s*********d 发帖数: 912 | 1 那本书让你去confront, 可没让你期望和解;你分明还存有幻想,confront才会失败,
怎么能怪人家的书写的不对呢。 |
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S*******h 发帖数: 7021 | 2 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: StanMarsh (ojo), 信区: USANews
标 题: 爱好和平者必读 - 川普沙国演讲全文
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed May 24 12:46:25 2017, 美东)
I want to thank King Salman for his extraordinary words, and the magnificent
Kingdom of Saudi Arabia for hosting today’s summit. I am honored to be
received by such gracious hosts. I have always heard about the splendor of
your country and the kindness of your citizens, but words do not do justice
to the grandeur of this remarkable place and the incredible hospitality ... 阅读全帖 |
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x*a 发帖数: 48 | 3 这个次子情结,我太懂了。我姐比我大两岁,我觉得几乎一辈子都生活在她的阴影下,
跟父母尤其是跟我妈的关系到了这个问题就是个死结。我妈最听不得我说她偏心,他本
来就是个好强的人,样样要做到一百分,当妈又是最用心的,说她做得不够好本来就让
他难以接受,更何况他口口声声疼我疼得更多,因为我从小身体比较差。其实这些事情
很微妙,举个例子,我很小的时候,大概也就4岁左右,但是能记事了,我是个比较伶
牙俐齿的孩子,爱说话,舅舅就说我,“别看你现在唧唧瓜瓜的,以后没有你姐姐有出
息”。我为这句话记恨了很久,其实不只是恨那么简单的,首先我舅舅在我家里是比较
有地位的人,我妈妈很在乎他说什么,他这么说,我除了不愉快,还经常有潜意识的自
我否定,因为连舅舅都说我不会有什么出息了,我还有什么指望。其次我妈的态度,我
妈从来没有真正否定过我舅舅这种说法,我成年后跟我妈说过我为这句话难过了很多年
,她只说我小心眼,并说我舅舅都已经跟我倒过很多次谦了,我听了加倍难过,本来就
没出息,还要加上小心眼。如果我妈妈当时或者过后当着我的面为这件事“confront”
我舅舅一次,我的感觉肯定会大不一样。现在我意识到我妈永远... 阅读全帖 |
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C******e 发帖数: 193 | 4 写的真好
收藏一下 以后遇到垃圾可以借鉴
我也不赞同很多人说的搬家
我觉得中国人大多数都不善于confront 要不就是怕麻烦
但是这么消极处世的话 永远都处于被动
之前我楼上也有个垃圾 总去complain我家声音大 吵到他(我们是楼下哎)
还经常故意在楼上弄出很大动静
后来我老公就直接上楼敲门去confront他
在然后他反倒消停了 (后来我老公说这人看着精神状态不太正常)
其实这种垃圾多数都是欺软怕硬的
你越退避 他越来劲
保护好自己 同时fight back
把心态放好 别被他bother
既然我们是有理的一方 问题一定能解决的
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w********g 发帖数: 18 | 5 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: wxm146 (gemrain), 信区: Military
标 题: Re: 什么是强者和弱者? ABC 事件的思考
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Oct 29 02:19:53 2013, 美东)
If I were you, I would walk up to him, say "excuse me, sir, I have a
question." loudly. before he even have any chance to say anything, I would
continue to confront him and ask him loudly and calmly why he said he
