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l****z
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66% Oppose Forgiveness of Student Loans
41% Say Their Views Closer to Tea Party’s Than to Wall Street Protesters’
Voters Like Government Student Loans, Frown on Pell Grants That Don’t Have
To be Repaid
31% Say It’s Too Hard To Get A Student Loan
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
One of the loudest demands by the Occupy Wall Street protesters is for
forgiveness of the nearly $1 trillion worth of student loans, but Americans
strongly oppose forgiving that debt. Even as President Obama talks about
easing t... 阅读全帖
B**W
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A federal agency on Tuesday called for a ban on all cellphone use by drivers
— the most far-reaching such recommendation to date — saying its decision
was based on a decade of investigations into distraction-related accidents,
as well as growing concerns that powerful mobile devices are giving drivers
even more reasons to look away from the road.
As part of its recommendation, the National Transportation Safety Board is
urging states to ban drivers from using hands-free devices, including
wirele... 阅读全帖
l****z
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来自主题: USANews版 - 大学文科文凭泡沫
大学文科文凭泡沫:过去25年,美国大学就学人数增加了50%,但理工科(科学,技术
,工程和数学)毕业生人数和25年相比几乎没有变化
Tuning In to Dropping Out
By Alex Tabarrok
Rick Scott, Florida's governor, created a firestorm recently when he
suggested that Florida ought to focus more of its education spending on
science, technology, engineering, and mathematics (STEM) and less on liberal
arts. Scott got this one right: We should focus higher-education dollars on
the fields most likely to benefit everyone, not just the students who earn
the degrees. Scott, ho... 阅读全帖
l****z
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“You have done a superlative job of diminishing what was once a great
profession”
June 19, 2012 by Rick Rice
It’s quite normal and routine to read about media bias at my place.
It’s quite another to read about it from an insider, from an acclaimed news
guy who spent decades in the biz, from someone who has historically poo poo
-ed the notion that your regular news outlets are completely in the tank for
leftist thought, memes and ideologies, from someone who is usually most
calm, most mild, most... 阅读全帖
P*********0
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The Bible on the Poor
or, Why God is a liberal
The Bible contains more than 300 verses on the poor, social justice, and God
's deep concern for both. This page contains a wide sample of them, and some
reflections. It's aimed at anyone who takes the Bible seriously.
As you read these passages, you will very likely feel a good deal of
resistance (possibly at first manifesting itself as indifference). American
churches have departed strongly from Biblical values in these areas, and
even created a r... 阅读全帖
l****z
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October 12, 2012 by Doug Johnson
In two debates President Barack Obama and Vice President Joe Biden have
collectively moved into first place in the all-time worst use of the medium
of television in a debates. Collectively they’ve frowned and smirked (Obama
) and creepily smiled and guffawed (Biden) in such inglorious fashion as to
historically portray themselves so poorly that they’ve move the needle
decidedly in their opponents favor. Obama’s debate loss is already historic.
Biden, while not ... 阅读全帖
c*****g
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【 以下文字转载自 Seattle 讨论区 】
发信人: Lyingdragen8 (卧龙先生), 信区: Seattle
标 题: Jimmy Kimmel 的玩笑可恨在哪里?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Nov 7 15:28:20 2013, 美东)
11/7/2013
许多人还不清楚JK如何开的这种玩笑和他玩笑后面的潜台词是什么。潜台词作为专业戏
剧术语, 是指隐藏在台词后面的真正的意思表达, 这种意思表达才是演员和导演想让
观众知道的东西。 比如舞台上一个相亲时不耐烦的女人对另一个约会的男人说: 天已
经黑了我该走了。 她的潜台词其实是我们不合适, 如果要用夸张的口吻说也许还要表
达的是:想摸黑强奸我, 休想!
