b***e
发帖数: 1419 | 1 第一题你应该给"完美"答案. 你可能是太紧张了. 给一个次一些的答案绝对不会帮助你.
第二题你可能是太自负了. 我觉得如果他问的是"mapping", 应该指的是functional
relations. 你给的答案是relations. 可能他要的答案是(|B|+1)^|A|.
第三题完全不知所谓.
不过面试吗, 总会碰到ass holes. 你面多了就知道了. 没关系的.
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m*****n
发帖数: 204 | 2 New Mother:
- up to 4 weeks before birth
- 6-week disability leave (8 weeks if c-section)
- 7-week baby bonding leave (12 weeks if primary care giver) during first
year, can take in several chunks.
New Father: See the last item above.
100% base paid. bonus pro-rated. |
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s*********t
发帖数: 6 | 3 中年女性，医学院毕业，护理专业，在国内某大学附院工作，护士长，有20年护理经验
，急症科经验。现探亲中。愿在美国扶持老人，护理病人，照看小孩。普通话标准。
地址 Mclean, Fairfax, Vienna, Sterling...均可 northern VA或D.C.
请回站内信箱，来信必复。 |
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j*********8
发帖数: 2 | 4 你好. 我们住在Dallas, Texas. 正在寻找您这样的人员帮助照顾我的女儿. 家里住房
条件好, 家人和睦易处. 我的电话是不是214-293-2760. 多谢. |
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h***t
发帖数: 3 | 5 I am in Chicago area and i need a live-in care-giver. Are you still looking
for a job? |
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h***t
发帖数: 3 | 6 I need a living-in care-giver to help my mom taking care of my dad. Do you
think if she would like to do it? Thanks. |
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j*****z
发帖数: 5306 | 7 代人发帖：
A full time care giver is needed for taking care of an 80 y.o. female in
Irvine. Live in or live out. Light household work. Mandarin speaking and
caring individual preferred. No previous experience necessary. Tentative
starting date is August 1. Interested candidates please call 949-733-2235 in
evenings or weekends. |
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g**f
发帖数: 1151 | 8 不辞职的话 如果三个孩子都需要care giver
费用相当可观 |
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h***b
发帖数: 1233 | 9 no tax on you. gift tax is on gift "giver" not gift receiver.
besides, if your parents are non-US person, they're not subject to US gift
tax.
避免被查来历，提前把钱汇过来。超过两三个月，银行就不 care 了。一般只需提供 2
month statements. |
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s****l
发帖数: 16457 | 10 我大概查了一下，好像都是giver缴gift税，receiver应该是不用缴税的。
另外你自己给自己转帐，1万块钱有什么问题？也就可能FBI会关注一下呗。 |
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h***b
发帖数: 1233 | 11 提前2个月汇入你自己的帐户，待2个月再向银行贷款，基本上就没啥问题了
gift money 不用缴税，要也是 gift giver--外国人无所谓。
loan |
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h***b
发帖数: 1233 | 12 i suppose it's a "gift tax" issue.
only the gift "giver" may need to pay tax. not the gift "receiver". so if
you're getting the money from someone as a gift, no tax on you. :p |
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h***b
发帖数: 1233 | 13 IRS 2011 annual gift tax exemption has increased to $13,000/person
father, mother, sister, brother, female friend, male friend... $13k x N--
you can get as much gift money as you want!!
bottom line, it's the giver needs to worry about tax.
if your relatives and friends are non-US person, this rule doesn't even
apply... no worry, be happy... :p |
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z****u
发帖数: 255 | 14 $13,000/person是指giver, not receiver. 中国最高人民币410,$50000.美国$15每笔,
有中转银行的,也要收$15. |
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h***b
发帖数: 1233 | 15 gift tax 是和 gift "giver"有关，gift "receiver"不用担心
没错，夫妇两人可以各给父母26k，加在一起＝52k |
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c***z
发帖数: 6348 | 16 I consulted a tax professional and the answer is negative, I don't need to
pay tax for gift. Thanks so much! :)
Below is my question and her answer:
Q:
I am a resident alien (H1B visa holder and lived in the US full year for the
past 12 years) and I received a gift money of $50K from my parents in law,
who live in China (foreign persons not filing US tax, that is).