stopped making when my son asked for one, but right after I left he
continued to make for other kids. I would demand an explanation right away
on th... 阅读全帖 |
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m*********7 发帖数: 5207 | 6 不瞒你说,我自己有产后抑郁症 :-(
我老公confront过他的爸爸,但老爷子的回应是“我做事都是讲良心的。如果当年我不
那么管教你,你不可能出国留学,更不可能有今天!” 近十年来他家的孩子尝试各种
办法和爸爸沟通,老爷子却始终认为自己没错。
我现在只希望我和老公能够摆脱这些影响,作称职的父母。
子很难健康成长。你老公还有一个问题,是他自己的父亲不是一个好父亲,他没有第一
手的经验如何做个好爸爸。很有可能,他一面痛恨他自己的父亲,同时又用类似的方法
对待自己的孩子。你老公如果不confront他自己的爸爸,很难打破这个锁链。 |
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s**a 发帖数: 1995 | 7 --==敲了半天,没留底稿结果没发成,只好重新敲一遍,版主发包子吧==--
亚裔小朋友往往是校园bully的牺牲品。有家长今天谈到武术训练,正好我对这个比较
关心,和大家探讨下。
亚裔小朋友因为身体和心理两方面的原因,显得比较弱小。别的族裔小朋友经常参加体
育运动,身体比较强壮些。尤其是对抗性激烈的篮球,橄榄球,足球,冰球等等,让他
们对肢体接触和冲撞习以为常,在心理和身体上的确都比亚裔要强壮些。
如何prepare我们的小朋友?柔道和摔跤,从伤害可控性、适合的体质、和心理训练上
来看都是很好的武术入门选择。
这边比较流行的徒手武术训练有拳击,空手道,跆拳道,混合搏击,合气道,巴西柔术
,西式摔跤,柔道,还有中国武术。中国武术要比较长时间的基础训练,对这里的小朋
友来说似乎缺乏吸引力,暂不论。
拳击,空手道,跆拳道都是属于击打类武术,伤害性较大,在训练、非职业比赛中要带
护具。小朋友,尤其是年龄小的学习这些武术,家长可能会担心会不会闯祸。合气道大
量的反关节技术,让家长也有同样的担心。
混合搏击,巴西柔术没有研究。
柔道和摔跤则是伤害可控类型,主要技术之一是摔(投技)。因为小朋友的体重... 阅读全帖 |
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k*****r 发帖数: 1435 | 8 “不敢confront别人,又特别好面子” 这两点我建议你一定要从现在开始着手帮助他
主要的方法就是先给他讲解什么时候要confront别人
为什么这么做是必要的,他的顾虑是什么(同时解释这些顾虑其实没有必要)
然后通过一些实例来联系,让他观察你或者其他小朋友是怎么做的
一点点来学习,鼓励为主,刚开始不能完全让他一个人完成,
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i**e 发帖数: 19242 | 9 有没有可能
即便是pure solution-focused,也的经过problem-focused这一步呢?
solution有很多,了解问题在哪里才比较容易找到对症的solution吧?
在我看来,“问为什么”是改变自己接受父母as is的必经的初级阶段
就现在这个时刻,每颗白菜走到哪儿,确实是不一样的
我相信,白菜ready了,自己就会move on地
我也同意,有stuck on this phase,走不到释然那一步的白菜
大家说白菜耿耿于怀埋怨怪罪父母的时候
有没有想到过,不少白菜们很有可能就是在父母的埋怨和怪罪下长大的呢?
这些白菜们喜欢也好不喜欢也好,“埋怨和怪罪”就成了他们个性的一部分
他们能意识到这一点想改进,其实也是需要时间的
绝没有为白菜开脱的意思,更没有支持埋怨这种交流方式的意思
我个人认为,适当的confrontation是必要的
目的不是为了改变父母改变历史
是给过去一个closure
//就好比被bully的人成年后去confront bully者
//能够有机会告诉对方,You really hurt me! 更容易move on 罢了
我同意白菜父母... 阅读全帖 |
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s*********0 发帖数: 298 | 10 Please be aware that I never say that lz should let this situation go
without addressing it. My point is: do not take confrontational attitude
because an upfront confrontation will make thing worse.