Jimmy Show中Jimmy提出美国应该如何还中国的$1.3 trillion的外债时, 我们看到一
个小孩子脱口而出:
"Shoot cannons all the way over and kill everyone in Ch... 阅读全帖
l****z
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Obama: Dems’ Troubles Have Nothing To Do With My Policies
By Tim Cavanaugh
May 9, 2014 12:17 AM
During his fundraising trip to Los Angeles Wednesday, President Obama
discovered anew that the United States is in bad shape, and he was again
left in puzzlement about what could be the cause.
“You get a self-fulfilling prophecy,” the president told supporters,
urging them to help Democrats avoid potentially significant losses in both
houses of Congress in the November midterm elections. “The people w... 阅读全帖
l****z
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来自主题: USANews版 - ISIS militants take Iraq army camp
BAGHDAD – Militants with the Islamic State group on Monday claimed control
of a key military training camp in Anbar province -- which Iraqi officials
called a "tactical retreat" -- as a spate of deadly bombings shook Baghdad,
hitting mostly Shiite neighborhoods and leaving at least 30 dead.
Meanwhile, a source tells Fox News that ISIS fighters hold nearly 50 percent
of the Syria border town of Kobani, which has been the focus of fierce
fighting between ISIS and Kurdish forces, backed up by US-... 阅读全帖
l****z
发帖数: 29846
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【 以下文字转载自 Arizona 讨论区 】
发信人: GoBlue (Wolverines), 信区: Arizona
标 题: 有关穆斯林的总结太震撼完整了 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Sep 23 01:01:42 2015, 美东)
发信人: GoBlue (Wolverines), 信区: Military
标 题: 有关穆斯林的总结太震撼完整了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Sep 23 01:01:31 2015, 美东)
Copy and paste this on ALL muslim stories! Flood them with the truth!
The Shoe Bomber was a Muslim
The Beltway Snipers were Muslims
The Fort Hood Shooter was a Muslim
The underwear Bomber was a Muslim
The U-S.S. Cole Bombers were Muslims
The Madrid Train Bombe... 阅读全帖
g********2
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Watch: Obama in 2008 Boasts to Ohioans ‘It Helps’ That Dems Are ‘in
Charge of’ Voting Machines
Earlier on Tuesday, President Barack Obama accused Republican presidential
nominee Donald Trump of “whining” for his repeated statements on the
upcoming presidential election being “rigged” at a joint news conference
with Italian Prime Minister Matteo Renzi.
“The notion that somehow if Mr. Trump loses Florida, it’s because of those
people that you have to watch out for, that is both irresponsible and, ... 阅读全帖
u****n
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How America Can Rise Again
Is America going to hell? After a year of economic calamity that many fear has sent us into irreversible decline, the author finds reassurance in the peculiarly American cycle of crisis and renewal, and in the continuing strength of the forces that have made the country great: our university system, our receptiveness to immigration, our culture of innovation. In most significant ways, the U.S. remains the envy of the world. But here’s the alarming problem: our governin... 阅读全帖
w*********s
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来自主题: WorldNews版 - 中东颜色革命幕后的金融"政变" .
Rothschilds Stage Revolutions in Tunisia and Egypt To Kill Islamic Banks In
Emerging North African Markets
PwP Exclusive ©Feb 9 2011
Background: Tunisia has undergone increasing economic liberalization over
the last decade: In the 2010-2011 World Economic Forum’s Global
Competitiveness Report, it was ranked as the most competitive country in
Africa, as well as the 32nd most economically competitive country globally.
North Africa’s large Muslim populations are a vast business opportunity
... 阅读全帖
a***e
发帖数: 38850
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来自主题: ebiz版 - 大家看看怎么办。
我寄相机寄阿拉斯加, 用的是flat rate priority label。
给护士这么写的:
"请放两个照相机到一个medium flat rate priority box。 (free at usps)"
然后我顾客找来了:
因为护士没用medium flat rate box。 运费不够, 邮局不放, 要补钱。
我答应补顾客运费。
顾客回信:
“I just spent an hour in line at the post office to pick this package up
from my job. I used my vehicle and gas to have it picked up, so I would not
have to hire a courier with a charge to the company. Also, it is frowned
on to leave this building during work hours. This is not a way to do
business, the package shipp... 阅读全帖
m****e
发帖数: 282
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来自主题: Faculty版 - Journal rejection appeal
We all know the rebuttal is most likely fruitless. There are times you still
want to do this just to get yourself heard. I have done this twice, my
lessons learned are:
1. If you find yourself emotional, stop and take a break. Emotion never
serves your arguments well.