I understand that under normal circumstances the gift giver pays the tax:
https://www.irs.gov/Businesses/Small-Businesses-&-Self-Emp... 阅读全帖 |
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M**********n
发帖数: 4964 | 17 查了下，好像一年只有一万四，超过部分还是giver交税。只能换14k了。 |
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p****x
发帖数: 4260 | 18 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
NorthWind (NorthWind) 于 (Thu Mar 6 11:54:45 2008) 提到:
前段时间用支票寄回国3万多美元给父母，请问会被收gift tax吗？如果要收，有什么
办法减少或免掉呀？谢谢。
☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
Wohui (我不会) 于 (Thu Mar 6 12:21:37 2008) 提到:
gift tax 没那么容易发生，但是需要注意合理避免。
06、07年，你给n个人只要每个人不超过$12k，就是给出n*$12K，也不会有gift tax问
题，如果是夫妻，就是2*n*$12K.
即使超过每人$12k限额，比方说：你给国内10个亲戚，每人$20k，那么超出的部分$8k*
10=$80k。需不需要交gift tax呢？不用，因为还有个每个giver一生$1M的gift tax
free limit。就是说，你这辈子，超出每年限额的部分，一直累加到1百万刀后，才开
始交gift tax。一 |
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h***b
发帖数: 1233 | 19 US gift tax applies to gift "giver" not "receiver". ie. whoever sends you
the money maybe subject to gift tax. but if money comes from a non-US
person, the rule doesn't even apply.
don't worry... be happy! |
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c**2
发帖数: 8496 | 20 This is called gift tax (for every US tax resident) You-the giver- pay gift
tax, not the receiver. |
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s*********0
发帖数: 2045 | 21 You have a valid point: he may or may not report gift tax.
1. OP can send the $100k to an account under his own name in China and avoid
reporting form 709 altogether. Assuming his parents do not withdraw out the
money for more than $14k a year.
2. Even if OP gifts the $100k, which is above $14k, he will have to file it
on Form 709, but not necessarily have to pay any tax on it since there's
still a long way till the lifetime limit ($5 million). So just file it,
there's nothing to hide and nothin... 阅读全帖 |
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m*********4
发帖数: 356 | 22 Hi Fellow Giver,
We’ve been so fortunate to be able to offer you a very generous 5% cash
back rate at one of your favorite online stores, Amazon.
As they say, all good things must come to an end. We’ve been notified by
Amazon that we will no longer be able to offer 5% cash back, effective
November 1 at 12:01am Pacific Time.
$#%&! We get it. It’s such a bummer.
The silver lining? You’ve still got time to shop. All qualifying purchases
made at Amazon through October 31st will receive 5% cash back. |
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p****e
发帖数: 2866 | 23 我记得gift tax的threshold没LS说的那么低，每年应该是一个pair（就是giver+
receiver）两三万 |
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c***z
发帖数: 6348 | 24 I consulted a tax professional and the answer is negative, I don't need to
pay tax for gift. Thanks so much! :)
Below is my question and her answer:
Q:
I am a resident alien (H1B visa holder and lived in the US full year for the
past 12 years) and I received a gift money of $50K from my parents in law,
who live in China (foreign persons not filing US tax, that is).
I understand that under normal circumstances the gift giver pays the tax:
https://www.irs.gov/Businesses/Small-Businesses-&-Self-Emp... 阅读全帖 |
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i******r
发帖数: 1175 | 25 How you are sure 10w is not going to give you trouble? 10k transactions are
monitored by FBI.
