由买买提看人间百态

topics

全部话题 - 话题: fuss
首页 上页 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 下页 末页 (共10页)
Q***u
发帖数: 433
1
来自主题: Investment版 - Roth 401K or Traditional 401K?
First all, those numbers are simply an example. Couldn't believe you're
making such a fuss about those numbers.
Secondly, right now, every month my wife and I put 38% of our earnings into
401(k)'s, Roth IRA's, and 529's. Mortgage and childcare are another $3000 a
month. So, I don't know about you. Based on our current living style, I'm
pretty sure we can live with 50% of our current income during retirement,
knowing that we won't have to worry about mortgage and kids education
anymore. --But tha... 阅读全帖
Q***u
发帖数: 433
2
来自主题: Investment版 - Roth 401K or Traditional 401K?
First all, those numbers are simply an example. Couldn't believe you're
making such a fuss about those numbers.
Secondly, right now, every month my wife and I put 38% of our earnings into
401(k)'s, Roth IRA's, and 529's. Mortgage and childcare are another $3000 a
month. So, I don't know about you. Based on our current living style, I'm
pretty sure we can live with 50% of our current income during retirement,
knowing that we won't have to worry about mortgage and kids education
anymore. --But tha... 阅读全帖
S**C
发帖数: 2964
3
来自主题: Investment版 - Vanguard Target Retirement Funds
I suspect you miss my main message, which is the silliness of the industry
wide "target 20xx", and investors' over-confidence on their untested risk
tolerance.
Bond is an universe far more broader than treasury, I expect people like
Gross, Arnott, Fuss, Gundlack, Rivelle, Hasenstab et al. to continue find
value outside treasury for their investors.
Interest is obvious low, how about equities? US corporate gross margins now
is at highest level ever, above 50% more than historical average, "this t... 阅读全帖
M********r
发帖数: 278
4
i thought, correct me if I am wrong, both are bond funds and seek absolute
returns and can go anywhere and buy anything. Their current portfolios are
different not because of their investment mandates, but because of the
choices made by the managers. PTTRX seems to be comfortable with treasuries,
agency bonds and mortgage backed secutities, but MXLMX largely shun these
and is heavy in corporate bonds. Both Gross and Fuss are great managers.
Gross has been experiencing bad publicity right now a... 阅读全帖
M********r
发帖数: 278
5
i thought, correct me if I am wrong, both are bond funds and seek absolute
returns and can go anywhere and buy anything. Their current portfolios are
different not because of their investment mandates, but because of the
choices made by the managers. PTTRX seems to be comfortable with treasuries,
agency bonds and mortgage backed secutities, but MXLMX largely shun these
and is heavy in corporate bonds. Both Gross and Fuss are great managers.
Gross has been experiencing bad publicity right now a... 阅读全帖
y****i
发帖数: 778
6
来自主题: Investment版 - 75%的基金经理输给SPX是真的吗?
By carefully choosing individual bonds with higher yield and shorter term,
the interest risks are much smaller than bond ETF. Kicker bond without call
protection but yield to call is higher than normal bond, no risk if the ask
price plus transaction fee is lower than call price, usually $100. For
example, 092840GQ4, 5% federal tax free interest, maturity date 7/1/2018,
bought at 99.92$. My tax free muni bonds have 4-6% yield (6-9% taxable
equivalent yield) with average term less than 12 years, ... 阅读全帖
u****e
发帖数: 99
7
来自主题: Investment版 - 关于mutual fund
On attitude and danger of market:
Attitude is important. I study and learn. I've met some smart, and I think
really smart, people, who gave the advice of using index fund. They tried to
beat market, they won, they eventually lost. The more I read. The more I am
convinced I am among the majority group that will not beat the market. You
can call me coward, I call that knowing oneself.
I pay due diligence on things I do not understand and want to understand.
Somebody recommends index annuity with... 阅读全帖
b***e
发帖数: 1419
8
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 申请Intern遇到ws的小公司怎么办?
Ok then, let me make myself more VELY explicit:
I do NOT believe that all the engineers of this company spent 6 months on
a problem and failed in getting a solution that you could figure out
within 5 days, or, let's say, we'll all come and worship you as the GOD.
