n****n
发帖数: 492 | 1
I really like the phrase above. //bb ss :)
I remember a prayer:
" O LORD, hear my prayer, listen to my cry for mercy.
In your faithfulness and righteousness come to my relief.
Don't bring your servant into judgement,
for no one living is righteous before you."
Forgive and be forgiven. Life is too short to hold grudge against anyone. |
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发帖数: 173 | 2 When will the moon be clear and bright?
With a cup of wine in my hand, I ask the blue sky
I don't know what season it would be
In the heavens on this night
I'd like to ride the wind to fly home
Yet I fear the crystal and jade mansions are
Much too high and cold for me
Dancing with my moon-lit shadow
It does not seem like the human world
The moon rounds the red mansion
Stoops to silk-pad doors
Shines upon the sleepless
Bearing no grudge
Why does the moon tend to be full when people are apart?
Peo |
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发帖数: 136 | 3 remember this moment is out of question
friends are hugging goddbuys for tomorrow's direction
sorrow and grudge are in nobody's consideration
and yesterday's joy filled the mansion.
everyday we talked about the future
the legends of beauty, the destination for departure
nihgts under the sky and the trees are our furniture
we smiled at each other for our precious adventure
附送一个
最后一点改天吧
别了依然相信以后有缘再聚
未曾重遇以前要珍惜爱自己
在最好时刻分离不要流眼泪
就承诺在某年某一天某地点再见 |
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发帖数: 12430 | 5 记仇
恭喜mm，didn't know you went and had a baby. =)
RT. Thanks! |
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发帖数: 2452 | 6 啊，竟然是记仇？！晕。。。
老久不来了，版大竟然还记得俺啊，感动ing....
一晃娃都半岁了，嘻嘻。。。 |
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o********l
发帖数: 12430 | 7 真快啊
恭喜again
啊，竟然是记仇？！晕。。。
老久不来了，版大竟然还记得俺啊，感动ing....
一晃娃都半岁了，嘻嘻。。。 |
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发帖数: 2452 | 8 时光飞逝嘛，嘻嘻。。。
thx thx....:D |
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v******s
发帖数: 6949 | 11 来个英文版哈哈哈
1 - If you are rich, young and beautiful, people will come after you
regardless of your promiscuity.
For example Serena slept with her best friend's boyfriend, found a brooklyn
boy, stole vacation buddy's boyfriend, used innocent Carter, seduced a
married man, continued to sleep with best friend's ex-bf, her professor, her
high school teacher and yet men flocked after her. Her mother, Lily, slept
with enough men whose names can fill three sheets of 8x11 paper, and yet
billionaires canno... 阅读全帖 |
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F*V
发帖数: 3978 | 12 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: PUV (谱微), 信区: Military
标 题: funny part
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Mar 22 13:23:44 2011, 美东)
One of the pilots parachuted into a rocky field and hid in a sheep pen on
Hamid Moussa el-Amruni's family farm. ... Hamid Moussa el-Amruni himself
was shot, suffered shrapnel wounds in his leg and back, but he could still
walk. He used an old broomstick as a crutch and said he held no grudge,
believing it was an accident. FROM report by AP about the crashed jet |
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q**x
发帖数: 1636 | 13 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: wayofflying (小破熊), 信区: Military
标 题: 献给美国人和美国人的外交：How To Ruin Your Life？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri May 13 22:22:24 2011, 美东)
How To Ruin Your Life
15. Be oblivious, ignorant, apathetic, be totally unconcerned with what's
going on in the world. It will all sort itself out without you anyway.
14. Be passive, watch a lot of television.
13. Be fake, superficial, and disingenuous. Get your sense of personal
identity through your material possessions.
