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s****y
发帖数: 51 | 2 any biters in Virginia. I am in richmond, graduated 96 from dept 5. want to
know more people. |
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y********i
发帖数: 116 | 4 感觉BITer版快成跳大神的地了:)
对了,来美国后,还没怎么见过校友呢,除了自己班的两个同学.倒是被北航的大部队给包围
了.唉...你们呢? |
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z**b
发帖数: 1 | 5 Any BITer(s) living in Southern California area? |
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g******9
发帖数: 44 | 6 Any BITer from San Francisco area? |
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w******y
发帖数: 40 | 7 I am in the area this July 4th, along with another Biter. |
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t**********t
发帖数: 52 | 8 估计湾区biter应该不少吧？要不先统计一个名单，以后找时间聚会一下什么的？ |
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H******M
发帖数: 133 | 9 女儿又被咬了. 我想上来问问大家的Daycare怎么处理咬人的情况,
看看我的要求(或者说是我对Daycare的建议)是不是不合理. 先背
景介绍下:这是个0-3岁的混合班.12个娃.Assistants很多,但是
有经验的全职老师只有两个. 整个Daycar不实行time-out.
他们通常的措施是在清理被咬的地方以后,让biter来安慰victim,
也让biter来帮忙hold icepack等等.这样做的目的是让biter了解
正确的行为方式. 可是我认为biter有时候咬人的目的就是想获得attention,
而他们这样做完全就是支持这样的行为,而且根本没有措施让biter
了解咬人是不好的行为,是不被允许的.
以前发生过几次这样的事情,都是同一个biter, 另外还有很多别的
行为问题. 不过这个小孩很快就升班了, 咬人的事情就告一段落.
好几个月之后, 最近又有另一个小孩咬人. 隔着裤子咬都破皮了.现在
Daycare里的老师和Assistants采取的措施是注意让这个小孩和我
女儿保持距离. 可是这个小孩和我女儿还要相处好长时间, 老师总有疏
忽或者反应不及的时候.而且... 阅读全帖 |
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w********9
发帖数: 8613 | 10 http://www.kidsgrowth.com/resources/articledetail.cfm?id=244
Biting Must Never Be Permitted
We teach children not to hurt others. Youngsters must therefore learn that
hitting, slapping, pinching, scratching, biting, shoving, knocking down and
hair pulling are totally unacceptable. Of all these childhood behaviors,
however, biting seems to cause parents the most problems. Horrified teachers
and day care providers occasionally overreact and harshly punish the biter,
the parents of the biter are em... 阅读全帖 |
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H****g
发帖数: 2273 | 11 1、一看就知道你家宝宝不是被咬过的
2、别找借口了，咬几次还算正常，总咬人就是纵容。我们daycare新来一个biter，咬
了我闺女两次，一周左右被老师纠正过来了，再没发生过。biter一岁半，老师也不TO
，就是靠盯着靠唐，现在biter和闺女玩得很好。
3、认生完全是另一个问题，我闺女也认生，见人也大哭，除了家里和幼儿园，带出去
基本是要贴我身上，得使劲推着唐才能看人一眼。可是认生绝对不是咬别人的理由，这
个必须跟宝宝讲清楚。 |
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w********9
发帖数: 8613 | 12 http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2532918/
Paediatr Child Health. 2008 July; 13(6): 520–521.
PMCID: PMC2532918
Copyright © 2008, Canadian Paediatric Society. All rights reserved
Biting in child care: What are the risks?
No parent wants to hear that their child has been bitten (or has bitten
another child) while in child care, but it does happen. Young children are
very active, and bites can happen by accident when they are playing. Some
children may become aggressive or anxious, a... 阅读全帖 |
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w********9
发帖数: 8613 | 13
reviews/1575421283/ref=dp_top_cm_cr_acr_txt?ie=UTF8&showViewpoints=1
was told
was at
saver. My
bed) and
如果借助一本书能让不少家长或老师很快改掉小孩咬人的倾向，其它类似或不完全类似
的方法也可以
有效。
更多的评论。
This book has really helped my toddler understand that biting hurts. I
am grateful to the author for writing this book. Thanks
+++++++++
I found this book at my local library and decided to check it out as my
20-month-old daughter had started biting me thinking she was playing a
game. She really likes the book and asks for it to be read... 阅读全帖 |
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w********9
发帖数: 8613 | 14 那个outgrowth的辩说被total shock “therapy”粉碎后，再回到gentler approaches。
http://www.babycenter.com/404_my-toddler-bites-should-i-bite-her-back_14057.bc
不知两个小孩是否identical。
I have twin girls. When they were around 18 mos. one of them bit the other.