If giver has some dirty money you receive, you will be in big trouble. Is
your relative be sure of the 10w source? Recently a person at Miami got 300
years sentence. It is one harsh crime to be punished.
…… |
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d***i
发帖数: 597 | 26 觉得很累是正常的，很多妈妈40天的时候还没恢复好，比如说贫血还没有纠正，甚至撕
裂还没有恢复，还容易疲劳，另外新妈妈容易焦虑，举个例子，最开始，娃娃哭10分钟
妈妈就已经六神无主了，很紧张又很难受，但是自己带了一段时间，发现了规律，比如
说有的娃睡觉之前就是要嚎一阵，嚎完就睡了，有时候他嚎得短有时候长，如果第一次
经历他嚎得长的时候，就很郁闷，主要是不晓得后面会发生什么，心里不踏实，恐惧，
另外我觉得，care giver比较紧张这种情绪也影响孩子，就一起更加难。
还有就是，一个人在家带孩子的情绪不好，这个阶段孩子跟大人还没有什么交流，只会
哭，吃奶，拉屎撒尿和睡觉，让人很boring，后面就越来越好玩，孩子好玩了，带的人
也会觉得好些。
精神紧张这回事肯定有的，但是这个，不是靠你跟她说你紧张没有用，你为什么要紧张
能解决的，呢如果这么说，她会更委屈和更愤怒以及更紧张。
建议lz自己单独带孩子1，2天，比较最能体会到底是怎么回事，然后跟太太一起work
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x**s
发帖数: 1085 | 27 看过有些报道说，其实很多SIDs都是care giver虐待至死的，为了不承担法律责任而都
归结到SIDS上。
那个妈妈应该建议另找医生检查，尤其是脑子，看看有没有shaken baby syndrome。
SIDS in the general population. As it is defined by epidemiologists, risk
refers to the probability that an outcome will occur given the presence of a
particular factor or set of factors. Scientifically identified associations
between risk factors (eg, socioeconomic characteristics, behaviors, or
environmental exposures) and outcomes such as SIDS do not necessarily denote
causality. Furthermo |
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b********n
发帖数: 162 | 28 感觉宝爸太挑剔，看起来倒像是我这样的宝妈那么能挑剔的样子。我妈来带孩子的时候
，我也说这说那，不放心这不放心那，觉得都得按我说的来，因为我看了书的。老公就
当着我的面对我妈说，看她拽的。有时候证明我说的（书上说的）没那么对，老公就说
，还拽呀。
宝妈做得挺好的，再好好跟宝爸沟通一下，周末自己带孩子加做家务，老人放假，看看孩子会不会每次跟自己想
象的一样该吃了吃该睡了睡。想想父母不在这儿，要送day care的情况，照宝爸这样子
，还不得担心死，哪个care giver能像爷爷奶奶姥姥姥爷一样尽心尽力啊。还有就算不
好意思直接对家里人说谢谢，也可以想办法通过其它方式表达自己内心的感激之情（比
如对着宝宝说说姥姥姥爷blabla，姥姥姥爷把宝宝养得真好什么的，将来长大了要好好
孝顺他们blabla），至少让老人觉得不是来给人做保姆的。
再说了，孩子怎么养怎么长（我妈说的），撒地里还不是一样长大。 |
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A******e
发帖数: 3373 | 29 哈哈，我老婆还从来没有中途去看过，说是太忙。。。。
听她care giver讲，我女儿很好奇，东张西望，而且上音乐课也跟着嚷嚷，还时不时跟
她的classmate，当然也全是小奶娃，“baby talk”
给你点儿鼓励：
上daycare之前，每顿吃饭3～4oz，上daycare之后，每顿吃饭5～6oz
上daycare之前，8点睡觉到12点醒一次，吃3oz，然后凌晨2、3点左右要醒一次，吃奶
3oz；上daycare之后，晚上8点睡觉到早上6点。 |
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l*******l
发帖数: 14 | 30 1) For your son, as long as you can prove that you are the primary care-
giver, likely you will have custody of child, even you don't have income.