12. Have a sense of ent... 阅读全帖 |
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c******r
发帖数: 889 | 16 诚恳道歉。
coke说得对。是为了丈夫的well being.只有诚恳道歉，受害者才能释放痛楚，愈合伤
口。
原谅不原谅，完全在对方。平静接受对方选择。
其实，道歉，请求原谅是在任何relationship中都很重要的。你做错了事，要因为所谓
“尊严”而不道歉，那就是二次冒犯，加重对方受害程度。
知错而诚恳深刻认错，才能有完全原谅，释然的可能，这样，才能发生了问题，而彻底
解决，不积攒grudge.对健康关系很重要。
很多couple就是因为这个做不到，大小问题都因为所谓“自尊”得不到彻底不留尾巴的
解决，越积累越多，最后不可收拾。
自尊，不是自我中心和固执自大。很多人搞不清楚区别。 |
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发帖数: 1205 | 17 对啊。自尊不属于：本来就做错了，却不肯诚恳道歉的人。
婚姻内出轨本就是对伴侣赤裸裸地羞辱。所以正常人，不论男女，都不会接受这种来自
于自己亲密伴侣的毫无顾忌地羞辱的。不论是何种原因，都不能构成出轨的正当理由。
控制不了自己欲望的人也不是什么好人吧。如果这做错的一方还不能诚心请求原谅，那就
更垃圾了。这样的人还配有什么自尊？
coke说得对。是为了丈夫的well being.只有诚恳道歉，受害者才能释放痛楚，愈合伤
口。
原谅不原谅，完全在对方。平静接受对方选择。
其实，道歉，请求原谅是在任何relationship中都很重要的。你做错了事，要因为所谓
“尊严”而不道歉，那就是二次冒犯，加重对方受害程度。
知错而诚恳深刻认错，才能有完全原谅，释然的可能，这样，才能发生了问题，而彻底
解决，不积攒grudge.对健康关系很重要。
很多couple就是因为这个做不到，大小问题都因为所谓“自尊”得不到彻底不留尾巴的
解决，越积累越多，最后不可收拾。
自尊，不是自我中心和固执自大。很多人搞不清楚区别。 |
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l******8
发帖数: 9475 | 18 【 以下文字转载自 Animals 讨论区 】
发信人: iForpus (coelestis), 信区: Animals
标 题: 哈萨克灰狗 猎人的好帮手！
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jun 26 16:35:47 2012, 美东)
There’s such an old saying: One tazy will feed the whole aul. Hunting
greyhounds used to be the main wealth of Kazakhs. Since the second half of
the last century their number began decreasing. Today there are not more
than 300 of real tazy, like "300 spartans".
Not far from Almaty there is a house where a pure-blooded female tazy gave
birth to 10 pups.
It’s unknown if t... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2109 | 19 Confidence has to come from somewhere, usually from your partner's
encouragement and appreciation.
Another article from chicken soup for the soul
A Story For Valentine's Day
Larry and Jo Ann were an ordinary couple. They lived in an ordinary house on
an ordinary street. Like any other ordinary couple, they struggled to make
ends meet and to do the right things for their children.
They were ordinary in yet another way—they had their squabbles. Much of
their conversation concerned what was wrong i... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 9770 | 20 发表于 2015 年 09 月 01 日 由 方壶斋
The Eighteen Songs of Cai Wenji
我生之初尚無為，我生之後漢祚衰。天不仁兮降亂離，地不仁兮使我逢此時。干戈日尋
兮道路危，民卒流亡兮共哀悲。煙塵蔽野兮胡虜盛，志意乖兮節義虧。對殊俗兮非我宜
，遭惡辱兮當告誰？笳一會兮琴一拍，心憤怨兮無人知。’
When I was born the country was in peace
When I grew up she was like broken cheese
Chaos came down from an unkind heaven
From the unkind earth came this ill fortune
Spears and swords clang on the dangerous roads
In sadness, refugees flock together like goats
In the dusty wilderness the Xiongnu captured a lot
Bending the wills and virt... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 720 | 21 Hehe I never liked Ms. Yang. Nothing regarding her personal life. Just the
way she wrote made me nuts. Her novel and essays reflected she had formidable
knowledge, fantastic memory and condescending attitude. She had an article on
her aunt, and listed all grudges in the household, as tiny as needle & thread.
