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发帖数: 16092 | 1 Europe’s Bloodless Universalism
作者：Theodore Dalrymple @ 2015-11-19
译者：Veidt（@Veidt)
校对：Drunkplane(@Drunkplane-zny)
来源：Library of Law and Liberty，http://www.libertylawsite.org/2015/11/19/europes-bloodless-universalism/
By now the story of Omar Ismail Mostefai, the first of the perpetrators of
the Paris attacks to be named, is depressingly familiar. One could almost
have written his biography before knowing anything about him. A petty
criminal of Algerian parentage from what all the world now call... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2808 | 2 【 以下文字转载自 Piebridge 讨论区 】
发信人: mcmartingale (Monte Carlo Martingale--赌霸马停机), 信区: Piebridge
标 题: Re: 为什么我找老公坚决不找基督徒
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jul 13 00:49:55 2012, 美东)
Alas, a little learning is a dangerous thing
Drink deep, or taste not the Pierian spring
在想问题时，思路一定要清晰，不要被一些含糊空洞但grandiose的词语来hijack你的
思想。这些grandiose的词语，比如在讨论人类认知时的“科学”、“理性”等，又比
如在讨论人类行为时的“爱情”、“爱国”、“自由”等。这些词语有心理暗示作用，
所以一用来讨论（不是用来抒情）时，一定要谨慎谨慎再谨慎，很小心地厘清他们的界
限。
首先，“科学”是什么？虽然还是有争论，但暂时主流认识还是遵从着Karl Popper所
厘定的demarcation: 能被证伪的可能性。凡是能“自圆其说”，... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2808 | 3 Alas, a little learning is a dangerous thing
Drink deep, or taste not the Pierian spring
在想问题时，思路一定要清晰，不要被一些含糊空洞但grandiose的词语来hijack你的
思想。这些grandiose的词语，比如在讨论人类认知时的“科学”、“理性”等，又比
如在讨论人类行为时的“爱情”、“爱国”、“自由”等。这些词语有心理暗示作用，
所以一用来讨论（不是用来抒情）时，一定要谨慎谨慎再谨慎，很小心地厘清他们的界
限。
首先，“科学”是什么？虽然还是有争论，但暂时主流认识还是遵从着Karl Popper所
厘定的demarcation: 能被证伪的可能性。凡是能“自圆其说”，没有任何外界新信息
能推翻的东西，都不是科学。
所以数学也不是科学。神学也不是科学。他们都有非经验的a priori知识作为基础的，
能自圆其说。
其次，“逻辑”是什么？是一种推理工具而已。其特征恰恰就是能“自圆其说”，你给
一个非常荒谬反常识的前提，但如果严格遵从逻辑的规则，能得出自圆其说的荒谬结论
，也是“符合逻辑”的... 阅读全帖 |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 4 你也许可以看看drama of the gifted child这本书，也许还有一些更适合你的书，
不过我知道的有限。你说的不知足/嫉妒/自负/自卑，其实都是一个问题，根源也许
就在于you are brought up that way; you were taught that, who you are and
what do you feel do not matter, the only thing matters is the comparison
between you and people around you, the only thing matters is, you need to
be better than others on some ladder; if the result of comparison is you
are better, you gain grandiosity, else your self-esteem collapse totally
and you gain depression. Drama这本书的作者把grandiosity |
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a*****n
发帖数: 230 | 5 This is close, very close:
Fanatic narcissist - including paranoid features. An individual whose self-
esteem was severely arrested during childhood, who usually displays major
paranoid tendencies, and who holds on to an illusion of omnipotence. These
people are fighting delusions of insignificance and lost value, and trying
to re-establish their self-esteem through grandiose fantasies and self-
reinforcement. When unable to gain recognition or support from others, they
take on the role of a her... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****n
发帖数: 230 | 6 Fanatic narcissistic persons are likely to have run hard against reality,
and their illusion of omnipotence has periodically been shattered, toppling
them from their grandiose and vaulted image of eminence. Accustomed to being
viewed as the center of things, valued and admired at least in their own
eyes, they cannot tolerate the lessened significance circumstances have now
assigned to them. Their narcissism has been profoundly wounded. Fanatic
narcissistic individuals must not only counter the i... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 7918 | 7 http://www.nytimes.com/2011/04/04/world/asia/04museum.html?_r=1
April 3, 2011
At China’s New Museum, History Toes Party Line
By IAN JOHNSON
BEIJING — At the elaborately renovated National Museum of China in
Tiananmen Square, visitors interested in the recent history of the world’s
fastest rising power can gaze at the cowboy hat that Deng Xiaoping once wore
when he visited the United States, or admire the bullhorn that President Hu
Jintao used to exhort people to overcome hardship after the Sichu... 阅读全帖 |
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h*i
发帖数: 3446 | 9 My answer is that Mr. Liu has some kind of psychological disorder, probobly
closely related to the Stockholm Syndrome (identify with the abuser), a
little bit of depressioin (self loathing), some bipolar (alternate between
self-grandiose and self-pity), and some schizophrenia (delusion and
disorganized speech).