2) Since you care for a young baby, likely you will be awarded possession of
the house, interimly. However, for the period from your taking sole
possession of the house to the date of completing property division, you may
need pay rent to your H, since he own 1/2 of the interest of the house.
3) Generally, H and W have equal right to family property, |
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w****a
发帖数: 2049 | 31 这要看care giver的素质. 不懂知识不去维护宝宝利益的话,人越多越糟糕. 7姑8姨的
都来逗宝宝,你摸一把我摸一把,冬天,流感季节,宝宝得病几率更大. |
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m*********7
发帖数: 5207 | 32 来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 哭求建议 That's exactly why I did not hire a nanny for my boy in the first place.
Even if your nanny is perfect in every aspect, she can quit for unexpected
reasons (family issues, health problems...), leaving you desperate to find
your baby another care-giver.
Find a good daycare and send your baby there. You will feel much relieved
later. |
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C**********2
发帖数: 537 | 33 The baby will grow up very well no matter he wears one pant more or less.
You should let go such small things if you ask other people to help take
care of your baby. If you send your baby to day care or hire a baby sitter,
the situation can only be worse, not better. The baby sitters can only do
what is convenient for them. They will listen to you when you are there. Who
knows when you are not there. The care givers in day care are even worse.
Probably you can't even tell them what to do. If you... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******u
发帖数: 12899 | 34 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
littlehei (嘿嘿) 于 (Thu Mar 10 19:27:29 2011, 美东) 提到:
上大学新生入学体检的时候第一次检查出来，众目睽睽下几个肝感觉阳性的同学给点名
，被校医区别对待了，甚
至游泳卡也过了好久才拿到。。。当时只觉得无地自容，感觉被歧视了。
//幸好后来好像没有再这么被当众羞辱过。出国的体检，工作以后每年的体检都没有很
多废话。
后来我自己一直很注意这个方面的话题。得知我父亲年轻的时候得过乙肝，家里的孩子
成为乙肝病毒携带者也是
十有八九的事。虽然医学上说这个病毒携带是不可治愈也不可逆转的，还是相信民间偏
方吃了不少中药。小三阳
还是小三阳，姐姐是大三阳的，据说一度变成小三阳，现在不知道。因为美国好像没有
大小三阳的说法。
一直风平浪静的直到怀孕。第一trimester血结果出来以后，产科医生似乎有点紧张。
然后州政府的health
department给我打电话，说要把我登记在案。让我LG去打肝炎预防针，说小孩出生的几
个小时内得打第一针预防
针，期间各种血液体液样... 阅读全帖 |
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p*****y
发帖数: 1579 | 35 妈妈生完之后在医院就给打了。
其他care giver要自己去打。 |
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p********3
发帖数: 5750 | 36 一岁以后的小儿生长速度减慢，一岁小儿的主要摄食行为发展：
1. 用杯子喝水，12个月到15个月应该逐渐Wean Bottle，15个月的小儿可以Manage使
用杯子， 但是可能会有Spill,18个月到24个月的孩子应该很好掌握杯子了。所以两岁
的小儿应该不再使用Bottle， 而完全改用杯子了。
2. Self Feeding发展。 六个月至一岁半的小儿，应该能够逐渐掌握自己用手把食品