A humorous and understanding author (as she was widely acclaimed) would see
all these family affairs were unavoidable and rather normal. Yet her
narrative gave a strong impression that |
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L*******t
发帖数: 1598 | 22 hahaha, apparently you don't hold any grudges. :) |
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L*******t
发帖数: 1598 | 23 and you don't care if anyone holds grudges against you! |
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v*******e
发帖数: 1715 | 25 When will the moon be clear and bright?
With a cup of wine in my hand, I ask the blue sky
I don't know what season it would be
In the heavens on this night
I'd like to ride the wind to fly home
Yet I fear the crystal and jade mansions are
Much too high and cold for me
Dancing with my moon-lit shadow
It does not seem like the human world
The moon rounds the red mansion
Stoops to silk-pad doors
Shines upon the sleepless
Bearing no grudge
Why does the moon tend to be full when people are apart?
Peo |
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发帖数: 3006 | 26 赫伯特是现代写诗最好的人之一。波兰人，1998年去世。这首“遗留者”一度是我最喜欢的诗歌。里面的意向，是一个被包围的、即将陷落的城市。这城市象征着我们的心灵，而进攻者可以是任何人 -- 爱人、曾经的爱人、陌生人、或者我们自己。
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<<遗留者>>
原作：哲别·赫伯特 (Zbigniew Herbert)
他们离开的时候我迟到了
于是留了下来
留在这个已经
不再是城市的城市
这里不再有晨报
不再有晚报
不再有
森严的监狱
和刻板的钟表
和甘甜的清水
于是我终于能够
在时间和宇宙之外
享受片刻逍遥
我沿着大街漫步
看着街边的房子安静燃烧
我猜测：大街上撒的是冰糖
或者破碎的玻璃
或者雪白的米粒
生活就这样忽然
充满考古的情调
这值得写篇学术报告
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周围会忽然变得可怕的安静
郊外的火炮似乎也为
它们自己的勇气震惊
经常，你听不到
任何声音
除了破壁残墙偶尔倒塌
除了铝皮屋顶
在风中哗啦哗啦
这是猛兽出猎的夜晚
之前的可怕寂静
有时候
一架可笑的飞机
在天空出现
飞飞扬扬洒下传单
要我投降
我是如此乐于投降
可惜找不... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 759 | 27 CHAP. 23.--AGAINST THOSE WHO ARE OF OPINION THAT THE
PUNISHMENT NEITHER OF THE DEVIL NOR OF WICKED
MEN SHALL BE ETERNAL.
First of all, it behoves us to inquire and to recognize why
the Church has not been able to tolerate the idea that
promises cleansing or indulgence to the
devil even after the most severe and protracted punishment.