Look, people are not stupid, and you 5 days of time/work is worth S.H.I.T.
Why don't you just fucking grow up and stop making a fuss out of it and
move the fucking on.
T*******e
发帖数: 4928
9
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 帮人问一下H1B身份下的兼职
under-table cash is ok as long as that startup can handle
the risk of audit from IRS.
However, if the boss of that startup pays your friend some
under-table cash from his own pocket instead of from that
startup's income (so that money never shows up on any payroll
or accounts), and both sides don't make a fuss about it,
I don't see how IRS can even know.
Of course, it is still illegal even he may not get caught.
I remember that a h1b holder can be a non-paid director of another
company without ... 阅读全帖
g*****g
发帖数: 34805
10
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 其实阿3也没有那么恐怖
我碰到的老印技术上牛的比例很低,不是说没有,比例很低。
另一方面他们更愿意提拔老印。所以老印当老板没前途。
我本来的老板走了,现在老板是老印,及其details oriented,
一点小错make a fuss,喜欢10PM开会,我老惹不起躲得起。
y**l
发帖数: 123
11
来自主题: JobHunting版 - How to anser do you know any Googlers?
Why google is making such a big fuss on a candidate? Just to prove G is the
best?
c******I
发帖数: 67
12
来自主题: JobHunting版 - $0 refresh
yes, but the manager made a big fuss over it during the review
j***k
发帖数: 2719
13
I never liked any buyer agent and think the world would be a better place
without them but I don't understand this... if you are from China and he is
indeed from Taiwan, why are you not happy with what he said? Should he said
that you're from Taiwan and he's from China instead? When someone ask me
where I am from, I normally say that I am from Shanghai. No one ever makes a
fuss about it. Why can't we accept someone from Taiwan say they are from
Taiwan? He didn't say he was from Japan, didn't he?... 阅读全帖
j***k
发帖数: 2719
14
still don't understand what this fuss is about.
if you don't like the house, just terminate the contract, and get your
earnest money money. the agent was not stopping you...

了正式
v********e
发帖数: 1985
15
You better do some research.
http://starcraftcustombuilders.com/sources.faucets1.htm
http://starcraftcustombuilders.com/sources.faucets2.htm
Copied some text from the page, the subsection of lead in brass.
Most faucets are brass, and brass is a metal alloy that contains lead. As
of 1998, brass in faucets may contain up to 8% lead and still be labeled "
lead free" as long as they leach not more than 11 parts per billion (11 ppb)
into drinking water. However, the process used to test leaching deve... 阅读全帖
a********a
发帖数: 3082
16
来自主题: Living版 - 房子有点歪能买吗? (转载)
i will move on - inspector won't cover your loss and insurance will make a
big fuss if your land slided
b****b
发帖数: 199
17
It's possible. It's written in the agreement that credit card company reserve
the right to change the terms and interest rates (without cap in SD and DE) on
their single side. In addition, the agreement usually says you cannot
participate a group suit against the credit card company.
When that guy failed to pay full for that month, he gave up the grace period
and the interest should be reasonably charged from the date of purchase.
What a fuss.

$
本人是工商银行国际信用卡的用户,2004年12月我用工商银行的信用卡刷卡消费39,771.5
w**********g
发帖数: 48
18
多谢你。
我没有拖过,每个月还清,然后又欠。
我查了些信息,贴这里,很长,有兴趣的人可以看看,基本确定这个就是骗子,还好他
问我SSN的时候我就什么都没有说了,不然估计就惨了
希望如果类似情况,大家能直接忽略那些垃圾邮件(那些邮件看着挺吓人和诱人)
Credit Resolution Advisors Just Sent Me a Mailer. – Sumir
CRAisevil
The owners of CRA or CreditResolution Advisors should be arrested for
fraud and deceit.
I’m contacting the FBI.
The more people who contact the FBI, the quicker these guys will be on
the lam.