2. Objectively and calmly list the facts and your arguments. Make it easy to
read for the chief editor.
3. Politely recognize the efforts reviewers and editors put in so far to
review your manuscript. You win your sympathy by showi... 阅读全帖
i*********e
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来自主题: Faculty版 - Start up的用途一般是谁批准?
大密说理论上有一部分钱我可以用来付暑假工资,但是dean's office and campus
really frown on it,因为本来不该这样用。
各位说我该怎么办?用了会有什么实质性影响么?
C***t
发帖数: 915
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来自主题: Faculty版 - 有些国人faculty 就是自私
越说越不靠谱了。我们现在谈论的不是科学家的共享精神,是一个申请人在找工作过程
中,自己给自己写推荐信。这种事不是没有,但版上目前举的几个例子,可以说是很少
发生的特例,在大多数学校和正派老师那里都是frown upon的。不要说学生找工作了,
我的小本去申请当宿舍管理员(有钱拿的),我都是叫她发CV过来,我自己写。重不重
要?当然不重要的一件事,但我就是这么个习惯,而且我自认为写得比她自己执笔要好。
我的博士导师,西女,现在都和妈妈一样为我做很多没有回报的服务。但她连绿卡信都
是亲笔写给我的(我连提都不敢提代笔)。后来我按照律师那里给的“范例”跟这个老
师说,能不能加上我是5%这句话(很多人写1%)?她的回答是: I'm not sure I'm
among the top 5%. 我要是敢提议找工作自己写信,恐怕这一辈子都不会和我说话了。
就这一个原因,我就赖在美国了。我不觉得任何事情,只要搬出“同胞帮同胞”这一条
,就可以没有原则没有底线。在我看,国内目前的发展瓶颈,不是钱也不是智商人力,
就是所有人都觉得无所谓的学术道德。老印那一套,都是自掘坟墓。随你们怎么说。
S*********n
发帖数: 2015
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What is so hard to understand? Your friends who frowned don't enjoy cooking.
T*******7
发帖数: 636
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☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
maonvlang (猫女郎) 于 (Fri Jun 24 16:07:58 2011, 美东) 提到:
so,我以为日子就这样过了。
26岁的时候嫁给这个男人,他相貌平平,老实巴交,
但是勤勤恳恳,脚踏实地
就在国内的一个城市
说不定你我在地铁上还碰到过
结婚后的一年生了女儿
老公继续勤奋
我们于是有了房子和车子
老公很忙,越来越忙
-看到这里,你可能会觉得杯剧要发生了
但是还没有
他抽空会带我们一起出去参加朋友聚会
一群朋友,吃喝打牌
我不习惯
女儿哭了的时候我去拿奶瓶喂奶
抬头看到一个男生在看我
没有多想
我有点脸红
不过已经当了妈妈了,
怎么还会有那种想法
我bs自己
若无其事,回去继续看他们打牌
☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
GoooG (pumpkin) 于 (Fri Jun 24 16:08:53 2011, 美东) 提到:
sex out of marriage?