My understanding of the situation is, someone at some department did not do
a good job tracking all the paperwork (like forget to document the second
test the school promised) and that department informed the teacher, who
obviously does not possess the most wise judgment. Once the school realizes
... 阅读全帖 |
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z****0 发帖数: 3942 | 11 对,不管对老师,校长,还是对方家长,都要冷静,避免confrontational,需要强调
facts。情绪或语言过激都可能被对方理解为confrontational,从而伤害自己本来正当
的诉求。
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w********g 发帖数: 18 | 12 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: wxm146 (gemrain), 信区: Military
标 题: Re: 什么是强者和弱者? ABC 事件的思考
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Oct 29 02:19:53 2013, 美东)
If I were you, I would walk up to him, say "excuse me, sir, I have a
question." loudly. before he even have any chance to say anything, I would
continue to confront him and ask him loudly and calmly why he said he
stopped making when my son asked for one, but right after I left he
continued to make for other kids. I would demand an explanation right away
on th... 阅读全帖 |
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t******l 发帖数: 10908 | 13 比如你说的这个 “上海男人之理性” 的问题。。。其实部分原因是因为 faulty
memory 有时会不自觉地 play emotion card。。。记得我上面说过的 quality memory
confront everything around you from now on, thus avoid confront you as much
as possible (thus avoid working on unimprovable variables)。。。这可能导致
quality memory start emotion-detachment from now on。。。而最终 quality
memory 就获得了 “上海男人之理性”。。。而这个还被刻在潜意识层次。。。
:上海男人果真是名不虚传啊。倒底该"赞"呢还是该"叹"?:) |
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k**********i 发帖数: 8706 | 14 【 以下文字转载自 WorldNews 讨论区 】
发信人: kelvinchufei (Kelvin), 信区: WorldNews
标 题: 英美,伊朗,石油,沙特,中国
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Feb 15 17:50:37 2010, 美东)
以下几条新闻摆在一起看挺有意思
==========================================
Clinton expected to seek Saudi Arabia's help in confronting Iran
Washington Post
02/15/2010
“Clinton will also seek to win pledges from Saudi Arabia to help on the
confrontation with Iran, specifically reassuring China that its oil supply
will not be harmed if relations with Tehran sour over support for
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w*********s 发帖数: 2136 | 15 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: whiteclouds (/ 参考消息 /), 信区: Military
标 题: 奥鸡巴想对巴基斯坦不宣而战。北京发最后通牒。
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon May 23 03:59:30 2011, 美东)
US, Pakistan Near Open War; Chinese Ultimatum Warns Washington Against
Attack
Webster G. Tarpley, Ph.D.
http://tarpley.net/2011/05/21/us-pakistan-near-open-war-chinese
May 20, 2011
China has officially put the United States on notice that Washington’s
planned attack on Pakistan will be interpreted as an act of aggression
against Beijing. This blunt warning... 阅读全帖 |
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D******e 发帖数: 11265 | 16 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: wanglanlan (我爱王兰兰◎◎), 信区: Military
标 题: 名律师说话了:尼哥正试图劝离其同伙时被高速撞击了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 4 16:23:21 2013, 美东)
瘫痪的尼哥正试图帮助路虎男缓减紧张气氛的时候,被路虎男 高速撞击了
Gloria Allred:tells reporters that Mr. Mieses was trying to help the driver
of the SUV diffuse the situation, when he was run over.
我靠, 这律师太强悍了, 如此颠倒黑白啊, 这律师盯上了路虎男的豪宅和钱包了
http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2013/10/04/20820832-gloria-allr
The motorcycle rider whose spine was crushed when he was run over by an SUV
fleeing an an... 阅读全帖 |
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E*********r 发帖数: 4984 | 17 有一点必须澄清的是,我从来没有删过别人的话,一点击回复,如果内容太长,系
统自动就把下面的一段话给删节了,因此不存在潜意识里不愿意Confront别人的情况。
论坛是虚拟空间,Confront又怎么样? 至于炒股,我的确是发过帖子看好JCP,那是我
的真性情,有啥错吗?JCP跌了,我也亏钱了,愿赌服输,有啥问题吗? 买股票就是有
Wishful Thinking希望它涨, 难道你希望它跌?值得一提的是,我从没有说服任何人
买JCP,钱是你自己挣的,赚了不会给我,输了也不要怪我,这就是我的态度。 当JCP
涨到14块的时候,怎么没有听您出来告诉我说我的帖子都是Wishful Thinking之类的话
?我从不主动骂人,如果对方言语不客气地话,我只能反唇相讥了。 因此你在讲关于
我骂别人神经病这个话的时候,先看看对方是怎么说我的。
言论自由的问题见仁见智,我不想赘述,至于Kimmel的事件我有我的理解,Winner
和Loser也是个见仁见智的称谓,炒股到现在我还是赚的,来日方长,输和赢都很正常
。 我尊重你的观点,虽然有些地方我不敢苟同。
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s**m 发帖数: 1564 | 18 although LZ should have explicitly told the violator that his action is not
welcomed in the very beginning, but the policy doesn't require victim to
confront the violator in person. If the victim has tough personality then
she/he could tell the offender to stop (not necessarily secretly, indeed,
better express the thoughts in public). If the victim is kind of shy or has
concerns, the policy encourages victim to report to HR directly.