Jblittle40
Must be a scam. I received pink notices from them trying to renegotiate
A cr... 阅读全帖
G*******E
发帖数: 566
19
来自主题: Money版 - CITI 关卡
citi only has himself to blame, if they add a cap on spending or points you
can earn like CHASE, none of these fuss will happen.
z****l
发帖数: 5282
20
来自主题: Money版 - [合集] CITI 关卡
☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
newjersey (NJ furniture dealer) 于 (Wed May 8 10:03:11 2013, 美东) 提到:
http://www.mitbbs.com/clubarticle_t/EasyMoney/31419801.html
☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
skrn (skrn) 于 (Wed May 8 11:13:15 2013, 美东) 提到:
160k in 6 weeks... Speaking for being greedy
☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
newjersey (NJ furniture dealer) 于 (Wed May 8 11:33:15 2013, 美东) 提到:
"
Quote:
Originally Posted by jz48 View Post
Anyone has his Thankyou acco... 阅读全帖
y****i
发帖数: 17878
21
you're very observant
"for the first time" does miss in the latest email
I'd not fuss about $10
V*****8
发帖数: 33122
22
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 昨天夜里去急诊室转了一圈,求祝福
I went to ER once when I was about 33 weeks pregnant, all I had concerned
was the $100 co-pay... so expensive...
turned out I was making a fuss over the rib pain.
b********h
发帖数: 348
23
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 怎样改善沟通 尤其是跟inlaw 有关的
Make a big fuss over nothing! Nothing wrong with grandparents!
i**y
发帖数: 25
24
i just trained my 14 months old son. He was trained when he's 7 months old.
But then he had to have ear tube surgery. After that, he was in our bed till
last month. It's getting harder to put him to sleep in our bed. So we
decided to train him again.
I was trying to play about 30 minutes in his room before bedtime(8PM). Then
put him down. He would close his eyes and start crying like screaming. Then
I was patting him and explaining that it's bed time. I love you, stuff like
that. About 3-4 night... 阅读全帖
U********l
发帖数: 636
25
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 写一个Sleep training FAQ 欢迎补充
mm你有时间好好看看下easy的主要内容,7个月白天两觉,3小时或更多醒的时间,下午
早醒的话晚上早睡,目标是7点睡,7点起。
作息表你看看这个楼里面有没有合适你家的。这里还有些sample
http://www.babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=164253.0
你家train好过宝宝有自己睡得能力,要相信她。因为你家cry it out用的比较混乱,
先重新获得宝宝的信任比较重要。要不就安心哄睡一段时间再说。如果想让宝宝自己睡
,奶睡可能不需要,但宝宝fuss或哭一哭的时候你要陪在宝宝身边。看看gradual
withdraw http://www.babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=80750.0
http://www.babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=102386.0
大人那边比较麻烦,要避免的是你跟宝宝在一起宝宝哭了但老人抢过宝宝。如果无法说
服老人那就只能继续哄入睡了。
U********l
发帖数: 636
26
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 写一个Sleep training FAQ 欢迎补充
你宝宝还小,不要太紧张了,如果你去baby whisperer网站上看会发现很多小宝宝就算
父母很早就开始注意routine,还是经常出兮兮。回过头来看,我希望我自己那个时候
再放松一些,有些时候在你还没找到原因之前,宝宝又变化了。这个时期基本思想就是
引导宝宝朝一个好的目标发展,但哪天off了也放松,给宝宝时间。
1/ 什么样的哄睡方法正确?
我理解的shh/pat是宝宝需要你帮助的时候,比如哭了或fuss哭了,shh/pat可以帮助宝
宝block外界的干扰,注意力集中在shh/pat的节奏上然后慢慢入睡。如果你宝东张西望
或盯着一处看没有哭,也许先不要打扰他,或者很小声地,看他能不能自己睡,哭了你
再shh/pat;开一个白噪音也能起到类似的作用,宝宝哭声大了白噪音声音也开大,转
移宝宝注意力,然后再慢慢小下来(这方法我家4个月的时候我试过有用,不知道普适
不)。你一直在宝宝身边不要太害怕他哭,听几次你才能积累经验。
宝宝哭的时候如果你shh/pat效果不好(我自己没有经验,看网上的帖子的)很有可能
是shh声音不够大,或者节奏不够好(要长shh, 跟水龙头开大水那么大音量)sh... 阅读全帖
U********l
发帖数: 636
27
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 奶睡已养成,还有救么?
mm你看看这篇这位mm家里怎么弄的,也是cosleep的,你还是可以先保留喂奶哄睡,如
果你想慢慢来的话。但把night waking起来玩要纠正下,白天要保证喂够。你不要太怕
宝宝哭,宝宝fuss一下是自我发泄,那种拿头到处顶是宝宝自我安慰,你不要介入太多
,宝宝会学会自己睡着的。
http://www.mitbbs.com/article/NextGeneration/33779615_3.html
S**********i
发帖数: 86
28
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 我还要继续sleep training吗?