the nature of human being, ma... 阅读全帖
d*b
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【 以下文字转载自 GayStudy 俱乐部 】
发信人: dcb (奉钻风之命删除), 信区: GayStudy
标 题: 性别不重要,数量也不重要
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jun 11 19:30:26 2015, 美东)
双语:全球首例三名男同性恋结婚(图)
2015年03月01日18:30 中国日报网
Three gay men from Thailand have tied the knot in what is thought to be
the world's first three-way same-sex marriage。
泰国三名男同性恋日前喜结连理,被认为是全球首例同性三人婚姻。
Happy newlyweds Joke, 29, Bell, 21 and Art, 26, took the plunge on
Valentine's Day after exchanging their vows in a fairy-tale ceremony at
their home in Uthai Thani Province, Thailand。... 阅读全帖
a***e
发帖数: 38850
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来自主题: FleaMarket版 - 大家看看怎么办。 (转载)
【 以下文字转载自 ebiz 讨论区 】
发信人: alive (活着), 信区: ebiz
标 题: 大家看看怎么办。
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Sep 27 22:04:58 2011, 美东)
我寄相机寄阿拉斯加, 用的是flat rate priority label。
给护士这么写的:
"请放两个照相机到一个medium flat rate priority box。 (free at usps)"
然后我顾客找来了:
因为护士没用medium flat rate box。 运费不够, 邮局不放, 要补钱。
我答应补顾客运费。
顾客回信:
“I just spent an hour in line at the post office to pick this package up
from my job. I used my vehicle and gas to have it picked up, so I would not
have to hire a courier with a charge to the company. Also, it... 阅读全帖
K****D
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Although what he proposed is not too much different from
a 1-year DCA which is OK, I frowned when I read "然后开始换
一种计算方法".
I just hate sth like that, //sigh...
Again, standardize your measurement equipment before doing
experiments.
L*****a
发帖数: 3080
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - 关于如何回答为什么换工作
long commute. answers that the interviewer won't frown on.
n********e
发帖数: 41
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - Leetcode的系统真是弱爆了
楼主 看到 你 isDiffByOne 函数就知道你必然要超时
Leetcode免费给你用 就别挑剔了。凡事要先从自身找问题
你那个测试不是大数据
真正的大数据在这里:
start = "nanny";
end = "aloud";
String[] d = {"ricky","grind","cubic","panic","lover","farce","gofer
","sales","flint","omens","lipid","briny","cloth","anted","slime","oaten","
harsh","touts","stoop","cabal","lazed","elton","skunk","nicer","pesky","
kusch","bused","kinda","tunis","enjoy","aches","prowl","babar","rooms","
burst","slush","pines","urine","pinky","bayed","mania","light","flare","
wares","wom... 阅读全帖
C******6
发帖数: 22
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - Why do you need to smile :)
1
Halo Effects Occur when an individual generalizes about a variety of
attributes based on the knowledge of one attribute of an individual
Example: A smiling person is judged to be more honest than a frowning or
scowling person--even though there is no consistent relationship between
smiling and honesty.
2
Selective perception has the effect of perpetuating stereotypes or halo
effects: after forming quick judgments about someone on the basis of limited
information, people may then filter out fur... 阅读全帖
z**********i
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来自主题: Living版 - 问个贷款的问题
Penalties
If you borrow from a 403(b) to purchase a home, you should be reasonably
sure that you will stay with the same employer long enough to pay back the
full loan amount. That is because if you leave an employer while the 403(b)
loan is outstanding, you have only 60 days to repay the loan in full. After
60 days, any unpaid portion of the 403(b) loan will be considered a
withdrawal rather than a loan. Withdrawals are immediately taxed, and if the
account owner is less than 59 1/2 years old, ... 阅读全帖
m**2
发帖数: 3374
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This is from slickdeals:
yea dont waste your time with Hulu nonsense if you have a mac or android
device just install this and you'll never look back. has pretty much every
show you could think of.
once installed and setup click on tv then genesis icon, that has the nicest
GUI with episode summaries and screen shots from each one. will mark which
ones you've watched too. find each show you like, right click and select add
to favorites.
episodes pop up within 15min after they air if on Central/ea... 阅读全帖
l****z
发帖数: 29846
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【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: lczlcz (lcz), 信区: USANews
标 题: 一项对同性恋人群的研究发现
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Oct 19 11:58:38 2010, 美东)
一项对同性恋人群的研究发现,女同性恋父母的子女中58%是同性恋,男同性恋子女是
33%,异性恋父母子女是5-10%;欢迎同性恋的社区里同性恋比例高89%
http://www.aolnews.com/science/article/study-gay-parents-more-likely-to-have-gay-kids/19668089
Study: Gay Parents More Likely to Have Gay Kids
Updated: 1 day 19 hours ago
Paul Kix
AOL News
(Oct. 17) -- Walter Schumm knows what he's about to do is unpopular: publish
a study arguing that gay parents are... 阅读全帖
w*****4
发帖数: 3902
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来自主题: Parenting版 - When Kids Bring Home Problems (zz)
Connor was having trouble making friends. "None of the cool kids will play
with me. Only the dopey kids will," he complained.