That person's harassment has been seen by coworkers so coworke... 阅读全帖 |
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h*h 发帖数: 845 | 19 我觉的中国人在美国职场常常struggle的一点就是对social protocl的不熟悉,导致掌
握不好什么时候应该撕破脸皮的反击。这样一来掌握不好自己什么时候应该拔刀,二来
掌握不好对方会不会拔刀所以在confrontation前会自然有些缩手缩脚。尤其是面对一
些condescending people.
这两天目睹了两个烙印senior directors之间的战斗,很有些心得。两个人都report
to一个大老板,之前争抢一个program,A赢了,B是一个很阴暗的人,失败后不甘心,
背后千方百计的诋毁A乃至A手下的人。昨天一起开会,另一个不相干组里的某个技术资
深愣头青提到A这边用的一个product很烂,烂到他不想与之有任何交集。A询问细节这
哥们说可以私下交流。B就跳出来说能不能也include him,其实就是要去找炮弹去了。
A立刻反击说既然人家提出要私下交流就是有私人意见不愿意跟多人分享或者留record
,所以你的参与会破坏交流的坦诚气氛。你如果仍然坚持的话也可以参加。无论你是否
参加,我明天都会和大老板讨论一下要求他跟你澄清你的角色和你对我的program负的... 阅读全帖 |
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y****r 发帖数: 211 | 20 呵呵,中国人和印度人的特点就是不敢confront,但跟白人打交道,直接confront往往
最有效,还不伤感情。你试试。 |
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l******g 发帖数: 764 | 21 Swiss confront scandals
AFP/February 9, 2008
By Patrick Baert
Geneva - Switzerland's Catholic Church is embroiled in a series of sex
scandals, with some priests denouncing media intrusion while others say past
sins and abuse must be confronted.
One 45-year-old priest committed suicide last Sunday after what his family
denounced as a "media hunt," when it was revealed he had been accused in
2001 of indecent behaviour with a minor back in the 1980s, before he had
been ordained.
Some 600 people att |
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l****z 发帖数: 29846 | 22 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: TFollowerII (铿锵), 信区: USANews
标 题: 今日家防:64岁老头家被入侵,中数弹,还击,1死1逃
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jan 9 22:40:25 2014, 美东)
家被入侵,什么情况都有可能发生。有时候被爆揍一顿(比如那位老中妈妈),有时候
只是被抢。但是更糟糕的危险不是没有。
昨天这个事情就是个很糟糕的入侵,而且坏人开枪打屋主。屋主身中数弹,仍然manage
to get gun and 还击。2个坏蛋1个死。1个逃(应该已经被抓住了)
枪,又一次,提升了好人的力量,保护了好人。
屋主在医院,不是致命伤。
A shooting in North Knoxville Wednesday night left one man dead and another
injured.
Knoxville police say Terry Mack, Sr., 64, was shot several times after being
confronted by at least tw... 阅读全帖 |
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B******1 发帖数: 9094 | 23 In New York law, a self-defense argument in a civil case might not work if
the party citing that argument is the initial aggressor. As to who is the
initial aggressor in this case, it is unclear who initiated the
confrontation of this seemingly common place road rage. It's an open-ended
question.
Again the question circles back to the reasonable standard. Is there another
way for Lien to get out of the trouble? I think it would be a strenuous
argument that there is NO other way than ploughing th... 阅读全帖 |
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i*****t 发帖数: 9074 | 24 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: TravisBickle (Travis), 信区: Military
标 题: 看来证人没全错,小黑确实举手投降过
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Aug 20 16:11:12 2014, 美东)
不过像是象征性迷惑敌人的,马上转身就扑了上去。警察开始没被他打晕算走运。
Darren Wilson, the Ferguson, Mo., police officer whose fatal shooting of
Michael Brown touched off more than a week of demonstrations, suffered
severe facial injuries, including an orbital (eye socket) fracture, and was
nearly beaten unconscious by Brown moments before firing his gun, a source
close to the department's top br... 阅读全帖 |
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S*******h 发帖数: 7021 | 25 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: gemini2012 (双子AB), 信区: USANews
标 题: 大多数穆斯林不是恐怖分子,但大多数恐怖分子是穆斯林
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Oct 5 16:48:02 2016, 美东)
By Michael Brown Published on November 16, 2015
Michael Brown
My tweet simply said, “We know that most Muslims today are not terrorists.