谢谢mm的回复. 他的routine倒是还好, 就是睡不够, 一天也就11个小时 (am 0.5h, pm
0.5-1.5h, night 9-10h). 半夜还要吃一顿. 一般要折腾半天才能再睡着.
今天我终于放弃了CIO的sleep training. 我就让他自己在crib里睡, 不给他pacifier,
我在旁边坐着, 他要是哭得厉害, 我就拍一拍. 他自己会哭几声, 大多数时间就吭哧
吭哧低发牢骚. 最后还是睡着了. Am nap 花了30m, 睡了1h15m. PM nap 花了15-20m,
睡了1h以上. 感觉他的情绪好一些, 不那么fuss.
9个月的小宝, 正是separation anxiety 比较严重的阶段. CIO (extinction method)
可能会适得其反. 再加上我家小宝比较sensitive, CIO method 不适合他.
感谢 USCardinal (小荷才露尖尖角)mm的帖子 (写一个调整作息和Sleep training FAQ
欢迎补充), 很有帮助. 这里是link:
http://www.mitbbs.com/artic... 阅读全帖
t***1
发帖数: 64
29
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 我还要继续sleep training吗?
推荐Health Sleep Habit,Happy Child.这本书。我根据这本书的方法,调整了孩子的
nap time and schedule. after four days, she sleep though the night.The book
was recommended by several friends. it really worked in all of the cases i
know.
from what you descrip, i would like to recommend the following:
1。Baby白天的nap质量直接影响晚上的睡眠质量。如果白天的nap睡的不好。晚上就会
累,反倒会常醒。
2。9个月后,孩子不再需要夜奶 。特别如果他喝奶后还不立刻睡回去,就说明他还缺
乏smooth自己的能力。
3。其实他白天只有2个nap,一个around 9am ,一个around 1pm。那就要把他睡觉的时
间提早到6:30pm. one frind of mine had her baby sleep though the night ... 阅读全帖
U********l
发帖数: 636
30
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - BSO帖,这样的娃,算不算乖娃?
我开始回的那个贴没显示呢?
我也献上我的板砖:你怎么知道别人丝毫不关心呢?
看这么些妈妈爱看,也算上我一个。我也觉得写的挺可爱挺温馨的。妈妈们本来每天就
有很多宝宝的事情要操心,所以版上才这么多求助答疑的帖子;但要是版上只有求助和
诉苦的帖子,那我们的生活岂不是更辛苦。有点闲心的时候来“BSO”下,妈妈自己也
开心,我们看着也温馨。下次换作自己的宝宝,别人也这么赞扬下,我肯定也高兴啊。
人跟人之间出于客气或礼貌的互相赞扬一下,再健康不过了吧。不过"BSO"的帖子永远
没有“bssd"的诉苦贴点击和回帖率高,也是人之常情吧。
而且,我看楼主的帖子还有收获呢:这几天正在为每天我出门的时候宝宝要哭一场发愁
,还想发贴问的。看到楼主的宝宝会乖乖的跟着她离开玩的地方回家,我觉得这个提前
10分钟,5分钟预告下的方法就很好。我今天早上出门前就预告了宝宝我要走了,然后
在她fuss的时候再陪了几分钟,然后再正式走,效果就比以前好,没大哭。还有楼主看
情况陪宝宝入睡的方法也很好,这样宝宝入睡更安心,有必要的时候,我也会考虑这么
做。
b**********1
发帖数: 190
31
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 求助 三周大宝宝哭闹,不睡觉
http://www.coliccalm.com/baby_infant_newborn_articles/baby_coli
What are the Symptoms of Colic?