"Oh, no," Dad said with a wrinkled forehead and sadness in his eyes. "That
sounds rough. What do you think you can do about that?"
"I don’t know," Connor whined. "The teachers won't help me."
"Hmm," Dad paused. "Would you like to hear what some other kids have tried?"
Connor grunted, "Guess so."
"Well," Dad continued, "some kids decide to forget about having friends. How
... 阅读全帖
d*****1
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Sunday in the Park
Bel Kaufman
It was still warm in the late-afternoon sun, and the city noises came
muffled through the trees in the park. She put her book down on the bench,
removed her sunglasses, and sighed contentedly. Morton was reading the
Times Magazine section, one arm flung around her shoulder; their three-year-
old son, Larry, was playing in the sandbox: a faint breeze fanned her hair
softly against her cheek. It was five-thirty of a Sunday afternoon, and the
small playground, tuck... 阅读全帖
m*********7
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 脸皮太薄还是自闭?
楼主看看这篇文章:
http://bbs.wenxuecity.com/autism/1734440.html
本贴内容已被 [One-leaf] 在 2011-12-04 09:44:52 编辑过。如有问题,请报告版主
或论坛管理删除.
做为一个自闭小孩的家长我想分享一下我半年多来研究和观察成果。我见到很多询问孩
子是否有自闭倾向的帖子,但是在我看来都没有讲到关键的地方。也看过网上所谓的检
验标准,觉得非常模棱两可,我女儿已经确诊都不见得能从这种测试中确认自闭。我相
信我的方法对于除了非常high function 的自闭应该比较准确,而且也容易操作,比较
容易由父母来观察得出初步结论。
我在澳大利亚,所以自闭症检验体系跟北美会稍稍不同。我女儿在2011年中确诊ASD,
autism spectrum disorder。当时她快4岁半。儿科医生给的诊断,好像不是所有儿科
医生都有资格做这个诊断,不太确定。按照她的报告,自闭分为完全自闭autism区和程
度比较轻的ASD 区,女儿在ASD 区的靠近完全自闭一边。不过我自己觉得她在ASD 比较
中间的位置,而好几个自闭儿家长觉得我女儿应... 阅读全帖
k****i
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 自闭历程
core problems in ASD只有三点:
1.is the child having trouble with establishing intimacy and warmth?
2. Does the child communicate with gestures and emotional expressions?Does
the child engage in continuous flow of back and forth emotional signaling
with smiles , frowns, head nods and other interactive gestures?
3. When the child begins using words, does he use them meaningfully? Are the
words or symbols invested with emotion or desire, such as "i love you", or
"i want that juice" rather than "this is... 阅读全帖
a****g
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 自闭历程
core problems in ASD只有三点:
1.is the child having trouble with establishing intimacy and warmth?
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
how to measure the intimacy and warmth, especially with someone other than
family member?
2. Does the child communicate with gestures and emotional expressions?
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
what if a child lacks gestures yet can cry, smile with expressions?