放入嘴里的技能， 能用嘴把食品从勺子里吃到嘴里。16到17个月，由于腕部旋转功能
的发育，小儿能够将食物从碗里舀到嘴里。
3. 两岁的小孩，能够吃成人Texture的食品（除了Choking Hazzard 的）。
4. 给孩子玩食物（play With Food）的机会， 让孩子在吃饭的时候， 触摸，闻，
允许把食品吐出来，这样有助于孩子接受新的食品。 不要只是简单喂孩子，从孩子开始吃
饭的时候就让孩子同时接触食品， 建立health relationship。这点我觉得很多父母需
要修正，我看到很多父母给婴儿就是简单的喂。举例来说，我孩子六个月开始吃辅食，
我就给他可以融化的Puffs... 阅读全帖 |
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r******i
发帖数: 2662 | 37 mm,你知道你家宝宝闹觉的原因是什么吗？
从我家来说，也是非常容易ot的。以前看到有人家介绍经验说，宝宝醒着的时间不要超
过两小时，我
就很教条的按照两小时来哄睡。但其实我家娃根本撑不了那么久，一般一个多小时就困
了，等到她开
始搓眼睛的时候其实已经晚了，不知道是不是她长期睡眠不好，缺觉，所以更容易困，
但这些都被家
里几个大人忽视了。另外你可以试试看从宝宝less activity,quiet down的时候开始哄
看看，
甚至可以不用摇晃，只是静静的抱着她听听催眠曲什么的，也许早点开始哄可以更好的
观察宝宝的变
化。在我一个人带宝宝之前，对于自己的孩子了解甚少，所以总是错过她的window
time,家里的老
人更不会对这些有什么概念，都是比较机械的按点来或者按着大人的schedule来安排小
孩的生活。
不知道你家主要是谁在带孩子，也许可以一段时间内安排同一个人作为primary care
giver,这
样可以更好的观察了解宝宝，可能比几个人同时照顾更容易找到症结所在。
另外说到短觉的问题，我家宝宝是很容易醒的，长期挂在大人身上睡，现在我根本不可
能做到这样，
但我发现co-s... 阅读全帖 |
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l******2
发帖数: 2994 | 38 The best way to protect the newborn baby is staying home and his care givers
keep away from public areas plus breastfeeding. Neonatal death rate of
first year is very high compared to other ages of early life.
100.4 is the cut point to head to emergency room. |
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m****a
发帖数: 6567 | 39 你说的这个虚拟情形，不就是版上常见的怨妇贴么，哈哈。
我没觉得我的朋友很倒霉，她本来就很有才能，适合工作。她需要的是一个适合的白天
的care giver,
婆婆显然不是。既然daycare上的好，那就满足了他们家的需要。我想将来她的女儿会
因为有这么一个
为环境保护维权的妈妈而感到骄傲的。 |
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b****a
发帖数: 1144 | 40 我的感觉是不要跟care giver讨价还价。这个不比买东西。万一她答应降价，心里却不
爽，你不怕她对你孩子不冷不淡，或者不好吗？你觉得她贵直接换一家别的。 |
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s*y
发帖数: 18644 | 41 对了，我新公司还有规定，如果生完孩子后要WFH，还要给公司证明你的娃有额外的
care giver，比如nanny/daycare啥的。 |
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l******o
发帖数: 1864 | 42 Easy to say, hard to do.
My daughter does not like to be swaddled, and it's very hot now. She does
not take pacifier. I go to work and arrive home at 7:00 exhausted, hungry
and thirsty myself. My husband is in another city. We don't have money to
hire a nanny so grandparents are care givers. I can't force them to take the
baby to sleep before 7:00. I think my baby already gets tired after 7:00pm.
She is always fussy and very hard to get to sleep at night. Since I am not
with her during the day, ... 阅读全帖 |
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l******o
发帖数: 1864 | 43 She is 4 month now. My mum stopped swaddling her when she was two months. I
bought swaddle me and hallo swaddle sack, but she always got out by herself.