I really feel sorry for Mr. Liu. Instead of taking care of a patient, the
whole world is trying to use him for their own benefit.
Save Xiaobo Liu! |
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W*******a
发帖数: 1769 | 10 民主大国果然是不一样
http://www.outlookindia.com/article.aspx?268044
The China Link
•Chinese labourers brought to northeastern India by the British in
early 19th century to work in tea gardens
•They were concentrated in Makum, Shillong and Tezpur
•Over 2,000 arrested after the ’62 Chinese aggression, ostensibly “
to be protected”, but actually to be monitored, at Deoli, Rajasthan
•More than half of them sent to China; some families split up. No
apology ever rendered.
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It’s a ... 阅读全帖 |
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 11 Editorial: Splitting Taiwan's Baby; Upgrading old F-16s is inadequate for
the US aly's defense. Wall Street Journal, Aug 22, 2011
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424053
111903596904576515933648266482.html
("These aging [F-16 A/B] airframes reportedly will get sophiscated radars
and electronic countermeasures that on some ways will make them more capable
than the US Air Force's own F-16s. So in order to make up for the shortfall
in Taiwan's defenses caused by its unwillingness to sell plain ... 阅读全帖 |
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l**i
发帖数: 8144 | 12 简单地讲 就是谋事在人 成事在天
认为社会发展沿着某个预定方向发展的理论 都是傻逼理论
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Anthropic principle
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
In astrophysics and cosmology, the anthropic principle is the philosophical
argument that observations of the physical Universe must be compatible with
the conscious life that observes it. Some proponents of the argument reason
that it explains why the Universe has the age and the fundamental physical
constants necessary to accommodate conscious life. As a ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 4978 | 13 美俄对抗新一轮又来了
Putin 'elected Russian president'
Vladimir Putin has been elected Russian president for the third time, exit
polls suggest, after spending the last four years as the country's PM.
The exit polls gave Mr Putin about 60% of the vote, meaning that he should
avoid a run-off with his nearest rival, Communist Gennady Zyuganov.
Officials say turnout was higher than for the last election in 2008.
But opposition groups have reported widespread fraud, with many people
voting more than once.
The... 阅读全帖 |
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s***q
发帖数: 10585 | 14 这个发挥比决赛里面的好多了
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nb_d-KZurQg
其实原版的也不错
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kIisHdMQXmU
A lark is flying across the blue sky:
"I love you, China!"
I love you, China,
I love you, China,
I love your exuberant seedlings in spring,
I love your bountiful golden fruits in autumn,
I love your temperament of green pine trees,
I love your character of red plum flowers,
I love your home-grown sugar cane,
That nurtures my heartfield like milk.
I love you, China,
I love you, China,
I wi... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 12955 | 15
There is absolutely no doubt that Mao's poems are at least the equal of that
of any poet after Song dynasty. All poets from that early time were all
very limited in what was expressed in their poems. It was just a limit of
the time, none of the courts since then were very tolerant of grandiose
expression.
Mao broke the mold. |
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h***y
发帖数: 4936 | 16 版上有人说是怠慢甚至羞辱了。看了一下美联社和英国佬的报道，都在说普京接待习近
平的仪式忒隆重了，甚至史无前例的派出了骑马的卫士来迎接。
AP: "Xi was greeted by Putin at a grandiose reception that saw guards on
horseback welcoming a foreign leader for the first time in recent memory."