Does the child engage in continuous ... 阅读全帖
f*******e
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来自主题: Parenting版 - normal or gifted
经常看到这里有人问自己2,3岁的小孩是不是有天分。转一篇文章吧。
http://www.babycenter.com/6_your-28-month-old-gifted-kids_10329
Your 2-year-old now
Preschoolers seem to learn so much, so fast. Can you know at this age if
your child is gifted? Learning specialists say that sometimes it's clear
from infancy that a child learns more quickly than others his age. But for
many children, signs of giftedness — usually defined as achievement in one
area that's much deeper and faster than that of a child's peers — aren't
evident until ... 阅读全帖
t*****r
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还没看他道歉的视频,可从他的话看怎么说是我们没欣赏他的幽默,嘴巴很硬,根本没
说是为什么道歉。I am sorry for what? 可以是指I am sorry some people are not
happy with me. 根本就是在敷衍了事。这里是他道歉的话(从文字新闻看到的):
"You know, today is a weird day," Kimmel said on Monday's show. "There seems
to be a lot of people upset with me, more upset than usual."
"I thought it was obvious that I didn't agree with that statement, but
apparently it wasn't," Kimmel said Monday. "So I just want to say I am sorry
. I apologize. It was certainly not my intent to upset anyone."
H... 阅读全帖
m*****t
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这个“道歉”里其它部分先不说了,个人感觉最后这句“I'm here to turn frowns
upside down”相当condescending,基本就像是哄小孩子的口吻,“怎么,生气了?没
事,我来逗逗你们就好了”的那种

not
seems
sorry
m*****t
发帖数: 239
37
诚意不诚意不是光看sorry vs. apologize的,建议不用纠结这个了
看看他那个所谓道歉的话吧,I had a weird day是专门说自己的感受和自己受到的影
响,对自己给了别人什么感受和影响毫无考虑之意。People upset with me, more
than usual对16号那些话索引起的offense是dismissive,同时把这件事情淡化,带有
几分“我本来说话就这样嘛,不喜欢我的人多了”的意思。I thought it was obvious
but apparently it wasn't,可以说是指这是对方理解错误,还有最后那句I'm here
to turn frowns upside down更不用说了,当对方是三岁小孩而已
(以上引用凭记忆,具体词句或许有出入,不过意思应该没有大差别)
s***o
发帖数: 251
38
The following is probably Jimmy's subconscious thoughts:
最近真倒霉,昨天我本是在人很多的广场上卖弄我的搞笑伎俩,让people(当然,MY
people)眉头舒展开来。当我看到一群不入我眼的中国人(应该是土豪)走了过来,我
突然高声问我的小搭档: “我们砍掉这些中国人的头从他们肚子里把钱挖出来, 好不
好啊? ! 果然不出所料,围观的people (当然,MY people),笑了!然后,我们冲向
这些猥琐的中国人, 将其中一个还扑到在地, 假装砍取他们的头,围观的 people(当
然,MY people) 大笑不止了! !我们所做的显然是一个笑话!对吧! 逗笑是我的工作
嘛!对吧! 然而,这些中国人现在都在抱怨了!还上街游行! 谈论和争取什么 ""多样
性"",""平等"", ""公平"", ""尊重"" 与 ""和谐""! 真他妈的! 他们配吗?NO! 他们
是我们一伙的吗? NO !他们应受到平等对待吗? NO !我对 MY people 做了错事吗
? NO !MY people 关心这事吗? NO ! !还有什么好说... 阅读全帖
p*******y
发帖数: 133
39
这是很老的一片文章,反思关于批评式教育。写的很好。
读了它,帮助我认识到如何教育孩子,和如何理解和原谅自己父母从前的教育方式。
如文中所说,批评式教育很多时候源于父母的这样一种心理: expect too much of
youth and measure kids by the yardstick of the parents own years.