For so many holy men, imbued with the spirit of the Old and
New Testament, did not
grudge to angels of any rank or character that they should
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w*****9
发帖数: 2193 | 28 【 以下文字转载自 ChineseClassics 讨论区 】
发信人: chinabbsdad (张果老他爹), 信区: ChineseClassics
标 题: 胡笳十八拍英译
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Sep 3 11:28:58 2015, 美东)
发表于 2015 年 09 月 01 日 由 方壶斋
The Eighteen Songs of Cai Wenji
我生之初尚無為，我生之後漢祚衰。天不仁兮降亂離，地不仁兮使我逢此時。干戈日尋
兮道路危，民卒流亡兮共哀悲。煙塵蔽野兮胡虜盛，志意乖兮節義虧。對殊俗兮非我宜
，遭惡辱兮當告誰？笳一會兮琴一拍，心憤怨兮無人知。’
When I was born the country was in peace
When I grew up she was like broken cheese
Chaos came down from an unkind heaven
From the unkind earth came this ill fortune
Spears and swords clang on the da... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 878 | 29 身为一个号称要拯救千万基督徒，以救世主自居的（好像还曾愤怒的辩解过自己不
humble), 楼主居然说我喜欢喊口号，,有意思。
对你的问题，先前已经说得很清楚了。抛开你莫名其妙的仇恨的立场，机械片面的去理解
圣经是你最大的问题。圣经不是大学物理或是高数课本, 不要认为拿着浅薄的逻辑去找
出一些你认为的漏洞，大呼小叫。新约里对爱人如己有大量的阐述，你挑出一些段落凑
在一起，你若是不知道我真的会怀疑你到底有没有读全过圣经。你要我拿出上下文，没
问题，就怕对你心结的解开，不会有任何帮助：
用你提到的利未记第19章开头：
19：10「不可摘尽葡萄园的果子，也不可拾取葡萄园所掉的果子；要留给穷人和寄居的
。我是耶和华你们的上帝。」
19：11「“你们不可偷盗，不可欺骗，也不可彼此说谎。」
19：12「不可指着我的名起假誓，亵渎你上帝的名。我是耶和华。」
19：13「“不可欺压你的邻舍，也不可抢夺他的物。雇工人的工价，不可在你那里过夜
，留到早晨。」
19：14「不可咒骂聋子，也不可将绊脚石放在瞎子面前，只要敬畏你的上帝。我是耶和
华。」
19：15「“你们施行审判，不可行不义；不可偏护穷人，也不... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 496 | 30 Euthyphro. Why have you left the Lyceum, Socrates? and what are you doing in
the Porch of the King Archon? Surely you cannot be concerned in a suit
before the King, like myself?
Socrates. Not in a suit, Euthyphro; impeachment is the word which the
Athenians use.
Euth. What! I suppose that some one has been prosecuting you, for I cannot
believe that you are the prosecutor of another.
Soc. Certainly not.
Euth. Then some one else has been prosecuting you?
Soc. Yes.
Euth. And who is he?
Soc. A young... 阅读全帖 |
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T*****n
发帖数: 2456 | 31 Contraception
Historically, Christians always have condemned contraceptive sex. The two
forms mentioned in the Bible, and sterilization, are
condemned without exception (Gen. 38:9-10, Deut. 23:1). The Fathers of the
Church recognized that in natural law the purpose of sexual intercourse is
procreation; contraceptive sex, which deliberately blocks that natural
purpose, is therefore a violation of natural law.
Every church in Christendom condemned contraception until 1930, whe... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 32 曾经我对圣经上面的耶稣还是有好感的，就是因为这句简单的爱人如己，很久之后我突
然发现，圣经提到这个所谓爱人如己有8次， 次次说的其实都是，爱你的邻居如同爱自
己。。。。。
不可报仇、也不可埋怨你本国的子民、却要爱人如己．我是耶和华。
'You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the sons of your
people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself; I am the LORD.
当孝敬父母．又当爱人如己
HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER; and YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF."
其次也相仿、就是要爱人如己。
"The second is like it, 'YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.'
其次、就是说、要爱人如己。再没有比这两条诫命更大的了。
"The second is this, 'YOU SHALL LOVE ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 8775 | 33 很多反基都是把圣经割裂来看，保罗是保罗，彼得是彼得，耶稣是耶稣，好像他们天天
打架一样。但是基督徒认为整个圣经最根本的作者就是神。他们说的是一致的。
对于基督徒，简单的说，答案是Yes。
我们从整本圣经里，看有关爱的说法：
旧约
Deuteronomy 6:4
5 Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with
all your strength.
Leviticus 19:18
18 “‘Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people
, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the LORD.
耶稣的话：
Matthew 22:36-40
36 “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?”