It is not uncommon for newborn babies to go through periods when they appear
abnormally irritable or seemingly cry for no reason. However, if you
suspect your baby is suffering from colic, you may look for the following
symptoms:
cries vigorously for long periods, despite efforts to console
symptoms occur around the same time each day or night, often after meal
times, and usually ending as abruptly as... 阅读全帖
m*******e
发帖数: 1886
32
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 请问西雅图宝宝有reflux的爸妈 (转载)
【 以下文字转载自 Seattle 讨论区 】
发信人: meanwhile (meanwhile), 信区: Seattle
标 题: 请问宝宝有reflux的爸妈
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Mar 5 08:30:48 2011, 美东)
我家宝宝出生没几天就开始因为silent reflux哭闹,到现在三个月大没睡过几天好觉
。peds associate见了三个不同医生都只说"children fuss like this" he'll
eventually outgrow....因为宝宝gain weight正常,他们就不重视,死活不开zantac
之外的药。宝宝直到昨天还吃着和两周大时剂量一样的zantac,他的体重都翻了一倍了
。现在就光看他痛苦,睡不好,儿医永远说再等二礼拜看看。
想请问有类似宝宝的爸妈,有没有对开prevacid比较open minded的儿医推荐,我们一
家子也可以早日结束每天二三个小时睡眠的生活,多谢了!
s******2
发帖数: 3519
33
娃两周了!前两天才克服自己的内疚感决定除了喂奶和泵奶其它一律不复杂自己好好做
月子!昨天开始宝宝一瓶喂完就开始瞪大眼睛不停哭一直fuss!闹了好久后来我给胸喂
才睡着!
昨天晚上我一直给胸喂到睡着,而且在我怀里睡着一到crib就开始哼哼唧唧,睡的不踏
实!有可能我放到crib的时候他还没熟睡,可我怎么才知道他熟睡?像刚才他在怀里睡
了他爸过来喂了口早饭给我他就醒了!又得换只胸接着喂!现在在怀里睡了都不敢放
crib去!
昨天晚上后来那顿我实在受不了就把他放到我身上跟我一起睡!这样是不是对他脊椎不
好?
s******8
发帖数: 801
34
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 熬鹰被鹰熬
搭车问个问题。我家娃快4个月了,现在白天4小时一顿,每顿4-5oz(不确定,因为是
胸喂)。晚上8:30左右睡觉,然后11-12点喂一顿迷糊奶4oz,之后一般能睡到6-7点。
上次去做4-month checkup,我们的儿医可能比较aggressive吧,告诉我们现在不需要
喂夜奶了,说娃这个年龄应该可以睡10个小时以上,还说如果半夜哭就“let her fuss
”。搞得我们也有点犹豫了,需不需要逐渐开始断掉11-12点那一顿迷糊奶呢?
N******u
发帖数: 11939
35
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 熬鹰被鹰熬
我觉得你儿医太激进了。如果娃不饿,他不会要吃的。我娃那么大的时候,有时候干脆
到4,5点才要奶吃,甚至搞到我8个小时的胸堵得一塌糊涂,吃一边就撑到了,另外一
边只能泵。
不过,为啥要迷糊奶呢。我以为,除非娃要求吃,否则不要主动喂。

fuss
m******e
发帖数: 144
36
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 快要坚持不住了,crying or time?!
怎么才会让宝宝学会自己睡?
都说要宝宝学会自己睡觉只有两种办法crying or time。一直不想CIO训宝宝。
自从知道clb后就把书界来看了。版上跟clb有关的讨论也都找来看
从快两个月就开始尽量培养routine。没敢生搬硬套,用一个很popular的词就是
loosely follow clb,根据大原则设计自己合适的作息
目的就是想形成生物钟到点就困。
不知道是不是犯了一个错误,经常为了达到这个目标抱着哄。
一开始还想put down while drowsy,但是一放就醒和fuss,最后就变成睡着了才放下,心想等生物钟形成就好了
结果生物钟多多少少也形成了,但是抱睡哄睡的习惯也形成了!