We also know that most terrorists today are Muslims.”
I tweeted this out on Friday night in the midst of the terror attacks in
France, and I didn’t think it would be controversial at all. In fact, it
seemed self-evident. To m... 阅读全帖 |
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S*******h 发帖数: 7021 | 26 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: gemini2012 (双子AB), 信区: USANews
标 题: 大多数穆斯林不是恐怖分子,但大多数恐怖分子是穆斯林
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Oct 5 16:48:02 2016, 美东)
By Michael Brown Published on November 16, 2015
Michael Brown
My tweet simply said, “We know that most Muslims today are not terrorists.
We also know that most terrorists today are Muslims.”
I tweeted this out on Friday night in the midst of the terror attacks in
France, and I didn’t think it would be controversial at all. In fact, it
seemed self-evident. To m... 阅读全帖 |
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t**********3 发帖数: 12623 | 28 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: kickok (淡定熟男), 信区: USANews
标 题: Breaking New! 中国的老朋友,美国敌人Hugo Chavez死了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Mar 5 17:14:04 2013, 美东)
CARACAS, Venezuela (AP) — President Hugo Chavez, the fiery populist who
declared a socialist revolution in Venezuela, crusaded against U.S.
influence and championed a leftist revival across Latin America, died
Tuesday at age 58 after a nearly two-year bout with cancer.
Vice President Nicolas Maduro, surrounded by other government officials,
announced ... 阅读全帖 |
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a*o 发帖数: 25262 | 29 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: wanglanlan (我爱王兰兰◎◎), 信区: Military
标 题: 名律师说话了:尼哥正试图劝离其同伙时被高速撞击了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 4 16:23:21 2013, 美东)
瘫痪的尼哥正试图帮助路虎男缓减紧张气氛的时候,被路虎男 高速撞击了
Gloria Allred:tells reporters that Mr. Mieses was trying to help the driver
of the SUV diffuse the situation, when he was run over.
我靠, 这律师太强悍了, 如此颠倒黑白啊, 这律师盯上了路虎男的豪宅和钱包了
http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2013/10/04/20820832-gloria-allr
The motorcycle rider whose spine was crushed when he was run over by an SUV
fleeing an an... 阅读全帖 |
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O***n 发帖数: 13127 | 31 the best way for that wife is trying her best in bed to conquer her husband,
not blaming the third party, hehe
She even has no right to have direct confrontation with the third party. she only can confront her hubby
feast
eventual |
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d**********t 发帖数: 1821 | 32 A 43-year-old man was
jailed Thursday on suspicion of burglarizing a
home in 4S Ranch while a 12-year-old boy was
home alone, authorities said.
Duane Edward Herrmann was booked into San
Diego Central Jail on suspicion of residential
burglary around 3:15 a.m., according to the San
Diego County Sheriff's Department.
Herrmann allegedly broke a window to enter
the residence at 17255 Holly Leaf Court around
4:10 p.m. Wednesday. The boy who was home
alone called 911 and deputies arrived in time to
con... 阅读全帖 |
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w*********r 发帖数: 2192 | 33 You have to confront the gender difference,
also you have to confront the biological difference.
This is not a moral issue.
Guys should learn to respect this difference. And also learn to
treat other females the way they want their sisters/mothers to be treated.
disgusting thing |
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R********0 发帖数: 4134 | 34 加州George Miller做的孽啊
By Tom Givens
In the wake of the tragic, horrific slaughter of innocent school children in
Connecticut, there has been a renewed cry for more gun control laws. This
stems from the natural need to “do something” when a tragedy of this
proportion occurs. I agree we need to do something, but the “something” I
want is a bit different.
The “Gun Free Schools Act of 1994” made it a federal crime to possess a
firearm on any
school property. Many states enacted similar legislation at ... 阅读全帖 |
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T******g 发帖数: 21328 | 35 改confront还是要confront,不能当缩头乌龟
然后被黑人暴力攻击,该自卫还是要自卫
美国是可以合法用枪自卫的 |
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o**********e 发帖数: 18403 | 36 Some suggestions:
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Military/40545691.html
China + US = 1/2 World Peace
China + US = Win + Win
This is the most non-confrontational line of thoughts and target the blame-
China-rhetoric that's permeates the US media and precipitated the kid's
comment on Kimmel's show (he asked about China's debt, picking China out for
special attention though China actually owns a tiny part of US government
obligation).
