 August 2012
Chinese swimmer Ye Shiwen broke the world record for the women's 400-metre
individual medley event at the Olympic Games on 28 July.
L. NEAL /AFP / GETTY IMAGES
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a********6
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Great! These days, things composed by oneself are often marked with 转载
when even oneself doesn't believe it.
t******l
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Identify physical oneself 叫 consciousness
Identify mental oneself 叫 self-awareness


: 书从另外一个角度问

: 怎么identify自我?比如你120岁了,要死了,有个年轻小伙子可以接收你的灵
魂。要

: 怎么才算把“你”转移给他,最后那个小伙子操逼真正享受的是“你”。以上假
设为非

: 肉体转移(转移大脑)

k**********4
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来自主题: Military版 - The Dark Lining of the Prefontaine Mantra
Lessons from Hale Ross’ life at Yale
A personal essay by Hale's father
JACK ROSS 5:47 PM, MAY 05, 2018
CONTRIBUTING REPORTER
Editors’ Note: Please be advised, the following piece includes sensitive
material relating to depression and suicide.
Several months ago, I received a “save the date” flyer about the Yale
graduation events this May. I will not be in attendance. On Oct. 30, 2016,
my son Hale, class of 2018, ended his life.
Hale’s death was a tragedy on many levels — a profound loss not o... 阅读全帖
q*a
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jianglai (Veni, Vidi, Vici.) 于 (Thu Aug 2 02:54:30 2012, 美东) 提到:
http://www.nature.com/news/why-great-olympic-feats-raise-suspic
英帝堕落到什么地步了。。。
★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 7.3.1
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daye520 (哈哈) 于 (Thu Aug 2 02:56:00 2012, 美东) 提到:
罗切特每次都被拿出来做背景。

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michaelxiaga (南京中山陵) 于 (Thu Aug 2 02:58:53 2012, 美东) 提到:
回复里面有一个哥们写的不错
其实咱们在这里说有啥用, 就得用英文反驳white trash
☆─────────────────... 阅读全帖
h*******l
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The Chinese people most cannot tolerate are these betray the oneselfcountry
the person, the Chinese nation are cannot look oneself countryincomplete, is
cannot look the oneself homeland fission, the Chinesepeople can let Taiwan
in no way split China, in order to this goalChinese living abroad pays all
prices
h*******l
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The Chinese people most cannot tolerate are these betray the oneselfcountry
the person, the Chinese nation are cannot look oneself countryincomplete, is
cannot look the oneself homeland fission, the Chinesepeople can let Taiwan
in no way split China, in order to this goalChinese living abroad pays all
prices
l****z
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Clockwise from top left, Representative Anthony Weiner of New York, former
Gov. James McGreevey of New Jersey, former Gov. Eliot Spitzer of New York,
former Representative Eric J. Massa of New York, President Bill Clinton and
former Senator John Ensign of Nevada.
The names may change, but the face remains essentially the same.
Politician after politician, in scandal after scandal, faces the cameras
with his lips pursed and pulled tight, narrowing them. The chin boss — the
fleshy bump above the c... 阅读全帖
c**i
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来自主题: Family版 - Slip of Tongue
(1) Annie's Mailbox, Slip of the Tongue May Cost Him His Marriage. Creators.
com, July 30, 2011.
http://www.omaha.com/article/20110730/LIVING/707309935/1114
-------------------------Separately
(1) Caroline Hax, Money Issues Aren’t Romantic, But They Should Be
Discussed Before a Wedding. Washington Post, Aug 12, 2011.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/money-issues-aren
(2) Carolyn Hax, After Meeting Her Boyfriend’s Ex, She’s Insecure.
Washington Post, Aug 12, 2011.
http://www.washingt... 阅读全帖
f**********r
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Unnecessary Expectations: A Lesson in How Not To Worry
by Lisa Rivero
Toilet training. Reading. Bicycle riding. Manners. Patience. Penmanship.
Multiplication tables. Spelling. Fitting in. Being oneself. Following rules.
Standing up for oneself. Computer time. Driving. Physical fitness. Dating.
College preparation. Healthy eating habits. College applications. Living in
a dorm.
If the above list makes your stomach knot, you must be a parent. We parents
worry about whether our children are learni... 阅读全帖
i**e
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 父母无恩论
我个人认为
外界的舆论理解和支持,有一定的作用
但是真正的改变和力量来自于一个人的内心世界
具体如何empower oneself and find oneself
每个人走过的路可能都很不同吧
有的时候,得到的结论也不尽相似呢
t*******r
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 体育好的孩子自律性强些
或者这么说,这个类比为 "respond to outside stimulus" vs "aware oneself",而
consciousness 是定义为 "aware oneself"。。。喜闻乐见的例子是水母。。。传说中
的大海里的哲学家 -- 海蜇。。。