Father Forgets
by W. Livingston Larned
Listen, son; I am saying this as you lie asleep, one little paw crumpled
under your cheek and the blond curls stickily wet on your damp forehead. I
have stolen into your room alone. Just a few minutes ago, as I sat reading
my paper in the library, a stifling wave of remorse swept ove... 阅读全帖
a*o
发帖数: 25262
40
来自主题: Parenting版 - 别让爱成为孩子的负担 ZZ
别让爱成为孩子的负担
戴维·布鲁克斯
如今的育儿有两大关键特征。第一,现在的孩子得到空前多的夸赞。桃乐丝·帕克(
Dorothy Parker)曾经开玩笑说,美国的孩子不是抚养大的,是激励大的。他们得到了
饮食、庇护与喝彩。这话在今天更是无比正确。人们不断对孩子说他们如何如何特别。
第二个关键特征是孩子受到了前所未有的锻造磨砺。在精英体制下,竞争空前激烈。父
母比以往更担心孩子能否进入优秀大学,踏上职场坦途。比起以前几代人,现在的父母
会花更多的时间对孩子的技能和履历进行投入,开车送他们去训练和排练。
这两大倾向——更多的夸赞和更多的磨砺——是紧密结合的。孩子沉溺在爱中,但那爱
是有指向的。父母向孩子倾注无限的感情,但那是精英至上的感情。其中掺杂着帮助孩
子取得世俗成功的欲望。
而这时常会表现为操纵欲。父母无意中用他们的微笑和皱眉作了向导,让孩子往他们认
为可以通往成功的行为发展。孩子努力学习、训练、得第一名、进入名牌大学,会让父
母心中充满欣喜。
这样的爱是基于价值判断的。它不是单纯的“我爱你”。它是“我爱那个在我的平衡木
上不掉下来的你。只要你在上面,我会给你无尽的赞扬和体贴”。
... 阅读全帖
P**M
发帖数: 25
41
Even in scenario you mentioned here, leaving now makes sense:
Assume Lab A is a very good lab (people get into industry/academia after
postdoc, which I doubt from the description):
1. if you have no paper, you get in lab A because of things others than your
publication (good RL/connection etc), which you can use to find lab B.
2. Half a year is short and it's understandable if there is no publication,
however, one year and a half without publication would probably make people
frown.There are pos
w*********s
发帖数: 2136
42
Rothschilds Stage Revolutions in Tunisia and Egypt To Kill Islamic Banks In
Emerging North African Markets
PwP Exclusive ©Feb 9 2011
Background: Tunisia has undergone increasing economic liberalization over
the last decade: In the 2010-2011 World Economic Forum’s Global
Competitiveness Report, it was ranked as the most competitive country in
Africa, as well as the 32nd most economically competitive country globally.
North Africa’s large Muslim populations are a vast business opportunity
... 阅读全帖
h****z
发帖数: 2009
43
2009年买断,现在又要IPO,但好像过去两年亏钱
Before the controversial buyout of J. Crew, there was Bankrate.
Back in 2009, Bankrate management and two of its directors,
including its chairman, teamed up with the private equity firm Apax
Partners to take the company private. This team ended up buying
Bankrate, a consumer financial information company, but did so
pursuant to a sale process that came under heavy criticism by
Institutional Shareholder Services, among others.
The Bankrate board appeared to abdicate its... 阅读全帖
D******e
发帖数: 11265
44
【 以下文字转载自 Piebridge 讨论区 】
发信人: frown (My, you are a tall one!), 信区: Piebridge
标 题: 【女征男】前行一步是幸福,守在原地是孤独-征大叔
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Feb 17 15:50:03 2013, 美东)
找萝莉的大叔请转身,此处不宜。
★性别: 女
☆取向:寻诚意成熟男
★出生年份: 1977
★所在地(至少明确state): TN
★职业情况(学生还是工作): 工作
★简单的物理参数(身高/体重): 168 cm/ 49 kg
属相,血型、星座: 蛇,双子
★当前婚姻状态(从没结过婚/离异/丧偶): 离异
☆离异,无子女:无
★联系方式(email/IM/站内): 站内先,email后
☆本人是否照片:暂时参见47楼
☆是否要求对方提供照片:如果您有诚意,请提供照片
☆是否需要版主关闭讨论:(如果需要请站内联系版主)
生长于小康家庭,父母从小就要求要勤奋自立。在美学习工作,下厨上厅,家居布置,
小修小补,您且不必担心;爱运动,每周固定打网球。也喜欢乒,乓球,羽毛球;我不
富有但也... 阅读全帖
c**s
发帖数: 3796
45
【 以下文字转载自 Texas 讨论区 】
发信人: Lyingdragen8 (卧龙先生), 信区: Texas
标 题: Jimmy Kimmel 的玩笑可恨在哪里?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Nov 7 15:30:13 2013, 美东)
Jimmy Kimmel 的玩笑可恨在哪里? 11/7/2013
许多人还不清楚JK如何开的这种玩笑和他玩笑后面的潜台词是什么。潜台词作为专业戏
剧术语, 是指隐藏在台词后面的真正的意思表达, 这种意思表达才是演员和导演想让
观众知道的东西。 比如舞台上一个相亲时不耐烦的女人对另一个约会的男人说: 天已
经黑了我该走了。 她的潜台词其实是我们不合适, 如果要用夸张的口吻说也许还要表
达的是:想摸黑强奸我, 休想!