I grabbed the victim and consoled her and ignored the biter for awhile. I
then explained to the biter that she hurt her sister and caused her to cry.
I thought I had curbed that behvior, but then it happened again as they were
fighting for a toy. I again consoled... 阅读全帖 |
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D*****r
发帖数: 6791 | 15 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxh-FfElY0M
You can run on for a long time
Run on for a long time, run on for a long time
Sooner or later God'll cut you down
Sooner or later God'll cut you down
Go tell that long tongue liar, go and tell that midnight rider
Tell the rambler, the gambler, the back biter
Tell 'em that God's gonna cut 'em down
Tell 'em that God's gonna cut 'em down
Well, my goodness gracious let me tell you the news
My head's been wet with the midnight dew
I've been down on bended kn... 阅读全帖 |
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g********2
发帖数: 6571 | 16 A brief magical mystery tour of black on cop violence over the last few
weeks.
In Baltimore, one week ago, hundreds of black people took to the streets to
celebrate the life of the recently killed rapper Lor Scoota. He was best
known for celebrating guns, drugs, money and bitches in his videos and in
his life.
Eventually cops showed up: They were greeted with bottles and rocks and
threats and taunts when they suggested to the hundreds of black people that
destroying property and disobeying the l... 阅读全帖 |
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p*********1
发帖数: 422 | 17 距离上次被咬不到20天，上次咬得也比较重，现在印子还没完全消掉。这次咬破皮了，
而且是把我们推倒再上去咬的。两次都是咬得左脸。今天director不在，打算明天去谈。
孩子刚满2岁，在toddler班。总共去了daycare 3个月，最近一个月内班上多了4-5个小
孩，我们怀疑那其中有个biter。
上次被咬，跟director说了要求跟对方家长谈一下。
这次我们是比较生气的，主要是间隔时间太短，而且更加严重了。
想问问大家怎么谈比较好。
（1）问一下是否同一个小孩，是否biter也咬过别的小孩，还是只咬我们。
（2A）如果说要是下次再出现这种事情要么那个小孩走，要么我们走，会不会有点小题
大作？
（2B）让他们把问题升级，让他们给出防范的措施。
我们孩子比较老实，不会保护自己，我们尽量在教她，但我看一时还学不会。老师说她
快升班了（可能本月内把），暗示那个咬人的小孩还小不会升班。可我们不舒服啊，回
家看到孩子脸被咬破皮。而且我也担心她升班后跟大点的孩子会不会受欺负。该怎么教
孩子保护自己呢？ |
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w********9
发帖数: 8613 | 18
这句话排除了教育可以把×××××××有咬人问题的小孩×××××××××（其实
是少部分小孩）的问题提前
去掉吗？
其它的句子是干嘛的？我引这个不是专对outgrowth说法的。
The child who bites needs to be closely watched by the parents or day
care provider so the biting can be quickly interrupted. A parent’s
response to biting should leave no question that they mean business.
First, look the child straight in the eye and in a loud, sharp voice say
"No biting. We never bite people" It is okay to startle the child who
bites. This is not a time for child psychology and long discu... 阅读全帖 |
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w********9
发帖数: 8613 | 19 http://www.babycenter.com/404_my-toddler-bites-should-i-bite-her-back_14057.bc
有意思。
A child needs to understand it HURTS - they are frustrated, I understand....
.Six kids, three were biters, one was a BITER - just like the one mom said..