37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God wit... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 6300 | 34 Why We Know Our Universe, And Everything In It, Had A Beginning (Free Bible
Insert)
My career as a Cold Case Detective was built on being evidentially certain
about the suspects I brought to trial. There are times when my certainty was
established and confirmed by the cumulative and diverse nature of the
evidence. Let me give you an example. It’s great when a witness sees the
crime and identifies the suspect, but it’s even better if we have DNA
evidence placing the suspect at the scene. If the b... 阅读全帖 |
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G*******h
发帖数: 185 | 35 没有说服力。
首先，选的跑道是直线，没有考虑时一个封闭的曲线情况，选封闭曲线得出的结论相左。
其次，最后一句是假定宇宙有终点的话，则必有起点。其实有终点和有起点一样难以证
明。
Philosophical Evidence (from the Impossibility of Infinite Regress)
Imagine a linear race track with a start and finish line. Now imagine you’
re a new police recruit and I’ve asked you to put on your track shoes and
step into the starting blocks for a physical training (PT) test. The finish
line is one hundred yards away. As you place your feet in the blocks and
prepare to run, I raise the starting pistol. ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 11948 | 36 About sixty-one percent of the contents of the Koran are found to speak ill
of the unbelievers or call for their violent conquest; at best only 2.6
percent of the verses of the Koran are noted to show goodwill toward
humanity. About seventy-five percent of Muhammad’s biography (Sira)
consists of jihad waged on unbelievers.”
–Dr. Moorthy Muthuswamy
Quotes from the Quran/Koran
“This Book is not to be doubted…. As for the unbelievers, it is the same
whether or not you forewarn them; they will not h... 阅读全帖 |
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t******g
发帖数: 17520 | 37 如果你能坚持到底地认为大傻是在救助众生， 不管其他人怎么想。。。
可惜
最后贴一个no soup for you, 我基本没有grudge， 我希望你也没有，
祝好！ |
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H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 38 俺只是在说实在话，至于大傻发帖怎么想地，跟我坚持认为什么，或者你坚持认为别人
挂什么牌子是没有半毛有关系的...
grudge是啥，一种无谓的情绪...大家都是路人，打完酱油各奔东西，不要想当然希望
啥... |
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发帖数: 236 | 39 Idiot 曾子航 and moronic Manchus culture 事儿妈。
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TfQJIKuFxn0
Watch through the whole video.
First pause at 10:24.
Then take a look at 11:11 to 11:13.
The screenshot is in the following.
Do we see grudge, powerless and hatred? The glory of Manchus and its rotten
so called culture fades away in front of the assertiveness of individuality.
That is the waking up of REAL CHINESE.
Let us walk this through minute by minute.
• 3:35
o So far so good. Even got a girl s... 阅读全帖 |
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w***g
发帖数: 712 | 40 "Thinking of You"
When will the moon be clear and bright?
With a cup of wine in my hand, I ask the blue sky
I don't know what season it would be
In the heavens on this night
I'd like to ride the wind to fly home
Yet I fear the crystal and jade mansions are
Much too high and cold for me
Dancing with my moon-lit shadow
It does not seem like the human world
The moon rounds the red mansion
Stoops to silk-pad doors
Shines upon the sleepless
Bearing no grudge
Why does the moon tend to be full when peo |
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N****f
发帖数: 25759 | 41 Of course, in the meantime we also collect from those poor little
devils all the necessary dues that we once grudgingly paid our
parents in the form of unfair scolding, inhumane limitation of
personal freedom, ruthless invasion of privacy, stubborn refusal
to understand, and (insert your favorite complaint here) on their
part… :-) |
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B*********u
发帖数: 75 | 42 Take it as a business decision, many other people were on the same boat as
you were. If they asked you back and you like the job, why not consider as
long as you don't take it personal and hold the grudge on it... |
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V*******y
发帖数: 19 | 43 hatebio和老刀二位误会了。
老刀是refer 原帖贴主 “Sunnysky” as “艳阳天”， not “sunnyday” as
hatebio thought。
两位请不要hold grudge towards each other, 都是热血好汉。 |
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