The Independent: "A grand reception was held to welcome President Xi Jinping
upon his arrival in Moscow, with guards riding on horseback brought out to
greet a foreign leader for the first time." |
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发帖数: 764 | 17 http://www.nytimes.com/2012/04/29/opinion/sunday/terrorist-plot
Terrorist Plots, Hatched by the F.B.I.
By DAVID K. SHIPLER
Published: April 28, 2012
THE United States has been narrowly saved from lethal terrorist plots in
recent years — or so it has seemed. A would-be suicide bomber was
intercepted on his way to the Capitol; a scheme to bomb synagogues and shoot
Stinger missiles at military aircraft was developed by men in Newburgh, N.Y
.; and a fanciful idea to fly explosive-laden model planes ... 阅读全帖 |
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l*y
发帖数: 21010 | 18 Superficial charm and glibness; manipulative and conning; grandiose sense of
self; narcissism; pathological lying; lack of remorse, shame or guilt,
shallow emotions; incapacity of love; need for stimulation; callousness and
lack of empathy; poor behavioral controls / impulsive nature; early
behavioral problems; irresponsibility and unreliability; promiscuous sexual
behavior / infidelity; criminal or entrepreneurial versatility; contemptuous
of those who seek to understand them; does not perceive... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 387 | 19 他根本就是自恋狂的书面定义
The most recent edition of the American Psychiatric Association’s
Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders describes narcissistic
personality disorder as being “characterized by the presence of both
grandiosity and attention seeking” and lists nine criteria, of which five
are necessary for diagnosis. Among them: a need for excessive admiration;
preoccupation with fantasies of brilliance, power and success; and a sense
of being special. |
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发帖数: 38600 | 20 http://theantimedia.org/sheikh-mohammed-letter-9-11-obama/
When Barack Obama was still in office, Khalid Shaikh Mohammed, one of the
perpetrators of the 9/11 terror attacks, penned a letter to him. Though a
judge recently ruled that letter could be sent to the White House before the
outgoing president left office, the contents were to be withheld from the
public until a month later - until after President Trump had assumed power.
This week, the Miami Herald obtained and published the contents of... 阅读全帖 |
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W*****B
发帖数: 4796 | 21 下面这篇文章挺有意思的。床铺根本就没想要当总统。他只是想利用选举给自己增加知
名度。他竞选团队里头的人也没指望他当总统。结果他意外当选了，现在竞选团队里的
人反而麻烦了。另外床铺一开始组阁时候的混乱也说明他根本也没有预料或者期待当选。
Donald Trump Didn’t Want to Be President
On the afternoon of November 8, 2016, Kellyanne Conway settled into her
glass office at Trump Tower. Right up until the last weeks of the race, the
campaign headquarters had remained a listless place. All that seemed to
distinguish it from a corporate back office were a few posters with right-
wing slogans.
Conway, the campaign’s manager, ... 阅读全帖 |
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W*****B
发帖数: 4796 | 22 22 ~Sexual~ Things Actors Do In Movies That Are Totally Unrealistic
BuzzFeed Staff
1. When women entice men by sensually sticking fruit in their mouth, as if
random bananas are always lying around.
2. Or when women instantly climax when their dinner date grabs them by the
neck in a ~sensual~ way — like, eww.
3. When the lead woman always has red freakin' lace panties on, so when
the other person sneaks into the bathroom for a quickie, it's sexy.
NOTHING IS SEXY IN THE BATHROOM.
4. When movies ne... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 23 这个帖子让我发现我从小就是一个敢想敢干的人，我一个大专生居然敢坐到新东方的
GRE 课堂上。。。
那个时候怎么没有人说我有grandiosity?这个可以算是biopolar 的症状了吧。。。
我考研究生的时候，我的舍友都是抱着试试的态度，没想到居然被我考上了。。。。
Sometimes truth is stranger than fiction.. |
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发帖数: 4283 | 24 this is all witch hunt, deep state creatures leak this bullshit just to show
how desperate they are
Trump is not saint, he wanted to use his presidential(candidate) leverage to
benefit his own business, yeah I get it. But how does it have anything to
do with the so called 2 year old Russian collusion?!