.bite where it hurts....just hard enough so that it hurts...and then calmly
say "see...it hurts, bite hurts...no bite" - give a big hug, and tell them
that you love them - and then when they get frustrated again...and they do
not bite - praise, praise, praise! M... 阅读全帖 |
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w********9
发帖数: 8613 | 20 对不很politically correct的biting back approach，我除了为说明问题用，还没
take a stand。出于那种很显然的考虑，一般的“专家”/专家也不会鼓励这种方法。
在态度和看法上，这和让大很多的小孩参加boot camp只有一定的类似性。
不过，就像和读那本书一样，有不少成功的例子。效果和反咬回去的程度应该有一定关
联。
还有：任何一个良药，不会对所有人100%有效。
http://www.babycenter.com/404_my-toddler-bites-should-i-bite-her-back_14057.bc
I have never personally experienced the biting problem until now, and my son
is only one year barely, so I am not planning on biting him but I do agree
that biting them back works as my good friend was a biter as a ... 阅读全帖 |
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c******e
发帖数: 543 | 21 我儿子刚去daycare一周就被咬了，5个多小时以后还肿了很高。结果第二周，我们就收
到我儿子咬别人的报告了。估计是那个biter咬他的时候，他还击的。自从那个biter转
走了，就再没发生过咬人事件了。爱咬人的小孩真的很讨厌。 |
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S*******h
发帖数: 7021 | 22 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: gemini2012 (双子AB), 信区: USANews
标 题: 最近几周黑人袭警案件综述
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jul 10 13:34:12 2016, 美东)
A brief magical mystery tour of black on cop violence over the last few
weeks.
In Baltimore, one week ago, hundreds of black people took to the streets to
celebrate the life of the recently killed rapper Lor Scoota. He was best
known for celebrating guns, drugs, money and bitches in his videos and in
his life.
Eventually cops showed up: They were greeted with bottles and r... 阅读全帖 |
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S*******h
发帖数: 7021 | 23 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: gemini2012 (双子AB), 信区: USANews
标 题: 最近几周黑人袭警案件综述
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jul 10 13:34:12 2016, 美东)
A brief magical mystery tour of black on cop violence over the last few
weeks.
In Baltimore, one week ago, hundreds of black people took to the streets to
celebrate the life of the recently killed rapper Lor Scoota. He was best
known for celebrating guns, drugs, money and bitches in his videos and in
his life.
Eventually cops showed up: They were greeted with bottles and r... 阅读全帖 |
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d**w
发帖数: 14889 | 24 sure there are.
try this one first.
A bitter biting bittern
Bit a better brother bittern,
And the bitter better bittern
Bit the bitter biter back.
And the bitter bittern, bitten,
By the better bitten bittern,
Said: "I'm a bitter biter bit, alack!" |
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g*********s
发帖数: 87 | 25 今天有一件事很郁闷！ 我们四个人去中国超市买菜（东方）。 连
我一共两个biters。 突然，我发现前面有一个人非常，非常，感觉
就是bit的人。太面熟了，因为2年前当我在#2楼苦学托福的时候，经
常能见到这个人。 勾起了我对当时的回忆。 真应该上去问问她，到
底是不是我们一伙的。 后悔呀！应该聊一聊！
越来越发现在费城有这么多的biters。 |
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B********s
发帖数: 338 | 26
in my stomach....
Today, we are going to have a party, but found in my university:
female biters:male biters ==== 3:1 ...
and
dept 9 : other depts === 3:1 ...
//sigh
where is ssgg/ssdd from bit ?
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c***p
发帖数: 7 | 27 长期以来，despair在BIT board这片干涸的土地不断坚持友情灌溉，发扬了共产主义校际
精神。不是biter，胜似biter。
特此表彰。 |
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y********i
发帖数: 116 | 28 In 3 months, have been --
Chicago 2 times and will be there again next month (for fun this time).
DC 3 times
St. Louis 1 time
Raleigh 2 times
VA 2 times
and also 马不停蹄地灌水:)
Hope to be the first BITer to get into a top10 business school, or the first
BITer not able to get into a Top10.
Wish me luck... |
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d******h
发帖数: 150 | 29 you may not have found any BITers in top20. so, you might be the first BITer
to get in at top20. :)
good luck, man
Hehe,
time). |
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d******h
发帖数: 150 | 30 another BITer is also on the WL.
BITer |
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y********i
发帖数: 116 | 31 Just found a nother BITer in Wash U class 2003. He already got a job, and we
even talked on the phone a month ago, but I did not know he was a BITer too,
from Dept 5.
BUAAers:)
or |
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l******e
发帖数: 105 | 32 Hope you get admission from Chicago.
Even so, you are by far not the first BITer in top 10s. I've seen BIT
graduates in top 10s and top 20s. There're plenty of them in B-schools. I bet
there're even more BITers got rejected by them.