"
W*N
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来自主题: Returnee版 - 成天提自己做老板的
That is very true.
Difference is that one has chosen this for oneself and one can't complain
about anyone but oneself. :)
p****x
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来自主题: NewYork版 - How to Stop Procrastinating ?(Updated)
The best way to commit suicide is to intoxicate oneself with blind love, and
kill oneself gradually with the years of procrastination.
Procrastination is a bad habit. Just take myself as an example. If I have
one week to write a term paper, I always spend the first four days
procrastinating. Previously, I even designated "two months" for
procrastination on my dissertation timeline and it seemed to work. :) But
then after writing for a while, I started to procrastinate again. So I made
up my mind... 阅读全帖
i***0
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来自主题: Seattle版 - 路过
路过。(其实路过是一种崇高的行为艺术。楼主发贴长时间没人回、回帖少或者快沉了
,楼主会觉得存在感微弱,原来自己不受别人关注。这时路人某一声路过,楼主突然觉
得原来自己还是有人关注的。自尊有了,心情自然好,自然会觉得这世界多么美丽,这
空气多么清新,饭吃多了,腰不疼了,手脚利索了…咳咳扯远了。鲜花需要绿叶扶持,
再伟大的电影也需路人甲乙的,所以路过是回贴发贴的必备句子之一)
Pass by. (actually pass by is a kind of high performance art. The building
Lord post long time no one back, return card or less quickly sink, the
building Lord will feel there is feeling faint, oneself originally from
others attention. Then passers-by a sound pass by, the building Lord
suddenly feel oneself ori... 阅读全帖

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来自主题: Gamble版 - baccarat best strategy
Each industry can face very enormous competition pressure, we must want to
overcome these difficulty when undertaking developing, and first-rate use
these competition, such ability make him OK quite very advantageous
advantage is gained in intense market competition. So, baccarat best
strategy Want to having in future more bulkily develops, we should from what
does the respect come proceed with?
Regard network recreation as the city, want to be able to have very long-
term development, so must c... 阅读全帖

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来自主题: Gamble版 - how to win casino baccarat
In successful choice true sport plays a way, and be achieved the success of
the half, bet a ball in Macao so and know looking for a method to answer is
necessity, we are in a lot of moment to play game and do not know the
correct error that answer way and causes is to regret not already. And
caused beyond recall loss, be in nevertheless answering game for a long time
also is need really exquisite method is very crucial, otherwise to be among
the experience fail time and again, inevitable and hea... 阅读全帖

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来自主题: Gamble版 - best baccarat strategy
How to face play baccarat card game
Occurrence sudden circumstance
Playing play baccarat card game
When, may whole process still can appear sudden circumstance. If be in,such
circumstance can appear in whole process, how are we to want to face these
issues after all? If you are right among them specific issue has face very
well, such better henceforth to ourselves enjoyment are in this process is
very god-given. This actual condition is very important to the player.
FaceMacao a hunderd schools i... 阅读全帖