And Cohen is totally fucked up, he might be a member of the upper class but
he is still a pawn in this grandiose game. I would just suck it up and call
it a day.
the
Putin
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the |
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s*f
发帖数: 1071 | 25 65岁老棺材囊子liuhe，不但是个科盲还是个文盲
说小将剽窃，按照你的定义，不正是你个傻逼剽窃军港之夜在先。
你抡起一个大嘴巴最后落到你那张傻逼脸上。疼不疼啊。
无论西方还是东方文学史，滑稽模仿向来是重要文类，叫 Burlesque也好,叫parody也
好,还是叫 travesty，都是用戏谑方式模仿对方并解构对方文本。唐吉坷德尤利西斯这
些西方名著都是模仿讽刺典范 你个傻逼懂不懂
你读得懂英语吗，给你布置个作业，拿本字典回家慢慢读读。
Burlesque has been succinctly defined as "an incongruous imitation"; that is
, it imitates the manner (the form and style) or else the subject matter of
a serious literary work or a literary genre, in verse or in prose, but makes
the imitation amusing by ar idiculous disparity... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1071 | 26 除了唱通俗歌曲，你读得懂英语吗，给你布置个作业，拿本字典回家慢慢读读。
Burlesque has been succinctly defined as "an incongruous imitation"; that is
, it imitates the manner (the form and style) or else the subject matter of
a serious literary work or a literary genre, in verse or in prose, but makes
the imitation amusing by ar idiculous disparity between the manner and the
matter. The burlesque may be written for the sheer fun of it; usually,
however, it is a form of satire. The butt of the satiricr idiculem ay be the
particular ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 27 马斯克透露，将很快开始测试星际载人飞船系统， 推力是土星五的两倍！
Musk: Atmospheric tests of interplanetary spaceship could happen next year
March 13, 2018 Stephen Clark
Artist’s concept of the BFR spaceship deploying a satellite in orbit.
Credit: SpaceX
A team of SpaceX engineers is building a prototype of the spaceship Elon
Musk hopes will one day carry people and cargo deep into the solar system,
and it could begin low-altitude testing next year, kicking off a multi-step
test campaign before eventually going into space, the... 阅读全帖 |
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p*******y
发帖数: 782 | 28 ask Hitler the result of his grandiose plan to prove the pure pedigree of
his own "race", haha |
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p******e
发帖数: 897 | 29 http://www.ronpaul.com/2010-08-20/ron-paul-sunshine-patriots-stop-your-demagogy-about-the-nyc-mosque/
Is the controversy over building a mosque near ground zero a grand
distraction or a grand opportunity? Or is it, once again, grandiose
demagoguery?
It has been said, “Nero fiddled while Rome burned.” Are we not overly
preoccupied with this controversy, now being used in various ways by
grandstanding politicians? It looks to me like the politicians are “
fiddling while the economy burns.” |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 30 A Fate That Narcissists Will Hate: Being Ignored
By CHARLES ZANOR
Narcissists, much to the surprise of many experts, are in the process of
becoming an endangered species.
Not that they face imminent extinction — it’s a fate much worse than that.
They will still be around, but they will be ignored.
The fifth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental
Disorders (due out in 2013, and known as DSM-5) has eliminated five of the
10 personality disorders that are listed in the current e... 阅读全帖 |
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p******e
发帖数: 897 | 31 Shawna Forde, the anti-immigrant zealot convicted of killing a 9-year-old
girl and her father, was sentenced to death by a Tucson jury today. Terry
Greene Sterling on Forde’s abusive past—and the wingnuts who call her a
martyr.
For three days, a female Minuteman-turned-killer sat stonily in a Tucson,
Arizona, courtroom as her lawyers fought to save her life by portraying her
as an impulsive, detached, foolish narcissist who could not overcome her
abuse-ridden childhood. They argued that Shawna F... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 32 By Jeffrey Folks
When I was teaching at Indiana University in the early 1970s, one of the
undergraduates at the university was Mark Spitz, an NCAA champion swimmer
who went on to win seven gold medals at the 1972 Munich Olympics. Spitz was
a legendary athlete known for his endless hours of training and practice in
the service of a clear goal.