A little more confrontational would be:
2-faced Iron Man: half... 阅读全帖 |
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o**********e 发帖数: 18403 | 37 I like this cute panda. Where could I get it?
Some suggestions:
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Military/40545691.html
China + US = 1/2 World Peace
China + US = Win + Win
This is the most non-confrontational line of thoughts and target the blame-
China-rhetoric that's permeates the US media and precipitated the kid's
comment on Kimmel's show (he asked about China's debt, picking China out for
special attention though China actually owns a tiny part of US government
obligation).
A little more c... 阅读全帖 |
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o**********e 发帖数: 18403 | 38 I think more choices are great. Not too confrontational is good, because
it's hard to wear confrontational messages around every day.
Also makes good gifts to elected officials who voiced their support and
other friends and allies. Over all, a pretty shirt is a fashion statement
you want people to be happy wearing them around.
So I like the t-shirts a lot. |
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o**********e 发帖数: 18403 | 39 Panda bear t-shirt needs to be changed to "Black, White, Chinese" and panda
pics need to be royalty free black and white image.
We could also make bumper stickers to decorate our cars. Again non-
confrontational cute images are preferred over confrontational images.
But requires "China" or "Chinese" in it.
This way this shirt could be used for future civil rights movement for
Chinese-americans. |
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o**********e 发帖数: 18403 | 40 我相信SVCA! 不过RO是个
有钱无孔不入的,我猜想会
买下一些中文媒体。 我指的
”带路党“就是有些活跃人士
媒体,而不是SVCA
我们不要太confrontational,
但是学习RO,黑他也要高级黑他。
问问他支不支持印度教的印度PM。
问问他对HIGH TECH Diversity
有什么看法? 他会说GOOGLE,YAHOO,
FACEBOOK有很多diversity问题。
我们问他要不要呼吁一下
请Oracle, VMWare, Cisco, Qualcomm,
Nokia,EMC, 出一下US Engineering job
ethnic breakup,和外包合同。
下面问题比较confrontational,
留给老美问吧:
写在ITRELIEF啦。
http://www.mitbbs.com/clubarticle_t/ITRelief/31120259.html
endorsement |
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m*****u 发帖数: 22 | 41 为什么必须FireBobBeckel? UBC会长讲的好,请听请看:
http://www.weidb.com/p6607?from=groupmessage&isappinstalled=0
“And why we we should demand his firing not just an apology? Because he had
a chance to apologize, what did he do? He squandered it. He did not to look
inside his soul to reflect, but he used that chance to attack further,
adding insult to injury. He did not say what he did wrong, nor did he say he
would not utter racial slurs again. In fact, he was essentially saying
that if you are not offended an... 阅读全帖 |
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D**0 发帖数: 2048 | 42 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
qlxzfy (钱哥) 于 (Thu Oct 16 12:38:54 2014, 美东) 提到:
好久不上来,连密码都快忘了,擦。
网络是一个表达和放大偏见的地。近二十年前我在四通利方掐架的时候就学
习到网络上不讲道理。政治选举也类似吧,谁家背后有金主,能多做广告多
插牌多发邮件就占上风,不是比哪个候选人更有道德、更有才干、更有公益
服务精神,无论是看毛片的还是看毛选的,都有可能当选,输了不是loser,
赢了也不要以为掌握了库破题路以及西圣荷西的真理。再说这学区委员是四
选三?引用湾区华人圈子里面一个德扑大师的话:这么好的odds不上那是犯
罪啊!
好了,来说说我的偏见吧。
面团若干年前打人的事件我有直接的了解,所以我有充足的发言权。网络上
有言语的冲突,然后在网下试图用打人来泄恨。他的道歉信,括弧事发五年
之后的道歉信,里面关于打人事件的起因是这么写的:
In Feb 2009, as a reckless bachelor, I was emotionally angry at a
mode... 阅读全帖 |
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a**********t 发帖数: 631 | 43 请问有多少老师是自愿加入工会的?民主党工会绑架老师绑架家长,然后你来职责共和
党道德沉沦?