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来自主题: Gamble版 - rules of baccarat cards game
The development of Internet is human good news simply, its leave out a lot
of needless troubles, for instance you do not go out to be able to buy your
to mean a thing on the net, make so our life becomes very convenient. Of
course you also can discover, the person that the lottery welfare site of
street collects is little, congested storefront comes off work previously,
had become nowadays such cold and cheerless. Be lottery industry was washed
out by people? Not be actually, people did not aban... 阅读全帖
z****u
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他是作为心理医生,写出来的书,被大家广为接受。这是一本心理分析书籍,而不是
self help。谁说他是,那是他自己分类的好吧?
你要说这是self help,他自己的生活都是一塌糊涂,但是读者读的是他的case分析,
而不是因为他写的确实能self help,否则他自己真能figure it all out了,他自己还
能过得稀里糊涂么,but,这个他的私生活丝毫不会影响从这个心理分析角度欣赏他的
读者。
wiki
Morgan Scott Peck (May 22, 1936 – September 25, 2005) was an American
psychiatrist and best-selling author, best known for his first book, The
Road Less Traveled, published in 1978.
The Road Less Traveled[6] published in 1978, is Peck's best-known work, and
the one that made his reputatio... 阅读全帖
p****x
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The best way to commit suicide is to intoxicate oneself with blind love, and
kill oneself gradually with the years of procrastination.
Procrastination is a bad habit. Just take myself as an example. If I have
one week to write a term paper, I always spend the first four days
procrastinating. Previously, I even designated "two months" for
procrastination on my dissertation timeline and it seemed to work. :) But
then after writing for a while, I started to procrastinate again. So I made
up my mind... 阅读全帖
l*****d
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来自主题: Poetry版 - [合集] 一家之言:所谓诗人
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wetren (潮者湿也) 于 (Sat Aug 13 19:52:10 2011, 美东) 提到:
偶尔路过故地,见到旺财在“关于诗版改名”一帖中,有关新诗古诗、诗词创作方法的
论述,很有同感,忍不住也来插句嘴。
我以为,把写诗当成了一种创作的需要,便与诗歌的原意,南辕北辙了。
对真正的诗人而言,诗歌是他内心的呐喊,是他血液里的灵犀,需要借助于文字释放。
他写诗,与别人的态度,别人的理解,并无直接关系。诗是他生命的一部分,是他生存
的需要,是他情感的需要,而不是物质和荣耀的需要。正如一句英文俗语:“a
gentleman is, rather than does”,大意是说:君子是实为君子,而不是行为成一个
君子。我们是不是也可以这么说:a poet is, rather than does?
很多现代“诗人”,他们的误区就在于,他们写诗,是为了迎合某种需要,而这种需要
,不是他们的天性使然,而是对世俗需求的折射。于是他们为了某种目的,企图借助诗
句的格式、辞藻的精美、虚华的推敲,使自己看着像个... 阅读全帖
p*********y
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来自主题: Reader版 - [BSSD] 人生的意义
我直接google 乐,给风大做些补充 : )
p.s.功夫熊猫说要去看的,一直都没来的及。.
*wiki*
Inner peace (or peace of mind) refers to a state of being mentally and spiri
tually at peace, with enough knowledge and understanding to keep oneself str
ong in the face of discord or stress. Being "at peace" is considered by many
to be healthy (homeostasis) and the opposite of being stressed or anxious.
Peace of mind is generally associated with bliss, happiness and contentment.
Peace of mind, serenity, and calmness are descriptions of a di... 阅读全帖
c****t
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来自主题: SciFiction版 - 云图 英文版
LETTERS FROM ZEDELGHEM
CHATEAU ZEDELGHEM,
NEERBEKE,
WEST VLAANDEREN
29TH-VI-1993
Sixsmith,
Dreamt I stood in a china shop so crowded from floor to far-off ceiling with
shelves of
porcelain antiquities etc. that moving a muscle would cause several to fall
and smash to bits.
Exactly what happened, but instead of a crashing noise, an august chord rang
out, half-cello,
half-celeste, D major (?), held for four beats. My wrist knocked a Ming vase
affair off its
pedestal—E-flat, whole string section, g... 阅读全帖
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10. OCEF出版物 pg45
OCEF Publication Rural Children
Most of the students that assisted by the OCEF are from the remote and
impoverished western countryside of China, family income is way below the
local average, cannot afford to buy outside reading material. Not only the
local school is lack of outside reading material, moreover, books that can
show the mountain landscape, pass the pulse of times and connect with the
students are even more difficult to find. The purpose of the Rural Children
is t... 阅读全帖
d*****o
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10. OCEF出版物 pg45
OCEF Publication Rural Children
Most of the students that assisted by the OCEF are from the remote and
impoverished western countryside of China, family income is way below the
local average, cannot afford to buy outside reading material. Not only the
local school is lack of outside reading material, moreover, books that can
show the mountain landscape, pass the pulse of times and connect with the
students are even more difficult to find. The purpose of the Rural Children
is t... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 耶稣基督后期圣徒教会--信仰简介
雅 1:27 在 神我们的父面前,那清洁没有玷污的虔诚,就是看顾在患难中的孤儿寡
妇,并且保
守自己不沾染世俗。(CUV)
Jas 1:27 Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To
visit the
fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted
from the
world.(KJV)
在父 神看来,纯洁无玷污的虔诚,就是照顾患难中的孤儿寡妇,并且保守自己不被世
俗所污
染。(CNV)
Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to
visit orphans
and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world
. (ESV)
我说怎么没见过你的经文呢,Religion是虔诚的意思,不是A Relig... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - If God is so good, why is his world so bad?
You just need to read on and people already gave the answers one of them is
very similar to what I gave to you.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Omnipotence_paradox
Proposed answers
A common response from Christian philosophers, such as Norman Geisler or
Richard Swinburne is that the paradox assumes a wrong definition of
omnipotence. Omnipotence, they say, does not mean that God can do anything
at all but, rather, that he can do anything that's possible according to his
nature. The distinction is im... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 雅各书二章:信心没有行为就是死的
If you read carefully, Jesus said "Love each other as I loved you." Jesus
died for us so that we can have eternal life. That is how Jesus loved us: do
anything for the benefit of others regardless the cost to oneself.
Everyone love oneself. We don't want to suffer. We want to enjoy and have
fun. If anyone like to suffer with no reason, this guy has some mental
problem. We love oursevles by taking care of our own body, eat good food,
wear good clothes, buy nice stuff for ourselves, keep ourselves... 阅读全帖
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There are two paths of road -- 1) fully committed in spiritual road and
devote oneself in helping others; 2) be a lay man who fulfills worldly duties
as well as trying to pursue wisdom and enlightenment. For those who cannot
maintain good life of celibacy, cannot enjoy life of celibacy, just be content
to be a lay man! What's the need to force oneself to be a monk/nun when one
cannot make it from heart???!!! I despise those so-called 神父, monks, and
nuns who indulge in desires and find various
v*******e
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来自主题: Wisdom版 - 禅 定 ---宗萨蒋扬钦哲仁波切