别说到点放下就好了,根本是放下醒了就哭,横着抱哄睡都不行,一定要竖着抱。一开始是因为小时候有点reflux所以就要竖着抱哄,后来没什么问题了可是稍微一有打横的趋势就叫
真的是给新生儿不会宠坏这个说法骗了!!我不是说不要respond to the baby,而是说宝宝真地会形成习惯的
三个多月的时候看情形不对,赶紧开始调整,先是竖着抱改成横着抱,然后醒了试着在床上拍不抱起来
现在一个多月了... 阅读全帖
m******e
发帖数: 144
37
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 快要坚持不住了,crying or time?!
怎么才会让宝宝学会自己睡?
都说要宝宝学会自己睡觉只有两种办法crying or time。一直不想CIO训宝宝。
自从知道clb后就把书界来看了。版上跟clb有关的讨论也都找来看
从快两个月就开始尽量培养routine。没敢生搬硬套,用一个很popular的词就是
loosely follow clb,根据大原则设计自己合适的作息
目的就是想形成生物钟到点就困。
不知道是不是犯了一个错误,经常为了达到这个目标抱着哄。
一开始还想put down while drowsy,但是一放就醒和fuss,最后就变成睡着了才放下,心想等生物钟形成就好了
结果生物钟多多少少也形成了,但是抱睡哄睡的习惯也形成了!
别说到点放下就好了,根本是放下醒了就哭,横着抱哄睡都不行,一定要竖着抱。一开始是因为小时候有点reflux所以就要竖着抱哄,后来没什么问题了可是稍微一有打横的趋势就叫
真的是给新生儿不会宠坏这个说法骗了!!我不是说不要respond to the baby,而是说宝宝真地会形成习惯的
三个多月的时候看情形不对,赶紧开始调整,先是竖着抱改成横着抱,然后醒了试着在床上拍不抱起来
现在一个多月了... 阅读全帖
C**********y
发帖数: 3348
38
好的谢谢。我是太紧张娃的睡眠了,总是怕他白天睡不好晚上要闹,我很怕他晚上fuss

了4
s*******a
发帖数: 342
39
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - sleep training 第四天
恭喜mm!想请教一下
1。mm用的是哪本书?ferber还是healthy sleeping habit?
2。一般什么情况才进去看?
3。“抱抱拍拍浑身放松,眼睛呆呆了再放下”是进去看的时候也用吗?还是只有放下
睡的时候才用?如果开始哭了不放松了怎么办?
我家宝宝如果一直很放松,发发呆慢慢会睡,可是一旦开始fuss,就浑身用力,自己不
会放松。好几次我进去把她手臂用力掰开,捏一会儿给她放松才能慢慢平静。mm的经验
是怎么样的?
4。可以分享一下白天的nap schedule和bedtime ritual的步骤吗?
谢谢!!
p******m
发帖数: 758
40
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 天使宝宝这是怎么了?
sigh...my baby too.
She is 3.5 months old. Last week, she was almost sleeping through the night,
waking only once around 5-6am to get fed. Then suddenly she is waking every
2 hours, fussing, crying, and won't sleep again until she's fed. It's like
clock, every 2 hours. It's been like this for 5 days now. I'm hoping it's
just a growth spurt and that she will go back to her old routine. It's
driving me crazy.
l*********e
发帖数: 5385
41
赫赫,我们家的也是喜欢听水龙头声音,好奇怪~
有可能是reflux还有growth spurt
J*******a
发帖数: 96
42
刚刚给儿医打电话,据说是气太多,让每次吃完再拍10分钟,然后竖着睡30分钟。看来
我们是拍得不够给力。。。
还说reflux会有spit up和projectile vomit.