学校里的老师,多数还是很professional的。但就是那一小撮老鼠屎,坏了一锅汤。
烂的老师家长当然会confront。问题是由于工会的保护,家长confront之后多半也没有
任何结果。 |
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E*******1 发帖数: 3464 | 44 楼主浩然正气,洁身自好,忧yahoo之所忧,愁国人之所愁,都不敢直接confront,磨
磨唧唧跑这里来,是指望买买提的猥琐男们去confront吗? |
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s*******n 发帖数: 12995 | 45 这些也是我今天才知道的。
纯就事论事,如果你非要说如果没有枪这些事儿根本不会发生,我只能同意,理想是丰
满的,现实是骨感的。
http://www.lp.org/news/press-releases/halt-the-massacre-of-inno
Responsible gun owners can and do prevent mass shootings from occurring and
escalating.
A 1997 high school shooting in Pearl, Miss., was halted by the school's vice
principal after he retrieved the Colt .45 he kept in his truck.
A 1998 middle school shooting ended when a man living next door heard
gunfire and apprehended the shooter with his shotgun.
A 2002 terrorist att... 阅读全帖 |
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u**c 发帖数: 17972 | 46 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: lczlcz (lcz), 信区: USANews
标 题: 年轻Marine击毙持枪偷车贼
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Sep 25 15:51:40 2013, 美东)
Suspected truck thief shot, killed in Maple Valley
by KING 5 News
Posted on September 24, 2013 at 6:19 AM
Updated yesterday at 9:28 AM
MAPLE VALLEY, Wash. – A suspected truck thief was shot and killed in Maple
Valley Tuesday morning after deputies say he was shot by the truck’s owner,
a United States Marine.
It happened just after midnight in the 23600 block of 219th Place S... 阅读全帖 |
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S*******h 发帖数: 7021 | 47 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: gemini2012 (双子AB), 信区: USANews
标 题: 大多数穆斯林不是恐怖分子,但大多数恐怖分子是穆斯林
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Oct 5 16:48:02 2016, 美东)
By Michael Brown Published on November 16, 2015
Michael Brown
My tweet simply said, “We know that most Muslims today are not terrorists.
We also know that most terrorists today are Muslims.”
I tweeted this out on Friday night in the midst of the terror attacks in
France, and I didn’t think it would be controversial at all. In fact, it
seemed self-evident. To m... 阅读全帖 |
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m***i 发帖数: 94 | 48 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: zhaowendao (嘁哩喀喳:基督教是邪教!), 信区: Military
标 题: “圣灵”的果子:67岁牧师性侵犯8岁女童!!! (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Aug 14 17:26:20 2013, 美东)
发信人: zhaowendao (嘁哩喀喳:基督教是邪教!), 信区: TrustInJesus
标 题: “圣灵”的果子:67岁牧师性侵犯8岁女童!!!
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Aug 14 16:55:09 2013, 美东)
http://www.khou.com/news/local/Affidavit-Wife-of-pastor-says-he
HOUSTON—A Houston pastor is accused of sexually abusing a 9-year-old girl
in his congregation. Romulo Jimenez, 67, is jailed and charged with
continuous sexual ... 阅读全帖 |
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G**********e 发帖数: 11693 | 49 如果是我,不会confront那黑人,因为黑人能干这种事的多半属于不可理喻的疯子,但
如果旁边明显也有其他看不过眼的人的话,也许根据情况也会confront尤其如果其他人
也表示支持的话。。但至少我会做的是拿起那盒冰淇淋找个manager说明情况,包括那
两个看见后无所为的员工,我也会说。 |
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i*********5 发帖数: 19210 | 50 (旧闻)
January 8, 2010 | 11:05 am
http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/lanow/2010/01/cyclist-sentenced
A doctor convicted of assaulting two bicyclists by slamming on his car
brakes after a confrontation on a narrow Brentwood road was sentenced today
to five years in prison.
Christopher Thompson, wearing dark blue jail scrubs, wept as he apologized
to the injured cyclists shortly before he was sentenced.
"I would like to apologize deeply, profoundly from the bottom of my heart,"
he told them, his right ... 阅读全帖 |
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