Good luck! |
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B********s
发帖数: 338 | 33 To All biters and all biters' relatives.....
--------------- are you sure I am older?
//kick.
who
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S*******h
发帖数: 7021 | 34 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: gemini2012 (双子AB), 信区: USANews
标 题: 最近几周黑人袭警案件综述
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jul 10 13:34:12 2016, 美东)
A brief magical mystery tour of black on cop violence over the last few
weeks.
In Baltimore, one week ago, hundreds of black people took to the streets to
celebrate the life of the recently killed rapper Lor Scoota. He was best
known for celebrating guns, drugs, money and bitches in his videos and in
his life.
Eventually cops showed up: They were greeted with bottles and r... 阅读全帖 |
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S*******h
发帖数: 7021 | 35 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: gemini2012 (双子AB), 信区: USANews
标 题: 最近几周黑人袭警案件综述
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jul 10 13:34:12 2016, 美东)
A brief magical mystery tour of black on cop violence over the last few
weeks.
In Baltimore, one week ago, hundreds of black people took to the streets to
celebrate the life of the recently killed rapper Lor Scoota. He was best
known for celebrating guns, drugs, money and bitches in his videos and in
his life.
Eventually cops showed up: They were greeted with bottles and r... 阅读全帖 |
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P*****0
发帖数: 34 | 36 CONGRATULATIONS! You and I won BIG by defeating Paul Fong by a larger than
20 point margin in Fong's bid for a council seat in San Jose..
Q: What exactly did we win?
A: We won the historic accountability of AsAm elected officials to us.
In the past, almost all AsAm officials raised their campaign funds primarily
from AsAms. However, once elected, some of the them have NOT been
responsive to our rightful interests. This sad situation must be corrected.
Otherwise, AsAms will never get to be... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 37 【 以下文字转载自 PKU 讨论区 】
发信人: biter (PP), 信区: PKU
标 题: the last email
发信站: The unknown SPACE (Mon Nov 8 17:08:49 1999) WWW-POST
I just posted this in "Love" board, but it seems something wrong there.
Anyway, since I am from PKU too, I'll just put it here. Hope you don't mind.
Below is the last email I sent to a girl.
I met her a year ago and then something happened.
She (in the email, I used "XX" for her name) is only 19 years old.
She came here at the age of 16 and is trying to enroll the American... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 38 by Jammie
Fresh off a four-year investigation into Sarah Palin’s uterus, Andy
Sullivan now has done has an in-depth look at his own colon. How’s the view
up there, Andy?
As the fall has turned crisper, a second term for Barack Obama has
gotten likelier. This may, of course, change: the debates, the Middle East,
the unemployment numbers could still blow up the race. At this point in 2004
, one recalls, George W. Bush was about to see a near eight-point lead
shrivel to a one-state nail-biter b... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 39 October 3, 2012 Posted by DJ Drummond
Imagine I took a poll of delegates at the 2012 GOP National Convention. Let
’s say I made sure the gender, race, age, education, and other demographics
apart from party affiliation were carefully matched to voter norms. Would
you be happy with such a poll?
If you are a Republican, maybe, but obviously not if you are a Democrat. A
lot of folks would be quick to point out that Mitt Romney would pretty much
crush Barack Obama in such a poll. The flip side ... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 40 The 20 Greatest Quotations From Rush Limbaugh
If you listen to liberals, you'd think that Rush Limbaugh is the de facto
boss of the entire Republican Party. So, if they're going to portray him
that way, then it seems like a good idea to give people -- who have yet to
listen to his radio show --information about his message that goes beyond
out-of-context quotations supplied by liberals who loathe him. There are
millions of Republicans, myself included, who became conservatives because
of hearing... 阅读全帖 |
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L*****e
发帖数: 2926 | 41 yes. there is a meeting and news conference at 2PM.