My mum decided that she did not like swaddling. I thought she might need
another size, but my mum did not agree. Again I am not the care giver. I can
't force my mum. Now my mum left and my parents in law are here. They seem
to follow my suggestions more if I have time to talk with them. Should I
start swaddling her again? How do I do it in hot ... 阅读全帖 |
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L*****L
发帖数: 406 | 44 夫妻两个都是好孩子。
当老公/爸爸的有担当，为了孩子可以和朋友翻脸，不惜一切代价，这份爱是要肯定滴。
但老婆/妈妈的有忍耐，14个月了还不断奶，夜夜睡不好觉，很不简单哟。
我是真心的夸，自己也养过孩子，所以知道不容易。
孩子是弱势，小的时候靠父母，或者是care giver，但是父母最疼孩子了。
几个问题：
1. 将来小孩子长大了，走在外面，遇到别人打了他一下，当爹的还要去拼命？
2. 老公赚钱养家，是不是也可以指出，是天经地义，赚到不够多的时候，要指出来，
期待改良？
3. 为啥女人弱，就可以先动手？男人是很没有耐心的，越是被激怒，越会采取过激手
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发帖数: 5207 | 45 Good thing you find a reliable family care for your babies.
For most parents, if they both have to work, finding a trustworthy care-
giver is a very difficult task. Kids younger than 2 years of age needs tons
of individual attention, and most likely they won't get it from daycare
teachers, because each teacher has to take care of 3 to 4 kids. In that
regard, grandparents and nannies are better options.
The question is: do you trust a nanny enough to leave your baby alone with
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J****a
发帖数: 137 | 46 我不知道你家孩子多大了，不过既然已经有过Sleep training1了， 我认为至少不是新
生儿了。 问题出在你的Sleep training没有Consistant。 你Train过一次， 不要认为
是一劳永逸的事， 必须还要坚持。 孩子的Motor Skill在加强， 孩子的大脑意识在成
长， 孩子的睡眠习惯也在变化。不要认为Train过一次，就不需要再Train了， 在孩子
整个Infancy直到两三岁之前，你都需要坚持同样的原则。 有的孩子的睡眠习惯需要你
按照同一个原则坚持好几个月，这当中牵涉到是不是的还要训练断断续续很久。但是同
样一个原则同样一个办法坚持下去，不要这样不坚持时而放松时而训练一下，或者使用
不同的Training办法换来换去。
孩子这么勤的醒来，你要着重在Sleep training上面下功夫。 孩子如果孩子哭上半个
小时，可以去拍拍， 但是不要抱起来。 当然你看很多书上都这么说，孩子在有
Seperation Anxiety的时候， 哭久了还是要去关怀一下，不过实际上是孩子被你这么
一拍， 估计哭闹得等厉害。 所以还是有人坚持Cry It Out。 具体... 阅读全帖 |
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l******4
发帖数: 1105 | 47 thank you very much
we are considering not to giver her the shot because she stays at home with
my parents this winter. will call the ped to get the instruction |
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s*******t
发帖数: 7746 | 48 对于刚上daycare哭，估计对你家宝宝对daycare和对一个陌生老人的反应差不多。都是新的
care giver。我的经验是宝宝越小送去daycare越不大会哭 |
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t*o
发帖数: 2606 | 49 其他地方还不知道, NYC的规定这么说:
Liveries, taxis, and public transportation busses are exempt from the
occupant restraint law.
link:
http://www.ci.tonawanda.ny.us/police/child%20passenger%20restra
也就是说坐出租车(或者bus/train/subway)不一定要car seat.
孩子是你自己的,你自己决定怎么做最好.
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Massachusetts (Boston)的规定说:
The law applies to children riding in all types of privately owned vehicles and vehicles for hire, including taxi cabs and 7D vehicles; the child's parent or care giver must provide the ca... 阅读全帖 |
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t*o
发帖数: 2606 | 50 Massachusetts (Boston)的规定说:
The law applies to children riding in all types of privately owned vehicles
and vehicles for hire, including taxi cabs and 7D vehicles; the child's
parent or care giver must provide the car seat.
http://www.mass.gov/rmv/faq/inspection.htm
"A police officer may stop a car if one or more children are riding
unrestrained. No other reason is needed."
在麻省必须有 car seat. |
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