Jimmy Show中Jimmy提出美国应该如何还中国的$1.3 trillion的外债时, 我们看到一
个小孩子脱口而出:
"Shoot cannons all the way over and kill everyone in China,"
直译过来就是让我们万炮齐轰, 杀光哪里的中国人。
我们看到他只... 阅读全帖
r***l
发帖数: 9084
46
来自主题: Stock版 - 网易爆了
as i expected, market is frown upon on deferred revenue and decline in pc
game.
r***l
发帖数: 9084
47
来自主题: Immigration版 - EB1A, 材料太厚,怎么装订好呢
太厚了,这么厚的材料只能给你添麻烦,IO翻翻,胳膊酸了,找不到自己想看的,直接
rfe了。
你这么多引用,完全没必要再打印什么首页和文献页了,就是700个引用的list,完全够
了。
review就打印开始的invitation letter和review后发的thank you letter. that is
it! 16个引用,32页!
你发表文章的那些杂志,就用isi或者其他网站关于杂志的IF list,愿意在弄介绍也可
以,但重点介绍2,3个就行了,精简!!!
30个文章不用全文打印了,挑5个一下自己最得意的文章全文打印,其他都给首页。
其实申请大家都怕遗漏,不过也得讲点common sense, 准备这么厚,30个文章全都打印
,come on...won't help, just make IO frown upon.
G****e
发帖数: 11198
48
【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: GoBlue (Wolverines), 信区: Military
标 题: 有关穆斯林的总结太震撼完整了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Sep 23 01:01:31 2015, 美东)
Copy and paste this on ALL muslim stories! Flood them with the truth!
The Shoe Bomber was a Muslim
The Beltway Snipers were Muslims
The Fort Hood Shooter was a Muslim
The underwear Bomber was a Muslim
The U-S.S. Cole Bombers were Muslims
The Madrid Train Bombers were Muslims
The Bafi Nightclub Bombers were Muslims
The London Subway Bombers were Muslims
The Moscow The... 阅读全帖
G****e
发帖数: 11198
49
【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: GoBlue (Wolverines), 信区: Military
标 题: 有关穆斯林的总结太震撼完整了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Sep 23 01:01:31 2015, 美东)
Copy and paste this on ALL muslim stories! Flood them with the truth!
The Shoe Bomber was a Muslim
The Beltway Snipers were Muslims
The Fort Hood Shooter was a Muslim
The underwear Bomber was a Muslim
The U-S.S. Cole Bombers were Muslims
The Madrid Train Bombers were Muslims
The Bafi Nightclub Bombers were Muslims
The London Subway Bombers were Muslims
The Moscow The... 阅读全帖
g******4
发帖数: 6339
50

including
Illinois Cracking Under Weight Of Public Pensions
Seated in his office in Chicago, wearing neither a necktie nor a frown,
Republican Gov. Bruce Rauner is remarkably relaxed for someone at the
epicenter of a crisis now in its second year and with no end in sight. But,
then, stress is pointless when the situation is hopeless. Besides, if you
can ignore the fact that self-government is failing in the nation's fifth-
most populous state, you can see real artistry in the self-dealing by th... 阅读全帖
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