With his remarkable work ethic, Mark Spitz would make an excellent role
model for anyone, but especially for the present occupant of the White House
. Sp... 阅读全帖 |
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B**W
发帖数: 2273 | 33 The magazine founded by conservative icon William F. Buckley Jr. blasts Newt
Gingrich in a scathing editorial, saying nominating the former House
speaker as president could cost Republicans the White House and a majority
in Congress.
INTERACTIVE: Poll tracker
National Review posted its editorial, "Winnowing the Field," last night. The
piece minces no words about Gingrich, while saying rival candidates Jon
Huntsman, Mitt Romney and Rick Santorum "deserve serious consideration" for
the Republican... 阅读全帖 |
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B**W
发帖数: 2273 | 34 Sioux City, Iowa (CNN) -- A Republican presidential race that has lately
been defined by its negative tone took a sunnier turn Thursday, as the field
of GOP candidates presented closing arguments to voters in the final debate
before January's pivotal Iowa caucuses.
The sharp attacks between the GOP frontrunners that have played out in media
interviews and television ads largely took a backseat in the Sioux City
debate, which was sponsored by the Iowa Republican Party and Fox News.
Who won the de... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 35 EXCLUSIVE—Mark Levin on ‘Ameritopia:’ ‘We Now Live in a Post-
Constitutional Country’
By Terence P. Jeffrey
January 16, 2012
(CNSNews.com) - In an interview with CNSNews.com about his new book—“
Ameritopia: The Unmaking of America”—Mark R. Levin said he believes
America has already largely become “a post-constitutional country.”
The book, released Monday, compares the Utopian and unworkable schemes laid
out by political philosophers from Plato to Thomas Hobbes with the vision of
natural law, God... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 36 By Stephen Schwartz
The Hartford Seminary has occupied a leading position among theological
faculties around the nation in accommodating Islam, particularly in its
radical forms, since appointing its first Muslim faculty member more than
twenty years ago. Today, that accommodation extends to the murderous regime
of Syrian dictator Bashar Assad.
Hartford maintains a highly questionable relationship with an Islamic
religious and Arabic-language school, the Al-Fatiha Islamic Academy in
Damascus, a... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 37 May 7, 2012 by Michael Laprarie
One year after the killing of Osama Bin Laden by US Special Forces, the
President is eager to take credit for what many consider the high point of
his first term. But many questions about the mission still remain.
In an op-ed published in the Wall Street Journal last week, former Attorney
General Michael Mukasey revealed several embarrassing details about the
executive operations of the mission:
A recently disclosed memorandum from then-CIA Director Leon Pa... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 38 June 14, 2012 by Warner Todd Huston
A month ago the President had his tech lackeys add a little something to a
host of past president’s biographical webpages on the official White House
website causing eyebrows to be raised across the country. At that time team
Obama thought would be a great idea to add sections at the end of many
presidential bios touting how great Obama is, too. In an admission that they
overstepped propriety and now that the outrage has died down, the White
House web team h... 阅读全帖 |
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k****g
发帖数: 1509 | 39 By MAUREEN DOWD
Published: June 2, 2012 481 Comments
WASHINGTON
ON Friday night, the nation’s capital was under a tornado watch. And that
was the best thing that happened to the White House all week.
As the president was being slapped by Mitt Romney for being too weak on
national security, he was being rapped by a Times editorial for being too
aggressive on national security.
A Times article by Jo Becker and Scott Shane revealed that the liberal law
professor who campaigned against torture and t... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 40 Requiem for a Despot: the Death of Hugo Chavez
By John A. Huettner
President Hugo Chavez, the acerbic tinpot who declared a Bolivarian
revolution in Venezuela, demonized America, and resurrected tired leftist
politics throughout Latin America, died Tuesday of cancer. Strongman and
Vice President Nicolas Meduro announced the death saying Chavez died about 4
:30 p.m. local time.
During his 14 years in power, Chavez made a career out of trashing
capitalism and the United States and fomenting unres... 阅读全帖 |
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c*****g
发帖数: 21627 | 41 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: whiteclouds2 (// 参考消息 //), 信区: Military
标 题: ！！！纽约时报：F.B.I. 自酿的恐怖主义
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Apr 21 00:28:22 2013, 美东)
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/04/29/opinion/sunday/terrorist-plot
Terrorist Plots, Hatched by the F.B.I.