"Short-term will be still low. "
I guess short-term means 15-year fix?
http://blogs.wsj.com/economics/2013/09/18/what-to-expect-from-t
By Victoria McGrane and Jon Hilsenrath
The Federal Reserve concludes its policy meeting later today, and it’s a
nail-biter. Fed officials are likely to emphasize they’re moving slowly and
carefully even if they do decide to start pulling back on their signature
bond-buying program, and will also seek to reassure... 阅读全帖 |
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T*******e
发帖数: 4110 | 42 一般来说没有必要写，no matter how perfect the house is, you can always find
some minor things. This is also the general mind set of the inspectors. They
will find something. You can just back out with the inspection contingency
that is exactly for this purpose. Seller agents and sellers will be very
happy to allow you walk away once they find out working with you is going to
be a nail-biter. They will run away as fast as they can, as early as
possible, especially if they have multiple offers.
walk
inspec... 阅读全帖 |
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e********e
发帖数: 6961 | 44 Palo Alto Medical Foundation的添加辅食guideline，我觉得说得很详细，就type了
一遍，贴上来。
GENERAL PRINCIPLES
1. Introduce only one single food into the diet every three to four days, in
order to observe for allergic reactions or intolerance. Don’t offer “
mixed” foods until the individual ingredients in the mixture each have been
tried and tolerated previously.
2. Allergic reactions will generally present as one or more of the following:
a. Vomiting
b. Watery diarrhea occurring over 5-6 times a day
c. Abdominal pain
d... 阅读全帖 |
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e****e
发帖数: 1042 | 45 发信人: edlesswise (幸福像花儿一样), 信区: NextGeneration
标 题: 添加辅食schedule
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Nov 16 18:25:09 2012, 美东)
Palo Alto Medical Foundation的添加辅食guideline，我觉得说得很详细，就type了
一遍，贴上来。
GENERAL PRINCIPLES
1. Introduce only one single food into the diet every three to four days, in
order to observe for allergic reactions or intolerance. Don’t offer “
mixed” foods until the individual ingredients in the mixture each have been
tried and tolerated previously.
2. Allergic reactions will generally present as ... 阅读全帖 |
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G******2
发帖数: 579 | 46 现在这家是全城最贵的名声很好，我们儿医自己的儿子都在这家。
可是问题是被咬。在小班刚开始被咬被抓五次，一个半月内呀。老师态度良好每次都又
抱又哄洗伤口了，然后告诉我说大小孩马上升班就好了。我包子呀就算了。果然大小孩
升班了一批后安静了一个半月宝宝很开心。
结果她现在自己也升班了又是一样的小孩，两周被咬两次老师根本不知道，都是我们发
现了伤口破皮去问她们才补个报告。我一气之下去找了director，她说让老师多盯着点
。现在去接时也看到老师抱了。以前是站着哭的。
现在我又找了一家day care也是1：7.头疼要不要换。
换了这个月白交了钱不说娃又要适应，现在这家director 说被咬是常见的。
不换怕她班里有biter 针对她,才一岁半，是一个年龄组的这样咬下去没完了。
请JM们出出主意吧。 |
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g*********9
发帖数: 3528 | 47 怀疑你看了文章没有：
“Fortunately, once a child’s verbal skills improve, biting usually
disappears.”
这也是我的论点。
对于bite，大家都不姑息，我不是为这种行为开脱，我同意且支持所有杜绝bite的措施
，我想大多数的家长和daycare都是照着文章里面做的，但是，这种事不是能杜绝的。
我想这篇文章，和我的回帖的本意，也是让大家了解一下，bite发生的原因。
and
teachers
biter,
of
toddlers |
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w********9
发帖数: 8613 | 49 http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2851374/
Paediatr Child Health. 1998 Sep–Oct; 3(5): 354.
PMCID: PMC2851374
Copyright © 1998 Canadian Paediatric Society. All rights reserved
When children at day care bite: What are the risks?
Even with every precaution, injuries still happen in day care centres. By
nature, children are very active, and some may be aggressive or anxious.
They may push, shove or even bite another child in the playroom. If your
child is bitten by a playmate, you may... 阅读全帖 |
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w********9
发帖数: 8613 | 50 • Can my child get a disease through biting?
The risks of transmitting diseases like Hepatitis B virus (HBV) or Human
immunodeficiency virus (HIV) via biting are extremely low.
Hepatitis B Virus (HBV)
Children who carry HBV and do not show aggressive behavior (biting,
scratching) can attend child care programs, as long as they are healthy
enough to withstand infections (like colds) that are common in child care
settings.
Children who carry HBV should be monitored for behavior or medical pr... 阅读全帖 |
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