thsi is nothing.
I have reason -- empty cup oneself is wrong.
no commnent.
what a great finding.
... YOu even didn't understand what i say... no patience is even not a point
It was just a description... "no need to empty oneself" is the point.
"prepare a empty cup temperoaly is enough " is the point.
....
I am not teacher. I give a offer -- it is a offer because
it is right, not because it is useful. , one take it or ingore it.
... should I answer? sure not.
说:
a**u
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rapier (Avanti) 于 (Sat Feb 20 12:41:34 2010, 美东) 提到:
Can Buddhism Cure Tiger Woods' Sex Addiction?
http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/ask_the_answer_bitch/b168025_can_buddhism_cure_tiger_woods_sex.html
I just heard Tiger's press conference and am impressed. But how does he
think Buddhism can cure his sex addiction?
—ForNay, via the Answer B!tch inbox
Well, he didn't exactly say that. What yesterday's very deflated version of
Tiger Woods did say about his... 阅读全帖
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TrueStory (不是幸福的坑不挖) 于 (Wed Oct 26 15:21:06 2011, 美东) 提到:
It's easier said than done.
释永信:我的态度就像昔日寒山(文殊菩萨化身)问拾得(普贤菩萨化身):世间谤我、欺
我、辱我、笑我、轻我、贱我、恶我、骗我,如何处治乎?拾得曰:只是忍他、让他、
由他、避他、耐他、敬他、不要理他,再待几年你且看他。
http://www.mitbbs.com/news_wenzhang/SportsNews/31198903.html
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taipingnan (泰平之南) 于 (Wed Oct 26 15:36:00 2011, 美东) 提到:
you got it.
it is even very hard to be not said.
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leonana ... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Wisdom版 - One more question on 生灭
As I read on this board, the word 苦 could mean a lot of things, including
the ever-changing nature of everything, as it is not as perfect as in
nirvana. Perhaps you meant suffering when you mentioned 苦. Suffering is
from un-investigated thoughts that are not in accordance with the reality.
Salvation is not from outside. Only oneself can liberate oneself.
J******s
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来自主题: Wisdom版 - One more question on 生灭
Yeah, only oneself can liberate oneself!
Suffering is coming from the passive arising and passing away of physical
and mental processes. Unless they are not arising and passing away,
suffering won't stop.
Whenever here is thinking here is suffering.
Nibbāna is a status of no thinking.
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