J*******a
发帖数: 96
43
小baby都喜欢shite noise的
J*******a
发帖数: 96
44
谢谢楼上的建议。其实之前屯了一个dr. brown的8oz的奶瓶,但是还没用,明天就试试
。还有发现gripe water很好用。
x****n
发帖数: 494
45
我做了前面四章的笔记,就讨论到宝宝4个月为止。还没继续整理,讲究着看吧。
书很晦涩,太学术,有些乱,所以笔记也有些乱,就挑有用的来看吧。

Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child
By Marc Weissbluth, MD
读书笔记
导读
如何入睡如同吃饭,是需要训练,而非天生就会。
过于疲劳的婴儿更难自己入睡,更依赖于父母的安抚。入睡之前不能太困,要在drowsy
时入睡,这样更容易入睡。
如何防止睡眠问题的出现:
1周-4周: 醒来之后的一到两个小时内开始安抚宝宝,放在相对阴暗和安静的环境下。
采取一切措施防止宝宝哭泣。最好是宝宝在drowsy而又清醒的状态下放到床上去。
4周-8周:在白天继续关注睡醒后一到两个小时这个阶段,一旦出现睡眠迹象,及时安
抚,让孩子入睡。宝宝会越来越闹,特别是在第六周的黄昏,达到顶峰。这个时候父亲
最好提前下班,在黄昏时用尽一切方法安抚孩子,包括把孩子放在婴儿车上带到外面逛
。在这个阶段,在宝宝昏昏欲睡而又未睡的时候放到床上去,宝宝很有可能不会入睡。
8周-12周: 继续关注醒后一到两个小时,提前让孩子睡晚上的一觉,大概在... 阅读全帖
p***a
发帖数: 105
46
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - Hush, Little Baby真是一曲好lullaby
嗯,我成天在小孩fuss的时候唱这歌,小孩听了就会笑。
S****s
发帖数: 235
47
Of course, you can, as long as you have someone to help with the infant. Do
not understand why many people make a fuss about recovery.
b********r
发帖数: 57
48
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 宝宝嗓子哑
新妈一个,宝宝5周大。秋天又冷又干,晚上开空调更干。不知道是不是这个原因,宝
宝嗓子哑了。不发烧,也没有鼻涕,我猜可能不是感冒。饿了哭的时候我好心疼,赶紧
就喂。宝宝一直很乖,不太哭闹。偶尔fuss,但是也不会让他哭多于20分钟。有什么办
法可以让他的嗓子快点好?需要喂点水么?加湿器不知道管用么?还有什么好的建议,
麻烦有经验的妈妈们多告诉我些。谢谢。
b********r
发帖数: 57
49
来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 从爱你一生到爱你一世
一转眼2013年已经成为历史,2014年的第一周也快要过去了。去年一年我从一个刚刚了
解人情世故的小姑娘升级为母亲,我从110磅到135磅再到110磅的过程还都历历在目。
在家带孩子的每一天对我来说都是考验。考验我的细心和耐心。当九九需要人陪但是我
还得去厨房做饭或是要上厕所的时候也是我最无奈的时候。是啊,什么时候我连上厕所
这种事情都没时间了呢?真是好笑。我也只有苦笑。
九九是个乖孩子。一般晚上喂过奶之后放在他自己的crib上就睡了,不用哄,不用抱,
不用讲故事也不用唱歌。之前一觉还只能睡4,5个小时,现在他一觉能睡6,7个小时了
。九九长得很快。他再也不是刚出生时的小豆芽了。现在几乎是他出生时的3倍体重了
,身高长得更猛。他长得越快,吃得就越多。母乳的原因,他每次吃完我都觉得很饿,
所以搞到我也吃很多...结果我吃的全长他身上了。我虽然抱他已经觉得吃力了,但是
还是每次天气好的时候都用carrier抱他出去散步晒太阳。最初每天带他出去有两个原
因。一是婴儿需要多看颜色鲜艳的东西来刺激视觉和大脑。大自然里不仅颜色灿烂缤纷
而且还有多种多样的形状适合婴儿辨识。二是晒太阳能让人体分泌维生... 阅读全帖
c******i
发帖数: 94
50
原文:http://www.wired.com/2014/04/missing-microbes-antibiotic-resistance-birth/
BY MARTIN J. BLASER 04.03.14 | 6:30 AM | PERMALINK
Throughout the animal kingdom, mothers transfer microbes to their young
while giving birth. Different species of tadpoles acquire specific skin
bacteria from mother frogs even though they all live in the same pond with
the same bacterial background. Emerging chicken eggs get inoculated with
microbes from a bacteria-filled pouch near the mother hen’s rectum. And fo... 阅读全帖
首页 上页 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 下页 末页 (共10页)