By DAVID K. SHIPLER
Published: April 28, 2012
THE United States has been narrowly saved from lethal terrorist plots in
recent years — or so it has seemed. A would-be suicide bomber was
intercepted on his way to the Capitol; a scheme to bomb synagogues ... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****o
发帖数: 19235 | 42 It's that time of year again, Mr. President.
Time to celebrate the lingering Yuletide spirit and the bright promise of
the year to come. Time to savor the companionship of friends and family.
Time to donate your underpants to a charitable organization so you can later
claim a deduction on your 1993 tax return.
If the recent past is any guide, Bill Clinton and his wife, First Lady
Hillary Rodham Clinton, have been spending the past few months gathering up
unwanted belongings -- from old shoes to ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 43 川普团队希望美军在庆祝川普就任游行时把坦克和导弹运载车拉出来。被军方拒绝了。
军方认为这种摆军事排场的做法是莫斯科红场和平壤类型的炫耀武力，美军不来这一套。
The US military shot down President-elect Donald Trump’s inauguration team
’s bid to have tanks and missile launchers rolling down his parade route
Friday, according to a report.
“They were legit thinking Red Square/North Korea-style parade,” an
inauguration team source told the Huffington Post, referring to grandiose
military parades in Moscow and Pyongyang that are often considered displays
of bellicosity.
Trump has... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2518 | 44 呵呵，有一种症状叫做Grandiose delusion，原来你就是最近盛传的深井冰。 |
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发帖数: 4796 | 45 下面这篇文章挺有意思的。床铺根本就没想要当总统。他只是想利用选举给自己增加知
名度。他竞选团队里头的人也没指望他当总统。结果他意外当选了，现在竞选团队里的
人反而麻烦了。另外床铺一开始组阁时候的混乱也说明他根本也没有预料或者期待当选。
Donald Trump Didn’t Want to Be President
On the afternoon of November 8, 2016, Kellyanne Conway settled into her
glass office at Trump Tower. Right up until the last weeks of the race, the
campaign headquarters had remained a listless place. All that seemed to
distinguish it from a corporate back office were a few posters with right-
wing slogans.
Conway, the campaign’s manager, ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 46 rhe·tor·i·cal
rəˈtôrək(ə)l/
adjective
adjective: rhetorical
relating to or concerned with the art of rhetoric.
"repetition is a common rhetorical device"
synonyms: stylistic, oratorical, linguistic, verbal
"rhetorical devices"
expressed in terms intended to persuade or impress.
"the rhetorical commitment of the government to give priority to
primary education"
synonyms: extravagant, grandiloquent, magniloquent, high-flown,
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发帖数: 7881 | 47 Tech startups love millennials. Tasty, tasty millennials who get underpaid,
overworked, churned up and turned into nourishment for venture capitalists.
Millennials are the Soylent Green of the tech world.
As each batch gets mashed up, there’s a long line of new hires eager to be
made into the next meal for the execs and their billionaire backers, as tech
survivor Dan Lyons shows in a scathingly funny new book, “Disrupted: My
Misadventure in the Start-Up Bubble” (Hachette Books).
Lyons became a s... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 22634 | 48 以下为转载，link 在第二页。
Are We Overpraising Our Children?
The negative effects of overpraising kids
Posted Dec 10, 2013
Research has shown that there are positive effects of praising children, but
it depends on what kind of praise we’re dishing out. A recent Stanford
Study (link is external) of toddlers showed that “praising effort, not
talent, leads to greater motivation and more positive attitudes toward
challenges” down the road. These findings are consistent with previous
research, which has connec... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 22634 | 49 重要段落节选:
What parents need to do is simple: take notice of something your kids like
to do and offer support and encouragement that is realistic and appropriate.
As we do this, we should aim to avoid labels. If we call our kids pro-
athletes or stars, they won’t really feel it describes them. Again, this
type of labeling is more about the parent’s wishes and fantasies than the
child’s reality. It creates pressure to perform and does not acknowledge
the practice required to achieve success. It is b... 阅读全帖 |
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